Lasting Longer - Medication, Cialis/Viagra etc

[Jayjay1]

So am struggling to stay hard for long and when its hard it not as hard as it was few years ago. Am in my 30s, tried Tadalafil 10mg twice, 1st time 30mins before action didn't notice it effectiveness. Girl was ok in terms of attractiveness and connection, 2nd time an hour before action but girl was alot more attractive and better sexual vibe and I managed to get a 2nd round but wasn't hard enough for anal.

I exercise weekly, actively doing abs/plank to better perform in certain positions but its the hardness n length of time i stay hard before ejection.

Anyone have experience between using different pills, like Cialis, Kamagra, Viagra and Sidenafil and noticed the difference?

The above is from erectile Dysfunction and there are separate medication for premature ejaculation.

Any thoughts and tips guys?


 

[hendrix]

Have you spoken to your GP? Tbh in your 30's you shouldn't need any ED meds unless you have an underlying health condition, in which case your GP is best placed to advise.

[Ghost89]

As is usually the case you’re better off speaking to a doctor about any underlying issues. However, 10mg isn’t very strong. I’ve used previously 50mg of sildenafil but halved the tablet which was more than enough for me. It could just be a case of not having a strong enough tablet.
I don’t use it now due to the side effects of headaches as a result but it does help with confidence or it did with me and now my erections are rock hard.

[Monaco]

I have tried Priligy and EMLA cream for PE both are equally effective but Priligy made me feel sick as well as some other side effects.
EMLA s good but you absolutely must wash it off  thoroughly.

[Jayjay1]

Have you spoken to your GP? Tbh in your 30's you shouldn't need any ED meds unless you have an underlying health condition, in which case your GP is best placed to advise.

I can get hard so not really in need to speak to GP. But its def 5-10 min mark depends how hard I fuck or how aroused I get. I do feel my lack of stamina/abs that affects it aswell.

[southcoastpunter]

 not really in need to speak to GP.

no need to speak to a GP but you are happy to speak to a load of strangers on an online forum where, on past experience,  you will hear different guys tell you different things?  hardly surprising as we are all different but perhaps your GP can suggest what is best for YOU.

[RandomGuy99]

I replaced my brain with AI, so here is a reasonable explanation of the situation. It recommends speaking to a medical professional. There's no shame in having a private conversation about it

It's understandable to feel concerned about changes in sexual performance, especially when it starts impacting your confidence and enjoyment. There are several factors that could contribute to difficulty in maintaining an erection or achieving optimal hardness.

### Possible Factors Affecting Erection Quality

#### 1. **Psychological Factors**
   - **Anxiety and Stress:** Anxiety about performance can create a cycle affecting arousal and performance.
   - **Mental Connection:** Sometimes, even with attraction, if there's any pressure or anxiety, it can hinder performance.

#### 2. **Physical Factors**
   - **Hormonal Changes:** Testosterone levels may fluctuate with age, affecting libido and erection quality.
   - **Blood Flow Issues:** Conditions that affect blood circulation, like high blood pressure or diabetes, can influence erection firmness and duration.

#### 3. **Lifestyle Factors**
   - **Diet:** Nutrient deficiencies can impact libido and sexual performance. A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, healthy fats, and lean proteins is important.
   - **Sleep Quality:** Poor sleep can impact hormone levels and overall mood, affecting sexual performance.
   - **Substance Use:** Alcohol and certain drugs can impair performance.

#### 4. **Medications**
   - **Effects of Tadalafil:** While some men find it helpful, others might not experience the desired effects due to individual variations in physiology or psychological factors.

### Recommendations

#### 1. **Consult a Professional**
Consider speaking with a healthcare provider, preferably a urologist or a specialist in sexual health. They can offer a thorough evaluation and rule out any underlying medical conditions.

#### 2. **Psychological Counseling**
If anxiety or stress seems to be a factor, talking to a therapist or counselor could be beneficial. Techniques for relaxation and dealing with performance anxiety can help.

#### 3. **Lifestyle Modifications**
   - Maintain a balanced diet and regular exercise.
   - Focus on good sleep hygiene.
   - Limit alcohol consumption.

#### 4. **Experiment with Timing and Dosage**
If you're considering continuing with medications like Tadalafil, consult your doctor about the appropriate dosage and timing. They may suggest a different regimen or combination of options.

### Further Steps
Keeping an open line of communication with your partner about your experiences can also relieve pressure, making the experience more enjoyable.

[RandomGuy99]

You could just have a very big penis as I've heard SPs tell me about people with very large penises having trouble staying hard.

[Stevelondon]

You could just have a very big penis as I've heard SPs tell me about people with very large penises having trouble staying hard.

I don’t 🤷🏼

[Stevelondon]

Come on Jayjay………… be clever about this for fucks sake.
SCP has given you all the advice you need.


I’m just waiting for the day when someone comes on here asking for hamster feeding advice.

[RandomGuy99]

Maybe it's just psychological and it's building in your mind.

I think the top thing my first SP told me to do on a booking is relax. Once you're relaxed things happen naturally.

If you're using ED meds then you're stressing about them not working which in turn stops you getting hard.

Everyone is different, so don't go reading reviews on here and thinking you need to live up to some of those. As long as you've enjoyed your time with the SP, then it's all good.  Do you.

[RandomGuy99]

Willies are funny things and sometimes they just don't do what you want.

I think hardness is more about the mind. I've had bookings where I've arrived late or stressed and I can't get it up even though the SPnis attractive and then I have other bookings where the SP is attractive and I get hard but not really hard and then I have other bookings where I'm as hard as steel mostly because I've relaxed more and I'm not pressuring myself to perform and it just happens. I need the SP and myself to get into it to really get in the zone.

[Stevelondon]

Is that the ULEZ

[Jayjay1]

Maybe it's just psychological and it's building in your mind.

I think the top thing my first SP told me to do on a booking is relax. Once you're relaxed things happen naturally.

If you're using ED meds then you're stressing about them not working which in turn stops you getting hard.

Everyone is different, so don't go reading reviews on here and thinking you need to live up to some of those. As long as you've enjoyed your time with the SP, then it's all good.  Do you.

Psychology plays a bit part and ab strength. Just wanted to see what everyone's personal take was with medications and which one they felt best with

[Ghost89]

Maybe abstaining from things like wanking and sex in general. Might help reset your mind a little.over exposure to Porn is well known to dull libido when the actual act takes place.

[Jayjay1]

Maybe abstaining from things like wanking and sex in general. Might help reset your mind a little.over exposure to Porn is well known to dull libido when the actual act takes place.

One of my 2026 goals to stop wanking So far twice only this year.

[Davey80]

Everyone will be different but I have had a routine for years of 1 viagra at one hour before the meeting.

Last month the SP delayed by 30 minutes and the effect of the drug was actually much better waiting longer.

I’m going to see if 90 minutes works better again for my next punt. It was quite the difference!

[RandomGuy99]

Psychology plays a bit part and ab strength. Just wanted to see what everyone's personal take was with medications and which one they felt best with

I think you're viewing it too scientifically and thus putting pressure on yourself which might cause the lack of hardness. I suggest initially speaking to your GP to see if there could be something else wrong. Once you've eliminated any medical causes then it's psychological.

I don't think I've ever managed to get hard twice in an hour. Some SPs have tried, but it just doesn't happen. I am ok with that and don't worry about it. I just pace the booking, so I cum once at the end. Some SPs find that annoying like it means they're not doing their job right. I do explain that I don't want to cum twice or more in a booking, but they're still annoyed.

[GCAS9]

As is usually the case you’re better off speaking to a doctor about any underlying issues. However, 10mg isn’t very strong. I’ve used previously 50mg of sildenafil but halved the tablet which was more than enough for me. It could just be a case of not having a strong enough tablet.

Perfect example of why you need to consult with a doctor or other appropriate healthcare professional who is knowledgeable on the matter.

10mg of Tadalafil is not one fifth the strength of 50mg of Sildenafil anymore than one cupful of bleach is a fifth the strength of five cupfuls of washing-up liquid for cleaning your floor.

[tp69]

Perfect example of why you need to consult with a doctor or other appropriate healthcare professional who is knowledgeable on the matter.

10mg of Tadalafil is not one fifth the strength of 50mg of Sildenafil anymore than one cupful of bleach is a fifth the strength of five cupfuls of washing-up liquid for cleaning your floor.

Mate, you’re tripping. I tried the cupful of bleach and it did nothing for my erection.

[GCAS9]

Mate, you’re tripping. I tried the cupful of bleach and it did nothing for my erection.

That's because yours ain't reaching to the floor where it's supposed to work.  Guess you'll have to stick with the ivermectin, hydroxychloroquine and coffee enemas just like Doctors Twitter, Google and Chat-GPT recommend

[mancsguy1975]

You could just have a very big penis as I've heard SPs tell me about people with very large penises having trouble staying hard.]

Not enough hydrolic fluid for the piston 

[mr.bluesky]

Mate, you’re tripping. I tried the cupful of bleach and it did nothing for my erection.

You had a lovely clean cock though 

[Illuminated4000]

So am struggling to stay hard for long and when its hard it not as hard as it was few years ago. Am in my 30s, tried Tadalafil 10mg twice, 1st time 30mins before action didn't notice it effectiveness. Girl was ok in terms of attractiveness and connection, 2nd time an hour before action but girl was alot more attractive and better sexual vibe and I managed to get a 2nd round but wasn't hard enough for anal.

I exercise weekly, actively doing abs/plank to better perform in certain positions but its the hardness n length of time i stay hard before ejection.

Anyone have experience between using different pills, like Cialis, Kamagra, Viagra and Sidenafil and noticed the difference?

The above is from erectile Dysfunction and there are separate medication for premature ejaculation.

Any thoughts and tips guys?

The short-acting SSRI dapoxetine, brand name Priligy, is great for PE! 🙂 Like the PDE5 inhibitors, it’s super easy to get online after filling in a quick form.

[Illuminated4000]

And I second what Ghost said. I gave up porn and masturbating completely and many things in my life improved dramatically.

[runner in the woods]

As a 60yr old I tried Viagra to see if it helped with hardness, it did to a certain extent. But I find it's how you get on with the whore. If she's friendly and fun, that seems to be the best for me, if a girl is disinterested in the job, no amount of pills helps me. I just have to have HR.

[GreyDave]

   Been using stuff from Kamagra jellies thought to the Cilalis and Sildenafil generic.

Nothing Ive taken has given me as powerful hardness as Kamagra sachet taken about 40mins before when the Sildenafil became avaible cheaply Ive use quite a few diffrent makers of the 100mg type

The pill cut in half seems to either be the bit with all the active ingredent in or if as I keep in an airtight container second bit goes off ie it does not work very well . Cialais 10mg and 20 mg I found I just dont get on with and Ive now gone with 2.5 mg daily cialias in morning and the 50mg Sildena fil in evening or 2hrs before session I dont drink alchool or eat any thing for maxmum effect ,

I have found the less i eat before on dayof punt the better it works I then after punt eat an Orginal German Kebab ( others are avaible ) a Mcy D Quarterpounder or something similar as I am always starving after because of this daft thing was a bit before Christmas I shagged an Asian girl and bumped in to her in the Kebab shop after  ...I did mix the 10mg cialis and sildenafil and gave myself a fright but thats a story ive told on her before Gawd I thought my time was up as I was trying to do a few Soho girls it ended distasteriously for me .

Watch what you eat and drink before hand is my best advice the pills seem to with me feel like they wont work then i get sort of savoly hard 5mins playing then rubber goes on I go in and after 5-10 mins of slow relaxed ploughing I get the full up and am able to continue in diffrent postions changing easyliy and just really enjoying it..To be honest idont think I was as hard as the pills make me when I was in my teens sadly im 64 now

[GCAS9]

  Been using stuff from Kamagra jellies thought to the Cilalis and Sildenafil generic.

Nothing Ive taken has given me as powerful hardness as Kamagra sachet taken about 40mins before when the Sildenafil became avaible cheaply Ive use quite a few diffrent makers of the 100mg type

Who knows what on earth they put in that unregulated Kamagra sachet for you to get such a raging hard-on, you've only got their word for it and no come back to them if anything goes wrong.

You could argue the same is true with the UK products on prescription and over the counter, but that's not true: the UK medicines regulator stipulates conditions, and those legally manufacturing for the UK are obliged to keep audit trails and records to show their production is to standard.

[Garyhart]

SCP is right. If you’re in your 30s and have no underlying health issues, or aren’t super nervous, there really is no reason why you should be having issues getting it up and keeping it that way. We don’t know your physical profile but I can keep it generic and suggest having a good diet, staying physically fit, taking supplements (zinc especially) and keeping stress levels as low as possible.

Again, we know little about you but for your age, going on all those pills to maintain an erection isn’t the norm and shouldn’t be done, unless you’ve got medical issues

[GreyDave]

Who knows what on earth they put in that unregulated Kamagra sachet for you to get such a raging hard-on, you've only got their word for it and no come back to them if anything goes wrong.

You could argue the same is true with the UK products on prescription and over the counter, but that's not true: the UK medicines regulator stipulates conditions, and those legally manufacturing for the UK are obliged to keep audit trails and records to show their production is to standard.

I read that the manufacter of it did a super mix of Sildenfil and Cialis compounds its not legal here But I do recal the company a phamacutcals did make and supply straight generics which were made to licence.

The Kamagra jellies were easy to get in most of the soho shops with the signs outside in many places saying we have... I was a bit disapointed the 1st time I used Viagra as it was A about 5 quid a pill and B just did not give the outstanding boner Kamagra did . I used it at parties and it was just brilliant Steve2 and I were at a Brazlians one together I did 4 girls and was the last man standing so to speak doing a young girl in front of the crowd of lads who had not taken any  it was maybe the best ive felt about punting infront of others