[Beginner] - First Punt Tonight (Nervous)

[Fra_Pandolf]

Hi All,

Brand new to the forum and the scene. Have booked a gorgeous girl to come to mine later on tonight, exchanged some flirty images and stuff ahead of the booking.

With the clock nearing midnight, I'm starting to squirm. This is my first time punting and I'm pretty anxious about going ahead and wondering if anyone had any advice or shared similar cold feet-y feelings prior to a punt.

[big-al93]

My advice would be get a new clock, it's not nearing midnight, it's not even 7pm. 

Seriously though don't think about it too much, so keep busy until you need to get ready, or you risk getting in your own head.

[southcoastpunter]

if they are coming to you - have  alook around your place and make sure there is nothing of significant value around that could "disappear". if there is move it and maybe lock it in a draw, at least put it out of sight!

Take reasonable precautions - ie don't leave your drink unattended and then sit make and think about the pleasure you want to get. think about the services you want - even if they have been discussed before by message, re-confirm the important serices you want with the lady when standing in front of you and before paying her. Most want the money up front - but be careful if there is any mention of "of i am just going to give it to my driver" as some have done a runner . Maybe show her the money and put it on the side "for afterwards".

personally i wouldn't have done an incall to yours as a 1st punt but you have already booked it.

[IBIZA]

Just go for it. What happens, happens.

It’s better to have lived a life trying new things and failing than not trying at all.

No regrets.

Good luck.

[I like natural boobs]

I've punted a long time and I still get a tiny bit nervous sometimes. When I'm nervous I just try to relax and take deep breaths. I know that's an old cliche but it helps me. Things usually work out good. If she's well reviewed with a good reputation you'll almost certainly be fine. Even if she isn't well reviewed I think there's less than a 50% chance of it going horribly wrong. Most of my take one for the team type punts have been fine.
Good luck to you. Hope it goes well.

[Fra_Pandolf]

thanks for the words of advice and wisdom friends. appreciate the warm welcome for a newbie. gonna send it and will report back

[Devon450]

All the best matey, we have all had our first punt at some time. Relax and enjoy it!

[rk_1985]

All the best matey, just relax and try to enjoy it. We all had to start from somewhere! 

[Markc]

All great advice on here and hope the punt goes well for you. Remember to do your review.
If you picked an experienced SP that’s well reviewed you should be fine. Remember she there to give you pleasure.

My first punt which was over 30 years ago was an outcall to my house which l just moved in to. All comms done on
the phone to an agency as there where few mobile phones then. It was the middle of the afternoon when this escort
arrived who was a little older than me, parked on my drive and walked up to the door in high heels, stockings and a short black skirt. Luckily l live in a quiet road and nobody was around as they where at work.

We had a drink together, handed her the fee and told her it was first time with SP. I had a great hour with her and she really looked
after me and l finished in her mouth. Hope your experience is as good as mine was.

[Thephoenix]

Feel the fear and do it anyway!

It's ok to be nervous, and there's nowt wrong with telling the lady it's your first punt.
If she's a decent WG she'll enjoy taking the lead.

[Fra_Pandolf]

fellas. that was pretty excellent.

thanks for the words of encouragement. review coming soon 

[Fra_Pandolf]

just a quick follow up regarding the girl taking the lead, exactly this happened.

we stood in the kitchen a bit awkwardly at first. and i finally just said "sorry im completely new to this" and she pulled me in and kissed me, and away we went from there. top stuff will be back for many more.

[Thephoenix]

just a quick follow up regarding the girl taking the lead, exactly this happened.

we stood in the kitchen a bit awkwardly at first. and i finally just said "sorry im completely new to this" and she pulled me in and kissed me, and away we went from there. top stuff will be back for many more.

Great to hear.

[Chazz]

fellas. that was pretty excellent.

thanks for the words of encouragement. review coming soon 

Brilliant stuff! Now there's one less of them and one more of us! 

[FiveKnuckles]

we stood in the kitchen a bit awkwardly at first. and i finally just said "sorry im completely new to this" and she pulled me in and kissed me, and away we went from there. top stuff will be back for many more.

Guess she's not a Rom then. Else it's evil RBF 

[Stevelondon]

just a quick follow up regarding the girl taking the lead, exactly this happened.

we stood in the kitchen a bit awkwardly at first. and i finally just said "sorry im completely new to this" and she pulled me in and kissed me, and away we went from there. top stuff will be back for many more.

Oh dear. There’s no going back now.

If it had been a disaster. You could have looked back on your life and thought to yourself.
“Where did I get all this money from” 

[shagmore]

just a quick follow up regarding the girl taking the lead, exactly this happened.

we stood in the kitchen a bit awkwardly at first. and i finally just said "sorry im completely new to this" and she pulled me in and kissed me, and away we went from there. top stuff will be back for many more.

would be good to see a review

[daviemac]

would be good to see a review

Give him a chance, he only saw her yesterday.

[TrampZ]

Wellll we are all waiting to see how it went

[daviemac]

Wellll we are all waiting to see how it went

It took you nearly 12 months to post your first review yet here is a new member getting harassed for not posting a review of a punt that only took place yesterday.

What part of "review coming soon" is hard to understand.

[Markc]

just a quick follow up regarding the girl taking the lead, exactly this happened.

we stood in the kitchen a bit awkwardly at first. and i finally just said "sorry im completely new to this" and she pulled me in and kissed me, and away we went from there. top stuff will be back for many more.

Glad it went well for you and hope you enjoyed yourself. We all had a first time. I still get nervous when l see a new SP and l have been doing this hobby for 30 years. Look forward to your review.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Glad it went well, so guess that means 'welcome to the club' 

As others have said it was normal to feel nervous. I love that nervous / excited feeling when seeing an escort for the first time. I see regulars mostly now so that feeling is less often felt by me nowadays

[Stevelondon]

Why does it say the quote was from wbutterworth.

When it was Fre_Pandolf who said it. ?

It’s me innit. I’m missing something.

[Doc Holliday]

Why does it say the quote was from wbutterworth.

When it was Fre_Pandolf who said it. ?

It’s me innit. I’m missing something.

Because his account has had a name change since his original post was quoted. If accounts have a name change any quotes prior to change will show the old username 

[Doc Holliday]

I also note that the review he has posted does not appear to relate to his positive experience, but is instead a negative one of another SP.

[Stevelondon]

I also note that the review he has posted does not appear to relate to his positive experience, but is instead a negative one of another SP.

Thanks Doc. I live and learn 

I did also notice the negative review coinciding with his positive experience.
I asked a question on the review thread.

I’m easily confused 🤷🏼😂

[DastardlyDick]

would be good to see a review

I believe it's suggested that punters leave a time between the punt and writing a review so that the SP can't link the two. Some SPa do not like this site for various reasons, and will refuse to provide services to members.