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Offline dub6747

Probably like many of you, I check into this forum pretty regularly. This post has been prompted by the bareback post, which got me thinking

Understandably, the mention of bareback and cocaine use is generally frowned upon although it seems to be a fairly significant part of the punting scene

Which got me thinking, how representative is this forum of the actual punting scene

Reviews, particularly Parlour reviews, don't seem to mention anything other than the 1:1 sexual activities that happen in sessions

Is this because the majority of us are sensible sex addicts, that don't do bareback and partake in drug use with girls/women?

Just interested, that's all. My guess is that there's a whole world of punting experiences that aren't reported on this site, and just wondering how representative it is

That's all. Hope you're all having a good evening


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I don't know what sort of answers you are expecting when one of your points can't be discussed as it would lead to members being banned.

That leaves bareback and there's already a thread on that.

What percentage of punters use this site is anyone's guess.
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Offline lewisjones23

Probably like many of you, I check into this forum pretty regularly. This post has been prompted by the bareback post, which got me thinking

Understandably, the mention of bareback and cocaine use is generally frowned upon although it seems to be a fairly significant part of the punting scene

Which got me thinking, how representative is this forum of the actual punting scene

Reviews, particularly Parlour reviews, don't seem to mention anything other than the 1:1 sexual activities that happen in sessions

Is this because the majority of us are sensible sex addicts, that don't do bareback and partake in drug use with girls/women?

Just interested, that's all. My guess is that there's a whole world of punting experiences that aren't reported on this site, and just wondering how representative it is

That's all. Hope you're all having a good evening

Can't say I've seen much reference on the forum to drug taking, apart from people answering a query to what a party girl is

Probably is a fair amount of punters that are coked up booking late night WG or going to 24/7 parlours


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Can't say I've seen much reference on the forum to drug taking,
That's because of this. -

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Offline dub6747

Not wanting people to talk about things that we don't discuss  just wondering how representative the forum is. No criticism intended, I suppose the BB thread got me thinking.  Been with girls/women over the years were it's been on offer, openly and discretely too, but I've never taken up the offer

Similarly with drug use, whilst we don't make mention of it, understandably given the legal status etc and the implications of doing so, it just got me thinking how many of the reviews on here are sanitised

That's all


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The point is you will never know if they are sanitized or how many are sanitized because those that have done so would have to come forward and admit they left out the substance use or BB, therefore leaving them open to breaking the rules.

Can you see that what you are wondering about is not quantifiable
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Not wanting people to talk about things that we don't discuss  just wondering how representative the forum is. No criticism intended, I suppose the BB thread got me thinking.  Been with girls/women over the years were it's been on offer, openly and discretely too, but I've never taken up the offer

Similarly with drug use, whilst we don't make mention of it, understandably given the legal status etc and the implications of doing so, it just got me thinking how many of the reviews on here are sanitised

That's all
The trouble is once you have mentioned drug use there are some members who will take it as an invitation to discuss it, it happens quite often on other threads with politics, people just can't help themselves.

However I can't make it any clearer, anyone discussing drugs or their use will be banned which may or may not be permanent.

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Yeah course, the BB thread got me thinking, that's all. We can probably close this thread now ✌️

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Yeah course, the BB thread got me thinking, that's all. We can probably close this thread now ✌️

This perhaps should have been your question?

How representative is this forum of the actual punting scene?

In my opinion/experience that is a complex question. A simple answer is 'partly'.

The reality is that it is only representative of punters who contribute to UKP. Like any online platform it develops its own identity and ethos. We are also all too familiar with the echo chamber nature of social media.

Also with the partial exception of the (very few) SPs posting here, anonymity distorts how many members post. You don't have to be truthful. This results in trolls and fantasists.

Does it matter if it is not representative? That is also a complex question. I would say probably not, but only as long as members are aware and accept it may not be.

In relation to this


Is this because the majority of us are sensible sex addicts, that don't do bareback and partake in drug use with girls/women?


The answer is yes, the majority are .... but as Miss W says it is impossible to quantify.

Perhaps the thread could proceed without any further mention of banned topics or BB specifically?






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From the clues and revelations which do appear on here I suspect there's a higher than expected proportion of over 50's in our membership

Offline Massage Bloke

I think this forum is broadly representative of the way things are these days with regard to punting.

So much has vanished.  The Soho walk-ups have dwindled from more than 30 "doors" to a tiny handful. But there is a very, very long running thread on the subject, with members doing there best to keep track of what SPs are working, where and when.

Street walkers have almost vanished from the UK.  I remember the bad old days of kings Cross. In fact in the early 80s I was very briefly homeless and for a couple of weeks i lived in a hotel on Argyle Square, whcich was an education.

But now the street walking scene in London is not much more than a crack-head or two, a TS, and a moody Rom, hanging around Sussex Gardens. But even so there is a thread dedicated to London street walkers.

There is also a large section given over to covering massage shops across the UK.

In London and the South East, brothels have nearly all gone.  I've lived all over London, and was never more than a twenty minute walk from a brothel. I now live in East Sussex, and the last two brothels in my local town have now closed.  I've never  had a handle on the "Parlour Scene" in the Midlands or the North, but what I gather from this forum, things are not what they used to be.  But the regional threads provide plenty of info, and are a strength of this forum.

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Offline pythondan

I think this forum is mainly used by middle aged (and older) men for whom punting is an activity hidden from friends and who use AW as the main source for sex workers.

This is reflected in the prevailing disapproval of bb and also "partying". I am sure that some members indulge in those but they are probably in a minority.

I am sure there are other paid sex areas that are popular but not commonly discussed on here.

"High end" escort services where girls cost £300+ are sometimes mentioned but not often but I am sure there is a big agency scene for more wealthy enthusiasts.

There are also the "gang of lads" type punters who might see an SP as part of a stag do or just a night out. There would be very little of the research and careful planning of a typical UKP member.

I am not aware of any friends or colleagues that punt in the classic UKP way that I do (I have my suspicions about some) but over the years various individuals I know have spoken about paid sex encounters. Some of these tales have been hair-raising such as a guy who owned a house in Bethnal Green and worked in the City. He split with his girlfriend and had two friends move in to help pay the rent. They would get drunk after work and then proposition street walkers, or even just female homeless people, and then take them to the house and have group sex with lots of drugs involved. A guy I vaguely know through friends used to be married to mouthy fat woman. I recently found out that they were swingers and the guy was pimping her out to friends for paid sex. Apparently even his brother paid to fuck her  :scare:

These examples make my punting (daytime, arranged in advance via AW) seem pretty tame.

So to conclude this ramble yes there are lots of types of paid sex activities going on outside the typical UKP demographic.

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As with everything in life: " There are more things in heaven and earth... than are dreamt of in your philosophy".

Offline JontyR

As with everything in life: " There are more things in heaven and earth... than are dreamt of in your philosophy".

Whore ratio.

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I don't know what sort of answers you are expecting when one of your points can't be discussed as it would lead to members being banned.

That leaves bareback and there's already a thread on that.

What percentage of punters use this site is anyone's guess.

Less than 0.1%
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Offline alabama1

Less than 0.1%
How did you get to that figure ? Truth is, nobody has a clue.

Offline DastardlyDick

How did you get to that figure ? Truth is, nobody has a clue.
I was wondering that too - the buying and selling of sex is not something you can do do a MORI survey on to find out people are doing it - any figure is going to be a guesstimate.

Offline midspunter

I think almost everyone comes to UKP because the reviews and discussions make their punting as risk-free as possible.

"Risk free" covers a whole load of factors, including ending up naked in front of someone you actually fancy, parking in a place where your car will still be there when you leave with a post-coital glow, avoiding discovery if you're in a relationship, minimising the possibility of STDs, the service provider being reliable and not a scammer, and avoiding anything to do with trafficking.

There are obviously people who punt who don't care about any of this - every escort has horror stories - but we're very much at the sensible end of the spectrum. I also suspect we're in the majority simply because in 2025, most escorts have better tools available to filter out troublesome punters, including their own forums.

Offline big-al93

I also suspect we're in the majority

Really? Given the numbers of escorts and scammers out there, and the number of active posters on here, impossible for most to have any clue about the number of lurkers  and leeches. I'd have to think we are very much in the minority. Otherwise it would not be a sustainable job or scamming prospect.

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Really? Given the numbers of escorts and scammers out there, and the number of active posters on here, impossible for most to have any clue about the number of lurkers  and leeches. I'd have to think we are very much in the minority. Otherwise it would not be a sustainable job or scamming prospect.


Sorry, I should've been clearer.

I didn't necessarily mean UKP represented the majority but that most punters probably fell into the "sensible" category with similar attitudes to the ones prevalent on here. The disappearance of street scenes mean this is now probably a middle class and generally older hobby - even parlours are relatively pricey now. My guess is the average punter in 2025 is more risk averse than in the past for these reasons. Punting has possibly been gentrified, like football.

I could, of course, be wrong.