I've grown so used to Escorts, now I want to pimp my wife

[adiroy9k]

I am new here and wanted to introduce and share my situation. I've been punting for over 25 years. Infact, I lost my virginity to an Italian escort and have only had sex with two girls who were not escorts - my ex gf and my wife. Now, I've got to a point where just visitig an escort doesnt give me the same kick as it used to before and I've developed a new craze lately. I wan to share my wife with other men and watch. So much so, I've taken her to swinger clubs a lot of times and she is submissive so she is giving it a fair shot to embrace this lifestyle (she is Indian so she has her cultural limitations). Has this happened to anyone else?

[daviemac]

Read the rules mate.

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BTW pimps are NOT welcome on here, if you want advice on how to be a pimp look elsewhere.

[adiroy9k]

Apols again, not pimping but sharing. She is coming around to the idea too. Its not swinging exactly. But okay, I'll be careful..

[daviemac]

Apols again, not pimping but sharing. She is coming around to the idea too. Its not swinging exactly. But okay, I'll be careful..

"now I want to pimp my wife" is what you said, what else can that mean but you want to pimp your wife out to paying punters.

[adiroy9k]

can't edit or remove my post, but would sharing without paying be okay? I just have a craze to see her with other men. no payment involved. no pimping. Apols again

[daviemac]

can't edit or remove my post, but would sharing without paying be okay? I just have a craze to see her with other men. no payment involved. no pimping. Apols again

You have no way of arranging anything like that on here, I honestly think you have the totally wrong idea about this site. We are here to share information on paid for sexual encounters for the benefit of all members.

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[daviemac]

The only thing I can suggest is you and her set up an Adultwork profile in her name and advertise the service you want, ie she takes bookings with you watching.

[adiroy9k]

thanks, thats cool. I'll find a different platform to talk about her and explore that side, I am also a very regular punter so still useful to be here in the company of fellow punters. Just out of curiosity - if we did create an AW profile, would it be okay to share the profile here and talk about it saying she is actually my mrs? apols if its a strange request but really curious about what others think about her.

[daviemac]

thanks, thats cool. I'll find a different platform to talk about her and explore that side, I am also a very regular punter so still useful to be here in the company of fellow punters. Just out of curiosity - if we did create an AW profile, would it be okay to share the profile here and talk about it saying she is actually my mrs? apols if its a strange request but really curious about what others think about her.

Mate you really need to reread the rules you scrolled past on the sign-up page, pimps are not welcome here and we do NOT allow them to advertise and members promoting or advertising on behalf of escorts get banned.

Link to the rules at the bottom of every page.

[DastardlyDick]

If you do decide to put your missus on AW, I would get legal advice first - there are all sorts of legalities involved, to give one example, if you don't own your home, most tenancy agreements exclude "immoral activity" and, if found out, lead to eviction.

[adiroy9k]

dont think I'd go down that route. Its a fantasy and there are other ways to play it, she is opening up so will explore those avenues. I didnt actually mean to make her an escort, its the fantasy I was talking about but get it, its not welcomed here so wont discuss and will discuss elsewhere where this is ok

[Colston36]

The only thing I can suggest is you and her set up an Adultwork profile in her name and advertise the service you want, ie she takes bookings with you watching.

Very good advice! And agreeably perverse.

[myothernameis]

Just out of curiosity - if we did create an AW profile

Biggest question, is you wife OK with this, and does she know what is involved, and can she handle all the going on of an escort

[adiroy9k]

She knows I want to share her, not to make money but as its a fantasy. I thought I'd find people here to satisfy that side of our life but clearly wrong assumption, but my thinking was if people here are paying for sex, surely they would not mind getting it for free and be involved in our fantasy.. but creating a AW profile for her and actually doing it is far fetched. its not what was in our minds.

[MissWolf]

Im sorry but WTF have I just read....

I want
She's submissive
She's coming round to the idea
I take her to swinging clubs
She's giving it a good shot
She knows I WANT to share her........but what does she actually want 

You just sound like a selfish prick who wants what he wants no matter the other parties feelings. She is of a culture where you do as your husband tells you, she may absolutely hate it but is too afraid to say no.

[adiroy9k]

thats not the case, we live in a modern society and she isnt obliged to do anything she doesnt want. Its just that I have experience (being a punter) and she does not and so I want her to expand her sexual horizon and she is willing and keen but just want to take it slow. Not sure why everyone is now coming after me, I said I wont discuss this topic here, let it go and Ill stick to the rules

[Punterperson1971]

Im sorry but WTF have I just read....

I want
She's submissive
She's coming round to the idea
I take her to swinging clubs
She's giving it a good shot
She knows I WANT to share her........but what does she actually want 

You just sound like a selfish prick who wants what he wants no matter the other parties feelings. She is of a culture where you do as your husband tells you, she may absolutely hate it but is too afraid to say no.

Good point

[WelshClipper]

thats not the case, we live in a modern society and she isnt obliged to do anything she doesnt want. Its just that I have experience (being a punter) and she does not and so I want her to expand her sexual horizon and she is willing and keen but just want to take it slow. Not sure why everyone is now coming after me, I said I wont discuss this topic here, let it go and Ill stick to the rules

My only thought is how can you ever be sure this is what your wife wants.

I’ve been married 50 years and I still can’t get inside my wife’s head.

If she is saying yes just please you, all sorts of bad things manifest themselves.

Be careful what you wish for 

[Ghost89]

This screams of coercive control and looks and sounds sinister.

[GCAS9]

thanks, thats cool. I'll find a different platform to talk about her and explore that side

Speaking of which, you may find fetlife, the fetish community website, could be more in line with your "exploration"

[MissWolf]

This screams of coercive control and looks and sounds sinister.

Not just me then

[myothernameis]

Not sure why everyone is now coming after me

When you post this into thread title, what did you expect us to say.  And like many member when joining ukpunting, they dont think through what there going to post, and dont check the rules, on this subject

I want to pimp my wife

[davey.edwards1969]

Assume that the OP is genuine and that his wife is truly interested in "Broadening her sexual horizons " then I have 2 suggestions

Depending on where they are located they could try this

External Link/Members Only

Where amateur couples / single females are welcome - he could either attend as a single male and his wife could go as a single female or they could make it known that they were a couple

Alternatively I would say arrange for her to have a trial shift at a local brothel
Speaking to the receptionist at my regular haunt they often get girls who have never worked before wanting to have a trial shift - some stay on afterwards and some don't return
It should be possible for you to wait in reception and it sounds like you will get a kick out of watching her take men into the room - some guys will even be happy for you to go in and watch them fucking your wife - and of course there is the added bonus of her earning a few quid

if it doesn't work out then it's only a day and you can put it behind you as a one off experience !!!

[sparkus]

Joining the thread as I just know it's going to be one of the UKP classics.

FWIW I suspect OP is merely flying a kite on a public forum for an internalised fantasy and hasn't even discussed it with his wife. 

[davey.edwards1969]

Joining the thread as I just know it's going to be one of the UKP classics.

FWIW I suspect OP is merely flying a kite on a public forum for an internalised fantasy and hasn't even discussed it with his wife.

Yeh - I think you might be right
Don't really know why I wasted 5 minutes of my life replying with suggestions 

[spiralnotebook]

Surely it’s not half term already?

[adiroy9k]

Thank you for those who replied with suggestions and I can understand those who are skeptical. Few things from me again - neither one of us is a saint here plus my wife and I have attended over 12 parties at Le Boudiour and are also chatting and having calls with fellow members of that club. She is by nature shy but that doesnt mean she doesnt have needs and doesnt need a rope from her husband to try something different. She works and is an independent woman so the day she decides this isnt the direction she wants to go, she can call it a game and no matter how much I desire, I'll have to abide

As for the use if word pimp, I've apologised profusely before and I apologise again. I earn enough to be punting for last 20 years so dont need money by doing this for my wife, I explained that my wife and I need someone who we can trust but not form emotional connection with, just pure physical, sexual fun and whilst yes, she doesnt know about my punting habits (that I confess guilty of) I thought, it takes one to get to know another and I felt, a punter who does this regularly would be the safest bet rather than finding someone who might prey on our sexperiment. Guys please, I am new here but not new who has this fantasy, dared to discuss with my wife, and she open to trying it but want to go slowly so dont judge and let it be now!

[Doc Holliday]

Thank you for those who replied with suggestions and I can understand those who are skeptical. Few things from me again - neither one of us is a saint here plus my wife and I have attended over 12 parties at Le Boudiour and are also chatting and having calls with fellow members of that club. She is by nature shy but that doesnt mean she doesnt have needs and doesnt need a rope from her husband to try something different. She works and is an independent woman so the day she decides this isnt the direction she wants to go, she can call it a game and no matter how much I desire, I'll have to abide

As for the use if word pimp, I've apologised profusely before and I apologise again. I earn enough to be punting for last 20 years so dont need money by doing this for my wife, I explained that my wife and I need someone who we can trust but not form emotional connection with, just pure physical, sexual fun and whilst yes, she doesnt know about my punting habits (that I confess guilty of) I thought, it takes one to get to know another and I felt, a punter who does this regularly would be the safest bet rather than finding someone who might prey on our sexperiment. Guys please, I am new here but not new who has this fantasy, dared to discuss with my wife, and she open to trying it but want to go slowly so dont judge and let it be now!

So to be clear, the pimp scenario is just a fantasy? It is role play where you are a pimp and your wife an SP and a 'punter' books her?

No real money exchanges hands?

[adiroy9k]

So to be clear, the pimp scenario is just a fantasy? It is role play where you are a pimp and your wife an SP and a 'punter' books her?

No real money exchanges hands?

Exactly, yes, thank you! Its not even going to be 'book her' as she'd not want to be treated like that. It'll most likely be a pre-arranged social meet, get to know, some comfort, some chemistry, then she can take you to a place, she'll be in charge, I'll be watching - but I guess that also comes under swinging scene so won't even ask for that here. More like cuckold and hotwifing! I made a bad choice of words as I didn't read the rules.

[jimbobted]

Im sorry but WTF have I just read....

I want
She's submissive
She's coming round to the idea
I take her to swinging clubs
She's giving it a good shot
She knows I WANT to share her........but what does she actually want 

You just sound like a selfish prick who wants what he wants no matter the other parties feelings. She is of a culture where you do as your husband tells you, she may absolutely hate it but is too afraid to say no.

Agree 100%.
There was a reasonably well reviewed lady who I saw a couple of times and I couldn't work out why she had given up a professional career to go into porn and escorting.
Long story short, she was married to someone just like OP and one day she had an epiphany. That guy doesn't have a wife or his kids any more.

[Doc Holliday]

Exactly, yes, thank you! Its not even going to be 'book her' as she'd not want to be treated like that. It'll most likely be a pre-arranged social meet, get to know, some comfort, some chemistry, then she can take you to a place, she'll be in charge, I'll be watching - but I guess that also comes under swinging scene so won't even ask for that here. More like cuckold and hotwifing! I made a bad choice of words as I didn't read the rules.

Thanks for clarifying. This would just be an extension of your swinging. You can arrange an escort roleplay meeting with someone on that basis.

That person would be best sought via some of your swinging contacts. You don't need someone who is a real punter. It would add little to the meet, just potentially raise other unnecessary complications.

As such and as Davie said initially, it is not a subject for this forum.

[adiroy9k]

Got it, and thanks for understanding. Will not raise it again here. I'll keep this place to share and learn about my punting experience whilst exploring sexuality elsewhere.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Im sorry but WTF have I just read....

I want
She's submissive
She's coming round to the idea
I take her to swinging clubs
She's giving it a good shot
She knows I WANT to share her........but what does she actually want 

You just sound like a selfish prick who wants what he wants no matter the other parties feelings. She is of a culture where you do as your husband tells you, she may absolutely hate it but is too afraid to say no.

100% this!

OP you just sound a wrong-en

[sparkus]

Surely it’s not half term already?

A couple of years time and he can legally marry. That'll be some wedding night.

[sparkus]

Thank you for those who replied with suggestions and I can understand those who are skeptical. Few things from me again - neither one of us is a saint here plus my wife and I have attended over 12 parties at Le Boudiour and are also chatting and having calls with fellow members of that club. She is by nature shy but that doesnt mean she doesnt have needs and doesnt need a rope from her husband to try something different. She works and is an independent woman so the day she decides this isnt the direction she wants to go, she can call it a game and no matter how much I desire, I'll have to abide

As for the use if word pimp, I've apologised profusely before and I apologise again. I earn enough to be punting for last 20 years so dont need money by doing this for my wife, I explained that my wife and I need someone who we can trust but not form emotional connection with, just pure physical, sexual fun and whilst yes, she doesnt know about my punting habits (that I confess guilty of) I thought, it takes one to get to know another and I felt, a punter who does this regularly would be the safest bet rather than finding someone who might prey on our sexperiment. Guys please, I am new here but not new who has this fantasy, dared to discuss with my wife, and she open to trying it but want to go slowly so dont judge and let it be now!

No no, don't row back. Get yourself a 1970s Iceberg Slim outfit, jewellery and car to match. Like Eddie Murphy in the cells in Trading Places.

I suppose I've seen worse. On FB recently someone posted a gloating pic of his wife's rack on their wedding anniversary (the group is very nonsexual).

[finn5555]

Got it, and thanks for understanding. Will not raise it again here. I'll keep this place to share and learn about my punting experience whilst exploring sexuality elsewhere.

Do you have a relative called gurds by any chance 

[RedKettle]

Do you have a relative called gurds by any chance 

That made me laugh. 

[Colston36]

100% this!

OP you just sound a wrong-en

Of course if she likes the idea, wonderful.

[Sinnerman10]

Do you have a relative called gurds by any chance 

One fucked the best looking girl in England BB
And the other wants to pimp his wife   

 

[hendrix]

One fucked the best looking girl in England BB
And the other wants to pimp his wife   

 

Maybe the "best looking girl in England" is the OP's wife.

[sparkus]

Pimp My Bride could work as a reality show reboot concept.

Though Tim Westwood probably wouldn't get rehired by MTV for it.

[mrwhite]

Is it half term again already?

[DouglasReynholm]

Pimp My Bride could work as a reality show reboot concept.

Though Tim Westwood probably wouldn't get rehired by MTV for it.

Don't you worry, the BBC employs dozens of sex offenders ready to take up the slack where he left off. None will ever be as great as Sir Jimmy of course.

Is it half term again already?

This guy's no inbetweener. Nor does he have a wife, mind you.

[Qwerty786]

I’d be interesting OP ban me

[MLawro93]

Some weird threads being started these days. Entertaining to read, but do have to question the people writing down such nonsense. 

[sparkus]

Some weird threads being started these days. Entertaining to read, but do have to question the people writing down such nonsense. 

Especially as their first contribution to the forum

[Colston36]

I just noticed you have never used an escort, or certainly not reviewed one, and may have no first hand experience of what you want her to do. Why not put your arse up for sale so as to have greater understanding?

[LLPunting]

I just noticed you have never used an escort, or certainly not reviewed one, and may have no first hand experience of what you want her to do. Why not put your arse up for sale so as to have greater understanding?

Are Hampstead Heath and Clapham Common still the best places for this?

[MissWolf]

I just noticed you have never used an escort, or certainly not reviewed one, and may have no first hand experience of what you want her to do. Why not put your arse up for sale so as to have greater understanding?

In his op he says he has been punting for 25 years but only just joined the forum so he can hire his wife out...

[daviemac]

I’d be interesting OP ban me

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