Novaleexo - Crewe

[AnonymousMan2342]

Nova's Adult Work Profile link: External Link/Members Only

I have previously seen Nova three times between May and July, and all sessions were good. I treated her well and respectfully. I do not feel able to leave her three positive reviews on here because of how she has handled my recent bookings. If Nova refunded me my deposits, I would consider writing three positive reviews on here.

I booked a three hour duo session for 18 November 2025 and an overnight session for 21 December 2025, paying £300 and £575 deposits respectively in June. In mid July, I decided to cancel both bookings and requested a refund. Nova refused. I gave four to five months’ notice, which is far more than most clients provide, and I think a refund would have been fair.

As soon as I mentioned cancellation and requested a refund, she said she accepted the cancellation but stated that my deposits would not be refunded, and then she ignored me. She did not reply to any of my messages or answer my calls. I have made every attempt to resolve this and I am no longer going to contact her.

Nova claimed she could not refund the deposits because she lost other bookings and had to change her December plans. However, who makes plans for December in June or July? She also does not have November or December listed as available on her profile, so it is unlikely she had other bookings.

At the time of the bookings, Nova did not make it clear that deposits were non-refundable, and this was not listed on her Adult Work profile. Only after my request did she update her profile to clarify this.

Potential clients should be aware that deposits are not refundable and ensure terms are clear before booking. Nova has acted unfairly in this situation and, in my experience, can be quite ruthless. I think her handling of this matter was unreasonable, particularly given the very early notice, lack of other bookings, and my respectful, reasonable attempts to resolve the issue.

I hope Nova will reconsider and issue a refund for the deposits, which I think would be fair and appropriate under the circumstances.

[Cupid Stuntz]

External Link/Members Only

[scutty brown]

So as I understand it, you had three good meets with her but will only write positive reviews for those when she returns the deposits for two other future bookings which you wish to cancel?
Deposits are usually paid to secure a confirmed booking and in most other forms of business are non-refundable. You pay the deposit to secure a booking ahead of anyone else, and if you change your mind then tough shit - you lose it.
I don't know what agreement you had with this girl but to my eye you are coming across as somewhat disingenuous and coercive, almost blackmailing her in an attempt to get the money back. If I were her I'd tell you to get lost.
I'm sure others here will look at this differently, but to my eye you made a stupid decision to book so far in advance and now you're trying to wriggle out of the commitments.

her terms on deposits are quite clear

I may require a deposit to confirm some bookings, this can be for a variety of different reasons included but not limited to...
- The booking is being made in advance
- This is your first booking with me
- You’re making a booking whilst I am on tour
- You have a history of late cancellations or no shows

Deposits are typically 25% but can be more under some circumstances, this can be paid by bank transfer and the remaining balance can then be paid either in cash or by bank transfer on the day of our booking, before we start.
Deposits are nonrefundable unless I need to cancel for any reason, in which case your deposit will be transferred back to you as soon as possible or can be used to rearrange for another date. If you cancel more than 48 hours before our booking, you may be offered to use your deposit towards rearranging at a later date, granted that date is not too far after our initial arranged booking and depending on the nature of the cancellation.

That's quite clear with no wriggle room for you
She last logged into the profile on Friday, which is the most recent time she could have made any changes. You're complaining today afterwards.

[Chris1990mcr]

Who the fuck books a prostitue 4/5 months advance with a deposit.

[mikewelsh1]

Nova claimed she could not refund the deposits because she lost other bookings and had to change her December plans. However, who makes plans for December in June or July?

No offence mate but you made plans for December in June/July and at the time of paying the deposit you asked her to do so as well !!

[Cryton123]

I’m sure deposits are usually non-refundable in most business deals.

You cancelled and are using a negative review to get back at her.

I’d say you need to grow up and accept you fucked up 

[AnonymousMan2342]

So as I understand it, you had three good meets with her but will only write positive reviews for those when she returns the deposits for two other future bookings which you wish to cancel?
Deposits are usually paid to secure a confirmed booking and in most other forms of business are non-refundable. You pay the deposit to secure a booking ahead of anyone else, and if you change your mind then tough shit - you lose it.
I don't know what agreement you had with this girl but to my eye you are coming across as somewhat disingenuous and coercive, almost blackmailing her in an attempt to get the money back. If I were her I'd tell you to get lost.
I'm sure others here will look at this differently, but to my eye you made a stupid decision to book so far in advance and now you're trying to wriggle out of the commitments.

her terms on deposits are quite clear

That's quite clear with no wriggle room for you

Thank you for your perspective. I want to clarify that my intention is not to coerce or pressure anyone. My previous sessions with Nova were positive, and I treated her respectfully.

My concern is about how deposits for future bookings were handled. I gave four to five months’ notice of cancellation, which is far earlier than most clients provide. At the time of booking, her profile did not indicate that deposits were non-refundable. After my cancellation request, I attempted multiple times to resolve the situation amicably, including offering alternatives, but my messages were ignored after she stated the deposits would not be refunded.

It is not like I cancelled at the last minute, causing her to lose money from bookings she could have taken. In this situation, Nova does not lose anything by refunding me. In the past, I have had other escorts refund deposits in similar circumstances when cancellations were made well in advance, which I think is fair practice.

As a goodwill gesture, I would be happy to write her positive reviews for my previous sessions. This is in no way blackmail.

My review is intended to share my experience, inform potential clients, and encourage a fair resolution. I hope this clarifies that my actions were reasonable and respectful, and that my request for a refund is simply about fairness rather than coercion.

[AnonymousMan2342]

Who the fuck books a prostitue 4/5 months advance with a deposit.

I understand it may seem unusual to book so far in advance, but paying a deposit is a standard way to confirm a advanced booking. My intent was always to respect the booking process and act fairly. I will not do this again.

[scutty brown]

.......... I do not feel able to leave her three positive reviews on here because of how she has handled my recent bookings. If Nova refunded me my deposits, I would consider writing three positive reviews on here...........

As a goodwill gesture, I would be happy to write her positive reviews for my previous sessions. This is in no way blackmail.

Doesn't quite gel does it? Two statements are diametrically opposed.

Personally I don't think this thread should even be a review, but I've asked the mods to decide on that

[AnonymousMan2342]

Nova claimed she could not refund the deposits because she lost other bookings and had to change her December plans. However, who makes plans for December in June or July?

No offence mate but you made plans for December in June/July and at the time of paying the deposit you asked her to do so as well !!

I understand your point, but the key issue is not that I planned for December early. It is that Nova claimed she could not refund the deposits because she lost money from other bookings. At the time of paying the deposits, her profile did not indicate that they were non refundable. I gave four to five months notice of cancellation, so she did not actually lose any bookings she could have taken instead. My concern is simply about fairness, not the timing of the booking.

[scutty brown]

I understand it may seem unusual to book so far in advance, but paying a deposit is a standard way to confirm a advanced booking. My intent was always to respect the booking process and act fairly. I will not do this again.

Confirmation means "confirmation".
Not "confirmation until I cancel"

[AnonymousMan2342]

Doesn't quite gel does it? Two statements are diametrically opposed.

Personally I don't think this thread should even be a review, but I've asked the mods to decide on that

I do not want to blackmail anyone. I am not that kind of person. I simply think it is unfair that I am not receiving a refund after giving her plenty of notice for the cancellations. I just want my money returned. If this is not resolved, I am prepared to take legal action and contact my bank.

[AnonymousMan2342]

So as I understand it, you had three good meets with her but will only write positive reviews for those when she returns the deposits for two other future bookings which you wish to cancel?
Deposits are usually paid to secure a confirmed booking and in most other forms of business are non-refundable. You pay the deposit to secure a booking ahead of anyone else, and if you change your mind then tough shit - you lose it.
I don't know what agreement you had with this girl but to my eye you are coming across as somewhat disingenuous and coercive, almost blackmailing her in an attempt to get the money back. If I were her I'd tell you to get lost.
I'm sure others here will look at this differently, but to my eye you made a stupid decision to book so far in advance and now you're trying to wriggle out of the commitments.

her terms on deposits are quite clear

That's quite clear with no wriggle room for you
She last logged into the profile on Friday, which is the most recent time she could have made any changes. You're complaining today afterwards.

Nova updated her terms only after she refused to refund me. At the time of booking, I was not aware that deposits were non-refundable. Nova and I had met three times previously, and all sessions were positive, so we had a good client escort relationship.

[johnny34]

Nova's Adult Work Profile link: External Link/Members Only

I have previously seen Nova three times between May and July, and all sessions were good. I treated her well and respectfully. I do not feel able to leave her three positive reviews on here because of how she has handled my recent bookings. If Nova refunded me my deposits, I would consider writing three positive reviews on here.

I booked a three hour duo session for 18 November 2025 and an overnight session for 21 December 2025, paying £300 and £575 deposits respectively in June. In mid July, I decided to cancel both bookings and requested a refund. Nova refused. I gave four to five months’ notice, which is far more than most clients provide, and I think a refund would have been fair.

As soon as I mentioned cancellation and requested a refund, she said she accepted the cancellation but stated that my deposits would not be refunded, and then she ignored me. She did not reply to any of my messages or answer my calls. I have made every attempt to resolve this and I am no longer going to contact her.

Nova claimed she could not refund the deposits because she lost other bookings and had to change her December plans. However, who makes plans for December in June or July? She also does not have November or December listed as available on her profile, so it is unlikely she had other bookings.

At the time of the bookings, Nova did not make it clear that deposits were non-refundable, and this was not listed on her Adult Work profile. Only after my request did she update her profile to clarify this.

Potential clients should be aware that deposits are not refundable and ensure terms are clear before booking. Nova has acted unfairly in this situation and, in my experience, can be quite ruthless. I think her handling of this matter was unreasonable, particularly given the very early notice, lack of other bookings, and my respectful, reasonable attempts to resolve the issue.

I hope Nova will reconsider and issue a refund for the deposits, which I think would be fair and appropriate under the circumstances.

The only negative here is your own stupidity paying sizable deposits so far in advance. Using this negative with the promise of a positive if she refunds you is a very underhand tactic (at the very least) and not how this site should be used.

Agree that this should be moved to the discussion thread 

[AnonymousMan2342]

I’m sure deposits are usually non-refundable in most business deals.

You cancelled and are using a negative review to get back at her.

I’d say you need to grow up and accept you fucked up 

Nova did not make it clear at the time that deposits were non-refundable. She has only recently updated her profile to clarify her refund policy.

My intention is not to get back at her but to inform potential clients of my experience.

I gave her four to five months’ notice of the cancellation, which should have been enough time for her to fill the bookings.

I have had other escorts refund me when I needed to cancel with notice.

[AnonymousMan2342]

The only negative here is your own stupidity paying sizable deposits so far in advance. Using this negative with the promise of a positive if she refunds you is a very underhand tactic (at the very least) and not how this site should be used.

Agree that this should be moved to the discussion thread 

I understand your point, but I want to make it clear that I am not acting underhandedly or attempting to blackmail anyone. My past sessions with Nova were positive, and I always treated her respectfully. My intention is not to punish or coerce her, but simply to share my experience and encourage a fair resolution regarding deposits that were not clearly stated as non refundable.

As a goodwill gesture, I mentioned that I would be happy to write positive reviews for our previous sessions if the situation is resolved. This is not a threat or a condition. It is simply a way to show that I have acted reasonably and respectfully throughout.

At the time of booking, I was not aware that deposits were non refundable. I gave her plenty of notice so she could fill the bookings and not lose any money.

I do not want to be unreasonable here. I think the fair thing to do would be for Nova to refund the deposits so that neither of us loses out. I gave a lot of notice for cancellation and refund, and I think it is unfair that she will not return the money.

I know I should never have made advanced bookings. I have learnt from this, and I know it was a silly thing to do.

[Aji81]

If Nova refunded me my deposits, I would consider writing three positive reviews on here.

So you admit the whole point of this review is to try and get your money back. If the meets had gone ahead you would have quite happily not posted about them. As someone else said, the way you have framed this is certainly coercive.

However, who makes plans for December in June or July?

You do! Genuinely befuddled that you are booking that far ahead. I’ve had meets arranged on the same day fall through at the last minute. Astonishing to think booking an SP that far ahead is a good idea. Got very little sympathy for you unfortunately.

[AnonymousMan2342]

So you admit the whole point of this review is to try and get your money back. If the meets had gone ahead you would have quite happily not posted about them. As someone else said, the way you have framed this is certainly coercive.

You do! Genuinely befuddled that you are booking that far ahead. I’ve had meets arranged on the same day fall through at the last minute. Astonishing to think booking an SP that far ahead is a good idea. Got very little sympathy for you unfortunately.

It is a mix of both informing others about my experience and trying to get my money back. I want to make it clear that I am in no way blackmailing or being coercive towards Nova. That is not the kind of person I am. I simply feel it is unfair for her not to refund my money, especially as I gave four or five months notice.

I think that amount of notice is more than reasonable and would have given her enough time to rebook those dates without losing out. My aim here is only to be fair and transparent.

I also realise I was foolish to book advanced sessions with large deposits. I am not looking for sympathy. I know it was a silly mistake, but that does not make me a bad person.

Nova probably will not care whether I leave positive reviews or not. My main concern is simply getting a fair resolution regarding the deposits.

I know that some people’s comments on this review may make me look silly or unreasonable. All I am saying is that it is fair to receive a refund for deposits that I did not know were non refundable. At the time, her profile did not mention anything about refunds being non refundable. As I have said, I gave her four or five months notice. I do not feel that I am being unreasonable. I do not want to cause any harm to Nova. I just want my money returned and to move on.

I do not want to do anything illegal. I do not want to be horrible or mean. I am not that type of person. Nova and the other escorts I have seen know that.

[Prince]

Why did you cancel?

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[Sonofsalop]

So the OP is upset that he paid a deposit then complains when it isn’t refunded. Clearly a mistake on his part and the SP is under no obligation to refund. Then posts a review as sour grapes for a meet that didn’t happen through his choice. Surely not a review then? On top of this then offers to add a positive review if the deposit is refunded.

From where I see it this is a blatant attempt to cause harm to what appears to be a good service provider, the SP has done nothing wrong and just reinforces that you should never pay a deposit.

[AnonymousMan2342]

Why did you cancel?

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I have nothing negative to say about Nova in the sessions we had together. I do not wish her any ill. My intention is not to cause any harm to Nova. I do not want to blackmail her or cause her any distress. I am really not that kind of person. Nova knows, deep down, that I have always treated her well. She also knows that this situation is unfair.

I cancelled the advanced sessions because, after reflecting on our previous meetings, I realised the arrangement might not be suitable for both of us. I gave her four to five months notice so she had plenty of time to rebook the dates, and I acted responsibly and fairly.

At the time of booking, her profile did not clearly state that deposits were non refundable. I paid deposits for two advanced sessions, and I think it is fair to request a refund given that she does not lose any money. The only person who loses out is me.

My aim in writing this review is not to cause harm to Nova or to coerce her in any way. I simply want to share my experience and encourage a fair resolution regarding deposits. I hope this provides clarity for other clients and for Nova herself.

[AnonymousMan2342]

So the OP is upset that he paid a deposit then complains when it isn’t refunded. Clearly a mistake on his part and the SP is under no obligation to refund. Then posts a review as sour grapes for a meet that didn’t happen through his choice. Surely not a review then? On top of this then offers to add a positive review if the deposit is refunded.

From where I see it this is a blatant attempt to cause harm to what appears to be a good service provider, the SP has done nothing wrong and just reinforces that you should never pay a deposit.

I understand your point, and I accept that booking advanced sessions with a deposit was a decision I made. My review is not intended to cause harm to Nova, and I am not trying to punish her in any way. My aim is simply to share my experience with deposits that were not clearly stated as non refundable and to encourage fair treatment.

I have had positive sessions with Nova in the past, and I have nothing negative to say about those meetings. My intention is not to blackmail or coerce her, and the offer to write positive reviews is simply a gesture to show that I have acted respectfully and reasonably, not a condition or threat.

I think the key point for potential clients is to be aware of deposit policies and that giving ample notice when cancelling is responsible and fair.

[Sonofsalop]

I understand your point, and I accept that booking advanced sessions with a deposit was a decision I made. My review is not intended to cause harm to Nova, and I am not trying to punish her in any way. My aim is simply to share my experience with deposits that were not clearly stated as non refundable and to encourage fair treatment.

I have had positive sessions with Nova in the past, and I have nothing negative to say about those meetings. My intention is not to blackmail or coerce her, and the offer to write positive reviews is simply a gesture to show that I have acted respectfully and reasonably, not a condition or threat.

I think the key point for potential clients is to be aware of deposit policies and that giving ample notice when cancelling is responsible and fair.

If you have had a positive previous experience surely you should add it as a review. Offering to only add a positive review if your deposit is returned to you is blantantly extortion whether you keep claiming it isn’t your intention to coerce/blackmail or not. This is what you are doing.

[AnonymousMan2342]

If you have had a positive previous experience surely you should add it as a review. Offering to only add a positive review if your deposit is returned to you is blantantly extortion whether you keep claiming it isn’t your intention to coerce/blackmail or not. This is what you are doing.

I want to clarify that I am not blackmailing or coercing Nova in any way. My past three sessions with her were positive, and I have always treated her respectfully.

I have only recently joined UKPunting, and at this time I do not feel able to leave positive reviews for Nova. My past sessions with her were positive, and I have nothing negative to say about them. However, given the current situation regarding deposits, I am choosing not to post reviews for now.

My review is simply to share my experience regarding the booking and cancellation process. The deposits were not clearly stated as non refundable at the time of booking and cancellation. I gave Nova four to five months notice so the dates could be rebooked, and she does not lose any money in this situation. The only person affected is me.

I am sharing this to encourage transparency and fairness for other clients, not to attack or cause harm.

[Sonofsalop]

I want to clarify that I am not blackmailing or coercing Nova in any way.

Except you are.

[AnonymousMan2342]

Except you are.

I want to be clear that I am not blackmailing or coercing Nova. My past three sessions with her were positive, and I treated her respectfully. I am sharing my experience regarding deposits that were not clearly stated as non refundable and cancellation with 4 to 5 months notice. My intention is not to harm or punish her, but to provide transparency for other clients. I feel it is not appropriate to give feedback and acknowledge the positive experiences I have had with her.

Nova does not care whether I leave feedback or not. At this point, the only way I can pursue a resolution is through legal action and contacting my bank regarding the deposits.

[Blackpool Rock]

On the face of it i'd say that the OP has been here for 10 days and has contributed 5 reviews already which is just the kind of new member that the site wants and needs.
However from history and the posting style / creating so much controversy already in my experience these members don't tend to last too long 

What I would say is that this is a review site for the benefit of punters on this site and experienced members will all say that AW feedback and reviews is worthless / generally BS, UKP members also don't respond well to the fluffy AW style comments like "Treat her well" 

Perhaps if the OP had done a Positive review for all of the good meetings that he'd had before then doing a Negative it would have been viewed as being balanced but this does read as a give me my money back and i'll then do you the Positive review so effectively blackmail.

As i've said reviews should be for the benefit of members so report factually and include the good; the bad and the ugly

I also note that the OP's 1st review was also a Negative in which he had issues with her shorting him time and asked for some money back, actually IMO that's fair enough however he didn't get as much back as he wanted and states that an extra £75 refund would have changed it from a Negative to a Positive, i'm sensing a pattern here 

Taylor, if you are reading this, I want to say that if the remaining £75 had been refunded, I would not have written a negative review

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=438212.0

Fair play that you are prepared to wedge up some serious dosh for these longer punts but in some cases it may be worth seeing the girl for a few shorter sessions 1st to make sure you think a longer one would work, reading between the lines i'm wondering if you would consider yourself somewhere "On the spectrum" 
That's not me trying to be nasty but rather asking if perhaps the girl may not have felt 100% comfortable especially after quite a few hours at the end of a long punt so that's why she bailed out a bit early 

[AnonymousMan2342]

On the face of it i'd say that the OP has been here for 10 days and has contributed 5 reviews already which is just the kind of new member that the site wants and needs.
However from history and the posting style / creating so much controversy already in my experience these members don't tend to last too long 

What I would say is that this is a review site for the benefit of punters on this site and experienced members will all say that AW feedback and reviews is worthless / generally BS, UKP members also don't respond well to the fluffy AW style comments like "Treat her well" 

Perhaps if the OP had done a Positive review for all of the good meetings that he'd had before then doing a Negative it would have been viewed as being balanced but this does read as a give me my money back and i'll then do you the Positive review so effectively blackmail.

As i've said reviews should be for the benefit of members so report factually and include the good; the bad and the ugly

I also note that the OP's 1st review was also a Negative in which he had issues with her shorting him time and asked for some money back, actually IMO that's fair enough however he didn't get as much back as he wanted and states that an extra £75 refund would have changed it from a Negative to a Positive, i'm sensing a pattern here 

Taylor, if you are reading this, I want to say that if the remaining £75 had been refunded, I would not have written a negative review

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=438212.0

Fair play that you are prepared to wedge up some serious dosh for these longer punts but in some cases it may be worth seeing the girl for a few shorter sessions 1st to make sure you think a longer one would work, reading between the lines i'm wondering if you would consider yourself somewhere "On the spectrum" 
That's not me trying to be nasty but rather asking if perhaps the girl may not have felt 100% comfortable especially after quite a few hours at the end of a long punt so that's why she bailed out a bit early 

Positive Reviews
I have previously written three positive reviews for three different escorts. My past sessions with Nova were also positive, and I have nothing negative to say about those meetings. I have always treated her respectfully.

Taylor
My first negative review was for another escort, Taylor. This was because she provided 6 hours and 30 minutes when I had paid for 8 hours. To be fair, she refunded me £150 for the missing hour, but did not refund £75 for the remaining 30 minutes. I felt my time was not fully respected.

Nova
The negative review for Nova is because I booked two sessions in November and December back in June. I decided to cancel in July, giving four to five months’ notice. At the time of booking, her Adult Work profile did not make it clear whether deposits were refundable or non-refundable. She has since updated her profile to clarify this. I feel it is unfair and unreasonable that I am not refunded.

I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not blackmailing or coercing Nova or Taylor. Blackmail is defined as threatening someone to gain money, services, or advantage. Coercion is using threats or pressure to make someone act against their will. I have done neither. I did not say to Nova or Taylor: “Pay me or I will leave a negative review”.

I was hoping that by sharing my experience, Nova might reconsider the situation, but this is not a threat. My intention is to share my experience and provide transparency for other clients, not to punish or intimidate anyone. Nova likely does not care about my review.

Lessons Learned
I acknowledge that booking long sessions and paying large deposits in advance was a mistake. I have learned that three to four hours is a more suitable duration. I am learning from each experience and will continue to write fair and honest reviews.

[scutty brown]

I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not blackmailing or coercing Nova or Taylor. Blackmail is defined as threatening someone to gain money, services, or advantage. Coercion is using threats or pressure to make someone act against their will. I have done neither. I did not say to Nova or Taylor: “Pay me or I will leave a negative review”.

I was hoping that by sharing my experience, Nova might reconsider the situation, but this is not a threat. My intention is to share my experience and provide transparency for other clients, not to punish or intimidate anyone. Nova likely does not care about my review.

No coercion, no threat?
So WTF is this?

I have previously seen Nova three times between May and July, and all sessions were good. I treated her well and respectfully. I do not feel able to leave her three positive reviews on here because of how she has handled my recent bookings. If Nova refunded me my deposits, I would consider writing three positive reviews on here.

In other words you'll give her three positive reviews if she pays you. Sounds like coercion to me

[AnonymousMan2342]

No coercion, no threat?
So WTF is this?

In other words you'll give her three positive reviews if she pays you. Sounds like coercion to me

I want to make it very clear that I am not blackmailing or coercing anyone. Blackmail is when someone threatens harm or negative consequences unless they get what they want. Coercion is when someone uses force, pressure, or intimidation to make someone do something against their will. I have done neither.

At no point did I say to Nova, “Refund me or I will leave a negative review”. I also did not say to Taylor, “Pay me seventy five pounds or you will get a negative review”. That is not how I act.

Because I feel that Nova handled the deposits unfairly, I do not feel able to leave positive reviews for her right now. If she were to refund me, I would consider leaving three positive reviews reflecting our previous good sessions. This is not a threat, it is simply an explanation of my position and what I would do if the situation were resolved.

Nova and Taylor are in control of what they do. I have no influence over them and I respect their decisions. I treat escorts fairly and respectfully. My reviews are my honest experiences, both positive and negative, and are meant to provide transparency for other clients.

[AnonymousMan2342]

I want to make it clear that I have never intended, and do not now intend, to blackmail or coerce any woman, including Nova and Taylor. I have never threatened a woman or tried to make her act against her will.

To be clear:
- Blackmail is demanding money, services, or something else from someone by threatening to reveal damaging or embarrassing information about them.
- Coerce means forcing or pressuring someone into doing something against their will through threats, intimidation, or undue influence.

These are serious words and should not be used lightly. I do not think I have engaged in any of them.

Nova provided three positive sessions, all of which I have no complaints about. I think she enjoyed them as much as I did. I treated her fairly and respectfully, always honoring her limits and boundaries, as I do with all escorts I see. I am sad that things have ended sourly and negatively, as I did like Nova.

My frustration is that Nova has not acted in good faith regarding the £875 she owes me. I gave her 4–5 months’ notice, allowing ample time to take other bookings and avoid any loss. I have treated her well, and at no point did her profile indicate that deposits were non-refundable, though she has since updated it.

UKPunting is a public website where people are free to leave reviews about escorts, whether positive or negative. I am entitled to write my review, and Nova is under no obligation to read it or take any notice. Writing a negative review does not constitute blackmail or coercive behaviour. If Nova refunds the money she owes me, I am open to writing three positive reviews on UKPunting, but that decision is entirely up to her. Any positive reviews I would leave would be genuine and honest. I expect that Nova will see this but likely will not be affected.

This will be my last post on the matter. I think I have explained myself enough, including the issue, what I am unhappy about, and having to defend myself against accusations that are not true.

[MissWolf]

OP you can say you are not blackmailing, being coercive or trying to harm as much as you like, till the cows come home and the sun fails to rise BUT YOU ARE.

The very nature of the words you are using, if she repays you then you will write positive reviews are exactly that.

I mean you crack on and keep saying you are not and you will eventually believe it, then you can justify your actions and words in your own mind and you can feel better about this and feel like the victim because you didn't get your deposits back

because you are not persuading anyone else.

Face facts, you fucked up, you made the mistake and you need to own that, not blame this escort for your failings, I almost never comment on a review as its not my place on other escorts reviews but you need a reality check.

Give your head a wobble and learn to own your mistakes, what use any of your reviews are after this I do not know 

[Tommygunn81]

Yep if I’d done this bud, I’d have realised I’d fucked up. If I pay a deposit it would usually be for a well known meeting within a week or two. Regardless of timing it’s always a risk to give an SP money because there are no guarantees attached. If she had cancelled on you and not given the money back then that’s a different matter but a deposit in my eyes is seen as non refundable if you change the plans. Whilst her profile didn’t say that it was non refundable, it wouldn’t have said it was either. Rooky mistake and a lesson learned (albeit an expensive one!) just move on matey 👍🏻

[Heph]

Bizarre though making such a distant advance booking is (unless it was to take the broad on an overseas trip, it's more than likely just not necessary) I'm with the reviewer insofar as requesting and expecting a refund is reasonable at that notice. Very few businesses would refuse to refund at such notice, and my view of the floozie is that her reason for refusing is just utter codswallop and cheap, unforgiveable scamming.

She only accepts bookings made in excess of 48hrs from the proposed meet date with a 25% booking- also bizarre; and as is more or less gospel on this site, not something that a punter should be doing.

As to the rest, OP, you've made yourself abundantly clear what your intention is and isn't- there's no need for any more Peter Tatchell-like disclaimers on every post.
Better luck with the next!

[lewisjones23]

I do not want to blackmail anyone. I am not that kind of person. I simply think it is unfair that I am not receiving a refund after giving her plenty of notice for the cancellations. I just want my money returned. If this is not resolved, I am prepared to take legal action and contact my bank.

Please let us know how the legal action goes you absolute clown 🤡

[Sinnerman10]

Who the fuck books a prostitue 4/5 months advance with a deposit.

AnonymousMan2342 does 

[Rack Admirer]

Who the fuck books a prostitue 4/5 months advance with a deposit.

 

Old saying: there's nowt so queer as folk.

[MissWolf]

The irony here is that if the OP had written this review, saying he had had positive experiences with Nova previously and was disappointed by her not at least returning 50/60/70% of the deposit as a good will gesture, given the time frames involved and left out his statement that he would write 3 positive reviews if she returned his deposit, this review would have gone down very differently.

[Novaleexo]

Hiya, I’m Novaleexo and indeed am the escort mentioned in this review…
I have read through the terms and conditions of this site and to my knowledge i am allowed to have an account on here as long as I disclose my working name, as I have clearly done so here.
My sole purpose of commenting on this review is to add a few rather large details that the reviewer failed to disclose, this is only to provide transparency so anyone who reads through this review has all of the necessary details regarding how this situation came to be. If I am doing anything that goes against any site policies within this reply, please be sure to let me know and I can attempt to make the correct amendments.

I had a total of 3 bookings with this punter and as afar as bookings go they were positive, however I did have to mention to this punter on multiple occasions that he would need to cut down on the messaging between bookings as they were becoming increasingly obsessive and I simply don’t have the time to reply to multiple large paragraphs that don’t contain any relevant information regarding our bookings.
The reason the punter decided to cancel our 2 future bookings has conveniently not been disclosed; the punter found another account of mine on a separate site under the same name (this is a public online account so there is no issue with this being found, the issue was created by his actions afterwards), took it upon themselves to compare them to anyone who had left me a verification and compare any similarities they have in order to send a very lengthy message regarding why they think it could be acceptable for me to see them as “more than just a client” and instead on a personal level. The punters messages towards me had become increasingly obsessive and in one message stated “I’m becoming more obsessed with you” where he had also taken screen shots of my content (located in a private gallery that had to be purchased to see), without my consent, to send me large messages detailing what was liked about the clothing or little to non that I had worn in said content. Although claims have been made that these screen shots have been deleted and were only made with the intent to send to me (which I did not consent to nor ask for) it is beyond my knowledge as to whether this is truthful or not.
Before I was able to reply, the punter also disclosed their interest in wanting to see me once a month starting from January, which as I could see their behaviour was becoming increasingly obsessive, harrassive and was starting to make me rather uncomfortable and concerned, when I did reply I simply stated that although I am more than happy to continue with the 2 bookings that had already been made and had been confirmed with deposits, I would not be accepting any further bookings with this punter from January onwards and expressed my concerns and reasonings as to why this was.
This punter then decided they would instead like to cancel and demanded a refund of the deposits, I informed them that the deposits in this circumstance were non refundable it had been their decision to cancel. As can be shown from this negative review, the punter was not happy about not receiving the deposits back and continued to harass me regarding various ways of how they wanted to change their mind, making demands about how we could change the bookings so better use would be made of these deposits by altering the lengths, keeping one booking and cancelling the other, trying to go ahead with the overnight but change the location, demanding the deposits back again etc
After the relentless messaging I expressed that it would be best to leave things here as it had been their decision to cancel and a refund would not be given.
After being blocked due to the relentless messaging and calls I had received, the punter then decided to contact me on another number and also tried to guilt me into paying back the deposit by bringing up their current personal situation.

I knew a review on here was likely to come at some point as it had been lightly mentioned that the punter would hate to have to leave a negative review for me with the hopes the situation could be resolved. I am not the only person who has received this treatment from this punter and they have had others refuse bookings as a result but it is not my place to disclose any specifics regarding those situations.


I would also like to add that my deposit policy has been displayed on my profile for quite some time, I just have recently added a new tab on my profile with an entire section regarding deposits as a result of this situation to ensure this is more clear for future punters.

I hope this reply can add the transparency that the original review was lacking, thank you for taking the time to read

[Blackpool Rock]

Well thanks to Nova for providing a bit more info, quite a lot there, indeed a bit like a reverse review 

Taking it at face value it doesn't surprise me that the OP has become a bit obsessive as I and others have questioned whether he's perhaps somewhere on the spectrum etc.

I would have thought however that given he cancelled the bookings so far in advance it would have been easier to have just given him all of the money back to get rid of him along with a message that you were doing so on the basis that he never contacted you again
The bookings were so far in advance that it's not as if you lost money due to not being able to get another punter at short notice, these longer bookings however would have been worth a lot of cash I guess and you knew that you wouldn't get the same amount of money from bookings nearer the time so you kept it as once it's in your hand /bank account it's harder to let it go
In respect of not returning 100% of the money IMO you made a bad decision for a few different reasons     

[lewisjones23]

Hold on a sec, isn't the punter one of the ' treat her well ' sheep?

Surely he couldn't have acted like an obsessed wierdo .... 

[Blackpool Rock]

Hold on a sec, isn't the punter one of the ' treat her well ' sheep?

Surely he couldn't have acted like an obsessed wierdo .... 

Yeah he didn't realise that he'd unwittingly signed up for the "pagpig Package" 

[Strawberry]

Hold on a sec, isn't the punter one of the ' treat her well ' sheep?

Surely he couldn't have acted like an obsessed wierdo .... 

He probably also had good AW feedback.

[OakTree]

Well thanks to Nova for providing a bit more info, quite a lot there, indeed a bit like a reverse review 

Taking it at face value it doesn't surprise me that the OP has become a bit obsessive as I and others have questioned whether he's perhaps somewhere on the spectrum etc.

I would have thought however that given he cancelled the bookings so far in advance it would have been easier to have just given him all of the money back to get rid of him along with a message that you were doing so on the basis that he never contacted you again
The bookings were so far in advance that it's not as if you lost money due to not being able to get another punter at short notice, these longer bookings however would have been worth a lot of cash I guess and you knew that you wouldn't get the same amount of money from bookings nearer the time so you kept it as once it's in your hand /bank account it's harder to let it go
In respect of not returning 100% of the money IMO you made a bad decision for a few different reasons 

Yeah I agree. Much as I think he is a right tool she could have saved herself a lot of grief by handing back the money or at least some of it. Although that’s not guaranteed, it would have least put her in a better light.

There’s probably more to come from this fella.

[Sinnerman10]

Last active 18th September 06:43:38pm
Hoping he comes back on, so I can hear his part 2 side of the story 🍿 

[MissWolf]

Gents I understand your opinions that nova should have given at least a percentage of the deposit back and I'm sure it would have lessened the hassle she has clearly experienced, but sometimes even that doesn't stop it because nothing but all is enough and then when its all given back they still keep going.

If you take into account all of the messaging and interaction between bookings and the hassle this lady has clearly experienced (we know from his posts he is relentless and can not see any opinion other than his own) its possibly cost nova a considerable amount in admin time, stress and anxiety.

None of us are perfect and no situation is either, none of us know exactly what went on as there are always 3 sides to everything  but fair play to Nova for making an account and using her right to reply in a rational and respectful way.

[Blackpool Rock]

Last active 18th September 06:43:38pm
Hoping he comes back on, so I can hear his part 2 side of the story 🍿 

No doubt this will end up like The hitchhikers guide to the galaxy, a trilogy in 6 parts 

[Rack Admirer]

Maybe there should be a "rules of punting" section on this forum? Never pay a deposit should be one rule. Another rule should be along the lines of: unless a WG offers to meet you without requiring any payment, treat interactions with them as enjoyable and mutually beneficial business transactions.

[Sinnerman10]

No doubt this will end up like The hitchhikers guide to the galaxy, a trilogy in 6 parts 

 

[Blackpool Rock]

Maybe there should be a "rules of punting" section on this forum? Never pay a deposit should be one rule. Another rule should be along the lines of: unless a WG offers to meet you without requiring any payment, treat interactions with them as enjoyable and mutually beneficial business transactions.

I'm sure it will be covered somewhere in "The Wiki"