If I'd have messaged earlier I imagine this would have received no reply. Making an arrangement and then being ghosted on the day is not good enough for me, so will stick with more reliable options.
I feel for you me old mate. Nobody wants to be ghosted or cancelled etc.
But, as has been said. If you had sent a confirmation message in the morning……… and received no reply.
You could at least have made a decision whether to go ahead…… or not.
Just imagining you would not have got a reply is really down to you. 🤷🏼
I’m not having a go here. In a perfect punting world, none of us would be treated to ghostings etc.
sadly it ain’t a perfect world.
Very bad form with this lass. Because any good SP would still apologise in some way if she’s left you standing out in the cold.