Author Topic: Is it worth it, or just a nightmare?  (Read 2057 times)

Offline Tabbi

What are people’s thoughts on getting into a relationship with a SP, pros and cons?
Has anyone done it before, is anyone currently doing it?

Offline Haderach

What are people’s thoughts on getting into a relationship with a SP, pros and cons?
Has anyone done it before, is anyone currently doing it?

What is your opinion?

Offline Stevelondon

Unanswerable question.

What might work for one person might not work for someone else. 🤷🏼

Offline WelshClipper

Depends on whether you are her soul mate.

Or maybe your Yang to her Yang.

I doubt it is any different to a Tesco checkout girl.

If love blossoms then love blossoms.

On a lighter note, I imagine bedtime reading by Lucious Lola to Lucious Lola Jnr could be quite interesting.  :dancegirl:
« Last Edit: January 17, 2026, 10:11:23 pm by WelshClipper »

Offline southcoastpunter

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op - you are relatively new here so you may not know that this is discussed fairly regularly - more so on the general / national thread than the London thread as its not a regional issue.

 maybe use the search function but also scroll back throw the list of threads - which leads me to say iot is helpful if the thread title contains something which indicates whatr it is about. seeing this thread heading - it could be about anything. sorry if thius sounds like criticism buit it is intended to be helpful advice for the future.

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op - you are relatively new here so you may not know that this is discussed fairly regularly - more so on the general / national thread than the London thread as its not a regional issue.

 maybe use the search function but also scroll back throw the list of threads - which leads me to say iot is helpful if the thread title contains something which indicates whatr it is about. seeing this thread heading - it could be about anything. sorry if thius sounds like criticism buit it is intended to be helpful advice for the future.


I've always hesitated before bumping old threads that have not been posted on for a while. It's not always welcome.

For me the biggest issue is the money SPs charge!  But I wouldn't dare start a new thread on the subject.  But if I bumped an old thread it would only annoy a lot of members and the MODs.


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I've always hesitated before bumping old threads that have not been posted on for a while. It's not always welcome.

not welcome from whom? If its say 3 years old and there are more recent threads, fair enough. if there is no more recent threads then imo, start a new one. again fair enough. but if its say 5 or 6 months old and no more recent threads, again imo, fair enough to comment (bump if you prefer) that one.


For me the biggest issue is the money SPs charge!  But I wouldn't dare start a new thread on the subject.  But if I bumped an old thread it would only annoy a lot of members and the MODs.


Prices are important to most of us - but that topic has been done to death and is one of the most pointless threads as nothing will change, it doesn't give another member any new or useful information and just is yet another moan about something which really is outside of our control. and at a personal level its easy - if you can afford it and if you want to, pay it. if not don't - find someone else or find another hobby, punt less often etc etc

but this thread isn't about that - its about a relationship with a SP which also has been done a number of times, including only a few months ago.

(all this is just my opinion - other members may agree or disagree with me - and thats ok, all personal opinion are just a valid. Obviously if a Mod tell us something, we ought to pay attention to it!)
« Last Edit: January 21, 2026, 03:15:21 pm by southcoastpunter »

Offline Stevelondon

Depends on whether you are her soul mate.

Or maybe your Yang to her Yang.

I doubt it is any different to a Tesco checkout girl.

If love blossoms then love blossoms.

On a lighter note, I imagine bedtime reading by Lucious Lola to Lucious Lola Jnr could be quite interesting.  :dancegirl:

Now come on WelshC…….. I suspect there is always going to be a difference in having a relationship with a SP and a Tesco checkout girl. Even if it is true love.


I’m not saying anything against falling in love with a SP. Love is love after all.

I mean I dated a traffic warden once 🤷🏼

Offline WelshClipper


Now come on WelshC…….. I suspect there is always going to be a difference in having a relationship with a SP and a Tesco checkout girl. Even if it is true love.


I’m not saying anything against falling in love with a SP. Love is love after all.

I mean I dated a traffic warden once


Ok fair enough for the first little while when all is fresh and new the sex might be amazing with the SP.

But equally some of the college students who earn a bit of cash on the check out during term time can be bloody hot.

So I still think eventually love is love  :kissgirl:
« Last Edit: January 22, 2026, 08:35:46 am by WelshClipper »

Offline Stevelondon

The only reason I go to the Tesco near me is because of this blonde lass who works there.
I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. But this lass is gorgeous and as I’ve had the chance to ask her once where the lime pickle was kept. She comes across as being just a lovely young lady.

I’d put her down as a £400/60 at least if she was indie and possibly £500 if a Diva.

Jeez I’ve been punting far too long making those analogies 😱


Offline WelshClipper

The only reason I go to the Tesco near me is because of this blonde lass who works there.
I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. But this lass is gorgeous and as I’ve had the chance to ask her once where the lime pickle was kept. She comes across as being just a lovely young lady.

I’d put her down as a £400/60 at least if she was indie and possibly £500 if a Diva.

Jeez I’ve been punting far too long making those analogies 😱

Don’t get me started on the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. Maybe I should start a thread.  :lol:




Offline Wiggy

Financially - you'd probably need to be relatively well off, considering SPs earning power if good/popular.

Emotionally - I've never gotten the feeling that I would date someone in the industry since it's trauma town

Sexually - Well yeh...

So in my opinion, not worth it but every person is different, and some have obviously worked out but most does not from what I hear.