Sugar Daddies Stealing the Sweets

[PatMacGroin]

Hi UKPer's,

This is probably a discussion that has been broached before. If so, please feel free to merge it with the original threads.

My question is, Do you think there are some Sugar Daddy punters that snatch up hot young SP's before they really get started in the business?

And there's enough members here to ask you, are you one of those Sugar Daddies?

This is the profile that triggers the question in my mind. A gorgeous 21 year old with a simple, but genuine looking profile. Recently created on 13/01/2026, but no activity since 31/01/2026. 0 AW FB, and also 0 mentions here on UKP. Spotted and swooped up?

She does have unprotected included in her like list, but I like to believe that is just youthful naivete, and potential translation issues. Or another reason for an SD to get in before she gets any business?

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[LLPunting]

Wouldn't sweat it PMG, plenty of prettier and fitter girls about to spend your money on, fair few may even not be esstra babee honeytraps

[alabama1]

If she's been 'swooped up', why hasn't she taken down her profile 

[runner in the woods]

If she's been 'swooped up', why hasn't she taken down her profile 

Excellent comment there mate.

[daviemac]

My question is, Do you think there are some Sugar Daddy punters that snatch up hot young SP's before they really get started in the business?

I'm not sure what point you're trying to make, it's a profile for a Brazilian escort that hasn't been used yet and there could be a variety of reasons for that. What makes you think a Brazilian would become a SB in the UK and be able to make enough money to finance her stay.   

[Arripotter1971]

Could be she has been caught and deported ???

[PatMacGroin]

Wouldn't sweat it PMG, plenty of prettier and fitter girls about to spend your money on, fair few may even not be esstra babee honeytraps

Obviously I won't be loosing any sleep over it. I do like her look though.

[PatMacGroin]

If she's been 'swooped up', why hasn't she taken down her profile 

That's true.

[PatMacGroin]

I'm not sure what point you're trying to make, it's a profile for a Brazilian escort that hasn't been used yet and there could be a variety of reasons for that. What makes you think a Brazilian would become a SB in the UK and be able to make enough money to finance her stay.   

I don't know much about the Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby world.

Why is it impossible for a Brazilian, but possible for a British girl? If a wealthy guy want's to put a girl in a flat and give her an allowance, how does her nationality make a difference? Plenty of Brazilians speak very good English.

Plus I was just using this AW profile as an example. I was speculating that it could be something that happens to any sufficiently young and attractive new girl that gets spotted by some Flash Harry.

[thebastard]

She was on Diva - showing as On Holiday now

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[PatMacGroin]

She was on Diva - showing as On Holiday now

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Thanks for the info. And it looks like LLP was spot on, lots of "esstra babee".

[daviemac]

I don't know much about the Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby world.

Why is it impossible for a Brazilian, but possible for a British girl? If a wealthy guy want's to put a girl in a flat and give her an allowance, how does her nationality make a difference? Plenty of Brazilians speak very good English.

Plus I was just using this AW profile as an example. I was speculating that it could be something that happens to any sufficiently young and attractive new girl that gets spotted by some Flash Harry.

I didn't say it was impossible, I asked you why you thought they would become an SB.

English girls are residents whereas Brazilians are likely to be here on a temporary visa.

Not all SDs's put girls up in flats or pay for their whole lifestyle, there's plenty on here who dabble in that scene.

I would say we are more likely to lose attractive young women to OF rather than to somewhere like Seeking.

[Stevelondon]

As Davie says. I bet the scope regarding the SD/SB scene is wide and varied regarding what each get out of any arrangements.

Yes you might well have someone putting a girl up in a flat, car, expenses allowance etc.
you might well have someone else paying just a monthly fee for a certain amount of contact etc.

Both regarding themselves  as sugar daddies. 🤷🏼

[PatMacGroin]

I didn't say it was impossible, I asked you why you thought they would become an SB.

English girls are residents whereas Brazilians are likely to be here on a temporary visa.

Not all SDs's put girls up in flats or pay for their whole lifestyle, there's plenty on here who dabble in that scene.

I would say we are more likely to lose attractive young women to OF rather than to somewhere like Seeking.

I didn't say anyone was going to Seeking to become an SB. I was asking any SD's here on UKP, would they try to proposition a new WG into agreeing to a more exclusive arrangement. Where the WG is from is irrelevant.

Clearly there are a range of different SD/SB arrangements. It seems to me that the aspiration, for those that can afford it, is to have the equivalent of a kept mistress.

My opening comment was just a bit of idle speculation that I thought might produce some interesting conversation. I don't understand why you feel the need to clamp down on it? Is that against the rules now as well?

[PLeisure]

This assessment seems more accurate

I would say we are more likely to lose attractive young women to OF rather than to somewhere like Seeking.

The general vibe - at least in the London SD thread - is to engage more with a genuine SB, not one who's registered on AW. That's not what most SD's are looking for 

[daviemac]

I didn't say anyone was going to Seeking to become an SB. I was asking any SD's here on UKP, would they try to proposition a new WG into agreeing to a more exclusive arrangement. Where the WG is from is irrelevant.

Clearly there are a range of different SD/SB arrangements. It seems to me that the aspiration, for those that can afford it, is to have the equivalent of a kept mistress.

My opening comment was just a bit of idle speculation that I thought might produce some interesting conversation. I don't understand why you feel the need to clamp down on it? Is that against the rules now as well?

What am I clamping down on? 

I questioned what you meant when referencing an AW profile that hasn't been logged on to since it was registered, is that not what a discussion is?

I've also stated my opinion on the subject, am I not allowed to do that?

[pantywetter]

I personally would prefer a SB relationship over punting and would pay handsomly for it.
My problem is that despite signing up to SA four times I’ve only had one date and one short term arrangement.
I’ve had hundreds of conversations and tens of timewasters
Not sure what I’m missing but I just can’t make it work for me

[webpunter]

I didn't say anyone was going to Seeking to become an SB. I was asking any SD's here on UKP, would they try to proposition a new WG into agreeing to a more exclusive arrangement. Where the WG is from is irrelevant.

Clearly there are a range of different SD/SB arrangements. It seems to me that the aspiration, for those that can afford it, is to have the equivalent of a kept mistress.

My opening comment was just a bit of idle speculation that I thought might produce some interesting conversation. I don't understand why you feel the need to clamp down on it? Is that against the rules now as well?

I'm getting the impression that its your aspiration, otherwise you wouldn't have mentioned it 
On the basis of your punting CV on here its gonna be some uplift in expenditure exclusive mistress etc, so good luck with that
As for clamping down no idea where you get this from what i'm seeing is a thread that isn't going anywhere, apart from in your own mind
Interesting 
Speculate all you want & dont be so sensitive, bless 

[Gynaemyte]

If she's been 'swooped up', why hasn't she taken down her profile 

 .  to keep her options open for when SD gets bored, moves on or decides it's too expensive.

[alabama1]

.  to keep her options open for when SD gets bored, moves on or decides it's too expensive.

She would surely deactivate, then re-activate her AW account if that was the case , wouldn't she 

[Iceman90]

Every escort I’ve dated has refused to quit. Many of them have had offers from wealthy guys. The problem is the girls usually have families to support back home and a guy that wealthy can choose any girl he wants. They can easily get ditched when the sugar daddy gets bored. In my experience very few escorts quit working completely.

[thebastard]

Every escort I’ve dated has refused to quit. Many of them have had offers from wealthy guys. The problem is the girls usually have families to support back home and a guy that wealthy can choose any girl he wants. They can easily get ditched when the sugar daddy gets bored. In my experience very few escorts quit working completely.

I guess when it is such a transactional relationship and if the man is presumably wealthy they have other options so it isn't ever likely to last?

[jimbobted]

Could be she has been caught and deported ???

Caught? You do realise prostitution is not illegal here?

[daviemac]

Caught? You do realise prostitution is not illegal here?

No but outstaying your visa or being an illegal immigrant is no matter what they do in this country.

[MLawro93]

Every escort I’ve dated has refused to quit. Many of them have had offers from wealthy guys. The problem is the girls usually have families to support back home and a guy that wealthy can choose any girl he wants. They can easily get ditched when the sugar daddy gets bored. In my experience very few escorts quit working completely.

Which makes sense. Why give up your financial independence unless you are choosing to having kids, get married, etc? Even then, its always good to have your own separate source of income if you are able.

[The_Rose_age]

100% yes.

Same with seeking.

A percentage of girls just want their life funded. If they can make that happen with one man then that suits them rather than multiple unknown men.

Some prefer one, some prefer seeing a lot but girls being “snapped up” from AW and SA defo is a thing 

[Vincent Law]

Hi I saw her in dec of last year in stoke on Trent. She was working with two other Brazilian girls in a house. It was a vivastreet ad. When I saw her pics on vivastreet thought it was fake so decided book another Brazilian girl I  When I got in the house and was climbing the stairs with the girl I book, I saw her downstairs laughing and talking with another punter. Wow she was very pretty in person. She saw me looking at her and gave me a smile. When I was about to enter the room with the girl I book ,  I apologise and told her  I wanted to see her friend instead lol. She said okay and called her.
She said goodbye to the punter she was talking to and came to the room with with me.  She proceeded  to give me a nice  OWO after which  I turn her  around and bang her nice ass in different position until I shot my load. £80 for 30min plus £20 for OWO.  A pretty, very friendly girl. Have been trying to meet her again but couldn't find her ads. This was the girl i initially book to see that she working with External Link/Members Only

[Massage Bloke]

Article in the Standard today might be of passing interest:

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[Jazzy99]

Hi I saw her in dec of last year in stoke on Trent. She was working with two other Brazilian girls in a house. It was a vivastreet ad. When I saw her pics on vivastreet thought it was fake so decided book another Brazilian girl I  When I got in the house and was climbing the stairs with the girl I book, I saw her downstairs laughing and talking with another punter. Wow she was very pretty in person. She saw me looking at her and gave me a smile. When I was about to enter the room with the girl I book ,  I apologise and told her  I wanted to see her friend instead lol. She said okay and called her.
She said goodbye to the punter she was talking to and came to the room with with me.  She proceeded  to give me a nice  OWO after which  I turn her  around and bang her nice ass in different position until I shot my load. £80 for 30min plus £20 for OWO.  A pretty, very friendly girl. Have been trying to meet her again but couldn't find her ads. This was the girl i initially book to see that she working with External Link/Members Only

I would have been too embarrased and thought it would be rude to ask, while kicking myself on the way out. Good on you

[sparkus]

There's been Sugar Daddy arrangements offers on AW almost as long as I've been using it, which was pretty much from the off.

I suppose on a wider point the prevalence of such arrangements and the Seeking lifestyle now bake in assumptions among new entrants to being on the game about how they can make money, but at the same time these also create being on the game in the first place as an option they previously wouldn't have considered.

But at the end of the day some SPs will always just prefer the less hassle of business end punting and swerve the SD bollocks.

[southcoastpunter]

But at the end of the day some SPs will always just prefer the less hassle of business end punting and swerve the SD bollocks.

Of course some will prefer this and some will prefer that - that’s just how things are with pretty much everything.  But what is with the “SD bollocks”?

What’s bollocks about SD arrangements?

[paul_tall_]

Article in the Standard today might be of passing interest:

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Reads like a rehashed article and poorly researched not based on the current site sign up.
Whether the supposed Katie or Ella stories are as told to her who knows or rehashed from stories on say reddit . Katie supposedly was going on a couple of dates a week but messaged the guys after to say there was not a connection and then ended up in an overseas type scam

[Mr Garmin]

Of course some will prefer this and some will prefer that - that’s just how things are with pretty much everything.  But what is with the “SD bollocks”?

What’s bollocks about SD arrangements?

I suspect that he's referring to the 'dating' pantomime that you have to indulge in with an SB/SD relationship.  As opposed to turning up, paying, shagging & leaving.

I regard the two, punting v Seeking et al, to be two completely different spheres of life in which the end result is similar.

I'm currently setting up a overnight with a new to me SB, we've had an M&G and we message most days and early this morning she left me a voice message.  If I was in a relationship this would be horrific & impossible, but as I'm not, it's quite fun and I'm enjoying the dance.

[paul_tall_]

I suspect that he's referring to the 'dating' pantomime that you have to indulge in with an SB/SD relationship.  As opposed to turning up, paying, shagging & leaving.

I regard the two, punting v Seeking et al, to be two completely different spheres of life in which the end result is similar.

I'm currently setting up a overnight with a new to me SB, we've had an M&G and we message most days and early this morning she left me a voice message.  If I was in a relationship this would be horrific & impossible, but as I'm not, it's quite fun and I'm enjoying the dance.

Why would it be horrific and impossible ? Boundaries esp around communication are just discussed at the outset .SBs often want discretion so equally don’t want random calls , voice notes . The voice note thing seemed to creep in the last year or so . I always reply by text esp when at work or it’s inconvenient and if it annoys them i think it shows they are high maintenance and expect you to answer as soon as they message , there seems to be a blue tick syndrome amongst some girls

[sparkus]

Of course some will prefer this and some will prefer that - that’s just how things are with pretty much everything.  But what is with the “SD bollocks”?

What’s bollocks about SD arrangements?

Sounds like a faff to me but I'm not here to harsh or judge on others' lifestyle choices.
I couldn't be doing with cashpig or findom stuff either, but hey.

For some reason that reminds me of an SP who posted "New year, new me!" and stopped wanking men for money. But still wanted the money, so said men had to pay her for counselling instead.

[Mr Garmin]

Why would it be horrific and impossible ? Boundaries esp around communication are just discussed at the outset .SBs often want discretion so equally don’t want random calls , voice notes . The voice note thing seemed to creep in the last year or so . I always reply by text esp when at work or it’s inconvenient and if it annoys them i think it shows they are high maintenance and expect you to answer as soon as they message , there seems to be a blue tick syndrome amongst some girls

Horrific in the same way SP's are often criticised on here for sending out random texts that could cause piqued interest at home from a partner.

I can tell you that when I was in a relationship, if my phone had been pinging with messages that I was cagey about it would have definitely have caused spidey senses to be raised in my other half.

In a surprisingly large number of relationships it's often the case that the two people involved just tolerate each other and are prepared to turn a blind eye to obvious inconstancies in stories and behaviors for the sake of the children or an easy life etc, mine wasn't like that.

[Cambridgy]

Sounds like a faff to me but I'm not here to harsh or judge on others' lifestyle choices.
I couldn't be doing with cashpig or findom stuff either, but hey.

For some reason that reminds me of an SP who posted "New year, new me!" and stopped wanking men for money. But still wanted the money, so said men had to pay her for counselling instead.

I'd say, 'don't knock it until you've tried it' - particularly if you have to travel for work in USA, it opens heaps of possibilities that you'd never find anywhere else.
For example, happily married lesbian couple in San Diego wanting to experiment a bit with their bi side.

I've not been on seeking.com for a few years but still have a solid base of contacts - so if travel and timing permits, can reconnect whenever...
I've also known ladies who've moved from seeking.com to AW - and from MR to seeking.com.

Some absolute amazing women in Asia, good experience in Middle East (when going beyond Dubai) - and Singapore/Indo.
You do need to watch EAS (both ways) being clear about intentions kids/marriage etc. as it's way more likely to head that way than any normal thing with a SP.

It's horses for courses of course - whatever works for you - but the range of opportunities is at least doubled if you put the hard-yards in on seeking.com

[paul_tall_]

I can tell you that when I was in a relationship, if my phone had been pinging with messages that I was cagey about it would have definitely have caused spidey senses to be raised in my other half.

It’s all about establishing boundaries, if they are messaging you constantly then they want more than a sb/sd thing , or perhaps they are love bombing etc
You have to have control by either using your burner phone , if you use your personal number until you know them the same risks apply if you are searchable etc Don’t look to reply immediately and limit it to a couple of messages .

[Mr Garmin]

I'm very comfortable with how I organise my arrangements thanks Paul.  I was just pointing out that others with more to lose might not be, in the same circumstances.

If I had a partner I wouldn't be seeing SB's at all for a number of reasons but primarily because IMO it increases the chances of getting caught out exponentially compared to going off the radar for an hour to see an escort.

[Massage Bloke]

It seems to me, that "Sugar Babe" is just a modern name for "Mistress"...