When an SP remembers you, from a long time ago

[Charliehutton]

I recently paid a second visit to a touring Thai girl, when to my great surprise she remembered we'd met before, despite it having been more than a year earlier. She even remembered where, a different location, in a different town.

This may have been down to my matinee idol good looks and Olympian sexual prowess, but in all honesty I rather doubt it. We tend to think that these girls forget about us the moment we shut the door on the way out, but that isn't always the case. Some of them have the most remarkable memory.

This won't be by any means unusual, and it might be interesting to hear from other members who've had a similar experience.

[KatieEdinburgh]

Some of them have the most remarkable memory.

As a SP I don’t think it’s particularly remarkable

Its just punters assume we all automatically forget everyone as soon as out of the door. When we (usually) don’t .  Can’t speak for everyone but me

Which comes from the wrong assumptions that most escorts are either too ditsy, stupid (?) or we meet wayyy more people than we actually meet

Is it difficult to remember someone after one year? I don’t think so

[Dogfather]

I'm remembered by every S.P. I return to.

Not unusual I think. I guess it's a  moment for them. 

[webpunter]

I reck its from comms texts WA that helps trigger their recollection
Presuming they dont delete messages or change phones
Even tho they have a wide customer base
They'll perhaps remembers +ve's & also those to stear clear of
Then on the meet things start to drop back into place
Also if i've reached out to a long time ago SP / massage burd who perhaps has changed profile / mobile i'll provide a couple of points of reference
Usually works well & as the meet progresses things prettu quickly drop into place
Chit chat niceties etc some bants its nice
Its not the same as ex-sex with a civvy obvs but is along the same lines sort of
Especially when they say stuff like:  i think you like xyz & then do it you say how did you remember that ?
Wonderful whats not to like 
 

[alabama1]

Maybe they just scroll back through text messages we have exchanged on previous visits 

[Strawberry]

I remember some not others, just depends. Can be interesting when a punter changes his contact details or uses a new contact method, makes contact asks do I remember him 'Jim, nice smile, spectacles.'

[Charliehutton]

As a SP I don’t think it’s particularly remarkable

Its just punters assume we all automatically forget everyone as soon as out of the door. When we (usually) don’t .  Can’t speak for everyone but me

Which comes from the wrong assumptions that most escorts are either too ditsy, stupid (?) or we meet wayyy more people than we actually meet

Is it difficult to remember someone after one year? I don’t think so

Interesting. I doubt many of us on here assume escorts are ditsy or stupid, I'd hope not, anyway. I was thinking more of touring Thai girls, most of whom don't do their own communications, and I think - I'm by no means sure - they tend to inherit different 'managers' and different phone numbers as they travel the country. Otherwise, yes, I take the point that our phone numbers would make us easy enough to track.

[poundstock]

Never not been recognised yet. I understand business is business but it gives me a nice feeling to be remembered and an extra good feeling when the lady raises something from a previous visit.

[Doc Holliday]

This is largely explained by the memory capabilities of a given individual in particular the facial recognition component (photographic memory) and then from there linking it to the specific person. This is hugely variable.

The expression 'I never forget a face' applies accurately to some who only see that face once. However not all of those can then link it to the specific person. For others they require to have seen the same face repeatedly for it to be committed to memory at all and often in the same environment.

So the punting scenario has only a minor role in this memory process, except to say that in some cases some SP's may choose to not commit any details to memory 

[MissWolf]

I remember some not others, just depends. Can be interesting when a punter changes his contact details or uses a new contact method, makes contact asks do I remember him 'Jim, nice smile, spectacles.'

Absolutely this 

[Stevelondon]

I’m always amazed if someone remembers me. I have the kind of face most people want to forget. 

But I bumped into Lisa after not seeing her for something like 20 years at the party house in Sutton. She recalled me. I certainly remembered her but then I do have a photographic memory. I can’t remember why I’ve gone upstairs sometimes but faces and tits I have a thing for.

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[webpunter]

I’m always amazed if someone remembers me. I have the kind of face most people want to forget. 

But I bumped into Lisa after not seeing her for something like 20 years at the party house in Sutton. She recalled me. I certainly remembered her but then I do have a photographic memory. I can’t remember why I’ve gone upstairs sometimes but faces and tits I have a thing for.

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There must be some howlers along the way [& i'm not meaning vocal]
If you think you are gonna shoot too quick do you magic these up in your brain ? 

[Stevelondon]

There must be some howlers along the way [& i'm not meaning vocal]
If you think you are gonna shoot too quick do you magic these up in your brain ? 

Different optic I know but as I’ve mentioned on here before. Premature ejaculation worries. Just pop an image of Margaret Thatcher up in your mind.

Worlds equally as well if you imagine her lowering herself onto your face. 

[Thephoenix]

Different optic I know but as I’ve mentioned on here before. Premature ejaculation worries. Just pop an image of Margaret Thatcher up in your mind.

Worlds equally as well if you imagine her lowering herself onto your face. 

I'd have given Margaret one.
I'm quite partial to a bit of hot totty.

[simon07]

The SP know from text records if you have seen them before. Then hey presto they get out their crystal ball and amaze you 

[JonasG]

From my experience most of them tend to remember you. Even with a long gap between the 1st and 2nd visit.

Also may be a case where they don't delete their messages and they can see the text history and then they'll just say out of small talk "i remember I saw you in x town" etc.

Edit: Yes as per the above post.

[FaciallyChallenged]

I’m always amazed if someone remembers me. I have the kind of face most people want to forget

Maybe it is something else about you they remember.

[webpunter]

Different optic I know but as I’ve mentioned on here before. Premature ejaculation worries. Just pop an image of Margaret Thatcher up in your mind.

Worlds equally as well if you imagine her lowering herself onto your face. 

You have a vivid imagination
The lady's not for turning so if you can see her boat you are stuck with it 
Premature ejaculation sorted your erection going down faster than the belgrano 
Edit: there you go again leading me astray on politics 

[Stevelondon]

Maybe it is something else about you they remember.

Well apart from the fact I was only born with one ear. I can’t think of anything. 🤷🏼

[daviemac]

Well apart from the fact I was only born with one ear. I can’t think of anything. 🤷🏼

Pardon?   

[simon07]

It’s all earsay 

[webpunter]

Well apart from the fact I was only born with one ear. I can’t think of anything. 🤷🏼

Can you still hear the burble from your Continental & which window do you have open ?
Presuming not a rag top etc

[mr.bluesky]

From my experience most of them tend to remember you. Even with a long gap between the 1st and 2nd visit.

I remember seeing a certain service provider at a different place to where she used to work and despite the gap of probably 10 years or more she remembered  me. I can only assume it's down to the fact that I'm extremely handsome with a toned muscular body and well endowed .
  ( ok I may have exaggerated one, or two, maybe three of those facts )

[WelshClipper]

There must be some howlers along the way [& i'm not meaning vocal]
If you think you are gonna shoot too quick do you magic these up in your brain ? 

Oh the joy of days when the juice rose quickly.

Not jealous, not jealous.

Enjoy it while you can mon ami 

[WelshClipper]

I’ve had a few that remembered me but only one that stands out.

I saw Tess in 2021 then again in 2024 and she clearly remembered me and the things I enjoyed.

Now she has “semi-retired” and gone to live in Northern Scotland.

Wondered if it’s something I said 

[Doc Holliday]

Re punting I rarely saw anyone more than once, so it is difficult for me to answer accurately on any scale about my personal experience with SPs.

I think most remembered me but I do recall one who I saw twice within six weeks (not intentionally)

She said "I don't think we have met before have we?" I informed her that we had once before and fairly recently. She apologised that she could not remember me. I did feel a little disappointed

10 minutes in and my head moved to between her thighs.

"now I remember you" she said. My pride was restored 

I would emphasise again the huge difference in facial recognition capability. Mine has been very high.. or more accurately was, as I still know I have seen the face before, but sadly struggle these days to know where it was and put a name to it 

There have been many occasions when I have bumped into patients when in public and said 'hello'. These are mostly people who I have seen many times over long periods.

This was mostly reciprocated, but a surprising number just looked blankly at me. Some would politely say hello also, but you could tell they had no idea who I was. Some it took a short while for them to work it out.
 
Interestingly some apologised saying that they didn't recognise me 'outside of work' which confirms many can only remember a face if it is associated with a particular environment

I remember one such extreme example where a lady I had seen as a patient in the morning I saw at lunchtime in a shop and she hadn't a clue who I was.

[topdown88]

Re punting I rarely saw anyone more than once, so it is difficult for me to answer accurately on any scale about my personal experience with SPs.

I think most remembered me but I do recall one who I saw twice within six weeks (not intentionally)

She said "I don't think we have met before have we?" I informed her that we had once before and fairly recently. She apologised that she could not remember me. I did feel a little disappointed

10 minutes in and my head moved to between her thighs.

"now I remember you" she said. My pride was restored 

I would emphasise again the huge difference in facial recognition capability. Mine has been very high.. or more accurately was, as I still know I have seen the face before, but sadly struggle these days to know where it was and put a name to it 

There have been many occasions when I have bumped into patients when in public and said 'hello'. These are mostly people who I have seen many times over long periods.

This was mostly reciprocated, but a surprising number just looked blankly at me. Some would politely say hello also, but you could tell they had no idea who I was. Some it took a short while for them to work it out.
 
Interestingly some apologised saying that they didn't recognise me 'outside of work' which confirms many can only remember a face if it is associated with a particular environment

I remember one such extreme example where a lady I had seen as a patient in the morning I saw at lunchtime in a shop and she hadn't a clue who I was.

I have had the exact same thing too. I always laughed at how stupid people must be to not realise Clarke Kent is Superman. Then when that happened, I realised when we are out of our "work uniform" we aren't recognisable to a lot of people.

[I like natural boobs]

I didn't remember an SP that I hadn't seen for a long time. A sexy mature woman was occasionally on reception at a parlour some time ago, not available for booking. I thought I'd love 30 minutes with her. Turns out she was a former SP at the same parlour and when I heard her name I realised I had had a booking with her about 10 years earlier. I can't remember the exact details of the booking but I remember that I didn't like the feel of her skin because she was covered in fake tan. Not a bad booking but I didn't enjoy it enough to go back. A decade later I didn't initially recognise her and I don't think she recognised me.
I have had SP's remember me after a long time and ones that don't.

[Munter84]

I remember one such extreme example where a lady I had seen as a patient in the morning I saw at lunchtime in a shop and she hadn't a clue who I was.

At a former job I completely blanked a member of middle management I had spoken to the previous day. She was in a different office and wasn't wearing the same clothes, so in my subconscious I suppose she registered as a different person. Embarassing!

I can have a perfectly nice conversation with a new person at a party or in the pub, and minutes after I'm unable to recall their name or the colour of their eyes. But I could tell you what they do for a living, where they live, and the last movie they watched.

As you say, recognition is very context-heavy, but I'm sure I must have a degree of face-blindness (or just be on the spectrum).

[Watts.E.Dunn]

On the publick .. many years ago i started a job in the service department of a electrical goods firm, white goods tv's and the like. The service manager there told me that i'd find that around 80% of the public were thick and stupid.

He was wrong, its more like 90%

Around a year ago i was in a mates car something went amiss with the cluch, he couldnt get it in gear so we were stuck on a road off the A14 interchange near Cambridge it was about a cars width from the verge and crash barrier. we got behind the barrier out of harms was it had its hazard flashers on you would not believe the number of people who stopped behind it and waited there were no other vehicles  in front of  it, it was just thee by itself we  did our best to wave them on but some just stared as us incomprehensively of what was going on!. There was plenty of room to pass it om the right-hand side.

The recovery bloke siad he sees things like that every day he's at work!...