Dominatrixes - what do you get for your money?

[Buffs1990]

I see a few profiles pop up and the girls themselves always seem hot, but I have no idea what the time does (or could) include.

No shame on those that do, but I have zero fucking desire to have my baws toed or stood on or my nipples in those wee clamps.

I would be up for a wee bit of humiliation and getting smothered by a wee burd in sexy gear.

Is that an option and what would you even ask for in that scenario? It all seems a bit gatekeepy.

And the actual question I suppose. Do they get you off? Or am i exiting the establishmemt with a rager?

And who would you recommend for a first step into this lifestyle?

[ulstersubbie]

Stick to vanilla punts pal, visiting a pro Domme won't benefit you and I speak as a veteran of the BDSM scene, see my reviews. Your best bet would be a SP who offers a bit of fetish/kink besides the standard services, hope that helps.   

[mr.bluesky]

Dominatrixes- what do you get for your money
A sore arse probably 

[Buffs1990]

Stick to vanilla punts pal, visiting a pro Domme won't benefit you and I speak as a veteran of the BDSM scene, see my reviews. Your best bet would be a SP who offers a bit of fetish/kink besides the standard services, hope that helps.   

That was a bit of a fucking eye-opener of a read. It does help, thanks.

[Waterhouse]

Dominatrixes- what do you get for your money
A sore arse probably 

Beat me to it 😂

[Stevelondon]

First of all. Ulster is correct.
Stay away from doms. Nasty horrible people who take your cash and beat the shit out of you most times. 

On a more serious note. You will have to ask yourself what it is you are after. Are you into a little pain, submission etc.
or more likely by the sound of it. You just fancy a bit of the more sexual aspects of BDSM.
The lifestyle as you put it is just that. Folk who live within the dynamics of submission and domination.

I’d probably advise you to go see someone who can cater for a touch of dom fantasy stuff but where sexual play is included.
Why not try Houseofworship in West Kensington for an introduction. If it appeals and you want to try some more serious BDSM play. There are a lot of good pro doms you can look up.

[ulstersubbie]

That was a bit of a fucking eye-opener of a read. It does help, thanks.

Don't be put off by my reviews, some guys are into the gentler side of kink, personally I prefer a more full on experience but that's just me.

[ulstersubbie]

On a more serious note. You will have to ask yourself what it is you are after. Are you into a little pain, submission etc.
or more likely by the sound of it. You just fancy a bit of the more sexual aspects of BDSM.
The lifestyle as you put it is just that. Folk who live within the dynamics of submission and domination.

I’d probably advise you to go see someone who can cater for a touch of dom fantasy stuff but where sexual play is included.
Why not try Houseofworship in West Kensington for an introduction. If it appeals and you want to try some more serious BDSM play. There are a lot of good pro doms you can look up.

I agree with this, good advice for the OP steve.

[Waterhouse]

I agree with this, good advice for the OP steve.

Just read a few of your reviews and was wondering if you’d seen Miss Sultry Belle who’s based in Glasgow?  I’ve not met her myself, but she was really helpful during an email exchange we had regarding dragon canes. Seems like a nice lady, although not sure if she is still seeing clients or just selling content now.

[scutty brown]

Dominatrixes- what do you get for your money
A sore arse probably 

Whipmarks, bruises and scars.
Along with an empty bank account

[ulstersubbie]

Just read a few of your reviews and was wondering if you’d seen Miss Sultry Belle who’s based in Glasgow?  I’ve not met her myself, but she was really helpful during an email exchange we had regarding dragon canes. Seems like a nice lady, although not sure if she is still seeing clients or just selling content now.

Hi Waterhouse, no I've never had the pleasure but she is very well thought of, especially by subs who prefer the very severe side of CP, no doubt you've viewed some of her clips so are aware of her proficiency with the cane and other implements. I get the feeling she's stopped doing sessions, just selling content as far as I know. The only other Glasgow Domme who would be in her league when it comes to CP is Mistress Scarlet who I reviewed a few years ago for UKP, she's definitely worth seeing if you happen to be in Glasgow.

[Colston36]

I see a few profiles pop up and the girls themselves always seem hot, but I have no idea what the time does (or could) include.

No shame on those that do, but I have zero fucking desire to have my baws toed or stood on or my nipples in those wee clamps.

I would be up for a wee bit of humiliation and getting smothered by a wee burd in sexy gear.

Is that an option and what would you even ask for in that scenario? It all seems a bit gatekeepy.

And the actual question I suppose. Do they get you off? Or am i exiting the establishmemt with a rager?

And who would you recommend for a first step into this lifestyle?

Pay no attention to the sweeping dismissals.

It really does depend on the individual - like everything else in life.

For example I see one woman whose main speciality is extreme cruelty but she does other things, scat for instance.

I also enjoy her company.

From what you say you are interested in fairly mild dominance and many deliver that. But as I don't live near you I can't help.

[snoopy]

If you have fantasies about being humiliated, smothered or whatever then go and see a domme and outline what you want. A pro domme will give you what you want and will test your limits if you agree up front. She may let you wank yourself off at the end if you are good, some may wank you off but very few will have actual sex with you. I would see someone who advertises as a professional experienced dominatrix rather than someone who just ticks the box in AW.

[Colston36]

Whipmarks, bruises and scars.
Along with an empty bank account

It depends on what you want. I have never had any of those three.

[big-al93]

Just my personal opinion, you'd be best looking for an escort who is also an experienced mistress. They might, if you explain properly that you are a newbie and curious but concerned, arrange a mild taster session, maybe with latex or PVC, some restraint and relatively mild ( or medium if you are getting into it  )corporal punishment. If they are also an escort it could be arranged that in say a 2 hour appointment be split on a 50/50 basis of taster session and standard escort booking.

Not all escorts can /will do this. Most pro mistresses will not escort. Finding those who are proficient at both is not easy.

[Keema]

Dominatrixes will give you more than you ever dreamed off, but it's theirs to control.

I had a special birthday and wanted to tick off a few boxes - all arranged in advance with a special pick and mix. This selection cost £650 for 2hrs where I drank her pee, was tied up, balls whipped, lost my anal virginity, finishing with me using a mouth dildo.

But her pee was strong and I was blindfolded; being restrained was also blindfolded; while I was bent over, mouth gagged and restrained I was pegged with ever larger dildos; she also made me wear some panties giving me a wedgie and making me watch in a mirror; and finally using the mouth dildo was with her sitting over me whilst she dug her nails into my testicles. 

Dominatrixes give you that extra dimension but they are in charge and they'll humiliate you, but having said all that I've also had one facesitting me whose knickers reeked of summer sweat and laundry powder.

Lots of SPs will do the above, but for me its the immersement and control that makes it different.

[ulstersubbie]

Not all escorts can /will do this. Most pro mistresses will not escort. Finding those who are proficient at both is not easy.

+1

[timsussex]

While I would echo the idea of trying a lady who offers a full service with a bit of BDSM on the side there is little doubt that a pure domme is a very different proposition

You appear to be a bit further north than me so my only advice is to be clear what you want because most ladies offer a very wide range of BDSM services

There is no filter on here so it can be difficult to find BDSM reviews; so you if you find one check out other reviews for that lady and then check out other reviews by those posters

[Waterhouse]

Dominatrixes will give you more than you ever dreamed off, but it's theirs to control.

I had a special birthday and wanted to tick off a few boxes - all arranged in advance with a special pick and mix. This selection cost £650 for 2hrs where I drank her pee, was tied up, balls whipped, lost my anal virginity, finishing with me using a mouth dildo.

But her pee was strong and I was blindfolded; being restrained was also blindfolded; while I was bent over, mouth gagged and restrained I was pegged with ever larger dildos; she also made me wear some panties giving me a wedgie and making me watch in a mirror; and finally using the mouth dildo was with her sitting over me whilst she dug her nails into my testicles. 

Dominatrixes give you that extra dimension but they are in charge and they'll humiliate you, but having said all that I've also had one facesitting me whose knickers reeked of summer sweat and laundry powder.

Lots of SPs will do the above, but for me its the immersement and control that makes it different.

Any chance of a couple of reviews of these visits, or past the review window period (6months)? Maybe links to the girls profiles/webpages if allowed (i.e. not social media) at least? They sound great - right up my street.  Cheers.

[Stevelondon]

Why not Google ‘Pro Mistresses UK’

I found one or two pro doms in the listings who are in Glasgow. I’m sure a polite enquiry to one you like the look of may well be the right way of going about an introduction into BDSM.

But as I said earlier. I think perhaps what you seek is the more sexual aspect of fetish/kink play.
As has also been said. Perhaps a good escort who can dominate should be where you are looking.

[ulstersubbie]

While I would echo the idea of trying a lady who offers a full service with a bit of BDSM on the side there is little doubt that a pure domme is a very different proposition

As you rightly say, a pure Domme is a very different proposition. A lot of men fantasize about BDSM but when it comes to the crunch, they either chicken out or are simply not cut out for it. I'm slightly unusual in that I went for the harder side of BDSM from the off but that's just me, others need to start off less rigourously and figure out what they really want from a session.

[jamiekinkxxx]

For someone who wants to experience it for the very first time, to tease (sorry for the pun) out what they like and do not like I would suggest Steve recommendation of going to House of Worship in West Kensington of alternatively go and see the many Fetish Escorts that offer BDSM services (see my reviews). Neither will be as intense as the real deal (a ProDomme) but it will ensure you know if you to want to progress to more things and up the ante with a ProDomme (see my reviews).

There are now a few (and I mean a VERY few) ProDommes that will offer sexual services in London

[TomTank]

I've done loads of domme sessions in my time, and even today the type of session I want depends on my mood.
I started many years ago with just wanting bondage and a bit of a whipping, got very much into nipple torture, then strapon and anal on me, and no pain, but more recently quite like the pain of canes.
I've also tried water sports, needles, and many other things, and the main thing I like is giving up control to someone who knows what they are doing.

I never get up to Glasgow, but I'm sure it will be similar to here, where you get a variety of looks, services, prices (sone of my best domme punts have been really cheap), so not sure what to advise.

As others have said, work out what you want and do some research - feel free to put potential SPs here to get feedback, and think carefully about what you want e.g. if the atmosphere of a dungeon with leather / latex / PVC is important, you're probably not going to get that in a parlour or indie.

You will almost certainly get the sexual release, and if I had to put figures against it I would say my experience has been:

Less than 1% of places did not result in a happy ending
90% of non-dungeon experiences can get very sexual
- a lot of these (60%) can include full sex
about 30% of pro domme / dungeon experiences can still be quite sexual with a bit of RO etc.

[Stevelondon]

I have not got a clue when it comes to percentages. But I’d go along with TT on this one.
Although I’ve never been into the harder side of BDSM play. I’ve had some incredibly sexual experiences with pro doms.
Oh so long ago now but happy memories.
Sidonia Von Bork
Mistress Caprice in North London but now back in Aus
Electra A More now back in Aus.

Hang on a minute. What is it with me and Aussies 

[MissWolf]

I have not got a clue when it comes to percentages. But I’d go along with TT on this one.
Although I’ve never been into the harder side of BDSM play. I’ve had some incredibly sexual experiences with pro doms.
Oh so long ago now but happy memories.
Sidonia Von Bork
Mistress Caprice in North London but now back in Aus
Electra A More now back in Aus.

Hang on a minute. What is it with me and Aussies 

It's cos you like to go down under.......I'll get my 🧥

[Stevelondon]

It's cos you like to go down under.......I'll get my 🧥

     

[Colston36]

While I would echo the idea of trying a lady who offers a full service with a bit of BDSM on the side there is little doubt that a pure domme is a very different proposition

You appear to be a bit further north than me so my only advice is to be clear what you want because most ladies offer a very wide range of BDSM services

There is no filter on here so it can be difficult to find BDSM reviews; so you if you find one check out other reviews for that lady and then check out other reviews by those posters

As with everything in life you need to be utterly clear about what you want. I once booked an hour with a mistress at a dungeon near where I live, not realising that she delivered pain but not sex. A wasted hour - money lost on a mistake I never repeated.

[Stevelondon]

As with everything in life you need to be utterly clear about what you want. I once booked an hour with a mistress at a dungeon near where I live, not realising that she delivered pain but not sex. A wasted hour - money lost on a mistake I never repeated.

Similarly. I visited a pro dom expecting the pain of frustration through the art of tie and tease……….. and was unexpectedly surprised by what happened.
Of course it was back in the day and as you can all guess. I was even more ruggedly handsome than I am now. 

[scutty brown]

Similarly. I visited a pro dom expecting the pain of frustration through the art of tie and tease……….. and was unexpectedly surprised by what happened.
Of course it was back in the day and as you can all guess. I was even more ruggedly handsome than I am now. 

Let me guess........she gave you real pain   

[Thephoenix]

The experience can vary so much.

Over the years curiosity has led me to seek out pro Dom's occasionally.

However I soon learnt that pain without pleasure wasn't my thing.

At least some would allow you to wank yourself at the end, or bring their female slave in to finish you off.

An experienced Dom who knows how to use  a combination of pain and sensuality can be mind blowing.

[Stevelondon]

Let me guess........she gave you real pain   

Yes. It’s called the tribute