I'd stop if there was more - and varied - sex in my civvy life. I do get "varied", to some minor extent, but the time between occasions of any sort is way too long. It means that when it does happen, my requests to do something unusual are met with a 'why can't you just be pleased I'm putting out for you' type response. So the few times anal and rimming have taken place stay few!
Luckily I really like doing RO and my OH likes receiving it (she comes like a train from it). But when that happens I have to finish myself off. So I have to choose between vanilla fucking to have a long session or an intense immensely enjoyable short session and finishing with a wank.
Thats classic wimin thinking 'putting out' like they are doing their hubby a favour

Speaking with mates a good number of them are hardly interested is shagging wifey as things are samey, mostly bog standard mish position
Requesting something unusual [i.e. different] is likely to fall on deaf ears
And can lead to things being called off entirely then wait until the next allotted slot is a few weeks / month
Occasionally wifey would amaze them, then a few days later it would be a new car / going on holiday / new flooring etc that gets raised
We coined the phrase bbc [no not that one

] birthdays bank holidays & christmas day
Crikey you pull out all the stops she's chooo chooo then you have to bash yourself off WTF
She could at least wank you off over her tits
Or let you bash it over her tits & it would be unfortunate if there was some mis-aiming a stray cum shot hitting her boat

This might encourage her to take matters into her own hands, so to write