Do local WGs see local punters

[Jujy78]

Probably more of a question to an SP. Do any WGs that work in the same area they live in or work in there own homes see local punters.

I ask because I used to see a regular about 15 years ago. I remember when I first made an appointment she phoned me to size me up. I was honest and I told her what area I live in which was literally 2 mins drive from her.

She said she didn't want to see me as I was too local. I convinced her by saying we're both professionals I don't see the problem. If by chance we were to bump into each other outside we can just ignore eachother or nod a hello. She agreed, we got on really well and I used to see her atleast twice a month. As she was so close and I needed an itch I'd just message her any time of the day and if she was free I'd turn up even in my peejays. Saw her for over a year it was all going good until she saw me in a public place. We just walked past eachother and I was with a family member we smiled at eachother and just exchanged a hi. That was it. But after that day she stopped answering my calls. When I went to her AW profile she put down she doesn't see people of certain colour which eliminated me. I did wonder if that was for me. I saw her again at the hospital in the waiting area but this time we both ignored eachother.

Anyway years later post lockdown I decided to message her and try my luck she actually replied we met did the deed chatted for a bit and left. Before leaving she said don't make it too lot this time which suggested she wanted me to come back. She put her price up since then which is understandable but the service wasn't as good as before so didn't see VFM hence never went back again.

I messaged her again this week to meet her and the response was positive so hopefully see her again and see if I can spark the old times.

But all this made me wonder do some local SPs that work from there own homes hesitate to see locals specially in small towns or villages where bumping into each other is inevitable.

[lewisjones23]

Have met WG from my area working in my area with no issues and I've had issues with WG working in my area not wanting to see punters from my area

To me it is a bit thick of a WG to work from a certain area and then be surprised when punters from that area attempt to book her.

Twice I've been outside a hotel and had to do a screening call, on which I've had to downplay any discretion issues, as it turned out one punt was fantastic and the other one, in hindsight, I wouldn't have been that bothered if she'd have decided not to go ahead.

I've also booked a WG that was working close on 60 miles away who turned out to live less than 10 minutes from me, we didn't know until we got in the room and spoke a bit, no issued caused from that and haven't bumped in to her anywhere

[MissWolf]

simple answer is yes, I have a fair amount of regulars who live within a 10 to 15 mile radius of me, in a rural location it would be difficult to survive without local regular's

[myothernameis]

I have known around 6 escorts who stayed locally to me, and one of them went to the same school, and year as me

Out of the five escorts I have seen, three of them I have had bookings with them.  One of these escorts have seen a few times, and it was the one I was at school with, and we got on fine

[Garyhart]

I have known around 6 escorts who stayed locally to me, and one of them went to the same school, and year as me

Out of the five escorts I have seen, three of them I have had bookings with them.  One of these escorts have seen a few times, and it was the one I was at school with, and we got on fine

You’re a very brave man I must say - I’d fear being outed or discussed among our mutual connections more than anything. 

[OakTree]

I had a WG I’d booked two or three times miles from where I live actually live in the same town as me. We crossed paths a number of times, in the gym, supermarket, wherever. We both just ignored each other. I never let on to her and she didn’t let on to me. It’s the best way.

[anglianfloyd]

About 15 years ago I contacted a Craigslist escort advertising in  my home town , the address was within 200meters of my home address which is central City and I assumed she was a touring girl , I was wrong  I actually knew the girl sort of as she drank in a pub I frequented and needed money for Xmas (single mum), not wanting to deprive her kids of that I decided to go ahead with the booking , she only worked for about a four week spell but I saw her a couple of times , for the next few years when our paths passed we merely exchanged a subtle smile , sadly she never worked as an escort again whilst living in the city before getting married and moving away ; true shame as she still rates as one of my all time best punts .

[gentlemencaller]

When I first started punting over 3 years ago my first punt was a girl a couple of miles away in the same town. Later started to see another who lived walking distance away. Actually bumped into her while I was walking the dog and she was put jogging. She shouted hi as she passed me. So I would say no hard and fast rule. Some might not like it on their own doorstep. Some might find it a turn on. Not perhaps good for the punter if they are cheating on their other half

[BrixtonBrewers]

You’re a very brave man I must say - I’d fear being outed or discussed among our mutual connections more than anything.

Yeah this is terrifying. Especially as she probably doesn't care about being outed herself if she's choosing to stay local.

[gentlemencaller]

simple answer is yes, I have a fair amount of regulars who live within a 10 to 15 mile radius of me, in a rural location it would be difficult to survive without local regular's

Crikey, my idea of local is within a couple of miles!!

[MissWolf]

Yeah this is terrifying. Especially as she probably doesn't care about being outed herself if she's choosing to stay local.

I'm sorry but that is absolute bollox

I live and work in the same small town as I escort from, I am very discreet as I don't want to be outed or to cause my neighbors any issues, I've lived and worked from this house for ten years and all of my neighbors still chat to me.

Its not all about city living and working, just because some of us don't live in huge conurbations doesn't make us careless or stupid

[MissWolf]

Crikey, my idea of local is within a couple of miles!!

I do have a couple of regs who are within that kind of distance but as I said I'm reasonably rural so for me 15 miles is local 

[BrixtonBrewers]

I'm sorry but that is absolute bollox

I live and work in the same small town as I escort from, I am very discreet as I don't want to be outed or to cause my neighbors any issues, I've lived and worked from this house for ten years and all of my neighbors still chat to me.

Its not all about city living and working, just because some of us don't live in huge conurbations doesn't make us careless or stupid

Is it the same town you grew up in? Do you have clients who were in the same school in the same year as you like the person i was referring to? 

[MissWolf]

Is it the same town you grew up in? Do you have clients who were in the same school in the same year as you like the person i was referring to?

Its the same town and yes I've had people I know walk through the door

You however never referred to someone you had been in school with, you nearly replied to someone who had replied to the person who originally brought it up

[BrixtonBrewers]

Its the same town and yes I've had people I know walk through the door

Fair enough. I didn't say anyone was careless or stupid though.

[MissWolf]

Fair enough. I didn't say anyone was careless or stupid though.

You said ' she probably doesn't care' that implies she is careless or would be with a clients need for discretion, for me that would also imply stupidity but if I'm wrong I will withdraw that word.

[BrixtonBrewers]

You said ' she probably doesn't care' that implies she is careless or would be with a clients need for discretion, for me that would also imply stupidity but if I'm wrong I will withdraw that word.

Ok I see what you mean now. Sorry I suppose I did imply they'd more likely be careless with a clients need for discretion, Nothing to do with intelligence/stupidity though.

There's still obviously more chance that they would tell someone they know about a client than if they kept that part of their lives a secret and avoided seeing people who could out them. Most escorts I've had these conversations with would refuse to do a booking with anyone they recognise let alone somebody the same age that they went to school with, it's just so likely the client would tell mutual friends etc.

[Longshot]

Theres a few adverts near me which say "no locals" or words to that effect but if i was desparate to see her i simply wouldnt divulge my personal address. In the pre/post coital chat if askedi never say which toen i actually live in.

[Strawberry]

Depends.

Depends how close, do our lives cross, how they behave and communicate.

[MissWolf]

Depends.

Depends how close, do our lives cross, how they behave and communicate.

Absolutely this Ruth

To assume someone is obviously more careless with discretion just because they work from home and see local clients is madness and feels a little like trying to create drama for dramas sake.
My close friends know what I do, as do my family and those I feel need to know, but that doesn't mean I am more likely to out a a client who I know in civvie life 

I once had a guy i'd known in school turn up at my door, at the time he was doing some building work on one of my families houses lol, he was a bit surprised,  so we sat down with a cuppa for a chat, nothing happened and I didn't charge him, but said that if he could get his head around it and wanted to continue another day I was fine with that, 6 weeks later we had a fantastic booking.
I've never seen him again other than bumping into him and his misses when out, we said hi like we always did and nobody has ever been the wiser, did I tell anyone...no, did I rush and tell my family member....no.

[MissWolf]

Ok I see what you mean now. Sorry I suppose I did imply they'd more likely be careless with a clients need for discretion, Nothing to do with intelligence/stupidity though.

There's still obviously more chance that they would tell someone they know about a client than if they kept that part of their lives a secret and avoided seeing people who could out them. Most escorts I've had these conversations with would refuse to do a booking with anyone they recognise let alone somebody the same age that they went to school with, it's just so likely the client would tell mutual friends etc.

Again you are making assumptions and trying to imply that somebody who is open about there job will play fast and loose with client information,  I have never discussed individual clients with any of my friends and family and revealed who a client is.
I have talked in general terms about what I do though and occasionally about individual acts or bookings but never who that booking was with, its possible to discuss a subject without revealing an identity exactly the same as talking about stuff that goes on in a regular civvies job.

It's funny and of course im only a sample of one, but in ten years of escorting I can't recall this subject coming up in conversation with a client in post coital chat more that a handful of times and those were with people who were local and I knew   

I've had 2 people try to out me or threaten to out me in that time, neither of them were local, make of that what you want.

[Strawberry]

Before I moved location, I had a repeat client (seen twice, made more bookings but always cancelled). He was very concerned about discretion, no-one must know. After moving he contacted me again, discussed making a booking but never followed through. My new location was much closer to his home. Imagine my surprise when one day he shouted my working name across a public place, I ignored him, he repeated the name. I went to speak to him, told him that isn't my name do you realise you are being indiscrete. Then he asked can he make a booking?To maintain my privacy I didn't then proceed to my destination, I took a detour. I have also learned he has likely been very difficult, behaved unacceptably with other SPs.

I also bumped into a client in a civvy situation in a city, he couldn't place me, stopped, stared, asked me how he knew me. He was in his professional role, I just stood and didn't say anything, very conscious of the precarity of the situation. Then the penny dropped for him "Ah different to see you here, good to see you are well", then we walked on.

Another incident walking past a pub someone I had seen years ago, once again different location addressed me by working name. He later emailed to apologise. I pointed out if the man next to him had viewed my profile he had possibly just outed himself.

BUT I have had clients from far away be indiscrete too, I suspect they feel safe away from home. Also some just do not realise what being indiscrete means. I have asked new outcall clients to avoid asking 'Have you travelled far' if we meet outside or in a hotel reception.

I have other tales but for me it's punters who pose the risk and why if someone is immediately local I weigh everything up, but equally I give discretion advice to anyone no matter how near or far.

[Massage Bloke]

I lived in various areas of London until 2001.  The first thing I would do in a new area  would be check the back of the local newspaper, find the brothels, give them a ring, and visit.  After I knew the address, I would just drop by when in the mood, no phone call needed. There was always one or two brothels within about 20 minutes walk.

Moved to rural East Sussex in 2001 and the nearest town had two long established brothels, and it was the same MO as in London. But they've gone now. I used to sometimes see the SPs around and about, no drama.  One SP would use the scales in Boots the chemist to weigh herself almost every day. Sometimes I'd see her and she'd stick her tongue out at me!

[Jujy78]

Before I moved location, I had a repeat client (seen twice, made more bookings but always cancelled). He was very concerned about discretion, no-one must know. After moving he contacted me again, discussed making a booking but never followed through. My new location was much closer to his home. Imagine my surprise when one day he shouted my working name across a public place, I ignored him, he repeated the name. I went to speak to him, told him that isn't my name do you realise you are being indiscrete. Then he asked can he make a booking?To maintain my privacy I didn't then proceed to my destination, I took a detour. I have also learned he has likely been very difficult, behaved unacceptably with other SPs.

I also bumped into a client in a civvy situation in a city, he couldn't place me, stopped, stared, asked me how he knew me. He was in his professional role, I just stood and didn't say anything, very conscious of the precarity of the situation. Then the penny dropped for him "Ah different to see you here, good to see you are well", then we walked on.

Another incident walking past a pub someone I had seen years ago, once again different location addressed me by working name. He later emailed to apologise. I pointed out if the man next to him had viewed my profile he had possibly just outed himself.

BUT I have had clients from far away be indiscrete too, I suspect they feel safe away from home. Also some just do not realise what being indiscrete means. I have asked new outcall clients to avoid asking 'Have you travelled far' if we meet outside or in a hotel reception.

I have other tales but for me it's punters who pose the risk and why if someone is immediately local I weigh everything up, but equally I give discretion advice to anyone no matter how near or far.

My rule is to totally blank eachother, but if I see them very often to the point that we've built a mutual relationship where we talk about our personal lives whilst in a meet then I think a hi or a nod wouldn't do no harm even if I had my partner with me.

Slightly off topic but with age I don't like seeing random WGs anymore I like to see someone I know if that makes sense.  When I was young I used to lie about my age what I do where I live etc just for the sake of it as I was single so nothing to hide anyway. As I was just init for the sex. Nowadays I need a bit more than that the conversation I have matters hence I don't hide the fact that I have a family etc I've always trusted them as they tend to have families and kids too.

It's strange as this was the first time I saw a WG outside of a punt not once but twice and it's the first time someone asked me if I was local and what area I lived in, initially refusing. I have seen about 2 more locals around that time quiet regularly they never asked and I never saw them around either.

[Stevelondon]

I have known around 6 escorts who stayed locally to me, and one of them went to the same school, and year as me

Out of the five escorts I have seen, three of them I have had bookings with them.  One of these escorts have seen a few times, and it was the one I was at school with, and we got on fine

Oh you lucky bugger.
I always wanted to shag my music teacher. 

[Jujy78]

I lived in various areas of London until 2001.  The first thing I would do in a new area  would be check the back of the local newspaper, find the brothels, give them a ring, and visit.  After I knew the address, I would just drop by when in the mood, no phone call needed. There was always one or two brothels within about 20 minutes walk.

Moved to rural East Sussex in 2001 and the nearest town had two long established brothels, and it was the same MO as in London. But they've gone now. I used to sometimes see the SPs around and about, no drama.  One SP would use the scales in Boots the chemist to weigh herself almost every day. Sometimes I'd see her and she'd stick her tongue out at me!

I'm from London too moved out in 2005. Around 2001 there was a brothel in bayswater that I used to go to very often and yes you didn't have to phone again once you were in, and go anytime you felt like.

But as mentioned above just sex with a WG doesn't do it for me well sometimes it does but I crave for a regular local that I can talk to as well 😂 then it doesn't feel like I'm paying for sex and seems a bit more natural. There's not many locals where I am currently and just lots of tourers working in apartments or flats.

[big-al93]

Crikey, my idea of local is within a couple of miles!!

If I restricted myself to a couple of miles I'd never see anyone. My closest escort is 5-6 miles away, there is a limited offering within 15-20 miles and it's fairly normal for me to drive in excess of an hour to find someone I want to see. not uncommon to be 3 hours.

[gentlemencaller]

Personally I don't drive so my normal is outcall to me. Not used the local 2 for at least 2 years. My regular is about 16 miles away and my 2nd choice is around 5 miles away. Anyone else would probably involve train journey to Manchester or Liverpool. There is a VS b&s near to me I have used but only if nothing else. The women are nice looking but just a lot older than claimed.

[Thephoenix]

This is starting to sound a bit like 'The League Of Gentlemen' 

[davey.edwards1969]

I guess this question is aimed at Miss Wolf and Strawberry

Why do you think any girl would want to post a full face picture on their profile ??
Seems madness to me !!

[Strawberry]

I guess this question is aimed at Miss Wolf and Strawberry

Why do you think any girl would want to post a full face picture on their profile ??
Seems madness to me !!

If you mean an adult service provider, you'd need to ask the provider -  it may depend on a combination of individual, specific factors. The important thing is that it is the choice of the provider.

[MissWolf]

I guess this question is aimed at Miss Wolf and Strawberry

Why do you think any girl would want to post a full face picture on their profile ??
Seems madness to me !!

Pretty much as Strawberry has said, it depends on the individual sex worker and their marketing model. A face picture doesn't necessarily mean they are indiscreet just that they have made that choice and decided that benefits to their business of having a face picture outweigh the risks of displaying a full face picture, or that's my take on it, but its just a guess really.

[Malvolio]

I guess this question is aimed at Miss Wolf and Strawberry

Why do you think any girl would want to post a full face picture on their profile ??
Seems madness to me !!

In order to get more business

[Colston36]

This is about as intelligent a question as "is the pope a catholic?"

[Maak]

I like to keep the 2 worlds separate. I always punt 10+ miles away from my town. I only visit locally when its touring WGs only.

[davey.edwards1969]

In order to get more business

Maybe so - but surely it comes at a high price ?

[daviemac]

Maybe so - but surely it comes at a high price ?

A high price for who?  You can't judge others based on your situation.

It would make absolutely no difference to me if I were outed as a punter, perhaps the SPs who post face pics are the same.   

[paul_tall_]

I like to keep the 2 worlds separate. I always punt 10+ miles away from my town. I only visit locally when its touring WGs only.

How did you come up with 10 miles plus ? And same for anyone that has a minimum distance from home , work etc . If you are concerned to be seen in public going into a building by someone you know then there is always a chance someone you know may see you. Obviously other ends of the country is different but can happen.
If it’s because you are concerned you might bump into the girl , I would suggest there’s a chance they don’t live in the place they are working from and they are highly unlikely to tell you those details . Based on a couple of posts above and from chatting with girls I have met it’s us guys that are way less discreet

[Strawberry]

How did you come up with 10 miles plus ? And same for anyone that has a minimum distance from home , work etc . If you are concerned to be seen in public going into a building by someone you know then there is always a chance someone you know may see you. Obviously other ends of the country is different but can happen.
If it’s because you are concerned you might bump into the girl , I would suggest there’s a chance they don’t live in the place they are working from and they are highly unlikely to tell you those details . Based on a couple of posts above and from chatting with girls I have met it’s us guys that are way less discreet

I've bumped into clients 50 miles away, 25 miles away, one was upset that he didn't notice me, I've never actually seen him when I'm in the town he lives in even when I lived there.

A localish repeat client ran up behind to me in the main street,  when I was obviously walking and talking to someone 'Ruth, Ruth'.

Did not see anything wrong in approaching me like that, and wasn't the only difficulty I had with him.

On the other hand many would not ever dream of behaving like this, and some people have very different lives - do not socialise or go out in the area they live in. When a punter/new client asks me about discretion I explain it works both ways.

[GreyDave]

  Ive seen service providers in HMO about 100yards or a 2min walk away they were grat as I could call and ask "Free ?" and pop arond quickly I saw them in local shops and streets and we would just nod /smile .
Once with my OH one noded and smiled and my OH asked how I knew her I was honest and said she lives around corner often see her around ...Ive bumped in to quite a few of the WGs ive seen over years when ive been working on places close to them the last ones were some chinese girls in local sainsburys they cheekly asked if i was going to cum and see them in the flat now sadly closed.

  to give other supermarkets a shout I bumped in to Chelsea of Harlow in the Coop there we chatted about weather as we waited to be served ...annoyinly i wasnt able to see her that day she no longer works.
I saw and spoke breifly after she saw i was alone reglary to Kerry when I saw her in John Lewis waitrose section again both gone 

[Massage Bloke]

Ruth, if you're around, was it you who posted somewhere about a punter walking up a flight of stairs to the apartment while cheeerully waving a wad of bank notes? 

It really made me laugh 

[Strawberry]

Ruth, if you're around, was it you who posted somewhere about a punter walking up a flight of stairs to the apartment while cheeerully waving a wad of bank notes? 

It really made me laugh 

Yes and he wasn't the only one, literally bounded up the stairs waving a wad of notes- and as I was opening the apartment door loudly exclaimed "Hello Ruth". This was a small apartment block, not a huge anonymous city style property. Quite a few both there and elsewhere have bounded down the stairs, or walked away shouting back 'Thank you Ruth for a wonderful time'. Sometimes this was done by punters who said they are discrete, discretion is important to them. A long-term regular did this after doing something very wrong in the booking(plus quite a few bumbles/leeway given over a long time/multiple mistakes), he was so busy being apologetic anxious he'd really put his foot in it, shouted back on leaving. Yes this was someone who had been historically very nervous about anyone even noticing him, seeing him, were passers by watching... I eventually started including discretion tips when I acknowledge/confirm an incall booking, - for outcall it's things like is there any parking, is the house number visible, heating on, towel and soap in bathroom appreciated (quite a few seem to hide these things).

I have quite a few tales, including hedge man.

[Massage Bloke]

Yes and he wasn't the only one, literally bounded up the stairs waving a wad of notes- and as I was opening the apartment door loudly exclaimed "Hello Ruth". This was a small apartment block, not a huge anonymous city style property. Quite a few both there and elsewhere have bounded down the stairs, or walked away shouting back 'Thank you Ruth for a wonderful time'. Sometimes this was done by punters who said they are discrete, discretion is important to them. A long-term regular did this after doing something very wrong in the booking(plus quite a few bumbles/leeway given over a long time/multiple mistakes), he was so busy being apologetic anxious he'd really put his foot in it, shouted back on leaving. Yes this was someone who had been historically very nervous about anyone even noticing him, seeing him, were passers by watching... I eventually started including discretion tips when I acknowledge/confirm an incall booking, - for outcall it's things like is there any parking, is the house number visible, heating on, towel and soap in bathroom appreciated (quite a few seem to hide these things).

I have quite a few tales, including hedge man.

I feel bad for laughing!

I was going to make a joke about "Hedge Man" trimming a bush, but I had better not. 

[Bonker]

I'm gasping with surprise at these accounts of indiscretion.

How badly some people behave!

[Strawberry]

I'm gasping with surprise at these accounts of indiscretion.

How badly some people behave!

"Hello Ruth I'm outside number doodah, I'm 25 minutes early just to let you know" said loudly even after I'd given my discretion tips, obviously can depend on the location but it definitely was indiscrete.

Parcel arriving Ruth written in large letters on the front, once again this isn't middle of an anonymous city.

This was someone who'd travelled a significant distance, there isn't a pattern regards local, not local, 5 miles, 10 miles, 50 miles.

When providing guidance I explain "It's not because I think you are indiscrete, it's because when I don't provide this, well meaning, intelligent, discretion seeking individuals do these things".

Even some experienced punters.

I think I digress, but it's not all roses.

[Mr Sinister]

About 15 years ago I contacted a Craigslist escort advertising in  my home town , the address was within 200meters of my home address which is central City and I assumed she was a touring girl , I was wrong  I actually knew the girl sort of as she drank in a pub I frequented and needed money for Xmas (single mum), not wanting to deprive her kids of that I decided to go ahead with the booking , she only worked for about a four week spell but I saw her a couple of times , for the next few years when our paths passed we merely exchanged a subtle smile , sadly she never worked as an escort again whilst living in the city before getting married and moving away ; true shame as she still rates as one of my all time best punts .

CL has been a platform over the years for civvies to jump on to make quick money selling their wares. Had an on and off spell with it.

When I first started punting used to be really paranoid about punting too close to home, nowadays I prefer it just for the convenience, there was a wg who operated a couple of minutes away from me I used to go plough her regularly. Was the best especially when days working from home I would nip out for a cheeky punt.

[Bonker]

I guess when you block them they find out what it's like to be Ruthless. And no cream with their strawberry.

Good, what awful puns. I can't believe that I wrote that.

[Bebebelle]

I see a huge amount of clients that are very local to me, lots within a 5 miles radius but definitely a few that are within walking distance to me. Others are 3 or more hrs drive away.  It doesn’t bother me if they are very local to me, sometimes it’s easier as they can turn up for short notice bookings within 15 mins. I have seen clients out and about locally although it’s very rarely but if I do then I always look the other way and walk straight on past them as you never know if they have a wife nearby. It’s been clients that have been indiscreet to me that has been an issue. I’ve had 2 approach me in supermarkets , one saying very loudly that he’ll call me later to make a booking for next week and the other coming up using my working name and asking how busy I’ve be en that week, all in front of my daughter but thankfully my family know what I do so wasn’t really a problem. Another one approached me in a restaurant and even introduced me to his elderly father !  If clients and SP’s all stuck to the same principle of blanking each other if out in public then it wouldn’t be such an issue.

[Strawberry]

I guess when you block them they find out what it's like to be Ruthless. And no cream with their strawberry.

Good, what awful puns. I can't believe that I wrote that.

One I don't think ever intended going ahead with another booking, he had faffed around, wasting my time for years. The other greeted me again in public, yes I ignored him but why should I have to then alter my route?. Blocking sounds easy, but it's not always simple.

[macman26]

Going to depends where about in the country you live if you live in a big city I don't think it's really much of a problem but if you live in the outskirts in the countryside, do you think carefully...

This is happened about three or four times to me; people working that I've used their discover their friends of friends on Facebook. The first time it did freak me out a bit, this woman pops up which four days earlier I was deep inside her vag and she was good friends and posting commenting on good friends of mine lol.. oh shit just got to relax and not worry

And there's been about three other incidents like this.

Next of bumping into people, but they will be more embarrassed than you are trust me when I have bumped into people once or twice smile, and they ignore you or smile back a little.

But it does take time to be hardened up to it. you've just got to remember they have got a lot more to lose than you have even if your married .