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Offline youcantsnortpepsi

I am classic text book ADHD. Annoying, extrovert, flirty, completely unfaithful no matter what the risk. I take big risks in my life, ride a motorbike like it's stolen, put my life in danger for a thrill every day. I am early 50s and never grown up. I spent 50k a few months ago on a car for no reason. Didn't even want one. Do maybe 2000 miles a year. Just did it. That level of impulsivity and carelessness.

I was diagnosed 3 years ago after a crazy life.

I am so sure it is my impulsive behaviour that gets me punting at least 3 times a week. Stimulant meds made me Mr Limpo McLimpdick. So they can fuck off. Now cannabis is prescribed for last 3 months and it is insanely good to go punt and be high. I let the girl know and they really don't care luckily. Not been high for like 25 years FFS now I am at it again but with loads more money.

Is anyone else in this position or have I just not grown up?
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Well can only suppose the SP's around you don't mind removing money from your wallet;!.

£50 K  on a motor you hardley use what is it;?...

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I am classic text book ADHD. Annoying, extrovert, flirty, completely unfaithful no matter what the risk. I take big risks in my life, ride a motorbike like it's stolen, put my life in danger for a thrill every day. I am early 50s and never grown up. I spent 50k a few months ago on a car for no reason. Didn't even want one. Do maybe 2000 miles a year. Just did it. That level of impulsivity and carelessness.

I was diagnosed 3 years ago after a crazy life.

I am so sure it is my impulsive behaviour that gets me punting at least 3 times a week. Stimulant meds made me Mr Limpo McLimpdick. So they can fuck off. Now cannabis is prescribed for last 3 months and it is insanely good to go punt and be high. I let the girl know and they really don't care luckily. Not been high for like 25 years FFS now I am at it again but with loads more money.

Is anyone else in this position or have I just not grown up?
And everyone else's probably. You come across as a bit of a nob.    :thumbsdown:

Offline youcantsnortpepsi

Ha nothing like a bit of honesty.

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For a moment there, I thought you have just posted an extract from your journal  :D

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Is anyone else in this position or have I just not grown up?

No to both questions.

I am not (unfortunately) in your position but I also do not think you need to grow up.
Don't let us tell you how to live your life, live your life the way you want to.  :hi:

Offline Stevelondon

Totally agree with puntingking.

Bloody hell. That OP could be me.
Well apart from the fact my motorbike days are behind me and I do a few more miles a year in a car that’s just a hugely expensive shopping trolley and grandkid collector most times.
What the hell. Those of us nearer to death than birth will get the idea.

Fuck everyone and don’t worry about inheritance tax.

Right. That’s me up bright and early. Fill the car up. Have the usual chat with the guy at the petrol station,
“Going far sir”

“No…….. just to the nearest petrol station” 🤷🏼

Offline standardpostage

I've worked with someone who is diagnosed with ADHD.  Very impulsive, speaks his mind, gets in trouble with bosses. His energy levels are insane.

Does everything at 100 mph. He is in his late 40s. Nice guy though.

His teenage son also has it. Must be genetic. His lad was caught clinging on to the back of a moving bus  :(

Offline youcantsnortpepsi

Yeah this is me until latest meds. It is embarrassing to not be able to control impulsivity or emotions.

Offline puntingking

Totally agree with puntingking.



Well you know what they say, great minds think alike  :drinks:

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I get told constantly that I have ADHD or asked if I have it. Its basically because I talk quite a lot and can ramble on for ages going off on tangents etc. But there is far more to ADHD than just talking a lot.

I do know people who have bad ADHD and they do have chaotic lives, can't stick to plans, are bad with money. Like OP said are impulsive and take risks in their lives. Plus I do find people who have ADHD love to tell everyone about it lol

I just say..."Having ADHD does not qualify you to diagnose others"
 "Having kids with ADHD does not qualify you to diagnose others"
"If I do have ADHD I don't care because im happy how I am and how my life is and I dont need medication or coping strategies"
"No I dont want to get diagnosed with ADHD so I can claim PIP"
"Some people are just chatty"
"Everyone doesn’t have to be neurodivergent...the clue is in the name!"

Im tempted to pay for a diagnosis that says I'm not neurodivergent...Just annoying. Like can people not just like to talk and be bit annoying anymore?
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Offline Thephoenix

What did we do before ADHD was invented? :unknown: :rolleyes:

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What did we do before ADHD was invented? :unknown: :rolleyes:

we just cracked on with life and did not complain :rolleyes:

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I get told constantly that I have ADHD or asked if I have it. Its basically because I talk quite a lot and can ramble on for ages going off on tangents etc. But there is far more to ADHD than just talking a lot.

I do know people who have bad ADHD and they do have chaotic lives, can't stick to plans, are bad with money. Like OP said are impulsive and take risks in their lives. Plus I do find people who have ADHD love to tell everyone about it lol

I just say..."Having ADHD does not qualify you to diagnose others"
 "Having kids with ADHD does not qualify you to diagnose others"
"If I do have ADHD I don't care because im happy how I am and how my life is and I dont need medication or coping strategies"
"No I dont want to get diagnosed with ADHD so I can claim PIP"
"Some people are just chatty"
"Everyone doesn’t have to be neurodivergent...the clue is in the name!"

Im tempted to pay for a diagnosis that says I'm not neurodivergent...Just annoying. Like can people not just like to talk and be bit annoying anymore?
I think you're right correct. People can exhibit ADHD or ND traits, but that doesn't mean that they necessarily have ADHD or are ND.  The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.

Offline Blackpool Rock

What did we do before ADHD was invented? :unknown: :rolleyes:
Teachers would call them disruptive pupils and cane them, then when older police would beat them up on the way to the cells  :hi:

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It does seem like nowadays most kids have been diagnosed with ADHD or other ND! I think sometimes the parents self diagnosed them. Or push for a diagnosis to get the extra benefits. And then they also don't have to take any responsibility for there children's bad behaviour.

I don't have kids. Never would. I know a few friends with ND kids who just seem like completely normal kids. Maybe they have a bit a tantrum sometimes and act up. But they will probably grow out of it. I have one friend who has one child with mild autism(formally diagnosed). But she is totally obsessed with it. She has self diagnosed her other child, herself, her mother, her ex partner, his mother, her next door neighbour. Oh and she thinks she ia going to write a book about it too!!

Some people do have very obvious ND. But so many people have it or claim to have it that just seem a bit quirky. And people love talking about it.  They manage to drop it into every second sentence that comes out of their mouths. Its almost like you are boring if you are neurotypical. Or what used to be called "normal".


 
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Offline Stevelondon

Well you know what they say, great minds think alike  :drinks:

THEY must be wrong in our case surely  :D :lol:

Offline Blackpool Rock

It does seem like nowadays most kids have been diagnosed with ADHD or other ND! I think sometimes the parents self diagnosed them. Or push for a diagnosis to get the extra benefits. And then they also don't have to take any responsibility for there children's bad behaviour.

I don't have kids. Never would. I know a few friends with ND kids who just seem like completely normal kids. Maybe they have a bit a tantrum sometimes and act up. But they will probably grow out of it. I have one friend who has one child with mild autism(formally diagnosed). But she is totally obsessed with it. She has self diagnosed her other child, herself, her mother, her ex partner, his mother, her next door neighbour. Oh and she thinks she ia going to write a book about it too!!

Some people do have very obvious ND. But so many people have it or claim to have it that just seem a bit quirky. And people love talking about it.  They manage to drop it into every second sentence that comes out of their mouths. Its almost like you are boring if you are neurotypical. Or what used to be called "normal".
I'm picking up however that there's more talk now about "Over diagnosis" and that it's not actually helpful for those genuinely affected, ultimately everyone is somewhere on "The Spectrum" from virtually nothing to locked in and all of the sub sections / offshoots of mental health

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Over diagnosis is definitely a problem. Or people diagnosing from an online quiz, or just faking it for the meds, benefits and the ability to blame anything bad they do on their ND. Elon Musk, Greg Wallace...probably more high profile people that try and blame their actions on their ND. Which is unfair and damaging to people who do suffer from these conditions.
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Over diagnosis is definitely a problem. Or people diagnosing from an online quiz, or just faking it for the meds, benefits and the ability to blame anything bad they do on their ND. Elon Musk, Greg Wallace...probably more high profile people that try and blame their actions on their ND. Which is unfair and damaging to people who do suffer from these conditions.
As with most conditions there are different severities. It can be a strength in some ways to some people. I've done quite a bit of reading around ND as the result of being confused by someone who was ND.  It was very confusing and sometimes distressing, so I decided to educate myself. Now I can understand people with the condition a little better, but as they say every person is different ND and NT included.
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I'm picking up however that there's more talk now about "Over diagnosis" and that it's not actually helpful for those genuinely affected, ultimately everyone is somewhere on "The Spectrum" from virtually nothing to locked in and all of the sub sections / offshoots of mental health
Not true, you're either on it or not, you can behave like you have autism, they are different. My daughter is autistic and it is genetic as I can now see it in my wife. I can also see it in her family too and it is a spectrum. Women are now being diagnose with autism in their 50's and 60's, it was harder to detect in girls as they seem to cope better then boy, as girls copy their peers, whereas boys don't give a shit. I have seen it with my own eyes other families where boys are virtually non verbal and the girl seem perfectly normal. Generally speaking there seem to be more males more severely autistic then female, also many are being misdiagnose with ADHD as the traits are similar.

Offline akauya

What did we do before ADHD was invented? :unknown: :rolleyes:

It's a bit off to post sarcastically about ADHD being "invented" right after someone shares their diagnosis. I know neurodevelopmental disorders weren't talked about in your day, but silence about it doesn't mean they didn't exist.

Sure, there is a debate to be had about "overdiagnosis" (as someone mentioned above), but let's not use that as an excuse to dismiss people who are diagnosed and dealing with the real, daily impact.

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Not true, you're either on it or not, you can behave like you have autism, they are different. My daughter is autistic and it is genetic as I can now see it in my wife. I can also see it in her family too and it is a spectrum. Women are now being diagnose with autism in their 50's and 60's, it was harder to detect in girls as they seem to cope better then boy, as girls copy their peers, whereas boys don't give a shit. I have seen it with my own eyes other families where boys are virtually non verbal and the girl seem perfectly normal. Generally speaking there seem to be more males more severely autistic then female, also many are being misdiagnose with ADHD as the traits are similar.
Yes, autistic girls are particularly good at "mirroring" to hide their autism by copying what their peers do, which is why they sometimes get diagnosed late.
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Offline Thephoenix

It's a bit off to post sarcastically about ADHD being "invented" right after someone shares their diagnosis. I know neurodevelopmental disorders weren't talked about in your day, but silence about it doesn't mean they didn't exist.

Sure, there is a debate to be had about "overdiagnosis" (as someone mentioned above), but let's not use that as an excuse to dismiss people who are diagnosed and dealing with the real, daily impact.

Invented was the wrong word.
Awareness would have been better.
However it does pose questions of over diagnosis.

I'm not able to dismiss the condition as one of my middle aged daughters is convinced she has ADHD, sadly along with other mental illness.
She doesn't have all the symptoms, so there are obviously different levels of ADHD.
However she's now so focused on the symptoms and condition that she believes her son, brother and possibly the cat also have ADHD.

It's like a number of other comparively recent diagnosed conditions like fibromyalgia or panic attacks for example
Both can result in debilitating symptoms.

I know only too well about the symptoms of severe panic attacks in my past.
We used to call them nervous breakdowns.
Now a bit of anxiety is often referred to as a panic attack, and it's annoying when I hear it.

Many females in my family have severe fibromyalgia. It sadly runs through the generations.
The symptoms of severe pain, exhaustion and brain fog are very debilitating and poorly understood and diagnosed until comparively recently.
Now it seems that anyone with a bit of rheumatism has 'fybro'.

I guess that getting a proper diagnosis of any condition is only helpful if you're going to do something about it.
By attaching a label of ADHD to describe various behaviours may give some understanding to the person, and people close to them, but I guess it's only useful if the person is able to try and control the negative traits by self awareness.



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I thought the recent government report on ADHD in children and young adults may be of interest .

Perhaps unsurprisingly to some, it suggests that there is an over diagnosis of the condition.

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In the late 70s path labs in the UK started to get new machines which did up to 20 tests per blood sample and it was cheaper and easier to do all 20 then the  few tests requested
All of a sudden lots of patients were getting abnormal results and an explanation of normal might be useful

If you have a new test to measure the levels of X in blood then you go off to a blood donor session and use the discarded blood collection tubing. Thus you collect hundreds of normal healthy samples and you measure levels of X
You then discard the top and bottom two and a half percent of the results and the 95%  remaining is your normal range

so to be clear if you measure 1000 normal people 50 will give an abnormal result for an individual test now do 20 tests on every sample how many will be abnormal ?

In other words because of the way normal is defined do enough tests and virtually everyone will show an abnormal result sooner than later

Offline Colston36

I am classic text book ADHD. Annoying, extrovert, flirty, completely unfaithful no matter what the risk. I take big risks in my life, ride a motorbike like it's stolen, put my life in danger for a thrill every day. I am early 50s and never grown up. I spent 50k a few months ago on a car for no reason. Didn't even want one. Do maybe 2000 miles a year. Just did it. That level of impulsivity and carelessness.

I was diagnosed 3 years ago after a crazy life.

I am so sure it is my impulsive behaviour that gets me punting at least 3 times a week. Stimulant meds made me Mr Limpo McLimpdick. So they can fuck off. Now cannabis is prescribed for last 3 months and it is insanely good to go punt and be high. I let the girl know and they really don't care luckily. Not been high for like 25 years FFS now I am at it again but with loads more money.

Is anyone else in this position or have I just not grown up?

Before psychiatry became fashionable they called people like you idiots. When I was young I was at it night and day.  Nobody back then thought I was anything but a normal sex mad youth.

Offline Stevelondon

Before psychiatry became fashionable they called people like you idiots. When I was young I was at it night and day.  Nobody back then thought I was anything but a normal sex mad youth.

Ahhh wanking.
I remember it well  :D :lol:

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Ahhh wanking.
I remember it well  :D :lol:

Let's not forget that as recently as the 60's many many people with ADHD and other conditions like Autism, Aspergers, Downs etc were locked up in institutions 'to keep the general population safe' amongst other reasons.

Thankfully we have a far better understanding now and as a society we have moved forward,  I'd much rather where we are now to where we were then.

Offline MLawro93

The "what did we do before ADHD was invented" thing, it wasn't invented, it was identified. We just called those kids naughty or lazy and cracked on. Some were fine, plenty weren't.

And kids don't usually grow out of it. The hyperactive kid just becomes the adult blowing 50k on a car he doesn't need.

Overdiagnosis is a fair point though. But for every person self-diagnosing off TikTok there's someone in their 50s who's spent their whole life thinking they're just a bit shit when there's actually a reason for it.

Let's not forget that as recently as the 60's many many people with ADHD and other conditions like Autism, Aspergers, Downs etc were locked up in institutions 'to keep the general population safe' amongst other reasons.

Thankfully we have a far better understanding now and as a society we have moved forward,  I'd much rather where we are now to where we were then.

Agree we're in a much better place now but ADHD doesn't really belong in that list. Nobody was getting locked up for being impulsive. Down syndrome and severe autism, yeah absolutely. But ADHD wasn't even a diagnosis back then and Asperger's wasn't identified until the 90s. Those people just got called difficult and got on with it.

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Sometimes diagnoses allows or enables a person to access medication which alongside other strategies helps them manage life better. Someone who is likely ADHD recently asked me if avoiding important life formalities could simply be a gender trait, I assured him not.

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and thats for a test which is probably better than most actual tests !

Offline Thephoenix

I'm resurrecting this thread as I can't find anywhere more suitable, and it's pertinent to the discussion.

The interim report from the review into disability benefits conducted by Sir Stephen Timms has thrown up some interesting results,
which  have been analysed by The Press Association:

The number of claimants classed as having autistic spectrum disorders has more than doubled in six years.
The number of mixed anxiety and depressive disorders has also more than doubled.
The number with ADHD has almost quadrupled in that period.

I'm not getting into the costs involved to avoid any political implications.

I'm simply quoting the figures, which you may draw your own conclusions from.


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The number of claimants classed as having autistic spectrum disorders has more than doubled in six years.
The number of mixed anxiety and depressive disorders has also more than doubled.
The number with ADHD has almost quadrupled in that period.


Swinging the lead has always been swinging the lead irrespective of scale.

Offline Yankee21

My late wife worked with govt on mental health reform.

Her main points were always:

More people are being diagnosed

Awareness of autism has improved among GPs, schools and employers

Adult autism assessments have become much more common

ADHD is increasingly recognised in adults rather than just children

Mental health screening has become routine in many healthcare settings - Many adults who would never have received a diagnosis twenty years ago are now being identified.

Offline Mr Garmin

I know someone who's job it was to assess people for various disability allowances.  She would turn down applicants who would then appeal and get another assessor who would approve the application.

I think that we can all agree that the benchmark for receiving various benefits has been moved over the decades.  Which isn't a problem if you think that the country can afford the luxury of paying people to sit at home watching Netflix.

£3 trillion in debt says otherwise.

She left the job BTW.

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I know someone who's job it was to assess people for various disability allowances.  She would turn down applicants who would then appeal and get another assessor who would approve the application.

I think that we can all agree that the benchmark for receiving various benefits has been moved over the decades.  Which isn't a problem if you think that the country can afford the luxury of paying people to sit at home watching Netflix.

£3 trillion in debt says otherwise.

She left the job BTW.

PIP isn't means tested - which one reason why it's reported that there is widespread abuse of the benefit.