Wawa thai99 - Tamworth

[Freevoyager]

How far gone is she if she's still working?

If its mine then 2 months.

[Freevoyager]

If its mine then 2 months.

Or maybe 3 months. Trying to remember when she first pinned me down to cum in her.

[RandomGuy99]

We need to get a gofundme page setup for donations for the baby presents

[theejaculator]

Hang on....let me get more popcorn 

[finn5555]

I think Freevoyager is a fantasist 

Millionaire 
multiple properties 
Still has his electrician's van and clothing 

Was an entertaining read over my coffee 

[shed]

This all sounds like a fairy tale to me 

[paul_tall_]

Yes but on the basis of we'd have moved into one of my houses together

You should really stop posting about your financial circumstances

[finn5555]

You should really stop posting about your financial circumstances

It’s all complete bollocks 

[Freevoyager]

I had genuinely decided to open up and admit I had fallen for her and found myself in an awkward situation in the hope of some genuine thoughtful advice. It's not something I can turn to my family for help with as its embarrassing to admit I've fallen for an escort, let alone maybe got her pregnant.
However by the sounds of the responses I may not be the only one that might be to blame.

Some people have done that which I am grateful for.
Others choose to mock

Some clearly hiding behind jokes they make for fear of telling the truth and being pulled up like me for it.

I honestly thought she had feelings for me but its clear now from what some members have pointed out it was just an illusion to keep me hooked.

Certainly my step back from contacting her and not seeing her has not sparked a response . In fact quite the opposite.

I would say that over 95% of you aren't short of money either because I know most of my mates can't afgord the pub let alone a prostitute.
Anyone on an average job can become a millionaire by the time they are 45-50 if they are taught about what to do with their money.  But the way society is setup you are encouraged to spend it on things you don't need. 
 
I had expected more genuine responses but it is what it is.

I hope some of you understand that true wealth has nothing to do with money. It is how you live your life with honesty and respect and the love you find and share.
I have always lived my life with honesty and respect towards others to the point that my own family say I have spent my life sacrificing my happiness in order to make others happy.

When I met wawa I thought I had actually for once found someone I connect with. I can not describe how that feels but clearly it was all fake at everyone's amusement. Despite what she does for work and the fact that many of you have also been inside her i still respected her  and thought I understood her. I never asked her to do anything she didn't want to do and took her out instead of spending time constantly shagging her. I thought i was doing right by her  and thought I could take her away from this life style if that was what she wanted.  She never asked me for more than was expected by the handler.
I honestly never thought I would have feelings for someone doing this type of work because it is quite degrading and I am certainly not proud of the fact that I have to turn to a prostitute to have a girl pretend she likes me for an hour.
The time I have spent with her i thought was important to her but as its clearly been pointed out in was just paying for that it wasn't a choice she made herself. Though i had been lead to believe by her she has no choice she has to do as her handler tells her. Even when I turned up once without arrangement she got quite upset and said I had to go through her work number first. 
I have never had that experience in my life and in my late 50s that is a true sign of being poor in my opinion.

I have no doubts none of you are in true love with someone because if you was you wouldn't be turning to a prostitute to pretend she likes you for an hour. 

But the upshot of this whole thread is that i falled in love with a lie and the honest and frank opinions of some of you have helped me see that which is what I needed. 

Whilst I have money and know how to create money I am the looser without true love in my life and that is the truth to me being poor

I am sure many of you will take advantage of my misfortune now and have a good giggle with her about me. Maybe that will help boost your own ego whilst mine is left in the gutter.

[Iamforreal]

If it's true what you said don't beat yourself up, life is short, plenty of women around, go find someone else.
All that money, you're not going to take it with you, find a sugar baby if relationships don't work, go out and enjoy it as much as you can!

[Placebo88]

I don't understand the pregnancy part. She tells you she is pregnant ( and that it is yours? ) but wants absolutely nothing from you. Why tell you then, other than in the hopes you would run a mile.

It is not uncommon at that age but she is getting on in terms of having healthy children and probably already has as many as she wants. Also, does an experienced, barebacking escort really not use contraception?

Losing sight that it is just paid for intimacy adds complications that can prove problematic for both sides. It is not the real world.

[Freevoyager]

I don't understand the pregnancy part. She tells you she is pregnant ( and that it is yours? ) but wants absolutely nothing from you. Why tell you then, other than in the hopes you would run a mile.

It is not uncommon at that age but she is getting on in terms of having healthy children and probably already has as many as she wants. Also, does an experienced, barebacking escort really not use contraception?

Losing sight that it is just paid for intimacy adds complications that can prove problematic for both sides. It is not the real world.

I don't understand the pregnancy bit either 🤷‍♂️

To the point she phones me to to show me a pregnancy test.

She stopped taking the pill mid last year because was causing her to have multiple periods. But given that I don't know why she would then risk BB  other clients

Lots of things don't make sense and I just needed to be honest with myself about it.

Maybe it is to make me run a mile, certainly no attempt to pull me back but I think there's someone else in play here that she met recently.

[hopenat]

Most men on this site don't want to be loved for an hour, in my opinion we are natural hunters and we enjoy the filter and looking and finally finding someone... why don't you give her a phone so you can talk without the handler. None of it makes sense, she'd rather have bb with people whilst pregnant rather than a nice life..

[paul_tall_]

I don't understand the pregnancy bit either 🤷‍♂️

To the point she phones me to to show me a pregnancy test.

She stopped taking the pill mid last year because was causing her to have multiple periods. But given that I don't know why she would then risk BB  other clients

Lots of things don't make sense and I just needed to be honest with myself about it.

Maybe it is to make me run a mile, certainly no attempt to pull me back but I think there's someone else in play here that she met recently.

Unless I’m mistaken by a comment yesterday you implied you offered her a lot of money to give up and for you both to live together and she said no. Why would she ever agree to those conditions esp the living with you. Have never met the girl so have no idea how she is but showing the pregnancy test and she may well have done that to other guys just to get money or has seen a vulnerability in your personality that she is happy to exploit .
You don’t really help yourself in your comments here by coming across as the big I am , even mocking your friends and others on here .
As for being embarrassed about your family knowing , bit weird if you were looking to move her in and support a kid.
If she has had the pregnancy confirmed by the gp she will have been given an indication of how far gone she is and they would be scheduling things ie first scan Until she actually has that she could easily be stringing you along get the money and fake a miscarriage. Your only proof seems to have been a pregnancy test she showed you on camera
If all this is true then just deal with it , if its imaginary on either part then seek help

[ekimnik]

See her with a sob story that as a result of the current Iran situation you've lost all your money,  you've had to close your business as your creditors have pushed you into liquidation & are looking for a job as an electrician so you won't be able to see her as often or give her as much money but would still like to carry on as you are & see what her reaction is.

[Freevoyager]

Most men on this site don't want to be loved for an hour, in my opinion we are natural hunters and we enjoy the filter and looking and finally finding someone... why don't you give her a phone so you can talk without the handler. None of it makes sense, she'd rather have bb with people whilst pregnant rather than a nice life..

Phoning is something I have tried many times, always the same response when discussing anything personal she shakes her head no smiling and not saying anything.  The only time I've ever manged to get her to talk properly is when we've been out and then she's a completely different person.  It's when she's taken away from the environment that I've seen a different side to her that I am really pulled to. 

When I was in hospital last year she phoned me every day checking how I was, which was quite a touching gesture.

What she has said when we've been out is that she afraid and that she is concerned that I have a Mrs. I have tried reassuring her many times the Mrs is a dead relationship but I need to ensure she is taken care of before I walk out.  I am pretty sure she knows about her just chooses not to say anything. 
There's a lot of history there and ultimately the Mrs is more like a best friend than lover. But I get wawa's concerns about that issue.  However there's too many other things coming to light particularly with what others have said in this thread.

If she's having BB with many others then is that really someone I want to be with. If there's a chance that the baby isn't mine after all then the sentiment is gone.  If she is in fact is holding out for someone else which is what it looks like. 

Since she confirmed she was pregnant 3 weeks ago things have changed.  I honestly thought she would jump at my offer to her but I've basically had the opposite reaction.
Nothing adds up basically and I am left feeling quite sick.

[Freevoyager]

Well pretty sure it's not mine as the conceived date i didn't see her that week or the week before. 

[Freevoyager]

Works out that she started pinning me down after she missed her period.  That sounds like trying to entrap me.

So anyone that saw her week of 10th or 17th of November.

[pbrown355]

It's always difficult trying to advise somebody from outside of the situation, which appears more complex as it develops. But you did ask so here's my take.
The most important thing in my opinion is the situation with your wife. If it's a dead relationship and you would have walked out had the pregnancy situation developed differently, then you should show her some respect and arrange your separation.
The rest of the story appears to be following its own path regardless of your initial hopes. Your posts about it suggest to me that you also have self respect problems. Money is great, more is definitely better than less, but it is not a substitute for a life. Having lots doesn't make someone a better person. Helping others to your own detriment demonstrates lack of self worth. This suggests to me that regardless of the outcome of your current dilemma, there will be another similar dilemma round the corner.
Obviously you may disagree with my thoughts, but if you do I hope at least you consider them.
I hope this works out well for you.

[Freevoyager]

It's always difficult trying to advise somebody from outside of the situation, which appears more complex as it develops. But you did ask so here's my take.
The most important thing in my opinion is the situation with your wife. If it's a dead relationship and you would have walked out had the pregnancy situation developed differently, then you should show her some respect and arrange your separation.
The rest of the story appears to be following its own path regardless of your initial hopes. Your posts about it suggest to me that you also have self respect problems. Money is great, more is definitely better than less, but it is not a substitute for a life. Having lots doesn't make someone a better person. Helping others to your own detriment demonstrates lack of self worth. This suggests to me that regardless of the outcome of your current dilemma, there will be another similar dilemma round the corner.
Obviously you may disagree with my thoughts, but if you do I hope at least you consider them.
I hope this works out well for you.

Thank you, a very sincere post and certainly I agree with much of what you've written.  Self worth is definitely something I have struggled with and very cleverly picked up on.

[hamchang]

Phoning is something I have tried many times, always the same response when discussing anything personal she shakes her head no smiling and not saying anything.   

There has been a lot of gentle hints in this thread, and its not sinking in. So speaking as a Thailand veteran please understand. You are a customer and a source of money. She most likely has a maeng da or thai husband she is madly in love with and sending your money to. If she actually wanted to be with you, she would be. She is not a slave here, other than having jumped her visa most likely, so if she felt that same way you do, she would have hung up her g string and be making you breakfast in bed each day. However she does not. She sees you as a whoremeister who bare backs prostitutes, and that is not someone she wants to set up home with. Delete her details and move as it is not long until she packs up and jumps a plane home to hubby, and you will be crying like a baby and then sending her money each month to Thailand. 

[Freevoyager]

There has been a lot of gentle hints in this thread, and its not sinking in. So speaking as a Thailand veteran please understand. You are a customer and a source of money. She most likely has a maeng da or thai husband she is madly in love with and sending your money to. If she actually wanted to be with you, she would be. She is not a slave here, other than having jumped her visa most likely, so if she felt that same way you do, she would have hung up her g string and be making you breakfast in bed each day. However she does not. She sees you as a whoremeister who bare backs prostitutes, and that is not someone she wants to set up home with. Delete her details and move as it is not long until she packs up and jumps a plane home to hubby, and you will be crying like a baby and then sending her money each month to Thailand. 

Yes i do get abs i have taken it on board. As I previously said its hard to swallow and accept the truth but I can now see it how it is. As I said 10/10 for her acting abilities. 

[finn5555]

Yes i do get abs i have taken it on board. As I previously said its hard to swallow and accept the truth but I can now see it how it is. As I said 10/10 for her acting abilities.

Your attention seeking is entertaining please keep it up 

[Tommy123]

Ffs....listen to hamchang...on the money...no pun intended...told you this on the second reply after your posted..
Wake up....

[hopenat]

I was thinking "Officer and the Gentleman" lol

[lemonface]

Just adding my experience. I'm relatively new to this game. I did get attached to a tourer gradually, I got hooked in to seeing them more than I should, sometimes travelling 3 hours each way to see them and in some cases chauffeuring to their next location. To me, having someone sitting with me doing platonic things and trying to work each other out in a language we are both trying to learn was fun for me.

However... I hope you find your solution to your problem. I think it's worse to get someone pregnant who isn't a WG?

I have a habit of getting to know their "past lives" and getting overly attached. Luckily one of them snapped me out of it.

[Freevoyager]

Just adding my experience. I'm relatively new to this game. I did get attached to a tourer gradually, I got hooked in to seeing them more than I should, sometimes travelling 3 hours each way to see them and in some cases chauffeuring to their next location. To me, having someone sitting with me doing platonic things and trying to work each other out in a language we are both trying to learn was fun for me.

However... I hope you find your solution to your problem. I think it's worse to get someone pregnant who isn't a WG?

I have a habit of getting to know their "past lives" and getting overly attached. Luckily one of them snapped me out of it.

Its worse for me because I believed her. She had me convinced.
How did they snap you out of it.?
I have a couple i am friends with but I don't get attached, there was a chemistry with her that was different. 

[lemonface]

Its worse for me because I believed her. She had me convinced.
How did they snap you out of it.?
I have a couple i am friends with but I don't get attached, there was a chemistry with her that was different.

I now stick to SP that don't speak English very well. Stops me overthinking.

I snapped out of it when the one i was obsessed with left UK and insistent that I stop pining for her. I eventually did... I wrote a letter in her language and sealed it with wax then handed the letter to her before she left. We like fairy tales here don't we, it worked for me anyway...

[hamchang]

Its worse for me because I believed her. She had me convinced.
How did they snap you out of it.?
I have a couple i am friends with but I don't get attached, there was a chemistry with her that was different.

There is only one way to do it. Cut the cord. Block on all social media. Delete any phone numbers, or ways to contact, and block those as well so any messages she sends to you to rekindle your money flow does not reach you. Then go whoring and only 1 time no repeat for each girl for a while as I suspect you might be the type to fall for the first one you slip into on the rebound. Finally, go dating. If you want a relationship and not the one you are already in, get on the dating sites and target Asians who are not selling their holes on jumped visas. 

[Tommy123]

Good advice Mr hamchang......I hope he takes it in and does exactly what you suggest

[paul_tall_]

The impression he has given is he has still been meeting other providers whilst with this one.
Pointless dating other girls when he hasn’t sorted out his “current” relationship

[Newjack1]

Phoning is something I have tried many times, always the same response when discussing anything personal she shakes her head no smiling and not saying anything.  The only time I've ever manged to get her to talk properly is when we've been out and then she's a completely different person.  It's when she's taken away from the environment that I've seen a different side to her that I am really pulled to. 

When I was in hospital last year she phoned me every day checking how I was, which was quite a touching gesture.

What she has said when we've been out is that she afraid and that she is concerned that I have a Mrs. I have tried reassuring her many times the Mrs is a dead relationship but I need to ensure she is taken care of before I walk out.  I am pretty sure she knows about her just chooses not to say anything. 
There's a lot of history there and ultimately the Mrs is more like a best friend than lover. But I get wawa's concerns about that issue.  However there's too many other things coming to light particularly with what others have said in this thread.

If she's having BB with many others then is that really someone I want to be with. If there's a chance that the baby isn't mine after all then the sentiment is gone.  If she is in fact is holding out for someone else which is what it looks like. 

Since she confirmed she was pregnant 3 weeks ago things have changed.  I honestly thought she would jump at my offer to her but I've basically had the opposite reaction.
Nothing adds up basically and I am left feeling quite sick.

Want me to try and see if she says yes to bareback? I wont actually do it, dont know where youve been

[Coops72]

Have I missed something because she is still working and doesn’t look nearly 9 months pregnant?

[Freevoyager]

Have I missed something because she is still working and doesn’t look nearly 9 months pregnant?

4 months pregnant

New jacket- I'm actually not bothered I'm out of it now.
I've taken on board the genuine advice given here and seen her for what she is.

I needed the wake up which many of you have done thank you. 

I'm sure once I deal with ending  my current relationship I'll probably go traveling for a peek at what else is out there. 

[finn5555]

She was fucked today and no hint of bareback or being pregnant

I think the OP is full of shit 

[hamchang]

She was fucked today and no hint of bareback or being pregnant

I think the OP is full of shit 

"I'm pregnant" is the oldest thai bar girl trick in the book. I wouldn't be surprised if she is planning to jump back home to Thailand in the next few months "to have the baby" and what follows is 10 blokes who all thought she loved him long time and they were the only ones flooding her ovaries will be getting the messages to "support family me". She might be preggers, as a luk kreung baby is highly desired in bum fuck isaan where she hails from, but she will not have a clue who the daddy is. So when the messages start ignore them, or ask for a hair sample with roots to be sent to you for a DNA test.

[fairyguy]

4 months pregnant

New jacket- I'm actually not bothered I'm out of it now.
I've taken on board the genuine advice given here and seen her for what she is.

I needed the wake up which many of you have done thank you. 

I'm sure once I deal with ending  my current relationship I'll probably go traveling for a peek at what else is out there.

In other news.. are we seeing a dump today from the Fed meeting?

[Freevoyager]

She was fucked today and no hint of bareback or being pregnant



I think the OP is full of shit 

Definitely a bump showing . 
Its hard because she comes across as very genuine and sincere.

Yes huge dump today.  Good if you had sell orders in place like i did it very predictable though more than I expected. So something to smile about at least.

[fairyguy]

Definitely a bump showing . 
Its hard because she comes across as very genuine and sincere.

Yes huge dump today.  Good if you had sell orders in place like i did it very predictable though more than I expected. So something to smile about at least.

Definitely don’t recommend sell orders before a high vol event. Usually the first major candle is incorrect then it reverses

[Freevoyager]

"I'm pregnant" is the oldest thai bar girl trick in the book. I wouldn't be surprised if she is planning to jump back home to Thailand in the next few months "to have the baby" and what follows is 10 blokes who all thought she loved him long time and they were the only ones flooding her ovaries will be getting the messages to "support family me". She might be preggers, as a luk kreung baby is highly desired in bum fuck isaan where she hails from, but she will not have a clue who the daddy is. So when the messages start ignore them, or ask for a hair sample with roots to be sent to you for a DNA test.

I wanted to do a final closure and she has slipped up a bit.
I explained that I was just a client and that she has not demonstrated anything to suggest otherwise.

She has admitted to talking to several readers of this and she told them that we are not lovers.. ouch. Though she explains our situation very differently to me. First mistake she made.

She's made quite a lengthy saga of wanting to be married as long as I would support her.  She would give up work now for me. 
Here's the crunch ..
Pay her now direct to her account 2-3 million baht to prove i love her.  😀
Now that's less than I offered but I offered in installments so 2nd mistake is wanting less upfront

I would have been so hung out to the cleaners.

Such a shame as she is a nice person when we're out and quite different. But she even said in her last comment to me that she only cares about money and she is greedy. 3rd mistake.

Glad I listened to the advice and how it opened my eyes to what was going on.
If she had been genuine she would never have had to worry about money again..

Can now get back to sorting out my life properly.

[paul_tall_]

Can now get back to sorting out my life properly.

Make sure you do , however you still have said she is pregnant and 4 months gone if that is the case until you know one way or another if its yours you wont be able to move on and god forbid she disappears/fully drops contact before then as you will be left in limbo wondering.

[Freevoyager]

Make sure you do , however you still have said she is pregnant and 4 months gone if that is the case until you know one way or another if its yours you wont be able to move on and god forbid she disappears/fully drops contact before then as you will be left in limbo wondering.

No I'm satisfied she will be getting an abortion in the next few weeks.  She is to money driven.

[Freevoyager]

Make sure you do , however you still have said she is pregnant and 4 months gone if that is the case until you know one way or another if its yours you wont be able to move on and god forbid she disappears/fully drops contact before then as you will be left in limbo wondering.

 
Im also convinced she is a genuinely sincere person at heart but she is not calling the shots. There were a few things that happened yesterday that showed that. She contradicted herself a couple of times after speaking to her "friend"

[pbrown355]

If she is not calling the shots she has either been playing you (my suspicion anyway) or she's being trafficked, a whole different ball game.
I was with you until your last post. Whether she is a good person or not should no longer be a concern to you. It implies you are still invested. Please stay away, there's nothing good to come from any further contact.

[AverageJoe858]

Jesus. Only wanted to k own if she was a good Fuck !
I was tempted to book her for a punt
Think I will steer clear of a potentially pregnant SP who definitely Barebacks punters

I think you need to put some distance between you and her.
You might earn good money but she will bleed you dry, what’s left after your wife takes her share.
Various girls have given me their personal numbers over the years and/or communicate via the socials
If you always go through the madam she has no real interest in you as a person.

[HelpThe Aged]

mate you are paying for sex, end of, move on

[HelpThe Aged]

she don,t like you she likes your money

[Freevoyager]

I am very well aware of that now. 

From all the constructive advice given on here i took a step back evaluated.
I see much more clearly what is going on now and that is down to you guys that have been positively adding the constructive advice. 

Very clever on her part but there are many flaws in her approach that I can see now. 

[Norwichwood]

Can I ask - what was your starting capital and how many years having you been playing the stock market?

At £3 million - why have the stress - get out of trading and find a nice tracker. I'm at .6 of a million - but only track the Nasdaq 100 and make the same returns as you without trading - much less stress.
I'm 54 - at 34 again had nothing no job, savings or g/f - decided it was time to stop thinking 'tomorrow' and start think 'yesterday'! Building a snowball. Make over 15% in real terms while still working part-time.

[RandomGuy99]

When should we expect the pitter patter of feet?