Author Topic: What services make you hesitate or pull the trigger?  (Read 9863 times)

Offline paul_2407

Was just thinking about how services offered influences my decision to punt with a certain SP if they've piqued my interests looks wise.

So my thought is, the following either puts me off from booking or keeps me on the fence (e.g. until a good review comes round).

Service not offered:
OWO (Probably would stay on fence unless countless positive UKP reviews)
Filming (Probably would stay on fence unless countless positive UKP reviews)
GFE
DFK

Service offered as paid extra:
DT (Shouldn't this just be standard?)
Fingering (Shouldn't this just be standard?)
69 / Face sitting / Rimming (female receiving) (Shouldn't this just be standard?)

Service offered:
Hardsports (Just the idea of meeting after someone who requested this puts me off)

What about you fellas?

Offline Jonestown

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Smoking Fetish is a no no, in fact smoking full stop.

Offline Mr.j0nes

Car meets are a massive red flag along with the obvious BB and movies on AW where they are having BB sex.

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Bb
Smoking
No kissing
Car meets
Hotel meets, much prefer House/flat
Romanian

Offline Massage Bloke

Hesitate if I saw Rimming (giving)...was a service on offer.

I would worry that I'd see an SP just after she's done that, and I would start with DFK!  :scare:

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I simple terms the following services either not offered or only offered as an extra would be a do not see for me (even if they had glowing UKP reviews):

DFK
OWO

I am a man of simple needs  :lol:

If they were offering BB that would be another 'do not see'

With kink meets it would look very different.

Offline RandomGuy99

Hesitate

Members of royal family or peerage
Working from a hotel
Nipple piercings
No kissing
Smokers
« Last Edit: February 11, 2026, 05:49:33 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline Makazian

Hesitate/abort:

Bareback
Rimming (giving)
No OWO
No kissing
Hardsports
Working in a hotel
Not so much service but mention of “party girl”


Pull the trigger:
OWO
DFK
Submissive
PSE


Was a Brazilian I seen that had depilation and enema on her likes list. Never asked about it but I don’t think she knew what they meant  :lol:
« Last Edit: February 11, 2026, 07:45:35 pm by Makazian »

Offline MichaelDBW

Much the same as Jamie above, FK and OWO are the only dealbreakers for me .. I can't get fully in to the punt if either of those aren't on offer! :D

Offline Spacecowb0y

Pretty vanilla.....


Pull the trigger if they provide
DFK
OWO
And I find them attractive with good reviews

Abort ....
Everything else

Offline Demon8

Hesitate/abort:

Bareback
Rimming (giving)
No OWO
No kissing
Hardsports
Working in a hotel
Not so much service but mention of “party girl”


Pull the trigger:
OWO
DFK
Submissive
PSE


Was a Brazilian I seen that had depilation and enema on her likes list. Never asked about it but I don’t think she knew what they meant  :lol:

What have you got against girls who work in a hotel?

Offline berksboy

Think it depends on the hotel . In Bracknell there is a well known one near a supermarket that is perfect for punting as its got a busy but unmanned reception with easy access to the lifts . But there is also one which needs key access to lifts and if a manned reception as well you can see why some dont like hotels.

Offline alabama1

Think it depends on the hotel . In Bracknell there is a well known one near a supermarket that is perfect for punting as its got a busy but unmanned reception with easy access to the lifts . But there is also one which needs key access to lifts and if a manned reception as well you can see why some dont like hotels.
Any punter who avoids incalls to hotels is dramatically reducing their scope of SP's. It's not just hotels that have a concierge either, i know of an apartment block in Brum that has them.

Offline Stevelondon

Obviously I have punted at hotels but it’s not my usual go to.

A room with a suitcase in the corner, unkept bed, no towels etc………. Bit off putting.

But this depends on the quality and professionalism of the lass let’s be fair.
A SP on a revolving door system is hardly going to have time to freshen the place up and re-order bathroom toiletries is she.
Then there are your more expensive sorts who are happy to perhaps only see four or five punters that day. Fluffy towels piled up and a clean working space 🤷🏼

As for the OP’s question. ………….. Jeez this punting lark is complex innit  :D
« Last Edit: February 12, 2026, 09:32:10 am by Stevelondon »

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A SP on a revolving door system is hardly going to have time to freshen the place up and re-order bathroom toiletries is she

Is that not the same for a revolving door operation out of a flat?

4 or 5 a day is pretty high volume as well

Offline Makazian

What have you got against girls who work in a hotel?

Just the thought of being challenged by staff or spotted by housekeepers. I don’t travel for work or anything so would be a hotel in my city and it can be a small world at times. Also, I don’t like going to more residential places that aren’t near any main roads or shops. Stick out like a sore thumb waiting around.

Probably just being paranoid since they’ll see lots of people coming and going every day but try to be discreet as possible.

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Is that not the same for a revolving door operation out of a flat?

4 or 5 a day is pretty high volume as well

My thoughts too.

Offline Makazian

Is that not the same for a revolving door operation out of a flat?

4 or 5 a day is pretty high volume as well

It would be true for one working out of a flat as well but I remember a particular time I thought I’d give the SP a warning so as to not finish in her mouth. I thought maybe she’d position herself to finish on her body or have me move to finish on myself but simply finished by hand and onto the bed sheets which were then duly dealt with by baby wipes. Was in a flat so maybe in my naive mind I’m thinking she was going to change the sheets anyway but the thought of that in a hotel where I doubt they’re going to ask for fresh sheets possibly multiple times a day.

Maybe get away with it if you conveniently spill coffee on it but it’ll start to raise questions if it keeps happening  :lol:

Offline TittyfuckKing

OWO + CIM + Big Tits = trigger pulled

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OW, or any extras at all is a "no" for me. Also, Romanians, Brazilians and Thai.

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I treat each one separately. I like as a minimum FK/DFK, BBBJ/CIM, CVS for a simple fixed price and optional CAS for extra. I dislike "Brazillian" long list of extras.
I like car meets, and I don't immediately think "Barebacker!" but for a BJ who cares if I'm not going anywhere near their pussy?
I'm always covered so BB SPs don't worry me that much either, but if they advertise it or others report it I generally give them a swerve.

Offline paul_2407

I treat each one separately. I like as a minimum FK/DFK, BBBJ/CIM, CVS for a simple fixed price and optional CAS for extra. I dislike "Brazillian" long list of extras.
I like car meets, and I don't immediately think "Barebacker!" but for a BJ who cares if I'm not going anywhere near their pussy?
I'm always covered so BB SPs don't worry me that much either, but if they advertise it or others report it I generally give them a swerve.

Excuse my ignorance but what is CVS and CAS? Covered vag/anal sex?

Agree with the swerving on BB SPs

Offline mancsguy1975

Hesitate/abort:

Smoking (during the punt) or strong smell
BB
Romanians
Extremely hairy legs/chin
Stained clothing/sheets
Sergei/hubby defintely lurking out the back
Signs of chronic drug use
Noticeable intoxication
Fanny smellier than Billingsgate Fish Market
Hardsports offered

 :thumbsdown: :scare:

MG  :hi:
« Last Edit: February 13, 2026, 01:37:32 pm by mancsguy1975 »

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Excuse my ignorance but what is CVS and CAS? Covered vag/anal sex?

Agree with the swerving on BB SPs

Yes, Covered Vaginal Sex, Covered Anal Sex. I don't have a short abbreviation for wolfbagging as I only tried it once

Offline BrixtonBrewers

What have you got against girls who work in a hotel?

The girls working from hotels are more likely to be high volume as they have the additional cost of the hotel to cover. Definitely better if they're working from their own residence but I get why a lot of girls aren't comfortable with that.

Then there are your more expensive sorts who are happy to perhaps only see four or five punters that day.

Only 4 or 5 a day? Seems a lot for girls that aren't charging lower rates?

Offline DastardlyDick

Just the thought of being challenged by staff or spotted by housekeepers. I don’t travel for work or anything so would be a hotel in my city and it can be a small world at times. Also, I don’t like going to more residential places that aren’t near any main roads or shops. Stick out like a sore thumb waiting around.

Probably just being paranoid since they’ll see lots of people coming and going every day but try to be discreet as possible.
Now that some Hotels offer "day use" of rooms the chances of being challenged by staff is greatly reduced, and the excuse of "I'm going to a meeting" is much more believable.

Offline tp69

In my experience there's a very high correlation between good DFK and a great punt. If a girl snogs well, she tends to be fully engaged and in the moment. Almost every memorable punt I've had has these characteristics.

Offline Colston36

My thoughts too.

Many men imagine the ladies see far more clients than they do. When young I lived with a call girl as the title was back then. She saw very few clients though she did do some pretty elaborate things with drugs. Most jealous woman I ever knew, and almost killed me  - but that's another subject.
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In my experience there's a very high correlation between good DFK and a great punt. If a girl snogs well, she tends to be fully engaged and in the moment. Almost every memorable punt I've had has these characteristics.

Yep really makes a punt or shag, and the very women i know who do that say they enyoy it more than most anything else!..

Offline therichardrichard

Most of what would put me off are the usual ones that have already been mentioned (bareback, obviously, etc) but I'm always a bit dubious if they've also got another profile where they offer services with their [male] partner. I think it's because I followed a link once and the reviews and services described put me off seeing the girl by herself. Plus it feels a bit like I'm maybe a participant in their kink (even just seeing the girl)...which I do not want to be.

Also I absolutely LOVE rimming girls so if that's not on offer or if it's extra then they have to have something else about them to make me choose them. Do love fingering too but I've come to accept it as par for the course that most girls don't allow this so would be severely limiting my options if this was a deal breaker.

Offline Arripotter1971

What is the issue with Romanian girls ???
I have noticed an influx of Romanians lately near me and they appear very attractive ? So curious as to why people are wary of them.

Offline Cheltclient

What is the issue with Romanian girls ???
I have noticed an influx of Romanians lately near me and they appear very attractive ? So curious as to why people are wary of them.

Unfortunately it’s a stereotype that seems pretty accurate, in that most Roms seem to provide a poor service. Of course, I am sure there are some good ones, but in my earlier and greener days, I booked some roms and they were awful bookings so now stay away. But you are right in that some of them are stunning.

When I see the odd gorgeous one with lots of AW reviews - I may look on here but more often than not, they have scores of negatives.

Offline paul_2407

Unfortunately it’s a stereotype that seems pretty accurate, in that most Roms seem to provide a poor service. Of course, I am sure there are some good ones, but in my earlier and greener days, I booked some roms and they were awful bookings so now stay away. But you are right in that some of them are stunning.

When I see the odd gorgeous one with lots of AW reviews - I may look on here but more often than not, they have scores of negatives.

Mirrors my own experiences. First few punts many years ago were with some Rom birds who were fit af but the service never really kept up. Most if not all of them don't offer FK/DFK either. So it's fine if you want a P&D but then you get great GFE options from other SPs that make you question where you spend your money

Offline Cheltclient

Mirrors my own experiences. First few punts many years ago were with some Rom birds who were fit af but the service never really kept up. Most if not all of them don't offer FK/DFK either. So it's fine if you want a P&D but then you get great GFE options from other SPs that make you question where you spend your money

I think lots of us have similar experiences unfortunately. I’d have no prejudice in seeing a Rom. If she was hot and had good reviews, I’d happily book. But from my own experiences and if there is no positive feedback, I’ll stay away.

I seem to recall that all those years ago, after my marriage ended, one of my first escort bookings post marriage was with with a Rom. Memory is hazy but it was dirt cheap. In my younger days getting bookings out the paper, an escort never kissed. She was kinda attractive but quite dirty. She snogged me which took me by surprise and I recall quite enjoying it. That was why I was tempted again but after that, every booking with a Rom was poor. Guess it’s all about experience.

Offline therichardrichard

My first ever meet was with a Romanian girl, very sexy and extremely patient of my nervousness and novice ways! Just wanted someone to suck my cock and was over the moon when I asked if I could rim her and she said yes, then we sat cuddling with me for the rest of the booking. I blame her for setting me down an expensive path!  :lol:

Second meet was also Romanian and was much less successful...bait and switch in a dodgy flat but it was still good as she sucked my cock well and had quite a fit body so ended up fucking her even though I was only after a blowjob!

Since then I've had many sub standard experiences with Romanians that have confirmed the stereo type but I've been doing this a while now and knowing what to look out for I've found there are some absolute gems out there who I'd go back to again and again!
« Last Edit: March 25, 2026, 01:16:23 pm by therichardrichard »

Offline Cheltclient

My first ever meet was with a Romanian girl, very sexy and extremely patient of my nervousness and novice ways! Just wanted someone to suck my cock and was over the moon when I asked if I could rim her and she said yes, then we sat cuddling with me for the rest of the booking. I blame her for setting me down an expensive path!  :lol:

Second meet was also Romanian and was much less successful...bait and switch in a dodgy flat but it was still good as she sucked my cock well and had quite a fit body so ended up fucking her even though I was only after a blowjob!

Since then I've had many sub standard experiences with Romanians that have confirmed the stereo type but I've been doing this a while now and knowing what to look out for I've found there are some absolute gems out there who I'd go back to again and again!

The first Rom I saw, the good one, was in this shit hole house in a shit area. I recall seeing another girl there loitering around in sexy underwear, who had a profile, and she looked hotter and dirtier. Booked her some time after in the same house and she was awful. I’m fairly sure I saw a third Rom there in my early days and was also awful.

Of course I was far more naive then. Again, I’d happy see a well reviewed Rom. But most I come across on AW seem new and either have bad feedback or none. So experience means it’s a no go.

« Last Edit: March 25, 2026, 01:32:10 pm by Cheltclient »

Offline Iceman90

Any hint of bareback. Sometimes on a girl’s profile you see no bareback but then on her social media there are videos of her getting pounded bare. Not for me at all. If a girl doesn’t offer DFK that’s a dealbreaker too.

Offline Cheltclient

Any hint of bareback. Sometimes on a girl’s profile you see no bareback but then on her social media there are videos of her getting pounded bare. Not for me at all. If a girl doesn’t offer DFK that’s a dealbreaker too.

For me, OWO and DFK are key in pulling the trigger.

Offline Bonker

Trout pout, the fishyness should be at one end only.
Over-made up.
Profiles with a set of complaints or lectures.
Domination purveyers.
Claims of being a courtesan, high-end, upmarket, princess, empress etc.

None of these will get my dosh.

Offline Crackpot11

Profiles with a lack of details/ pictures, likewise profiles with too much text.
Services wise owo/dt and rimming (giving and receiving) would be a double hit.
Hotels are ok but do make me think twice.

Offline LanceVance

The three services I always look for are:

OWO
RO
Foot Fetish

I may not always see someone who offers all three, but those are the ones I tend to look for.

Like most here, Bareback is my dealbreaker, I would never see an SP who offers that.


Offline The_Rose_age

Bareback is the red flag like everyone else id never see a girl who advertises it.

Also I’m always so surprised at the amount of punters that go for DFK … fuck me she’s been sucking dick swallowing cum and eating arse all day and you want to kiss her and have her saliva and cum and arse particles in your mouth  :vomit:

Offline Cheltclient

Bareback is the red flag like everyone else id never see a girl who advertises it.

Also I’m always so surprised at the amount of punters that go for DFK … fuck me she’s been sucking dick swallowing cum and eating arse all day and you want to kiss her and have her saliva and cum and arse particles in your mouth  :vomit:

Yep although that’s the old adage - this hobby isn’t for the faint hearted.

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Offline ZeroCount

I'm kinda curious why so many of you guys would be put off by girls who do hardsports.

You do know they're only giving, not receiving, right? And you do know that all girls take a shit at some point? Why would it make such a difference to you whether they do it down the toilet, or on Bob from accounts who's paid them £100 extra for the privilege?

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Pretty much OWO is a must. Everything else I can take or leave. I don't really care if they BB or anything really as I know what I do and don't do so if I don't partake in something then its none of my business. Same as anal - she might offer it but I'm not taking it. Straight no - smoking, tattoos, not showing face, excessive use of extras as seen in the "Extras" thread. I have no mood for the nonstop bartering. I turn up, pay my money for what I want and get on with it. £150 turning into £210+ for OWO and Kissing? No love.

Make me hesitate? A sense of shitty attitude in their profile. Hard to define, but if I read it and think "this cunt thinks her shit doesn't stink, and that shes doing me a favour rather than supplying a service" then its a no.

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feet pics but no face pics  :thumbsdown:

Yup.
Also pics where they are all laid down, on their front or with their back to camera, usually means they hiding a spare tire.

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Offline paul_2407

I'm kinda curious why so many of you guys would be put off by girls who do hardsports.

You do know they're only giving, not receiving, right? And you do know that all girls take a shit at some point? Why would it make such a difference to you whether they do it down the toilet, or on Bob from accounts who's paid them £100 extra for the privilege?

Isn't made clear on the profiles I've seen it on whether it's giving on receiving which is why

Offline MaxVerstappen

I like to keep it simple:

UFC =  :thumbsdown:
FAF =    :thumbsup:

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