Plan b and canceling...

[Milfman1112]

Just a thought,
Everyone says about having a plan b for if plan a fall through,
But what if plan a happens,
You will need to cancel plab at short notice....
Surely this will get you listed as canceling at last minute and a bad reputation?
As I said just a thought.

[alabama1]

Just a thought,
Everyone says about having a plan b for if plan a fall through,
But what if plan a happens,
You will need to cancel plab at short notice....
Surely this will get you listed as canceling at last minute and a bad reputation?
As I said just a thought.

What you are doing is double booking. There is a big difference. No wonder more WG's are asking for deposits 

[puntingking]

Just a thought,
Everyone says about having a plan b for if plan a fall through,
But what if plan a happens,
You will need to cancel plab at short notice....
Surely this will get you listed as canceling at last minute and a bad reputation?
As I said just a thought.

what would you do if a sex worker cancels on you because her "plan a punter" turns up?

Never double book.

having a Plan B means having another sp on standby just in case plan A cancels on you.

For example - you may have a plan B set up in close distance from plan A location and you are ready to contact plan B if plan A is a no show. 

I would have no sympathy for sex workers who are also time wasters but there are the majority of sps who value your time and theirs to not waste each other time. It would be a shame you to cancel someone just because your first plan worked out. That would be unfair on her as she most likely would not have double booked you in in her schedule.

[puntingking]

What you are doing is double booking. There is a big difference. No wonder more WG's are asking for deposits 

+1
I just saw this and I actually agree with alabama1 on this occasion.

[Upsndowns79]

It’s not something I’ve necessarily done as I’ve (touch wood) never been ghosted but I’d always assumed plan b to be a theoretical thing about knowing what girls maybe available in the area should plan a let you down.

This may involve an enquiry by text if a girl is working or request for a price list or a message to a shop/parlour to enquire who’s working.

That was always my assumption. Double booking would end up been an own goal for sure.

[B4bcock]

My Plan B is usually a parlour.  If Plan A looks like it could go wrong, I check out which ladies are working at the local parlours that day to make sure there is a good choice.  Then, if Plan A goes tits, either I go straight to the chosen parlour or, if there is a particular lovely I want to see, I make a quick phone call to arrange a time for a meeting with her.

[Munter84]

To echo the above - having a Plan B doesn't mean simultaneously contact two SPs and choose one preferentially if they both get back to you. It means, if Girl A isn't available, then try Girl B. Messing SPs around like that gives you, and by association the rest of us, a bad name, which in turn encourages them to up the ante with deposits, AW feedback, and all the other speed-bumps to having an uncomplicated shag. Please don't do it.

What sometimes happens is I contact Girl A, radio silence, I shoot out a hopeful message to Girl B, and then both A and B reply in quick succession. What to do then? I just judge it on a case by case basis weighing up wheree I am geographically and how much I want to see each. Possibly I will then prioritise Girl B as I can justifiably tell A "sorry, i didn't hear so made other plans", I still feel a bit guilty whatever the decision though. As another poster mentioned, a walk-in parlour makes a suitable Plan B.

[WelshClipper]

Rarely happens for me nowadays as I punt short notice usually an area where there is plenty of choice.

You don’t book plan B until plan A fails but good to have her details in your phone and a rough location off of adultwork

 

[Milfman1112]

What you are doing is double booking. There is a big difference. No wonder more WG's are asking for deposits 

Read the question,
Just a thought as everyone talks about plan a/b,
Never double booked, never had too.

[Milfman1112]

what would you do if a sex worker cancels on you because her "plan a punter" turns up?

Never double book.

having a Plan B means having another sp on standby just in case plan A cancels on you.

For example - you may have a plan B set up in close distance from plan A location and you are ready to contact plan B if plan A is a no show. 

I would have no sympathy for sex workers who are also time wasters but there are the majority of sps who value your time and theirs to not waste each other time. It would be a shame you to cancel someone just because your first plan worked out. That would be unfair on her as she most likely would not have double booked you in in her schedule.

Thank you,
That explains things
As mentioned to alabama I never double book, just didn't understand how it works.

[Milfman1112]

To echo the above - having a Plan B doesn't mean simultaneously contact two SPs and choose one preferentially if they both get back to you. It means, if Girl A isn't available, then try Girl B. Messing SPs around like that gives you, and by association the rest of us, a bad name, which in turn encourages them to up the ante with deposits, AW feedback, and all the other speed-bumps to having an uncomplicated shag. Please don't do it.

What sometimes happens is I contact Girl A, radio silence, I shoot out a hopeful message to Girl B, and then both A and B reply in quick succession. What to do then? I just judge it on a case by case basis weighing up wheree I am geographically and how much I want to see each. Possibly I will then prioritise Girl B as I can justifiably tell A "sorry, i didn't hear so made other plans", I still feel a bit guilty whatever the decision though. As another poster mentioned, a walk-in parlour makes a suitable Plan B.

Great explanation,
Thanks

[alabama1]

Thank you,
That explains things
As mentioned to alabama I never double book, just didn't understand how it works.

It's not rocket science OP, just common sense. Even a newbie ( which you aren't), could figure out 'how it works'

[puntingking]

Thank you,

 

[Milfman1112]

It's not rocket science OP, just common sense. Even a newbie ( which you aren't), could figure out 'how it works'

Or understand the question,
Thanks for your helpful insight.   

[Mstar86]

Or understand the question,
Thanks for your helpful insight.   

Touché 

[Milfman1112]

Touché 

 

[Fuzzyduck]

Or understand the question,
Thanks for your helpful insight.   

Why the snarkiness?
Perhaps if you (and Alabama to be fair) used the word "would" instead of "will", you might have avoided the miscommunication. Everyone is on the same page here regarding plan Bs.

[Milfman1112]

Why the snarkiness?
Perhaps if you (and Alabama to be fair) used the word "would" instead of "will", you might have avoided the miscommunication. Everyone is on the same page here regarding plan Bs.

Agreed,
Woke up in a bsd mood...
My bad,
Sorry

[Milfman1112]

Agreed,
Woke up in a bad mood...
My bad,
Sorry

bsd...?
Meant bad

[RedKettle]

bsd...?
Meant bad

Personally I thought the initial responses were way too aggressive, it was obvious what you meant. We should encourage questions, people only know what they know.  My suggestion is ignore those that get off on swinging their dicks around and concentrate instead on getting an attractive WG to take yours in.

[myothernameis]

Around 15 years back, made myself a list of escorts wanted to see, and around 8 of them.

Sat morning send them all a message, to arrange a booking, and made them aware looking at other escorts.  4 escorts replied with vairing times they were available to book

Made my choice and headed for booking with escort

[Chazz]

Personally I thought the initial responses were way too aggressive, it was obvious what you meant. We should encourage questions, people only know what they know.  My suggestion is ignore those that get off on swinging their dicks around and concentrate instead on getting an attractive WG to take yours in.

Wise words indeed RK. May I also congratulate you on your recent century. 

[RedKettle]

Wise words indeed RK. May I also congratulate you on your recent century. 

Thanks - trying to set my 101 up!! 

[Fuzzyduck]

Agreed,
Woke up in a bsd mood...
My bad,
Sorry

[Jujy78]

To me a plan b means a regular that you can usually see at short notice or in a desperate attempt wizzing through VS and AW see if anyone available at short notice. Happened to me few months back arranged to see an SP as I was in the area she told me to call after 7pm. Called her and got no response. Had the itch and I know a local that usually works all ours in the area dropped her a call and within 20mins she was sucking my cock

[Massage Bloke]

To me a plan b means a regular that you can usually see at short notice or in a desperate attempt wizzing through VS and AW see if anyone available at short notice. Happened to me few months back arranged to see an SP as I was in the area she told me to call after 7pm. Called her and got no response. Had the itch and I know a local that usually works all ours in the area dropped her a call and within 20mins she was sucking my cock

Plan B is a desperate attempt to salvage something from the wreckage of dissapointment.

We are primed, ready to go, and really looking forward to the meet, and can't face the let down when it's called off/not going to happen.

In that respect we haven't grown-up and are still little boys.

As a kid I always loved being taken to a fair that used to set-up a couple of times a year, on a local recreation ground. But in case it was pouring with rain, my parents always had a Plan B ready to activate, which involved a trip to the pictures and the local Wimpy Bar!

[Demon8]

I think I've had a plan B work maybe once for me, even then calling her a plan B is a stretch as its a separation of around 4 hours. Always been disappointed and left feeling like I should have just saved the money.


As for planning/cancelling, never go further than the initial feeler message unless you seriously intend on meeting her. I've been out and thought I fancied a punt, send out a few messages, get some back, only ever engage with one. Except once where it turns out she was a few miles away and I couldn't make it in time. Explained to her and all was good.

[snaitram99]

I had a plan A which was to see a Thai masseuse who currently only works Saturdays. When I called to confirm I was told she wasn't working that day, for a reason which sounded genuine. No plan B planned, so didn't cast around in panic, saved money, aiming to go for a Chinese  this week instead.