Author Topic: What exactly is GFE, and how does it differ from standard service?  (Read 6587 times)

Offline Bounce master

Hi all, mostly a parlour guy here (for now)

What exactly is GFE?

I've noticed on reviews for parlours, especially up North - people are opting for the £15 GFE extra. My understanding this includes OWO (which I'll always take) + GFE (is this kissing)?

I always thought kissing a SP was included as standard with a parlour booking. I know most charge £10 for OWO, but is GFE just the ability to kiss them for £5 extra (making it the GFE)?

I ask this because I'll be visiting a parlour soon. I'd be opting for £10 OWO as default, but I'm wondering what the £15 GFE actually entails.

If kissing is included as standard in bookings, is this just pecs on the lips or full on kissing?

Offline southern punter

It will depend on the parlour and perhaps individual SP.

Where I am, kissing is never included as standard with parlour bookings, the SP will always treat that as an extra.  Usually £20 here but I've been quoted half that or double that occasionally.  Pecks or full on kissing again varies with SP.  OWO is a separate extra and the term GFE is never used in my local parlours.  So you would simply have to clarify what it entails each time to be sure.

Online RandomGuy99

The PuntingWiki says External Link/Members Only

GFE: Girlfriend Experience - an escort experience like being with a real girlfriend. There is no agreed list of services included, but you expect kissing or DFK, oral sex and full sex. It does not include the more adventurous services you would expect from a PSE or fetish services.

Offline marmalade17

As someone who started on this in parlours in the north I've not seen/heard GFE listed as a separate service in a parlour.  Sometimes kissing & OWO are listed as extra but that's all I can think of.  Always better to ask outright if they are important to you and not listed.

On escort adverts I interpret mentions of GFE as saying that they they won't assault you with a porn star experience (PSE) as soon as you step through the door. 

Offline alabama1

With some of the girlfriends i have had over the years, this would be the last box i would tick in the search engine ! lol

Offline littletog

I would be very careful if i see an advert with GFE as an extra, especially on vivastreet as sometimes it could mean BB.

Offline Insideman

i think its criminal to charge extra for kissing

Online southcoastpunter

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i think its criminal to charge extra for kissing

what we think is irrelevant - they can charge what they like for whatever they want to provide. IMO as long as its stated then we can decide to pay that or not. If not just move on and find someone else.

Offline SeekingSteve

GFE is usually no Anal etc and they may ask you to take the bins out or wash up when done  :D

Offline Munter84

I've always considered GFE to be "standard" service (potentially with DFK as a paid extra), whereas PSE would include DT, CIM/COB, A levels if offered, rimming if offered, etc.

If in any doubt best to clarify with the provider/agency ahead of time, or at least before payment.

Online deg_dilemma

what we think is irrelevant - they can charge what they like for whatever they want to provide. IMO as long as its stated then we can decide to pay that or not. If not just move on and find someone else.

I can imagine there will come a time in the not-too-distant future where SPs will charge a base fee say £150 just to be in their company, and then every conceivable request or act will be an add-on. Want to fuck - £50, want oral £30, kiss £20, DFK £30, fingering £30, licking pussy £20, touching breast £20 (each mammary).

It all seems so surreal now that we pay for a 'good time' and none of the fun things are included unless you pay even more!

So the GFE experience actually morphs into the Wife Experience, where you pay for everything but get nothing back.

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GFE is the "come-on" everything-goes behaviour prior to marriage.
After marriage it's replaced by RWE - real wife experience - in which everything you ask or say is answered by a "No".
« Last Edit: November 20, 2025, 06:07:18 pm by scutty brown »

Offline paul_2407

GFE is the "come-on" everything-goes behaviour prior to marriage.
After marriage it's replaced by RWE - real wife experience - in which everything you ask or say is answered by a "No".

 :lol:

Offline pantywetter

It just means kissing, a bit slower, more sensual, more believable.

I dislike any other type of sex and have looked for GFE for 20 years.

I don’t think I’ve ever had a PSE style punt!  Even the more PSE girls I slow them
Down.

It used to be hit and miss finding it, but having upped my rates considerably, doing more due diligence, focussing on Russian/ukranian/Polish and having an eye for the right type of girl I have a really good hit rate.  Because I repeat a lot I think 9 out of 10 of my punts are believable GFE with DFK. 
« Last Edit: November 29, 2025, 07:11:06 pm by pantywetter »

Offline HorseCatDog

I once saw a SP who was so hangover that she begged to me to pop to Tesco and buy some pain killers and avocados for her.

Does that count as GFE?

Offline Stevelondon

I once saw a SP who was so hangover that she begged to me to pop to Tesco and buy some pain killers and avocados for her.

Does that count as GFE?

 :D   A SP I saw once. Messaged me to say it’s easier to park in the large Tesco car park when I come to see her. Two hours free.
I thanked her for the consideration.
She messaged back asking me if I could pick up some wet wipes for her. She said she would knock off a tenner 😂

She did too 🤷🏼

Offline MLawro93

Coming to this thread a bit late, but I'd rather add to an existing conversation than start a new one.

On the parlour question directly: in most places I've been to when I first started punting (haven't been to a parlour in years), GFE as a listed extra usually just means kissing is on the table, sometimes with a bit more warmth and less clock-watching than the standard service. It's rarely a defined bundle. Best to ask outright what's included before you hand over the £15, because it varies wildly between parlours and between individual providers in the same parlour.

The wider point the thread raises is the one I find more interesting though, because even once you've clarified what's on the menu, "GFE" still means slightly different things to different providers, all offered in good faith. My own version is specific. Tactile, hands-on touching. Real eye contact during oral and during sex, closed eyes during penetrative I can't stand, it turns the whole thing into something performed rather than shared. Proper engaged kissing, not the box-ticking kind. And a sense that both people are actually in the room with each other. Without those, the label doesn't fit for me.

The harder part is gauging that standard across different providers. You can read the profile, read the reviews, ask the right questions up front, and still walk out feeling it wasn't quite what you'd pictured. Not because anyone's mis-sold, but because "GFE" is a personal verdict made after the fact, against a benchmark nobody else can see. Reviews only half help, because the reviewer's baseline isn't yours either.

The regulars I do have are an interesting one. None of them tick every box on my list, there's usually something missing, but they hit the mark in other ways that keep me coming back. And when those things slip, that's when it becomes a problem, because they were the whole reason it worked in the first place.

Online RandomGuy99

It depends how pissed off your girlfriend was the last time you had sex.

Offline MLawro93

It depends how pissed off your girlfriend was the last time you had sex.

I did have one slap my balls once. I knew pissing her off earlier in the week would come back to bite me. She stressed it was an accident. I did not believe her.  :lol:

Offline JustaPunter

GFE is usually no Anal etc and they may ask you to take the bins out or wash up when done  :D

That doesn’t sound like Genuine GFE

I thought a genuine GFE was you turn up, she has a pop for being late home and then she make you sleep on the sofa?

Offline Colston36

That is called a marriage, pal.

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……………and then she make you sleep on the sofa?

I used to like sleeping on the sofa, at least I could get a decent nights sleep without the heavy presence.