Booking an hour but getting rushed .

[stapl3s]

I'm not deluding myself into thinking that the person providing the service really enjoys my company but all too often I've booked an hour only to be rushed through the process. It's a transactional relationship and both parties have agreed in principle to spend alloted time together engaged in sexual/erotic activity. By sexual I don't mean banging away for 60 mins. I have a problem when I get a vibe that a service provider doesn't want to engage further and I won't pressure them because this is where consent ends in my view. I'd rather walk out the door early than engage further with any possibility of having put someone under duress. When I read some of the reviews also I really do wonder who us writing them. The experience rarely matches the service from what I've read. Are people pushing the provider to honour the agreement or is the provider leading the way? I always go with the provider's lead  because I'd rather be a bit of a mug and brush it off than get into the border lines of coercion. I'm guessing 30 min punts and loss limitation are the answer here for me, instead of looking forward to an hour of agreed 'intimacy' and hitting the street within 40 mins. There's a definite vibe about these encounters and I've got to go with it.

[daviemac]

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[lewisjones23]

Crazy how often they flag themselves up

[Blackpool Rock]

Crazy how often they flag themselves up

Yep 

[RedKettle]

Could be some useful reviews of all those WGs that are pushing him out early 

[staplehorse2024]

I know the guy is on the ban countdown, but the point he raised is valid: What do you do if you dont get your hour's worth (other than leaving a bad review)? I mean, I've had punts where I was pushed out after 45-50 minutes of a 60  min session, but the sex had been great. I would have preferred a bit of cuddling.

Should we leave a negative review? Neutral? I ended up not reviewing at all

This also makes me hesitant to try hour long punts, as I know I wont last an hour, and worry that the SW will try to get me to leave

[RedKettle]

I know the guy is on the ban countdown, but the point he raised is valid: What do you do if you dont get your hour's worth (other than leaving a bad review)? I mean, I've had punts where I was pushed out after 45-50 minutes of a 60  min session, but the sex had been great. I would have preferred a bit of cuddling.

Should we leave a negative review? Neutral? I ended up not reviewing at all

This also makes me hesitant to try hour long punts, as I know I wont last an hour, and worry that the SW will try to get me to leave

The review rating is a blunt instrument and cannot reflect all the nuances within a punt.  Go with your instinct, if you had a great time regardless then go positive, if you left feeling let down then go neutral or negative.  You can expand in the write up - eg I had fantastic sex but was disappointed that she rushed me to the door after 40 minutes.

[Lou2019]

He’s answered his own question

“I always go with the provider's lead”  , there in is your problem

[hendrix]

I know the guy is on the ban countdown, but the point he raised is valid: What do you do if you dont get your hour's worth (other than leaving a bad review)? I mean, I've had punts where I was pushed out after 45-50 minutes of a 60  min session, but the sex had been great. I would have preferred a bit of cuddling.

Should we leave a negative review? Neutral? I ended up not reviewing at all

This also makes me hesitant to try hour long punts, as I know I wont last an hour, and worry that the SW will try to get me to leave

It's your punt and your review. Rate it how you like, not sure why that would stop you reviewing?

Also, communication is everything. If you do book an hour and feel that you're likely to cum early, just tell the WG that in advance, along with what you'd like to do for the rest of the time paid. Any WG worth their salt will be fine with that. If you're still short changed, that seems like an obvious negative with services requested and agreed not provided.

[PilotMan]

Should we leave a negative review? Neutral? I ended up not reviewing at all

That makes no sense.

You simply write the review, detail what happened and give it the rating on how you felt after the punt.

[Heph]

In therapy sessions, and i'm thinking especially Psychotherapy or analysis, the convention is that an hour's session lasts 50 minutes

I've not been myself, but I gather that pretty much all HoD sessions are similarly curtailed

[Thephoenix]

I suppose it's relative.
10 minutes from a 30 mins session only leaves 20. ( Believe me. I just counted on my fingers).
To me 20 min is too little time to really get into a fbsm.

However I can accept finishing an hour's booking a bit early, to give me time to get dressed and admire the wallpaper without feeling I'm getting pushed out before some other hairy arsed punter's banging on the door.

I guess many professional service providers who work on appointments every hour will leave sufficient time to prepare for their next client.

On the other hand there are those cases when you know someone's been taking the Michael and rushing you out the door in 45 minutes.
That'll always be a negative for me.

[big-al93]

This also makes me hesitant to try hour long punts, as I know I wont last an hour, and worry that the SW will try to get me to leave

You don't have to last an hour, always best to check but most SP's will allow 2 pops (or more) in an hour. But if you won't recover for round 2 then just book the length of appointment that works for you whether that's 30 or 45 mins.

Alternatively, if you'd prefer an hour, tell her you are a 1 pop guy and not to rush you. If she then does, it's deliberate and you can review accordingly.

[southcoastpunter]

In therapy sessions, and i'm thinking especially Psychotherapy or analysis, the convention is that an hour's session lasts 50 minutes

it happens in all sort of different things - eg at my local (council run) sports hall  - you book an hour but actually in the small print it says 55 minutes to allow "change over" of equipment , people etc. (some places are 50 minutes)

But as we know, some guys seem to think shower and getting un/dressed should be in the Escorts time and not theirs!

[Mstar86]

I'm not deluding myself into thinking that the person providing the service really enjoys my company but all too often I've booked an hour only to be rushed through the process. It's a transactional relationship and both parties have agreed in principle to spend alloted time together engaged in sexual/erotic activity. By sexual I don't mean banging away for 60 mins. I have a problem when I get a vibe that a service provider doesn't want to engage further and I won't pressure them because this is where consent ends in my view. I'd rather walk out the door early than engage further with any possibility of having put someone under duress. When I read some of the reviews also I really do wonder who us writing them. The experience rarely matches the service from what I've read. Are people pushing the provider to honour the agreement or is the provider leading the way? I always go with the provider's lead  because I'd rather be a bit of a mug and brush it off than get into the border lines of coercion. I'm guessing 30 min punts and loss limitation are the answer here for me, instead of looking forward to an hour of agreed 'intimacy' and hitting the street within 40 mins. There's a definite vibe about these encounters and I've got to go with it.

SP’s are human. They are all different. Some will like to feel feminine and be led. Some want a more dominant man to lead. This is not coercion, it’s just basic biology.

If you always expect them to lead you may get poor service sometimes as they may on that day be tired, bored, drained or anything that makes them not want to perform or engage as much. Maybe they would if they felt slightly turned on but being led by a man.

This is not for all obviously but just a thought that not all women like leading every aspect of their lives and sometimes want to be led…..

[RogerHealey]

I'm not deluding myself into thinking that the person providing the service really enjoys my company but all too often I've booked an hour only to be rushed through the process. It's a transactional relationship and both parties have agreed in principle to spend alloted time together engaged in sexual/erotic activity. By sexual I don't mean banging away for 60 mins. I have a problem when I get a vibe that a service provider doesn't want to engage further and I won't pressure them because this is where consent ends in my view. I'd rather walk out the door early than engage further with any possibility of having put someone under duress. When I read some of the reviews also I really do wonder who us writing them. The experience rarely matches the service from what I've read. Are people pushing the provider to honour the agreement or is the provider leading the way? I always go with the provider's lead  because I'd rather be a bit of a mug and brush it off than get into the border lines of coercion. I'm guessing 30 min punts and loss limitation are the answer here for me, instead of looking forward to an hour of agreed 'intimacy' and hitting the street within 40 mins. There's a definite vibe about these encounters and I've got to go with it.

I don't get it, I am no oil painting nor do I have wads of cash dripping from my pockets but very seldom do I have such a problem. More often run over rather than under. C'mon we all know the best approach : absolute cleanliness, be respectful and don't fuck about with the money. And even when English is not their first language there's no reason not to  have some light hearted joking around to break the ice. Consistently works for me. You're dealing with human beings after all. FFS.

[WelshClipper]

You're dealing with human beings after all. FFS.

Agreed, I have even seen some ROM’s where you can actually break the ice and get them smiling and chatty.if you treat them with a little courtesy (not all mind)

I tend to book the hour because I take ten or fifteen minutes just to disrobe at the beginning and dress at the end. I usually have a great punt and then chat once the deed is done. If there is nothing left that I want to do, I am quite happy to scoot out early. If I am shoved out then I remain pleasant but I will report it on here.

[mr.bluesky]

I think the problem with most if not all massage shops is they run a conveyor belt service so they will for example take your booking for 2pm for 1 hour then have another appointment  booked for 3pm so the lady will finish you 10 minutes early so she can wash her hands * / freshen up and tidy up the room for the next appointment.  They don't factor in a ten minute gap between consecutive bookings .
They will also try and squeeze in " walk ins" who haven't made a booking which can throw everything out of schedule so they will short change you on time to bring everything back on track.
(* I hope all massage providers wash their hands between appointments )

[GreyDave]

   Jeez if the guys been on here long enough and punted but not bother with reveiews and asks ...." The Bleeding Obvious"   

Very few of the WG`s enjoy our company they like our cash simples....If your after an full hour see an Escourt that just fills your time WGs are providing an outlet service for us guys if we are quick then they are happy and have a break between punters Soho walk up WG`s operate a convayer system and its your duty so to speak to cum in the 10 min that you are in there  The 1hr punt is usally a slow build up and a one shot some girls offer 2 in the hour if your up to it the 30 min session is for me my standard 7mins to undress and get up then 18-20 mins play and cum then wipe and dress 4 mins out..I often get the Cum now baby request after ive been in flat 15mins I look at my watch at the start and always confirm and remind ....its Punting Ive walked the last few girls Ive gone to were nothing like the descripton givenits getting scarce to find good looking WGs at a sensible price now...

[Massage Bloke]

I've read OP's post very carefully, a number of times, and I don't think  he is just moaning about getting a rushed service. I think there is something more going on with him, but I'm not sure what.  He uses the word "vibe" twice and speculates about taking the lead. I'm guessing, that he may be a very laid back bloke (perhaps a bit of an old hippy) and ends up annoying the SP by just laying there for a bit too long, expecting things to happen!  But, of course the SP just wants to get on with  the service. OP mentions "agreed intimacy" ...but SPs don't think along those ines. I can picture him laying there, expecting nature to take its course, and saying: "No rush, babe, we've got an hour"... while not communicating what services he would like.  The SPs are clearly getting fed-up with him.

[Coriniumstud]

Only ever been rushed by Roms, that’s why I now stay away from them

[Munter84]

It would maybe help if OP returned to clarify how much of the hour he feels he is being short changed by?

It's not something I've given massive amounts of thought to - if I book an hour, I turn up on time, expect to be let in on the hour, and likewise I'm prepared to be dressed and bidding the lady goodbye just before the time is up. Changing and showering comes out of my time, but I'd hope to at least be in the room for the majority of the 60 minutes.

That said, I'd get the hump if the SP was very obviously wasting my time to wash, reply to messages, and do other stuff that should happen BETWEEN punts, not during. I feel the best SPs factor in a 15-30 minute buffer between appointments to get prepared and provide a little wiggle room if the punt runs over slightly. When it's obvious my paid time is being used for admin I've usually mentioned it in my reviews.

And, if OP feels the punt gets to the point where the mood sours or he suspects he's being ushered out early, that's on him to communicate and question. The girls don't read minds.