Working Girls Discretion

[FlaccidChimp]

There are masseuses who are selective who they do full service with. Some have even given specific clients free sex before. Have you ever not been offered a service you know they offer to some others? Conversely have you ever been offered extra services not supplied to everyone? How did either of these make you feel? 

I doubt most of us punting look like models but I have seen ones that could be and all ranges of appearances and ages.

[Naughtyboyuk]

I have had both scenarios, not receiving services advertised and receiving services not advertised.  In fact I’ve had the same SPs perform services in one meet which they have not in other meets.

I guess they use their “at discretion” option depending on how they feel in the moment.

[Doc Holliday]

There are masseuses who are selective who they do full service with. Some have even given specific clients free sex before. Have you ever not been offered a service you know they offer to some others? Conversely have you ever been offered extra services not supplied to everyone? How did either of these make you feel? 

I doubt most of us punting look like models but I have seen ones that could be and all ranges of appearances and ages.

Discretion is closely allied with consent. Consent is based on what sexual activity the provider is comfortable engaging in, with any particular punter. As a result both scenarios you describe will occur quite often.

The reasons are highly varied for both outcomes, though looking like a male model is unlikely to be top of the list.

This thread will just turn out to be 'a pissing contest'. It always does with this subject 

[Thephoenix]

Chuffed or disappointed depending on the outcome.

I guess that's life.
You win some and you lose some.

[Stevelondon]

Chuffed or disappointed depending on the outcome.

I guess that's life.
You win some and you lose some.

👍🏻

[jamiekinkxxx]

There is a whole thread (can't remember it's name) that covers this topic.

Always best to do a search first before starting similar / identical thread 

[DastardlyDick]

There are masseuses who are selective who they do full service with. Some have even given specific clients free sex before. Have you ever not been offered a service you know they offer to some others? Conversely have you ever been offered extra services not supplied to everyone? How did either of these make you feel? 

I doubt most of us punting look like models but I have seen ones that could be and all ranges of appearances and ages.

How would you genuinely know  in either case?  A masseuse might tell you she doesn't do a service for anyone else to get more money and another punter might tell you he got something extra as a wind up.

[Doc Holliday]

How would you genuinely know  in either case?  A masseuse might tell you she doesn't do a service for anyone else to get more money and another punter might tell you he got something extra as a wind up.

Yes indeed and that adds yet another layer of inaccuracy and complication to this topic.

[WelshClipper]

The only real weapon you have is

1) complain and demand money back

2) walk before the start if it looks like going south

3) partially shut down her business by a giving a negative review on here

4) leave a “feedback only” on AW which really pisses them off

5) chalk it up to lesson learned

Personally I have had experiences where I have felt short changed and I always assume it’s cos I don’t look like Brad Pitt etc But I have had a few where I was offered stuff not on likes, kissing for example. Another offered me bareback which was really scary. (I refused)

This hobby is a crapshoot in many ways 

[Jujy78]

In my experience most masseuses offer only what's advertised and if they offer anything extra it's at there discretion usually after building a rapport with you and if they take a liking in you. I don't think it's to do with looks or how attractive you are. I think if you go a few times and build a rapport you might be in for something but after a few visits if nothing happens then most likely it'll stay that way. I saw someone few years ago 1st massage was standard 2nd time she allowed me to kiss her. 3rd time I went on top and dry humped her till I came. Then the 4th time I took a condom with me and thought I'll just ask her straight if I can fuck her. I was humping her as usual then I asked her if I can enter her and I have a condom with me she was ok with it. Saw her a few times afterwards and had sex with her regularly only thing is I had to take my own condoms all the time

[myothernameis]

Conversely have you ever been offered extra services not supplied to everyone? How did either of these make you feel?

There was an escort, who now has retired, would offer extra services and not charge, the guys, and this would include workmen, who are doing work on her flat

If your a Scottish punter, the escort in question, was Little Lori, so how did you get the extra services, only by doing work, she requested to be done in her flat

So if she found out you were a painter by trade, she would be looking to get all of her flat redecorated, or do some gardening for her

[harryhavanagh]

I've been punting for many years. Over that time I've probably had 5 girls give me extras that weren't on the likes list, even stuff they've said "Hell No!" to on their profiles, I've been invited by one for a "play date" with her husband and best female friend (that was amazing), I've filmed porn with another and lastly I've been given extra special treatment by one. Now, if I think of the number of women I've punted with in 20 years+, I would say that hit rate is low single digit %. Also had quite a large share of not clicking at all. I would suspect this is average in terms of outcomes for someone who is average looking and being punting a while.

[RedKettle]

I think bareback is a more common extra for regulars than may be suspected. Obviously if both parties happy they stay quiet.

I had it offered many years ago when I was young and stupid so I accepted and shagged her bareback many times.  Lucky escape as caught nothing. I saw her again many years later and planned to say I would be covered but she beat me to it. Clearly both older and wiser.

Was offered again in my UKP period by a girl I had seen a couple of times. Declined and put a warning on here, she would not see me again.

Been hinted at a few other times but I steer away.

Definitely not related to my movie star looks.

[Maak]

The more you build rapport, chances of getting extras. Some WGs are very business minded & would never offer extras

[FaciallyChallenged]

I've been with maybe 10 girls by now? Ain't reviewed the historic ones only ones i seen since starting an account here but of the previous ones a few have offered things outside of their enjoys list. All a bit spontaneously. Maybe I just got lucky with my selection?

Meanwhile my regular £350/week habit still wont even fk... half her reviews mention dfk..lol. Shes a really superficial one though the little brat not sure how shes survived in this business. She complains about clients due to their looks. Like some poor awkward bastard had to gall to ask for her private number recently. Ergh. How dare he?? Doesn't he know I only date models with good faces!! I frequently get gawked at by chris Hemsworth lookslikes who walk into traffic distracted by my amazing looks!! I would never date anything less. Oh apart from you. I would totally let you wine and dine me.. Just not the other ugly guys! I can't be seen with them!!

My takeaway is that every escort seems to have their own threshold and boundaries they are unlikely to cross. No point over thinking why me?? Though everyone has their own suspicions, one escort could have totally different reasons for not offering a service to you from another. I have considered asking why at the end of a session if I get refused something out of curiosity but hasn't happened yet. You just have to find the ones who give YOU what you want and wave sayonara to the rest. I need to take my own advice.

[jamiekinkxxx]

I've been with maybe 10 girls by now? Ain't reviewed the historic ones only ones i seen since starting an account here but of the previous ones a few have offered things outside of their enjoys list. All a bit spontaneously. Maybe I just got lucky with my selection?

Meanwhile my regular £350/week habit still wont even fk... half her reviews mention dfk..lol. Shes a really superficial one though the little brat, not sure how shes survived in this business. She complains about clients due to their looks. Like some poor awkward bastard had to gall to ask for her private number recently. Ergh. How dare he?? Doesn't he know I only date models with good faces!! I frequently get gawked at by chris Hemsworth lookslikes who walk into traffic distracted by my amazing looks!! I would never date anything less. Oh apart from you. I would totally let you wine and dine me.. Just not the other ugly guys! I can't be seen with them!!

My takeaway is that every escort seems to have their own threshold and boundaries they are unlikely to cross. No point over thinking why me?? Though everyone has their own suspicions, one escort could have totally different reasons for not offering a service to you from another. I have considered asking why at the end of a session if I get refused something out of curiosity but hasn't happened yet. You just have to find the ones who give YOU what you want and wave sayonara to the rest. I need to take my own advice.

Why is she a regular if you think of her like this?

[FaciallyChallenged]

Why is she a regular if you think of her like this?

I aint even started on what I think. Shes an utterly insufferable, self important, odious excuse for a human... And a massive time waster. I feel sorry for her clients who put their trust in her as she gets alot of older divorced soppy types seeking companionship. The only reason I tolerate her is the same reason many men put up with women they can’t stand, shes hot as hell and just my type.

[Momodan38]

I aint even started on what I think. Shes an utterly insufferable, self important, odious excuse for a human... And a massive time waster. I feel sorry for her clients who put their trust in her as she gets alot of older divorced soppy types seeking companionship. The only reason I tolerate her is the same reason many men put up with women they can’t stand, shes hot as hell and just my type.

I’ve revisited girls who I’ve given negatives and neutrals to, simply because I’ve found them hot as hell and at the end of the day I just wanted sex so no harm no foul.

However I’ve never revisited a girl I found insufferable especially to the point where I would wish misery upon them like you have.

[Mstar86]

I aint even started on what I think. Shes an utterly insufferable, self important, odious excuse for a human... And a massive time waster. I feel sorry for her clients who put their trust in her as she gets alot of older divorced soppy types seeking companionship. The only reason I tolerate her is the same reason many men put up with women they can’t stand, shes hot as hell and just my type.

But don’t review her and just gatekeep lol

She must be great if you’ll put up with all that!

[FaciallyChallenged]

But don’t review her and just gatekeep lol

She must be great if you’ll put up with all that!

Whatever private gripe I hold about her off stage personality or how little I think of her , shes sitting on many positives on here so shes clearly delivering where it matters to most clients.

[advent2016]

Some regs I see have reduced their published likes but still offer them to me. Often these are quite specialized niche things like snowball/cumswapping. When I review sometimes I leave these out. There is a welll know SP who claims not to have sex any more, only BJ, but if you offer her £100 you can have sex with condom like the old days but only if your the last customer and a reg. I think she said BJs are generally quicker and she can process more and be home in time for Pointless.
If they stop offering, I never push it. One SP now just does massage and HJ where previously did FS she had many reports of other services I occasionally jokingly ask, and she says "Next time my friend will be here, and she does everything" I've been back and never seen the "friend"

These days I often just have kissing, RO and a BJ