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Offline MissWolf

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Oh we do love a good old BB thread, always brings out the arguments and insults  :rolleyes:

OP the only thing that winds me up slightly is the actual title of your thread 'How to BB'
 Like you are some kind of expert in it and nobody else has got two brain cells to rub together and do their own research or make their own choice, maybe a title of 'BB how I feel I keep the risks low' would have been less shouty and big headed, other than that, crack on mate, you do you its all good.

As for my opinion on BB in general and the risks involved....I personally think you are more than risk picking up a civvie in a club or bar and going bare than you are with an escort,  depending of course on the escort you are going raw with. And there in lies the rub, it is absolutely an individual thing as to how often someone tests and how careful they are on ensuring they do everything they can to stay clean and that goes for SP or civvies.

Personally I will not under any circumstances offer BB to my clients, I never have and no amout of dodgy financial advice will change my mind. It's not just regarding the risk of spreading or catching an STD its about reputation, if I decided to offer BB to a select few clients it would get around like wildfire, especially on here and I would lose more business than I gain i can guarantee that, plus it would then begin to encourage the wrong kind of clients IMO.

I have to agree that BB sex feels great but for me its not actually that different to covered with someone I don't have an emotional connection with, for me the main difference between BB and covered and the reason it feels good when I've done it is because I'm in an emotionally committed relationship with that person and thats where the extra sensation comes to the fore, a major part of sexual pleasure is felt from the neck up.

IMO in this industry as an escort its a very risky strategy to start dishing it out bare even to regulars because none of us really know what the other person is doing when they are not seeing you, they can make all the promises in the world of I'm only fucking you bare or I won't do this with anyone else but its not worth the breath its spoken with, the very nature of this industry means we are all liars to some degree.

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Oh we do love a good old BB thread, always brings out the arguments and insults  :rolleyes:

OP the only thing that winds me up slightly is the actual title of your thread 'How to BB'
 Like you are some kind of expert in it and nobody else has got two brain cells to rub together and do their own research or make their own choice, maybe a title of 'BB how I feel I keep the risks low' would have been less shouty and big headed, other than that, crack on mate, you do you its all good.

As for my opinion on BB in general and the risks involved....I personally think you are more than risk picking up a civvie in a club or bar and going bare than you are with an escort,  depending of course on the escort you are going raw with. And there in lies the rub, it is absolutely an individual thing as to how often someone tests and how careful they are on ensuring they do everything they can to stay clean and that goes for SP or civvies.

Personally I will not under any circumstances offer BB to my clients, I never have and no amout of dodgy financial advice will change my mind. It's not just regarding the risk of spreading or catching an STD its about reputation, if I decided to offer BB to a select few clients it would get around like wildfire, especially on here and I would lose more business than I gain i can guarantee that, plus it would then begin to encourage the wrong kind of clients IMO.

I have to agree that BB sex feels great but for me its not actually that different to covered with someone I don't have an emotional connection with, for me the main difference between BB and covered and the reason it feels good when I've done it is because I'm in an emotionally committed relationship with that person and thats where the extra sensation comes to the fore, a major part of sexual pleasure is felt from the neck up.

IMO in this industry as an escort its a very risky strategy to start dishing it out bare even to regulars because none of us really know what the other person is doing when they are not seeing you, they can make all the promises in the world of I'm only fucking you bare or I won't do this with anyone else but its not worth the breath its spoken with, the very nature of this industry means we are all liars to some degree.
Why are clients who want bareback sex considered the wrong kind? That's very dangerous language to use.
Not everyone who partakes in bareback sex is a scumbag but you are insinuating that here.
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Why are clients who want bareback sex considered the wrong kind? That's very dangerous language to use.
Not everyone who partakes in bareback sex is a scumbag but you are insinuating that here.

Where did she say scumbag?

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Where did she say scumbag?
Do you know the definition of insinuating mate?
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Why are clients who want bareback sex considered the wrong kind? That's very dangerous language to use.
Not everyone who partakes in bareback sex is a scumbag but you are insinuating that here.

No I'm not insinuating they are all scum bags, please dont try and read  or imply something thats not there

It was a long post written on my phone, I'm saying they are the wrong kind of clients for me, for others they may be perfect and thats fine.


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Do you know the definition of insinuating mate?

I do. You knew what I meant. So where did she insinuate they were scumbags?

Miss W has already clarified what she meant.

Just as no doubt you have a preferred kind of SP to visit the converse also applies.

Why are your posts so aggressive?

Offline MLawro93

Another day, another bareback thread. No such thing as how to bareback safely. It is all about where your risk levels are, as it's another point of exposure. Appreciate you being honest, but don't sell that crap about girls who do bareback UTC. It may happen, but it isn't as common as people make out  :rolleyes:

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Delusional.
Barebacking 5 guys in a day, yea a very sensible way to work
The factor whether should allow this is……drumroll……if the guy has a shower? Lol
You realise STDs don’t get scared off by having a bath right? Unable to detect by hygiene alone
And that we do require you to shower even if you use a condom  :crazy:  :manhater:
Crazy stuff here

In the late 70s and early 80s I was doing the Soho Walk ups and Bareback shaging some days I did 3-4 girls when work was good and I had the cash  :hi: The Girls would of been doing more guys than 5 some times in an hour  :coolgirl:  The studio flatsthey operated from are still there and the sink loo and bidet too after the shag I stood washing my little friend next to the WG as she used the bidet...Then it all changed with Aids  :( ...It took a trip to Pattaya for me to rediscover the bareback WG in the 90s  :dance: the 3 headed OWO blow job and other wonderful mixes which at my age now are a memerory  :(.
As a Bukkake Party goer seeing 10 -12 guys blast over a girl after she has wank sucked you is  :dance: :dance:  Then chatting to the lads as she compares cock size and load produced isan event which is on many guys bucket lists. The risk is there just be aware ....I shag now always with a rubber its crap it desesatizes and delays ending with the girl demanding the Rom phrase Cum now Darling and the Wank to produce in some cases ....OWO is also bareback risk and the added danger of teeth but that another storie :drinks: :drinks:

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In the late 70s and early 80s I was doing the Soho Walk ups and Bareback shaging some days I did 3-4 girls when work was good and I had the cash  :hi: The Girls would of been doing more guys than 5 some times in an hour  :coolgirl:  The studio flatsthey operated from are still there and the sink loo and bidet too after the shag I stood washing my little friend next to the WG as she used the bidet...Then it all changed with Aids  :( ...It took a trip to Pattaya for me to rediscover the bareback WG in the 90s  :dance: the 3 headed OWO blow job and other wonderful mixes which at my age now are a memerory  :(.
As a Bukkake Party goer seeing 10 -12 guys blast over a girl after she has wank sucked you is  :dance: :dance:  Then chatting to the lads as she compares cock size and load produced isan event which is on many guys bucket lists. The risk is there just be aware ....I shag now always with a rubber its crap it desesatizes and delays ending with the girl demanding the Rom phrase Cum now Darling and the Wank to produce in some cases ....OWO is also bareback risk and the added danger of teeth but that another storie :drinks: :drinks:

It all comes down to the level of risk an individual wants to take and LUCK  :thumbsup:

I risk owo in 95% of bookings that include a bj in them but then so do clients who have owo, we have assessed it and decided thats a level we are willing to risk.

As for condoms there are some really excellent ultra thin ones now but they don't have the stretch that standard ones do so can only be used with guys of a certain size range  :D

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I have to agree that BB sex feels great but for me its not actually that different to covered with someone I don't have an emotional connection with,..... emotionally committed 

 :unknown: are you saying you do not have an emotional connection with random joe that walks through your door with a hard on? That's the shocking part to me  :lol:

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:unknown: are you saying you do not have an emotional connection with random joe that walks through your door with a hard on? That's the shocking part to me  :lol:

Guilty as charged.... :lol: :angelgirl:

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There is some crazy mass hysteria surrounding this topic on here.

All it does is drive the service underground. Everyone know it does go on and will continue. Silencing the topic with virtue signalling will not change that.

I get why married men on here don't do it but if someone is single and happy to take the risks then fine who cares?
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There is some crazy mass hysteria surrounding this topic on here.

All it does is drive the service underground. Everyone know it does go on and will continue. Silencing the topic with virtue signalling will not change that.

I get why married men on here don't do it but if someone is single and happy to take the risks then fine who cares?

thank you for saying that. silencing the topic simply means people like me are less likely to share information. if you want to avoid bb, maybe try not bashing people who do it, and in return you'll get reviews that tell you exactly which sp provides it.

as someone mentioned, it happens all the time in asia. i mean soaplands in japan, korea, thailand, philippines. bb is default in most of these places and nobody bats an eye. some asian-style spa in the usa also do it. you can also see a pattern with how most providers listing bb on their profiles are romanian or korean.
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There is some crazy mass hysteria surrounding this topic on here.

All it does is drive the service underground. Everyone know it does go on and will continue. Silencing the topic with virtue signalling will not change that.

I get why married men on here don't do it but if someone is single and happy to take the risks then fine who cares?

there is also some crazy over stating things that goes on here too - for example where in this thread is any crazy mass hysteria? so far its people expressing their opinions and bearing in mind more guys on here appear to be in a relationship than single, its easy to understand these guys position.

and as for "who cares?" - well no one unless its a SP doing secret BB or BB guys seeing ladies that we see or want to see as it increases the risk via things like owo. I am not in a relationship but don't BB as for me, that is one risk too far but i like owo so again for me that is an acceptable risk - but not if she BB's or sees guy who BB.

everyone sets their own risk level but that relies on everyone being open and aware of who they are seeing.

 

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there is also some crazy over stating things that goes on here too - for example where in this thread is any crazy mass hysteria? so far its people expressing their opinions and bearing in mind more guys on here appear to be in a relationship than single, its easy to understand these guys position.

and as for "who cares?" - well no one unless its a SP doing secret BB or BB guys seeing ladies that we see or want to see as it increases the risk via things like owo. I am not in a relationship but don't BB as for me, that is one risk too far but i like owo so again for me that is an acceptable risk - but not if she BB's or sees guy who BB.

everyone sets their own risk level but that relies on everyone being open and aware of who they are seeing.

I agree, I don't see any mass hysteria. Most posts are saying that folks should be mindful of the risks and make their own judgements accordingly. The most vociferous reactions come from when there is a suggestion that SPs should be more open to offering bareback - assuming that they know more about the risk analysis done by SPs than the SPs themselves. 

Add in the name calling - some weird talk about dangerous language - and threats of not working to the sharing ethos of the forum then I'm not sure those raising the BB issue are doing so in a way that adds anything to their arguments.

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there is also some crazy over stating things that goes on here too - for example where in this thread is any crazy mass hysteria? so far its people expressing their opinions and bearing in mind more guys on here appear to be in a relationship than single, its easy to understand these guys position.

and as for "who cares?" - well no one unless its a SP doing secret BB or BB guys seeing ladies that we see or want to see as it increases the risk via things like owo. I am not in a relationship but don't BB as for me, that is one risk too far but i like owo so again for me that is an acceptable risk - but not if she BB's or sees guy who BB.

everyone sets their own risk level but that relies on everyone being open and aware of who they are seeing.

well you see, you’re actually proving to be a part of the hysteria. how exactly does a guy who happens to like bb automatically increase anyone else’s risk?

the more i read here, the more it feels like any girl i review will end up thrown into the “saw a guy who bb / increased risk” bucket. that makes me not even want to review them anymore, because a good review could end up hurting them instead of helping.

i’ve had one bacterial infection in ten years of this. i get tested regularly, about once a month, and i’m confident i’m safer and cleaner than a lot of people here. so how does seeing me make things riskier? if i see a wg and we use a condom, do you really think that’s somehow less safe than if a random joe does the same? and if joe goes bb with a girl he meets in a club, that’s just fine?

for me, i think you should always assume any girl you are seeing is actually doing bb with other people - whether its the customers, boyfriend, pimp, random guys from a club on friday... just assume she's got the stds. and then do as good of a job as you can to protect yourself. with all the meds and vaccines i am taking, i feel it's as safe for me to go raw, as it would be to get owo and not be taking meds. i was reading a story the other day where someone went for owo and got something. i do not understand why owo is so common and basically a default for everyone on this forum (and it is not covered), but suddenly bb/cip is this god forbidden thing
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He wasn’t suggesting that it was that.. more this..
Doxy PEP (doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis) significantly reduces the risk of bacterial sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including syphilis, chlamydia, and gonorrhea, by approximately two-thirds in high-risk individuals, such as men who have sex with men (MSM) and transgender women. It involves taking a single 200mg dose of doxycycline within 72 hours of unprotected sex. While effective, ongoing research is monitoring for potential impacts on antibiotic resistance, and long-term effects and use in other populations are still being studied

Thanks for the clarification
But before going down that route of treatment, this is worth reading (it comes from Doc Holliday's link at
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The evidence currently available suggests that DoxyPEP is particularly effective at preventing chlamydia (~70-89% effective) and syphilis (~73-87%) infection.
Two studies have shown that DoxyPEP is 51-57% effective at preventing gonorrhoea infection but one found that DoxyPEP had no effect on gonorrhoea. One proposed explanation for this difference is that DoxyPEP may be less effective in areas where doxycycline-resistant strains of gonorrhoea are common.


In reality those are fairly poor odds, especially if you repeatedly rely on them

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Thanks for the clarification
But before going down that route of treatment, this is worth reading (it comes from Doc Holliday's link at
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In reality those are fairly poor odds, especially if you repeatedly rely on them

yes, the odds are not 100%. you will get those once in a while. it is just a matter of time. but you can treat them. so, i actually struggle to understand what the big deal is.

unless you've got a girlfriend/wife and you got to explain yourself to her... but then i don't understand why do you even have a gf/wife if you like punting? it's a whole different topic i guess...

so gonorrhea has the worst odds and this is the one and only thing i actually got once. i got a shot, took a week or two off punting, got tested to confirm i'm good to go, and that's pretty much it. burned a bit when i peed, that's all.
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well you see, you’re actually proving to be a part of the hysteria. how exactly does a guy who happens to like bb automatically increase anyone else’s risk?

the more i read here, the more it feels like any girl i review will end up thrown into the “saw a guy who bb / increased risk” bucket. that makes me not even want to review them anymore, because a good review could end up hurting them instead of helping.
What you don't seem to understand is there's loads of escorts who will look into who the prospective client has seen and if they've seen one who barebacks they refuse the booking, that along with the punters who bareback get reported as such on ClientEye. There is a knock on effect in so much a punter has seen an escort, done everything covered but gets refused because the escort has seen someone who barebacks.

BTW if you read my posts you will see I have not passed an opinion on barebacking, I have pointed out what reception the subject is likely to get on here, pointed out there is a site dedicated to it, pulled one member up (not you) for trying to post banned links and pointed out the rules on bareback discussions.


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What you don't seem to understand is there's loads of escorts who will look into who the prospective client has seen and if they've seen one who barebacks they refuse the booking, that along with the punters who bareback get reported as such on ClientEye. There is a knock on effect in so much a punter has seen an escort, done everything covered but gets refused because the escort has seen someone who barebacks.

BTW if you read my posts you will see I have not passed an opinion on barebacking, I have pointed out what reception the subject is likely to get on here, pointed out there is a site dedicated to it, pulled one member up (not you) for trying to post banned links and pointed out the rules on bareback discussions.

well thank you for bringing this up - that's actually much worse than i thought it would be.

none of this makes sense to me but i do understand this is how things work. i will go back to being selfish, keeping the information all to myself, and doing what i like doing without anyone knowing.

i will not be posting any more reviews, i will change my burner phone to a new number and guess you guys see me back when it gets normal around here. maybe a few years? who knows.
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well thank you for bringing this up - that's actually much worse than i thought it would be.

none of this makes sense to me but i do understand this is how things work. i will go back to being selfish, keeping the information all to myself, and doing what i like doing without anyone knowing.

i will not be posting any more reviews, i will change my burner phone to a new number and guess you guys see me back when it gets normal around here. maybe a few years? who knows.
I hate when people come into my life, make a good impression and then just leave.....  :(
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well thank you for bringing this up - that's actually much worse than i thought it would be.

none of this makes sense to me but i do understand this is how things work. i will go back to being selfish, keeping the information all to myself, and doing what i like doing without anyone knowing.

i will not be posting any more reviews, i will change my burner phone to a new number and guess you guys see me back when it gets normal around here. maybe a few years? who knows.

For someone complaing about hysteria, you sure are pouting a bit and reacting like a drama queen. Okay you bareback, others don't, so what now? You decided to not review anymore because people don't see it the same way as you  :lol:

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It all comes down to the level of risk an individual wants to take and LUCK  :thumbsup:

...

This is the one piece of genuine and useful wisdom here.

OP and the couple of entitled pricks advocating BB are so full of shit it would be unsurprising to discover they're scat eaters as part of their risk profile.  Rationalising their luck by their (likely limited) adherence to an incomplete regimen that poses other medical risks is just masking their underlying intent to harm the women (and possibly men) they engage in sex with, and the community of interaction beyond.

The medical advice and research has been quoted and linked here many times before so here's an AI summary of one aspect that seems correct and more comprehensive but still not complete compared to Mr hardman's at top (credit he nods at Hep and HPV, but fails to address HSV and others):

[Asking Google about efficacy of the 3 primary antibiotics it suggested this likely question]
What is the most effective antibiotic for STI?
AI Overview

There isn't one "best" antibiotic for all STIs, as the right choice depends on the specific infection, drug resistance patterns, individual patient factors, and local health guidelines. Doxycycline and azithromycin are commonly used for chlamydia, while cephalosporins are often recommended for gonorrhea, but treatment regimens change due to evolving antibiotic resistance. Always consult a healthcare professional for an accurate diagnosis and a personalized treatment plan.
Commonly Used Antibiotics for Specific STIs
Chlamydia:
Doxycycline: Often considered highly effective.
Azithromycin: An alternative, particularly for those allergic or intolerant to doxycycline.
Gonorrhea:
Ceftriaxone: is a common treatment.
Doxycycline may be used for prevention (doxy-PEP) to prevent chlamydia and syphilis, but its effectiveness against gonorrhea is less consistent, and it is not a primary treatment for gonorrhea itself.
Syphilis:
Doxycycline: can be used for prevention.
Penicillin: is the traditional treatment for syphilis, but specific guidelines should be followed.
Factors Influencing Treatment Choice
Type of STI: Different bacteria require different antibiotics.
Antibiotic Resistance: Bacteria can become resistant to antibiotics, requiring changes in treatment guidelines.
Patient Allergies or Intolerances: Doxycycline is not suitable for everyone, for example, during pregnancy.
Pregnancy Status: Certain antibiotics are contraindicated in pregnancy.
Patient Population: Treatment recommendations can vary for different groups, such as cisgender women versus gay and bisexual men.
Prevention and Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (Doxy-PEP)
Doxy-PEP: Taking doxycycline after condomless sex can reduce the risk of chlamydia, syphilis, and to a lesser extent, gonorrhea.
Importance of Professional Guidance: While doxy-PEP shows promise for certain populations, its use and potential risks should be discussed with a healthcare provider.
Always Seek Professional Medical Advice
Accurate Diagnosis: Only a healthcare provider can correctly diagnose an STI.
Tailored Treatment: Antibiotic choice must be based on the specific infection and local guidelines, which are constantly updated due to resistance patterns.


Now the smart people here will read all of that and hopefully also find bonafide medical expert advice (not least from the clinicians they visit regularly, with infection or not) that elaborates further about it and the risks and uncertainties involved.  Suffice to say "Doxy" is NOT a certain treatment nor a comprehensive one and writing the rest of the risk off as an "oh you can (probably) get an easy no fuss treatment for the rest you catch" is despicably callous.

You may be lucky to be naturally resistant, (note this does not mean immune) such that you don't often catch or appear symptomatic but you can be very much transmissive.  Women are far more at risk because infection rates as recipients is higher in the vagina.  Sadly they may be "lucky" that symptoms may not be noticeable amongst the other issues they deal with down there so if they're not assiduous about checkups and treatment they may not know for weeks or ever whilst they are infectious and being affected.  In the meantime their subsequent BB encounters...

I wonder how likely OP would make all the calls to his multitude of international conquests should he test positive, would he even know who to call or be able to contact them?
Unlike him I have been unlucky enough to catch several different stis over the many years past, and whilst most were with civvies I also bb'd a couple of SPs I was dating and one of them had an infection too.  Making the call or telling partners in person is NOT something anyone with a smidge of compassion, sense of responsibility or shame would find easy or dismissable as to blow it off by dumping the flip "advice" at the top of this thread.  Further consider that the women may have their own medical consequences as a result of a delayed or untreated infection with extremely serious potential consequences.  To not treat that culpability, let alone responsibility, with the utmost gravitas seems at least sociopathic if not psychopathic to me.

Play safe preferably, do so with conscience and certainly review SP meetings. You may play safe (that time) but by degrees of association it's likely a known bber may've also dipped, so castigations aside, all should be entitled to take subsequent precautions to guard  their sexual health and those whom they've since exposed.  Threatening to not review in a pouting hissy fit because they got rightly called out further suggests a callous individual we and the SPs we visit would best do without.  We have other bbers here who are more matter of fact, credible and less (self-)celebratory.

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well thank you for bringing this up - that's actually much worse than i thought it would be.

none of this makes sense to me but i do understand this is how things work. i will go back to being selfish, keeping the information all to myself, and doing what i like doing without anyone knowing.

i will not be posting any more reviews, i will change my burner phone to a new number and guess you guys see me back when it gets normal around here. maybe a few years? who knows.

Bye. You will be missed. Not.  :D

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well thank you for bringing this up - that's actually much worse than i thought it would be.

none of this makes sense to me but i do understand this is how things work. i will go back to being selfish, keeping the information all to myself, and doing what i like doing without anyone knowing.

i will not be posting any more reviews, i will change my burner phone to a new number and guess you guys see me back when it gets normal around here. maybe a few years? who knows.

As far as I’m concerned it’s never been normal around here and I very much doubt it ever will be. But if you’ve decided then there’s no way I can make you change your mind.


On a far more serious note than a member saying his farewells. It’s this comment made by MissWolf about not having emotional attachments to her punters.
Bugger…….. I was just going to get in touch and place a booking for a SPH session with her.
But if she’s not going to laugh at the size of my dick there’s not much point is there.

Hey……….. laughter is an emotion 🤷🏼

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Now the smart people here will read all of that and hopefully also find bonafide medical expert advice (not least from the clinicians they visit regularly, with infection or not) that elaborates further about it and the risks and uncertainties involved.  Suffice to say "Doxy" is NOT a certain treatment nor a comprehensive one and writing the rest of the risk off as an "oh you can (probably) get an easy no fuss treatment for the rest you catch" is despicably callous.

Thanks for giving the actual research. "Just take doxy, I never got no std" is such ignorant advice I dont  even know what to say.

OP sounds like those anti-vaxxers in America - "Hurr, I never took no vaccine, never got Covid. Just proves the vaccine is useless. My body my choice"

That's how stupid you sound when you say bareback is perfectly safe.

Like vaccines-- If enough people started barebacking, I'd guess you'd start seeing more STD going round.

Its like saying "Oh I dont mind peeing in the pool, they have chlorine to kill bacteria anyway, whats the big deal? I went to Thailand and peed in the pool there all the time. Why can't I do it here?



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As far as I’m concerned it’s never been normal around here and I very much doubt it ever will be. But if you’ve decided then there’s no way I can make you change your mind.


On a far more serious note than a member saying his farewells. It’s this comment made by MissWolf about not having emotional attachments to her punters.
Bugger…….. I was just going to get in touch and place a booking for a SPH session with her.
But if she’s not going to laugh at the size of my dick there’s not much point is there.

Hey……….. laughter is an emotion 🤷🏼

Just for you Steve here's a virtual reality session between us in emoji format.....

👋👋🤗💋💋👀🔍🔎🔍🔎😬  :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:🤭🤏🤦‍♀️💦💦🤗👋👋

You're welcome that will be £50 payable into my off shore account  ;) :lol:

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Thanks for giving the actual research. "Just take doxy, I never got no std" is such ignorant advice I dont  even know what to say.

OP sounds like those anti-vaxxers in America - "Hurr, I never took no vaccine, never got Covid. Just proves the vaccine is useless. My body my choice"

That's how stupid you sound when you say bareback is perfectly safe.

Like vaccines-- If enough people started barebacking, I'd guess you'd start seeing more STD going round.

Its like saying "Oh I dont mind peeing in the pool, they have chlorine to kill bacteria anyway, whats the big deal? I went to Thailand and peed in the pool there all the time. Why can't I do it here?

Post like this are not helpful and add nothing to the discussion

At no point did the op say BB was perfectly safe, he explained what he does to keep himself safer and how others can follow that advice to keep them safer.

You don't need to agree with it and he doesn't have to be right, im not defending him btw but im not going to call him names either or liken him to others who are completely unrelated to this discussion.

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So what made yesterday evening so special after 5+ years?

I note you ignored this? I was sure you would, as you knew where it was going.

A fairly dormant 'sleeper' account from 2019 suddenly bursts into life and in the space of a couple of hours we have four reviews two with a BB element. That is the bait which was quickly taken and was the cue to launch into more posts re BB and ultimately this thread in particular.

It is clear from some of your comments that you knew this was a topic that divides, but are feigning ignorance that it is all a shock to you.

People are often a little wary of posting for the first time, but you post in volume on a controversial topic with the confidence of an experienced forum member? Someone who has been involved before perhaps?

This all seems very contrived and choreographed to deliberately provoke a reaction.

"I will not be contributing any more reviews" is another contrived move to deliberately divide members.


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I note you ignored this? I was sure you would, as you knew where it was going.

A fairly dormant 'sleeper' account from 2019 suddenly bursts into life and in the space of a couple of hours we have four reviews two with a BB element. That is the bait which was quickly taken and was the cue to launch into more posts re BB and ultimately this thread in particular.

It is clear from some of your comments that you knew this was a topic that divides, but are feigning ignorance that it is all a shock to you.

People are often a little wary of posting for the first time, but you post in volume on a controversial topic with the confidence of an experienced forum member? Someone who has been involved before perhaps?

This all seems very contrived and choreographed to deliberately provoke a reaction.

"I will not be contributing any more reviews" is another contrived move to deliberately divide members.

I did read the first post and thought maybe PumpDump has returned in some form.  :D Then I noticed the join date for OP, so did have my doubts

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I did read the first post and thought maybe PumpDump has returned in some form.  :D Then I noticed the join date for OP, so did have my doubts

The MO is uncannily familiar and I considered this also, but having checked a few things I am confident it is not PD.

I do believe he may well be familiar with PD's BB tactics and is a copy cat.

Sleeper accounts are often created by individuals who live dangerously close to being banned well in advance of when they actually do get banned as a back up. This is less suspicious to having to create a new account.

My gut is telling me he has posted before though under a different account.

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No, there's other sites dedicated to that sort of thing. The vast majority of members on this site don't agree with bareback in the same way they don't agree with any form of boundary pushing so should be free to comment on it.

Ask yourself why the other site is closed, could it be because the whole concept of barebacking escorts is frowned upon and they want to keep it within a relatively small niche group?

Oh and I don't set the rules I just enforce them.

ok  :hi:

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Just for you Steve here's a virtual reality session between us in emoji format.....

👋👋🤗💋💋👀🔍🔎🔍🔎😬  :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:🤭🤏🤦‍♀️💦💦🤗👋👋

You're welcome that will be £50 payable into my off shore account  ;) :lol:


 :lol: :lol: :lol:

That actually makes a lot more sense than some of the reviews I've read!

Gotta pop out now, need plenty more popcorn for this thread.

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Banned reason: Can’t stop having a pop at punters, on a punting forum, warned to many times now, no more!!
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alright i did not get to see the link, and i am clearly not luring enough to even figure out you've replied to him instead of me  :lol: anyway its all good from my side but the rules do seem a bit too strict for my taste, i do not like censorship in general. like, what's the harm? but yeah you guys go on with whatever, i will post whatever i feel like posting and we will see how long my account lasts i guess. till then, we're all good  :)

It’s not going to last long, trust me

The rules are set by the site owner, if you’re not happy click logout and off you fuck, it’s that simple, will save one of us banning your ass  :drinks:

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I removed this as it was posted last night.  :hi:
So ignore this.
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It all comes down to the level of risk an individual wants to take and LUCK  :thumbsup:
As for condoms there are some really excellent ultra thin ones now but they don't have the stretch that standard ones do so can only be used with guys of a certain size range  :D

No problem with the condoms as they are the extra small ones for me  :cool: :cool: :cool:

Its Sharp incissor front teeth which seem to go with the whitened teeth look that have caused me the most problems over the years on my gland end / helmet bell end ive had cuts and grate marks which have been around for a week of so after said experiance  taking Sildenafil makes this even more risky due to the increase in firmness  ;) ...

I am reminded of the line in Muriels wedding ....When I got his cock out for a blow job there was lipstick on it...IT WASNT MINE!
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Regardless of any personal risk, using any antibiotic more than you need to, including for prophylactic purposes, is an inconsiderate thing to do as it increases the speed at which an antibiotic resistant bacterial strain might appear. There are already known to antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhoea, and potentially any bacterium can make the evolutionary leap. Then we're all up shit alley.

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I note you ignored this? I was sure you would, as you knew where it was going.

A fairly dormant 'sleeper' account from 2019 suddenly bursts into life and in the space of a couple of hours we have four reviews two with a BB element. That is the bait which was quickly taken and was the cue to launch into more posts re BB and ultimately this thread in particular.

It is clear from some of your comments that you knew this was a topic that divides, but are feigning ignorance that it is all a shock to you.

People are often a little wary of posting for the first time, but you post in volume on a controversial topic with the confidence of an experienced forum member? Someone who has been involved before perhaps?

This all seems very contrived and choreographed to deliberately provoke a reaction.

"I will not be contributing any more reviews" is another contrived move to deliberately divide members.

Bingo

Offline Rocket1927

Hi all,

I see a lot of idiots complaining about bareback. I also see a lot of idiots doing bareback without preparation.

I've been doing this for over 10 years, all around the world. Escorts, tinder sluts, virgins, you name it. Doesn't matter.

The only time I use a condom is when an escort insists. I do not want anyone to go outside of their comfort zone. That being said, you'd be surprised how many escorts who state "no bareback" actually do it  ;)

Anyway, I'd like to keep you all guys as safe as I am. I'm surprised there isn't any more info about this online. A lot of the stuff I discovered was simply because I have a ton of gay friends and apparently if you're gay it's less okay for you to get an std.

So here is the quick and easy recipe to do it safe:
1. PrEP - keeps you safe from HIV. You can get it for free from sh.uk if you are as much of a bb monster as I am
2. PEP (Doxycycline) - lower your chances of catching a bacterial infection by roughly 2/3rds - that one is on you, but I can tell you they do prescribe it for really long trips to countries with risk of Malaria  :rolleyes:
3. Vaccines - Get all the vaccines you can:
- HPV - Gardasil 9 - cost me around 500 but worth the absolute fkin journey I had
- Hepatitis A and Hepatitis B - idk, I think I got it for free from NHS?

And... that's it! From now on, you might occasionally get some bacterial infections, but these are treated easily - you get a shot and move on with your life. The only ones to really worry about would be syphilis (that will be treated fairly easily but might continue testing positive after treatement) and trich (cause it's neither bacteria or a virus - might just need a separate treatment).

Enjoy!  :angelgirl:


I fucked about 50 girls raw in Pattaya Thailand this year over a course of 2 weeks, got nothing. Take it as you will.


50 girls in 14 days  thats  3.5  per day every day  :D :D

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Sperm can live up to 5 days in the female body and douching only cleans inside the vagina. Whats left will slowly drip out from the cervix into the vagina over a few days. Do you really want to be swimming with other clients fishes?
Also here's a wee snippet about effectiveness
PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) is highly effective, reducing the risk of HIV infection by approximately 80%, but it is not 100% effective
For both oral and injectable PrEP, the mostly likely cause of breakthrough infections is being exposed to detectable levels of HIV that has also developed resistance to the drugs in PrEP.
And of course, remember that 3 month window so no guarantee anybody is safe.

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The MO is uncannily familiar and I considered this also, but having checked a few things I am confident it is not PD.

I do believe he may well be familiar with PD's BB tactics and is a copy cat.

Sleeper accounts are often created by individuals who live dangerously close to being banned well in advance of when they actually do get banned as a back up. This is less suspicious to having to create a new account.

My gut is telling me he has posted before though under a different account.

I would remind you all of this recent post / warning from a couple of weeks ago
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=435932.msg4333026#msg4333026

this kind of excitement was exactly what was anticipated

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Sperm can live up to 5 days in the female body and douching only cleans inside the vagina. Whats left will slowly drip out from the cervix into the vagina over a few days. Do you really want to be swimming with other clients fishes?

Not me  :vomit:

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50 girls in 14 days  thats  3.5  per day every day  :D :D

yes sir, precisely  :hi:

I would remind you all of this recent post / warning from a couple of weeks ago
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=435932.msg4333026#msg4333026

this kind of excitement was exactly what was anticipated

hello detective  :hi:

sorry to disappoint but despite having had the account for years, i barely ever lurk in here. i do not know who the hell pumpdump is. i only ignored your question because i did not think it was that important for you to get an answer to it. i assure you i have never posted on this forum before and this is my only account. why did i suddenly decide to post? well... no big reason really. was bored, just finished a bottle of wine and decided i could have a pretty good input here because of the sheer amount of punting i do.
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personally speaking, the op may think that bb is no more riskier than owo but for me I choose to not partake in bb as I would end up in a state of anxiousness till i get the all clear from a sti screening. So, I choose not to so I can avoid the anxious wait. It is better to just not do bb in general.  :thumbsup:

HIV is my biggest fear, so owo I think is fine but barebacking is a big fat NO for me.

Other opinions are available  :hi:

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He wasn’t suggesting that it was that.. more this..
Doxy PEP (doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis) significantly reduces the risk of bacterial sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including syphilis, chlamydia, and gonorrhea, by approximately two-thirds in high-risk individuals, such as men who have sex with men (MSM) and transgender women. It involves taking a single 200mg dose of doxycycline within 72 hours of unprotected sex. While effective, ongoing research is monitoring for potential impacts on antibiotic resistance, and long-term effects and use in other populations are still being studied
Im actually really curious as to where this 2/3 effective (or any other such statistic) comes from. I guess the number we care about is how likely am I to catch something if I have sex with someone who is already infected. But presumably no-one is doing that actual experiment for all sorts of reasons. So what are they doing? At a guess probably growing cultures in a lab. But that is pretty far from the same conditions of actually having sex which would presumably change the numbers, possibly a lot. The other interesting thing is what are the numbers for doing nothing. If I have sex with an infected partner without protection and use this doxy stuff I have a 1 in 3 chance of coming out with an infection, but what is the number without doxy? And again how do they come up with that? Doesnt really change any of these discussions I guess but I am curious

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Im actually really curious as to where this 2/3 effective (or any other such statistic) comes from. I guess the number we care about is how likely am I to catch something if I have sex with someone who is already infected. But presumably no-one is doing that actual experiment for all sorts of reasons. So what are they doing? At a guess probably growing cultures in a lab. But that is pretty far from the same conditions of actually having sex which would presumably change the numbers, possibly a lot. The other interesting thing is what are the numbers for doing nothing. If I have sex with an infected partner without protection and use this doxy stuff I have a 1 in 3 chance of coming out with an infection, but what is the number without doxy? And again how do they come up with that? Doesnt really change any of these discussions I guess but I am curious

Good question  :thumbsup:

In essence you select a group of people say around 500 and half of them are given the doxycycline and the other half are not. This group are selected on the basis that they are all engaging in sex without condoms. Then you routinely test them all every 3 months. Both groups are therefore equally affected by the variable percentage risk variation you describe, of condomless sex with an infected person and for a specific STI. Any difference in the test results is then attributed to the effect of the doxycycline.

It is important to note that while we are talking about say a 2/3 reduction overall if you tested a group of people who always used condoms with multiple sexual partners that figure for bacterial infections would be vastly higher.

All these regimes are designed to reduce STI's because condom use is far from the norm in civilian life.


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 i only ignored your question because i did not think it was that important for you to get an answer to it.

All my questions are important to me.

You seem to be still here?

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Regardless of any personal risk, using any antibiotic more than you need to, including for prophylactic purposes, is an inconsiderate thing to do as it increases the speed at which an antibiotic resistant bacterial strain might appear. There are already known to antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhoea, and potentially any bacterium can make the evolutionary leap. Then we're all up shit alley.

Yes you are right, this is a concern. However Doxycycline is one of the tetracycline group of antibiotics which have been around for a long time. They have been successfully used as very long courses to treat acne without any major issues in relation to resistance.

Many strains of Gonnorhea are already resistant to doxycycline which is partly why the results are less favourable. The doxypep regime is expected by some to make this worse.

As I said in my other post you can use condoms for all sexual activity which when used correctly, will provide a very high level of protection and without any side effects or subject your body to long term chemicals and the consequences of such and which still won't be as effective.