I don't want to Punt....

[Pompoy123]

However... I can't seem to find myself a girlfriend and need sex. I'm not a totally ugly git and even dated a model in my youth but I kind of feel like I've lost my Mojo.

any of you guys feel the same or offer tips to help with Mojo??

[cockneybstrd]

Pompoy Old Chap

You should have banged that bird the other night. You might have got some of your mojo back.

[Pompoy123]

I know mate but it was the work thing.

[hendrix]

If you don't want to punt...aren't you posting in the worst possible place? You'll just be reading about the good punts and wishing it was you

Mojo is all in the head, as you know. If you go out looking for a girlfriend, that comes across as desperation which is never attractive. Go out, enjoy your life, talk to people, and the rest will follow.

[Pompoy123]

Thanks Hendrix for advice. Feeling a bit horny now so gonna arrange a 30 min at Oasis for you Wandsworth

[hendrix]

Thanks Hendrix for advice. Feeling a bit horny now so gonna arrange a 30 min at Oasis for you Wandsworth

That's the spirit! 

[SmackmaBitchUp]

Go see Charlie she'll sort that shit out for you!


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[385North]

What is your reason for not wanting to punt, if you don't mind me asking?

[Pompoy123]

What is your reason for not wanting to punt, if you don't mind me asking?

I want to have a girlfriend plus not spend money on whores lol

[dilettante]

Well searching for "psychiatrist" on AW didn't return a single result - though a fair few might be said to be "shrinks" from the effect they'll otherwise have on you ...

[Closet freak]

I want to have a girlfriend plus not spend money on whores lol

Personally I don't want a girlfriend & I don't mind spending my money on whores 


I'm far to busy & selfish to fuck around in a new relationship 

[StPunt]

whores are cheaper in the long run and they dont nag you to do the dishes

[Ben4454]

Ask them out. Simple as that. 

Tips to help with your mojo: Start putting yourself first before women. Asking for 'tips' on your mojo is already self-defeating. Your mojo is already working fine. Social skills are a muscle you just need to get it back in shape.

Oh and definitely stay away from all that weird advice on line about picking up women. The more you read about trying to get women the more you lose your ability to attract them why ? - with all that research you are subconsciously creating a needy vibe and it will reflect in your interactions.

In conclusion - Socialise more and start putting yourself first before women. Trust me your mojo will come back with fire.

[x369]

However... I can't seem to find myself a girlfriend and need sex. I'm not a totally ugly git and even dated a model in my youth but I kind of feel like I've lost my Mojo.

any of you guys feel the same or offer tips to help with Mojo??

Tricky situation if you don't go out on a regular basis, if your solely going out to "Pull" then your just adding pressure to yourself, you need to just get out and enjoy yourself.

Do you read ?

I only ask because if you do there's loads of literature out there that can help, depending on what aspect you find difficult, i.e. approach anxiety or what to open with, have a look at  External Link/Members Only she's on uTube as well also have a look at Neil Strauss they have tutorials.

Really just before Christmas is a bad time of the year to get a new girlfriend, best to just get out there where the office parties are and enjoy the atmosphere, aim for a new girlfriend in the New Year and avoid any expensive Xmas pressies.

[Ben4454]

Tricky situation if you don't go out on a regular basis, if your solely going out to "Pull" then your just adding pressure to yourself, you need to just get out and enjoy yourself.

Do you read ?

I only ask because if you do there's loads of literature out there that can help, depending on what aspect you find difficult, i.e. approach anxiety or what to open with, have a look at  External Link/Members Only she's on uTube as well also have a look at Neil Strauss they have tutorials.

Really just before Christmas is a bad time of the year to get a new girlfriend, best to just get out there where the office parties are and enjoy the atmosphere, aim for a new girlfriend in the New Year and avoid any expensive Xmas pressies.

I agree with everything but your advice on Neil Strauss and Kezia Noble. Reading about how to pick up women will just turn you weird and socially needy. Trust me i've been there - over 8 years doing it.

Kezia Noble never had any thing good to say about picking up women that works.

Neil Strauss uses Mystery Method and using opinion openers to pick up women. Completely out dated and useless.

[Happylad]

I want to have a girlfriend plus not spend money on whores lol

So what the fuck is he doing here? He`d be better off on a "Lonely Hearts" Forum

[StPunt]

unless kezia noble is on adultwork i aint interested

[x369]

I agree with everything but your advice on Neil Strauss and Kezia Noble. Reading about how to pick up women will just turn you weird and socially needy. Trust me i've been there - over 8 years doing it.

Kezia Noble never had any thing good to say about picking up women that works.

Neil Strauss uses Mystery Method and using opinion openers to pick up women. Completely out dated and useless.

Thing is going out looking for women not being prepared what to say to them or even how to approach them can make you feel nervous and awkward. At least by following examples of how to approach women in general in day to day life and how to start up some form of conversation is going to leave him feeling worse.

Take the rules of the game at least it gives you some ammunition to talk to people in general, I spent three years inside and other than the screws which you really don't want to pull there was no female interaction.

Its a tuff ask to go out and pull from day one.

[Ben4454]

The problem with learning 'lines' and techniques is what do you say after that line or technique ? If you do not have the confidence to make up your own line then you won't have the confidence to follow through after your pick up lines.
Women are not stupid. Asking them opinions and trying to act like you're not interested when you're interested (mystery method) is covering up your intentions and women know this.

A large abundance of pick up artists I met could never  hold relationships with women. Why ? Because all of the techniques and lines they learnt gave the woman the impression of a cool guy but when they ran out of material their real self was shining through (Mystery Method)

Did you ever see the Strauss infield footage or the Mystery infield footage? The guy could barely pick up an ugly chick. You see him at the end of the night partying with a over 40 ugly milf.

The problems with these pick up techniques is they subconsciously place the woman above you and to generate attraction wouldn't it just be better to assume equal value from the get go?

If you follow their advice you'll find women have already heard all of these corny pick up lines and negs and you'll just get laughed at in your face.

This is pre-2005 dating advice.

[SamLP]

Just don't use the pick up line: If you were a prostitute I would pay top dollar to fuck you. It might not go down so well.

[Pompoy123]

Tricky situation if you don't go out on a regular basis, if your solely going out to "Pull" then your just adding pressure to yourself, you need to just get out and enjoy yourself.

Do you read ?

I only ask because if you do there's loads of literature out there that can help, depending on what aspect you find difficult, i.e. approach anxiety or what to open with, have a look at  External Link/Members Only she's on uTube as well also have a look at Neil Strauss they have tutorials.

Really just before Christmas is a bad time of the year to get a new girlfriend, best to just get out there where the office parties are and enjoy the atmosphere, aim for a new girlfriend in the New Year and avoid any expensive Xmas pressies.

Just watched this clip and spent it looking at her tits lol

[StPunt]

its not wise asking for dating advice on a forum for men who pay for sex.

[Sir Knumbskull]

its not wise asking for dating advice on a forum for men who pay for sex.

This.

[kidpoontang]

I want to have a girlfriend plus not spend money on whores lol

It's more expensive that way

[Toshiba]

Simple advice, keep off here, join plenty of fish, if you cant score on there become a vicar