LolaWild XXX - West London - Ghosted

[Deeplove]

Hi All

So i had a urge to see Alex for a while now.

Decided to send a text and go for it, she couldn't make it the week before and promised to not let me down again, she messaged me she can do the week of the meet.

I sent her a text a few hours ealier, even confirmed lunch time of the day, it was all agreed and i had the cash out as well.

Sent her a text at 9pm i am ready to leave and will be there at 10pm, as i got closer to her place and knew something was a drift, so decided to message her again, but no reply, i thought she may have a booking for the hour before and would message me as soon as it was complete at 10pm.

I waited and waited as i really want to have some fun, was ghosted in the end and left very disappointed and waste of fuel for my 18 mile journey each way.

Time to move on from her now.

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[Dock]

Thanks for the review OP; she's someone i've had on my HL for a while and is someone i want to see but the constant late starts and whats happened to you (Twice now) always make me go elsewhere...Its a shame cos i know once you do get to see her the meet will be like no other but the issues you have to face to get to that point just make it not worthwhile

[Deeplove]

I know

I would love to write positive review of her again but I am just tired of this behaviour now.

Just need to find someone as good as her elsewhere.

[Dock]

I know

I would love to write positive review of her again but I am just tired of this behaviour now.

Just need to find someone as good as her elsewhere.

Good luck, if you do manage to would love to know myself

[jamiekinkxxx]

The arrogance / disrespect of her is shocking.

Not the 1st and will not be the last time she is either hours late or ghosts someone

[MLawro93]

No surprises here. She has form for just ghosting people. No idea why 

[The_Don]

was ghosted in the end

She got form for that 

waste of fuel for my 18 mile journey each way.

Not only a cost but time as well 

[patelprat]

Sorry OP. What a time waster she seems to be.

but personally i'd not have set off without getting a reply from her to your 19:22 message.

[harryhavanagh]

OP there are some mistakes in your communication.  Hopefully these observations help. Girls like that take anything said with a pinch of salt. So when you said between 9-10pm, to her 10pm is fine. Even though it's not technically "between".

Second, you asked her to confirm 9pm then confirmed 9pm yourself in some sort of weird reverse confirmation, then set off. Seems bizarre? Probably little head thinking.

I know an escort that is a friend of hers and that escort said to me "She is so bad at time keeping, but the guys just keep on coming."

So we support her behaviour by taking it. If we all didn't she'd change. At the moment, she has no need to.

[Mstar86]

Way too much back and forth imo.

Vague times to the point she had to ask you what exact time you wanted.

No confirmation before setting off.


I get that she may be rubbish at timekeeping but I can’t blame her entirely here

[patelprat]

Agree, OP should not have travelled without first receiving a confirmation/reply to his 19:22 message in my opinion.

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And agree, his comms could have been clearer - initially giving a one hour time window and not an exact time could automatically put doubts in an escort's mind from the start.

[SonofAJohn]

Way too much back and forth imo.

Vague times to the point she had to ask you what exact time you wanted.

No confirmation before setting off.


I get that she may be rubbish at timekeeping but I can’t blame her entirely here

She invited the back and forth by messing the guy around the week before.
If she was actually professional she would be calling him and waiting with her phone ready to make up for what happened last week.
He probably was anxiously excited and you can't fight that feeling when messaging an escort to arrange a booking. No matter how contrarion or stoic you think you are as a man.

[Mstar86]

Agree, OP should not have travelled without first receiving a confirmation/reply to his 19:22 message in my opinion.

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And agree, his comms could have been clearer - initially giving a one hour time window and not an exact time could automatically put doubts in an escort's mind from the start.

I do know it’s annoying if the travel time is an hour & the SP isn’t replying so you need to set off just in case she messages in 10/20/30mins to say it’s still on.

But ghosting is just plain rude and unprofessional so understand the red negative

[Deeplove]

OP there are some mistakes in your communication.  Hopefully these observations help. Girls like that take anything said with a pinch of salt. So when you said between 9-10pm, to her 10pm is fine. Even though it's not technically "between".

Second, you asked her to confirm 9pm then confirmed 9pm yourself in some sort of weird reverse confirmation, then set off. Seems bizarre? Probably little head thinking.

I know an escort that is a friend of hers and that escort said to me "She is so bad at time keeping, but the guys just keep on coming."

So we support her behaviour by taking it. If we all didn't she'd change. At the moment, she has no need to.

Thank you, taken fully on board but after missing out on the week before I was really desperate to see her.
I was probably thinking she will message any minute now, I didn't want it to come to 10pm, she's ready and I'm still 40 mins away, I was probably more worried about her waiting for me than me waiting for her.

Id probably leave her a couple of months and hope she has managed her time better.

[Steve2]

Id probably leave her a couple of months and hope she has managed her time better.

Are you sure that's a good idea?

[harryhavanagh]

I think this discussion about the causes of the negative are valid.

And it's not going to change anything. There are just too many guys. I have a feeling that there are so many that want to see her that her messages are overflowing. If she doesn't see you, she's seeing someone else. Remember, she has been doing this since about 2009 (a post by Dr Toad saying her saw her then). Imagine the clientele backlog she has.

What I find interesting is that her time keeping and booking management is so bad that she has to go onto Maxes. Thing is, she is the same price on Maxes as on AW. And Max takes 100 quid per booking (33%!!). So her own lack of ability to manage clients herself is hurting her income significantly.

So I don't think any of this is personal. She's just REALLY bad at this for some reason. I mean, if she didn't have a pussy, she'd probably be destitute. 

[LonMan99]

Is it ok to reveal private messages like this online to people without permission?!!!

[salazar]

I think this discussion about the causes of the negative are valid.

And it's not going to change anything. There are just too many guys. I have a feeling that there are so many that want to see her that her messages are overflowing. If she doesn't see you, she's seeing someone else. Remember, she has been doing this since about 2009 (a post by Dr Toad saying her saw her then). Imagine the clientele backlog she has.

What I find interesting is that her time keeping and booking management is so bad that she has to go onto Maxes. Thing is, she is the same price on Maxes as on AW. And Max takes 100 quid per booking (33%!!). So her own lack of ability to manage clients herself is hurting her income significantly.

So I don't think any of this is personal. She's just REALLY bad at this for some reason. I mean, if she didn't have a pussy, she'd probably be destitute. 

I'm not going to argue how long, how well or much she's doing this but if she's that inundated just up your prices! I don't think the dusty phone applies to her. And if she has such a huge overflow of clients (I suppose she is that good), get a PA, ffs! I remember Rebecca More had one for escorting and I suppose for porn work too.

[harryhavanagh]

I'm not going to argue how long, how well or much she's doing this but if she's that inundated just up your prices! I don't think the dusty phone applies to her. And if she has such a huge overflow of clients (I suppose she is that good), get a PA, ffs! I remember Rebecca More had one for escorting and I suppose for porn work too.

You just entered the discussion. 

PA or not, she clearly has a line of men around the corner and makes enough money that she doesn't feel she needs to change.

[jamiekinkxxx]

You just entered the discussion. 

PA or not, she clearly has a line of men around the corner and makes enough money that she doesn't feel she needs to change.

... and that say everything anyone ever needs to know about her really. Shocking

[patelprat]

OP were there any more messages eg next day after the ghosting? Any further comms from her??

Have you tried to find the reason?

[Deeplove]

OP were there any more messages eg next day after the ghosting? Any further comms from her??

Have you tried to find the reason?

I asked her the next day :

What happened yesterday, I am letting last night go but would like an explanation

no reply via WhatsApp, and only 1 tick, she's blocked me

[Massage Bloke]

Are you sure that's a good idea?

LOL..  I had a mental image of Sgt Wilson saying: "Do think that's wise, sir?  to Captain Mainwaring. 

[GCAS9]

I asked her the next day :

What happened yesterday, I am letting last night go but would like an explanation

no reply via WhatsApp, and only 1 tick, she's blocked me

This message can potentially be perceived as confrontational, even threatening: she might be thinking, "he's letting last night go, but what would happen if he gets wound up by something else I do wrong / mess up on?  Will I be safe?" and so blocked you so she can be on her safe side.

We have no idea why she's ghosted you, maybe she's had some issue or emergency, maybe she got alarmed by your message, maybe she's just too busy or unprofessional.  Whatever the reason you just need to take it as it is and move on as:
she's under no obligation to meet you any more than you are obligated to meet her,
nor does she owe you an explanation (as courteous and professional that would be), not even with having promised to see you the first time the booking failed.

If you're still concerned, curious or find yourself in this situation again, try sending
 
Hope everything is ok? Didn't hear back from you for our arranged time?

 and just leave it at that for the person to respond.

[harryhavanagh]

AW profile now gone.

Wonder if it was something we said? 

Still available on Max's.

[Insideman]

shame on you lola.

[Snipper]

A member of my family suffers from quite severe ADHD and her timekeeping is abysmal. I wonder if that explains some of Lola's behaviour.

[SI-Marker]

This message can potentially be perceived as confrontational, even threatening: she might be thinking, "he's letting last night go, but what would happen if he gets wound up by something else I do wrong / mess up on?  Will I be safe?" and so blocked you so she can be on her safe side.

We have no idea why she's ghosted you, maybe she's had some issue or emergency, maybe she got alarmed by your message, maybe she's just too busy or unprofessional.  Whatever the reason you just need to take it as it is and move on as:
she's under no obligation to meet you any more than you are obligated to meet her,
nor does she owe you an explanation (as courteous and professional that would be), not even with having promised to see you the first time the booking failed.

If you're still concerned, curious or find yourself in this situation again, try sending
 
Hope everything is ok? Didn't hear back from you for our arranged time?

 and just leave it at that for the person to respond.

She will have blocked before the message was sent, which is why there’s only one tick….. That is, if he’s been blocked. Having deleted her AW profile, she probably stopped using her working number now too and relies in communication from whoever at Maxes. So her old working phones WhatsApp account is probably one ticking everyone.

A member of my family suffers from quite severe ADHD and her timekeeping is abysmal. I wonder if that explains some of Lola's behaviour.

On a side note, I suffer with ADHD, but have learnt to manage many aspects of it in life, but it can be terribly debilitating. I used to be late all the time, financially disorganised and chasing life. When I first met Alex many years ago, we compared notes and laughed at the chaos we live in, but the reality is it is hugely overwhelming if you don’t seek help and learn how to manage it. I suspect this is possibly one reason she can be unreliable, rather than she’s arrogant or doesn’t care…..

[harryhavanagh]

On a side note, I suffer with ADHD, but have learnt to manage many aspects of it in life, but it can be terribly debilitating. I used to be late all the time, financially disorganised and chasing life. When I first met Alex many years ago, we compared notes and laughed at the chaos we live in, but the reality is it is hugely overwhelming if you don’t seek help and learn how to manage it. I suspect this is possibly one reason she can be unreliable, rather than she’s arrogant or doesn’t care…..

That's assuming that ADHD is the only thing that causes these issues. I am not going to go into specifics, but whether she has ADHD or not, she doesn't help herself in the slightest.

[harryhavanagh]

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Although she doesn't do escort, webcam or phone chat. Somehow, I don't believe her. 

[Urban83]

Ive booked her for next week - my long awaited return! Although I suspect it will be a let down and a solo wank instead.

[Bartolomeo]

Ive booked her for next week - my long awaited return! Although I suspect it will be a let down and a solo wank instead.

I saw her couple weeks ago. Had no issues myself, so hopefully same for you

[Clarence Boddicker]

I remember seeing Lola twice a few years ago, both times I was bit disappointed, tbh I think she was just too full on for me, but to others that could be easily seen as a testament as opposed to a criticism and I certainly wouldn't  argue with that. I have actually start to think theres often a correlation between bad communication and a great service, a couple of SPs who I think of as industry blue chip providers have the poor comms including Whiteswan and Sasha, philosophically I think sometimes you have to just accept the potential disappointment.   

[Urban83]

I have had the 30mins late message despite her confirming with me this morning around 8am that we are still on. Decided to wait 10mins then its game over and a neg report coming.  No plan B either so its a solo wank

[JAH]

I've always had my eye on this one as I'm a big fan of a PSE anal based meet and have been fortunate enough to tick off some of the big names in London (Miss KDD, AQ1, Kandyfun etc) but I watched a couple of her videos a couple of nights ago and I don't think i'd touch her with a 10 foot barge pole.

I don't often get the ick from a bird but her fingernails in some of these clips look like shes just got in from a shift down the mines and I feel like i'd need to wash myself with Dettol after shagging her. I love a dirty bitch as much as the next man but I think she takes dirty a bit too literally. Add in the fact that she doesn't seem to give a shit about messing a client about and I definitely wont be going near. Each to their own but its a solid NO from me