So, what is the consensus out there - Is this a good or bad thing?
Dont worry I will not be too judgemental as my ex-girlfriend was Amy who used to work at Lavanders and Shanghai Massage in Newcastle. This was the stereotypical bad experience, but at least I have the comfort that none of you reviewed her and so did not get that close. Interesting to hear positive experiences and the red flags. With Amy it was buy me a house.
In general i feel that dating, in any form, a W/G or shop girl is not for the feint hearted or weak willed man
I think as Upsy as already stated. it depends on the definition of dating and in my experiences on the girls nationality too
Over the years i have had and am still having a number of experiences/relationships with WG/massage girls, these are and have been with differing nationalities, below is how i would categorise them
1, Romantic involvement and includes (fee free) sexual activities and participating in social activities together and meeting family membersI have had 4 experiences of this, 2 Thai, 1 Chinese and 1 English, for periods varying between 4 months and 3.5 years
The English girl turned out to be a piss artist and was a fucking nightmare to get shut of
One of the Thais turned out to be a complete nutter, true to form for all the bad reports on coupling up with a Thai, demanding i pay to support her family back home etc etc...bye bye girlie
The other Thai was no pressure at all, older, more mature in every way but she eventually had to return to Thailand for family reasons, this one never asked me for anything, yes i gave, but what i gave and when was always my choice, had circumstances being different then i would have gone with her, unfortunately i had elderly/ill parents and could not go with her, we kept in touch for a few years but by the time covid hit we were quite distant, shame really
The Chinese girl started off really good but by the time we hit 3 months she started to ask to get married, we just made 4 months when i made it quite clear that if we ever got to that point it would be at least 2, maybe 3 years down the road, her attitude suddenly changed so off she went...
2, Fee free sexual activities, some socialising but with an understanding that this is a no strings involvementI currently have this with 2 girls, one Thai and one HK Chinese, the Thai is married but comes to stay at mine when she is visiting friends in my area, known her years, she is an ex massage girl whom married a rich guy whom forbid her to continue working and covers all her expenses both here and back home, she reckons he doesnt fuck her right and the only free time she gets is when she visits friends in and around the W & S yorks area, he cannot put up with too many Thais together so she gets a free pass out and visits me on the way to her pals...
The Chinese girl is a tourer but usually massage shops, occasionally if she finds she is in my area but is either without a shop to go work or is wanting a few days off she will come stay with me
We do go out to eat and attend events as we may wish
Neither ask or expect anything from me, obviously if we go out i generally pay for food and drink, but not always and both girls act as though we are an item when we are together
This set up is perfect for me, and i usually see both girls 3 sometimes 4 times over a year, fortunately i have never had any clash of dates with either
Participating in social activities but sexual activities comes at a cost (bit like being married...lol)
I have had this sort of thing with 3 Thais, generally the social activities usually means we go out to eat and drink at my expense, with all 3 girls i would have the shop door fee to pay (if i went to the shop where they were working but would have no charge for extras) but then we would go out for food at my expense...usually more costly than the extras...lol
Out of hours meets, no social activities but reduced fees for sexual activitiesI have experienced this many times and currently have this with 2 Thai massage girls, 1 legit the other not so legit, with both these i usually get a couple of hours or more of their time when staying at a hotel, Leeds and Newcastle, and our agreement is that they leave when they are ready and take a small pre agreed fee
I have also mant times, experienced a mx of virtually all of the above, starts of as one thing then leads to another then another
