I'm going to do something I should've done before Hayley quit. This post will be hated probably, but I don't care, I need to say it. I will be vague and say so repeatedly, as I don't want any escort to know who is behind this account. This is to make me feel better. I should've blacklisted her much sooner then I did, but no I didn't. I should have said this sooner, but I will explain why I didn't. Yes every word of this is true, and if you don't believe it, sorry your wrong. I swear this is all 100% the truth. My longest post ever.
And no I never wanted to to say this, as Hayley used to be reliable, patient and a damn good escort, who I reviewed positively before. I need to stress this. The old Hayley was absolutely deserving of the glowing feedback she got, until I'd say 2023/2024.
Sadly her attitude really turned bad and really rude towards the end, and I'm not sorry she retired at all. The one thing I wish I did, was give her a negative review. I'm basically doing that now. I wish I never deleted the rude, at best passive aggressive texts she sent me, where she basically all but kept telling me to fuck off. Without actually saying it of course but the tone was very clear. Oh I wish so much I could show you all, I put up with it far longer then I should've, I always responded patiently & as nicely as I could. I was as understanding as I could be, and she kept ignoring it. I did try, I really did.
Like her cancelling a confirmed booking the night before (very late) as she hadn't bothered to check if the incall place was available, as she clearly put it off until the last second, then lied and said she'd re-arrange soon, never does, until I chased her up nicely, she (reluctantly) does so about a month later, then on the day itself acts like she'd cancel again, and like I was lucky to have the booking at all. No Hayley you fucked up and made a massive mistake you needed to make up for, you should've wanted too, as most people would when they make a mistake. You didn't just make a mistake, you screwed up & put it off. When she is the one who cancelled a confirmed booking at the last minute, she messed up, her fault and then doesn't bother doing what she promised. Until I had to chase her up, when on her old blog, she wrote she did the same thing to a different client, that was not being at her Fratton house on a day she confirmed in advance, she admitted she fucked up, and made a point to re-arrange the very next day. Not so with me. How she acts on her blog, is not like she acts in real life I learned. As she publicly said this on her blog at the time, I had every reason to believe, she'd behave that way with me, in the same situation, but nope. I wasn't expecting the next day, but I was excepting her to keep her promise of re-arranging again soon. Lies. I forgave her, but I shouldn't of. I didn't say to her what I said here, because I kept hoping the old reliable Hayley would come back. I'm dumb for that. Also for another reason below.
Also the time when I booked for an hour and she clearly didn't want me there, and kept giving me dirty looks (the type that make you go "if looks could kill") and going through the motions, being rude, short with me, and only once during the whole hour for about 10 seconds did I feel like I was welcome. Her expression softened briefly, and then snap! straight back to being angry, and treating me like crap, looking furious the whole time and making no effort to hide it. 1% effort to hide it, I'd have accepted it. Oh I should've given a neutral for that. I didn't book her for 4 months after that, and gave her 1 last chance, which was gratefully better. Oh the amount of times during bookings she acted like me being there was ruining her day, then why did you accept the booking at all? Just say no Hayley, I always give escorts a chance to do that. She looked angry the second she opened the door, and even her texts that day were again, very passive-aggressive. I came back as Hayley was once a top escort. I wish she stayed like that.
Those are just some examples. Vague on purpose. The reason I didn't give her a negative review on here, was because just after she got her 1st neutral, I booked her, and she took it out on me, and I worried she'd do the same to other clients. I didn't want to be the reason other clients got her stress/bad taken out on them, as no deserves that when paying their money & they've done nothing wrong. I have to be vague here otherwise she'll know who I am. But basically she shouted at me, raised her voice/snapped at me, for something minor I don't ever do, which she is aware of, okay with, and until then understood. After she shouts at me for doing nothing wrong, she quickly changed her tune and said "Sorry I've had a stressful situation recently" so what Hayley? That has nothing to do with me, or any client. I should've said this here at the time, but no I really didn't want to risk causing clients to be shouted at for nothing. If she didn't like having a neutral review, tough don't be rude. She never used to be at all. What happened to her? She started getting more then 1 neutral review around this time, so clearly it wasn't just me she was acting this way too. Which is terrible.
You have no right too take out your bad day on us. Just like we don't. You have a paid for excuse to get out of, and away from your house, & the thing causing you stress which was your escort job. You told me at the time, you didn't live in the houses you worked from, and so that means you had a paid for break away from whatever was happening at your house, and got a fat envelope full of money at the end of it for your trouble.
I compare it to men becoming a Lorry driver, I personally know many of them do it, purely as an excuse to get away from the house, and whatever shit is happening at home, and get paid for it. I've seen this personally in my family, and been spoken to openly about it. I'm saying Hayley and escorts who work away from there home, have the same thing.
I never took my bad mood out on her ever. I have problems in my life sure, some that kept me awake all night and she never got a hint of it, and booking her was just what I needed. I've arrived at hers worried sick, I've arrived furious and never once took it out on her, as I was trying my best to be professional, and a good client. Her service sure did cure my bad mood, a fair few times, so I won't accept her doing taking it out on me lots of times. I explained once why I was in a bad mood but never took it out on her, she agreed with me the person I explained about was rude, and I just said her services would take care of it, which it did. I'd have no right to rant or snap at her, so I didn't, and she doesn't with anyone. Me turning up at hers always calmed me down, as I was about to get some.
Yes hate it when people take things out on me in general, so yes I spend a lot of time on it. I suppose once is excusable, as we're human, but multiple time times? No. Now the part people will jump down my throat for, I know what your thinking Hayley, but I had divorce, and was overwhelmed with University work. So? I don't accept excuse either. Why? Because when I 1st booked her years ago now, long before Covid, she was at Uni and had to lot of work to do, all while juggling being a escort, her family/social life plus whatever relationship she may have been in, and blogged about Uni work at the time, and back then before Covid, never once did she take it out on me, or anyone else judging by her constant positive glowing feedback. If you didn't then, you shouldn't of now. The divorce isn't an excuse either, as I've booked escorts who have are married like Gena, and doubtless they have marriage problems, as every single marriage does, they never took it out on me, and I still can't believe they even told me they were married. Hell back in the pre-Covid times Hayley you never mentioned (Thank God) you were in a relationship, let alone married, to me and as far as I know back then not even on your blog, and there is no way you didn't have problems then either, and yet you stayed professional back then. So sorry talking about your divorce recently just came off as an excuse. I know some here will defend her, but I won't care, this is my personal experience with her.
God I feel better saying all that. Oh yeah. To recap, old Hayley was one of the most reliable, professional and best escorts I'd ever booked, Hayley just before she retired was a rude shadow of herself I kept hoping would come back, but never did. I'm glad we don't have to deal with her anymore.
