I don't give a damn about kissing. Am I eccentric?

[Colston36]

My inclinations are somewhat extreme, so maybe I am eccentric, but I can't see why those who like being kissed feel that way. The lady doesn't know you from Adam in most cases. She surely can't care for you. can she - beyond the cash?

[Stevelondon]

    Maybe some of us just like to pretend more than others.

For that hour or two she really is in love with me 

[hendrix]

Not a service I look for, does nothing for me really.

[Colston36]

   Maybe some of us just like to pretend more than others.

For that hour or two she really is in love with me 

The ones in love cause the most trouble if I remember rightly. But I have been married three times.

[Stevelondon]

The ones in love cause the most trouble if I remember rightly. But I have been married three times.

 

[sammathy]

My inclinations are somewhat extreme, so maybe I am eccentric, but I can't see why those who like being kissed feel that way. The lady doesn't know you from Adam in most cases. She surely can't care for you. can she - beyond the cash?

The idea of liking someone doesn't exist in a long term vacuum. You can like someone for 30 minutes, you can also like someone for 30 years. You can also like multiple people at the same time. The lips are also well-known erogenous zones. Put both concepts together and you get an escort who genuinely likes you for 30 minutes because you're a great kisser. The money, in that scenario, is just a barrier of entry for you to both be comfortably acquainted.

But why do you care if it's genuine love/like or not anyway? Surely you're able to compartmentalise, right?

[southcoastpunter]

 some guys like licking pussy, some don't. Some like kissing some don't! I like both! Personally i think kissing helps make it a little more "intimate" rather than just "fucking". I like the "build up" to fucking and for me, kissing is part of it.

would i not book someone if they didn't kiss but were really hot and good in every other way ? - i probably would still book them but i would enjoy it just that little bit more with (good) kissing. For me it doesn't have to be DFK - but (pretend) passionate kissing does it for me!

[shyleo]

For me it's probably naughty lust.
A good deep french kiss can get the SP's juices flowing and help with my erection.. win;win

[scutty brown]

Kissing is just instant pre-packaged halitosis. Do you really want to exchange saliva with a tongue that's just been licking some sweaty blokes knob or arsehole?

[sammathy]

Kissing is just instant pre-packaged halitosis. Do you really want to exchange saliva with a tongue that's just been licking some sweaty blokes knob or arsehole?

Then why do anything? Why even go outside without a gas mask because that patch of air you just breathed in is full of staphylococcus, which can also be found in sweat and feces. The bugs will get us eventually, so let us indulge in the present!

[Billy no mates]

I also am not interested in kissing, maybe it’s us perverts that are like this?

[B4bcock]

Kissing, in my experience, is a service which varies wildly between SP's.  I've paid £20 or even £30 extra for it in some punts and received lacklustre pecks and I've visited SP's who include it as part of their service who have snogged me and pulled me into them as if I was their boyfriend who had just given them a diamond ring.  This variation is not surprising as, psychologically, it is often harder for a woman to kiss a man for whom they have no feelings than it is to lie back and let him fuck her.  I always look to have good kissing as part of a punt, if possible, and when I look back on my best meetings a common factor is that they have all included quality, passionate kissing. 

[Jujy78]

I can't cum without kissing. Doesn't have to be lips can be anywhere in the face or neck. When I was young it didn't bother me but now maybe now I need that intimacy

[standardpostage]

I love kissing, very erotic and sexy 

There's a well known proverb; A kiss a day, keeps the doctor away 

[hendrix]

I also am not interested in kissing, maybe it’s us perverts that are like this?

 

[Jazzy99]

I like kissing. Big wet sloppy df kisses. Best experience was with someone called (?)Barbie - Polish girl I think years ago. And Jaime of HoD or Annabellas again years ago. But I'm highly selective on who I engage with. Bad teeth / breath will be instant turn off.

[pythondan]

I actually value a good kisser more than a girl who is good at owo.

The best part of a punt for me is snogging a girl as I cum in her pussy (covered).

When I started punting it was in parlours in the South West and none of the girls kissed and very few did owo. I remember my first visit to Sandys in Manchester and was amazed at how the girls there kissed. I think I went three times in the four days I was staying there for work.

[Waterhouse]

Kissing, in my experience, is a service which varies wildly between SP's.  I've paid £20 or even £30 extra for it in some punts and received lacklustre pecks and I've visited SP's who include it as part of their service who have snogged me and pulled me into them as if I was their boyfriend who had just given them a diamond ring.  This variation is not surprising as, psychologically, it is often harder for a woman to kiss a man for whom they have no feelings than it is to lie back and let him fuck her.  I always look to have good kissing as part of a punt, if possible, and when I look back on my best meetings a common factor is that they have all included quality, passionate kissing.

Have you tried the famous “£20 kiss test” technique to determine the good dfk vs. the lacklustre and mediocre?   
 

[signy]

I also am not interested in kissing, maybe it’s us perverts that are like this?

I would say that I am solidly in the pervert camp, but love kissing, especially if it is deep and sloppy. After a while, we all find out what works for us as individuals, and what doesn't. We then try and make each punt as "ideal" as possible. I'll do most things, but don't enjoy rimming on me (I like rimming her); just boring and a quick path to erection loss.

[scouting]

We all have our favourite activities. Like pythondan I find soft sensual kisses more important than owo. Only thing is I like Thai girls and they're not usually that into it, so when I find one that is I am very pleased.

[coolkid05]

I suppose each to their own I guess. Personally kissing, especially DFK is something I love, and adds to the passion of the encounter. If a girl doesn't kiss, then I probably wouldn't see her. I love it when the girl kisses my neck, sucks on my earlobes and things like that too.

Some guys may like bondage, but personally the thought of it does nothing for me. I don't think it's weird or anything - it just so happens to be something that doesn't float my boat. At the end of the day, we're all different and have different things that we're into.

[Mstar86]

I go with the moment and have no blanket rule for anything in punting.

Do I want to kiss this particular SP?
Does she seem clean / fresh?
Do I fancy the pants off her?
Am I being pulled into her gravitational field?

I’ve only kissed 2 and that was Your_Baby1 & Brandi_British. Both were EXCELLENT GFE and DFK was included and well reviewed.

I wouldn’t pay a girl to kiss as it could mean she doesn’t fully enjoy it.

[OakTree]

Not a deal breaker for me. If I’m honest as time has gone by my approach to it has changed. I find quite often now rather not wanting to kiss. It can seem too intimate. I certainly never initiate it and I’m inclined to let them make the first move if that’s what they want to do.

[mr.bluesky]

Have to agree, it does nothing for me although I don't mind my todger being kissed 

[snaitram99]

We all have our favourite activities. Like pythondan I find soft sensual kisses more important than owo. Only thing is I like Thai girls and they're not usually that into it, so when I find one that is I am very pleased.

I much prefer lip kissing to trying to stick your tongue down each other's throats.

As everything with Thais, you may find they will kiss after you've seen them a few times. If not, there's always the breasts and nipples (preferably natural, also a rarity with Thais)

[FLYING BLUE]

My inclinations are somewhat extreme, so maybe I am eccentric, but I can't see why those who like being kissed feel that way. The lady doesn't know you from Adam in most cases. She surely can't care for you. can she - beyond the cash?

I feel the same.
It's never been a deal breaker for me and in fact, something I generally don't care for.
Kissing makes the whole thing too intimate (for me) which some may think strange, given that I enjoy OWO, RO & rimming
Kissing was something reserved for girlfriends & then wife.
We are all different

[Mr Sinister]

In all my years of punting I've probably just lip kissed like 2 wgs, sorry I just get weirded out by the fact they've had multiple cocks in their mouth, maybe rimmed as well day in day out. I've had wgs wanting to kiss me but refused them.

Kissing is reserved for someone I want to be deeply intimate and connected with

[Barneypunt]

In all my years of punting I've probably just lip kissed like 2 wgs, sorry I just get weirded out by the fact they've had multiple cocks in their mouth, maybe rimmed as well day in day out. I've had wgs wanting to kiss me but refused them.

Kissing is reserved for someone I want to be deeply intimate and connected with

Agreed. Will never kiss an sp 

[JontyR]

I'd prefer to have proper snogging. However I'd much rather have a completely detached encounter than one with bad kissing or where you can feel the teeth tightly clenched behind being pecked at like a chicken picking up bits of grit.

[the_exile]

The best part of a punt for me is snogging a girl as I cum in her pussy (covered)

This can be great but would not fussed if there wasn't any kissing

[RogerHealey]

I suppose each to their own I guess. Personally kissing, especially DFK is something I love, and adds to the passion of the encounter. If a girl doesn't kiss, then I probably wouldn't see her. I love it when the girl kisses my neck, sucks on my earlobes and things like that too.

Some guys may like bondage, but personally the thought of it does nothing for me. I don't think it's weird or anything - it just so happens to be something that doesn't float my boat. At the end of the day, we're all different and have different things that we're into.

Yep, got to agree. Of course we're all different as many have said already so there's truth in most people's comments. And though it's not a deal breaker the best way I can explain the turn-on of intimate kissing is it feels like they're giving themselves to you - a willing surrender if you like. Best established with regulars when you properly know each other.  Utterly pointless if just going through the motions of course. That's my two pennieth anyway...... next!

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

I guess a key factor is whether the punter is married or not......as good snogging can be had from the missus or girlfriend.

But for me...a singleton, deep sensual kissing can add so much to a punt beyond just a fuck'n' blow, especially when the SP is really into and feeling  it too.

Boosts the happy hormones, dopamine, serotonin, oxytonin, but also reduce cortisol, etc, can even breathe life into a flagging limp dick ahead of round 2..

(just don't forget your 28% Listerine in yer pocket).

[akauya]

I only enjoy kissing when I'm emotionally attached to the woman I'm kissing.

In punting kissing doesn't do much for me. 

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Known a couple of girls one a massage one who's tounge is a wild animal and another escot who's much the same, makes a lovely differnce IMHO!...

[Malvolio]

I very much enjoy tongue-on-tongue action with a WG, and it definitely helps me get hard again for the second round.

As with most things in life, each to their own.

[Thephoenix]

Kissing when you're cumming is rather nice, and visa versa.

[Munter84]

The lady doesn't know you from Adam in most cases. She surely can't care for you. can she - beyond the cash?

I think perhaps the above reveals why you don't value kissing; it sounds like something you only do with somebody who you have a genuine romantic or emotional attachment to.

For me, (passionate, deep) kissing is primarily a sexual act. It's foreplay. And I bloody well enjoy it.

[rockharders]

Kissing is not essential but if the girl is into it I'm all up for it as it does enhance the experience for me.
My best punts usually have lots of DFK.

[Illuminated4000]

A punt without kissing is foreign to me.

[FaciallyChallenged]

Bit of a different response this.. I wouldn’t initiate it myself, but if they offer it then I take it as a nice gesture. That said, I’m unlikely to go along with it. Of the five meets I've had so far kissing has come up as a discussion point twice. The idea appeals, but in practice, it feels *too* staged. I obviously know the meets are staged for my enjoyment. That's what I'm paying for..But I get more out of my sessions when I think there will be some feeling of mutual enjoyment (whether real or fake from their perspective) and with kissing, I just struggle to believe they would get anything out of it with me so I leave it. Now, if I was normal looking, I would certainly do it.

In short, I’m sparing the girls the chore of locking lips with a very ugly bloke partly down to my own insecurity. Make of that what you will.

[Doc Holliday]

In short, I’m sparing the girls the chore of locking lips with a very ugly bloke partly down to my own insecurity. Make of that what you will.

Your choice of UKP username would seem to hint as insecurity issues 

You could of course be a great kisser, in which case she just needs to close her eyes 

The advent of the GFE has meant kissing is on the menu when years ago it was far less common. It is always an interesting discussion and I am in the camp that, whilst this highly intimate activity is normally automatically 'part and parcel' of civilian relationships, its inclusion in sex work is far less straight forward.

As a result and as I have posted before, I have always been very choosy about who I kiss.

[Devon450]

Back when I started punting I wasn't fussed either way about dfk. Probably due to my then regular girl not offering it.
Nowadays dfk is a must for me, find it adds to so much more to the passion.

[gentlemencaller]

I think level of kissing depends on the SP. Some of my b&s punts I didn't want kissing. One of my early punts wasn't keen on kissing at all.
Personally I find it a turn on but I find excessive kissing with a new SP a bit of a turn off.
If the SP was FAF lack of kissing would not be a problem

[Heph]

Colston, I'd have guessed and said that your indifference made you unusual in that regard, but, judging from our fellow punters' responses - not so!

Apparently kissing is not only *not* the universal phenomenon that anyone raised on Hollywood romances might have supposed, but it's probably a minority preference (ableit a large one); at any rate, far less popular in Asia and Africa than in the cultural west and south America.

[nbarnes]

I'm the same.

While I love kissing and being kissed, kissing for me is more intimate than sex. I know that probably sounds crazy.

You kiss the people you love. I don't even kiss my regular who I genuinely like!

[Stevelondon]

I'm the same.

While I love kissing and being kissed, kissing for me is more intimate than sex. I know that probably sounds crazy.

You kiss the people you love. I don't even kiss my regular who I genuinely like!

Load of married blokes on here thinking to themselves,

“Bloody hell, when was the last time I kissed the missus” 

[Doc Holliday]

Load of married blokes on here thinking to themselves,

“Bloody hell, when was the last time I kissed the missus” 

Appreciate was posted in jest, but it does highlight the intimate role of kissing in human behavior. Many people (of both sexes) will have lovingly kissed their partners on a daily basis, irrespective of the sexual status of their relationship. We may also kiss our children and other family members even friends though maybe only on cheeks. The 'peck' has a meaning and quite a deep one.

Kissing may be part of sexual activity also, but between two people who have no genuine relationship or attraction and which is likely to be the norm in paid encounters (though not always) it does not have that same meaning and is a false 'mechanical' act.

Conversely, there is also no other sexual act that crosses over into our daily lives (legally at least) as a human social trait. Kissing is special.

[jeanphillipe]

My inclinations are somewhat extreme, so maybe I am eccentric, but I can't see why those who like being kissed feel that way. The lady doesn't know you from Adam in most cases. She surely can't care for you. can she - beyond the cash?

Didn't care for then I discovered properly dfk with tongue. It's a very sensual experience.

I started my escorting journey as somewhat of a snowflake ... slowly descended in to depravity....

[TrampZ]

It's an absolute must when I punt...

[Pleiades]

some guys like licking pussy, some don't. Some like kissing some don't! I like both! Personally i think kissing helps make it a little more "intimate" rather than just "fucking". I like the "build up" to fucking and for me, kissing is part of it.

would i not book someone if they didn't kiss but were really hot and good in every other way ? - i probably would still book them but i would enjoy it just that little bit more with (good) kissing. For me it doesn't have to be DFK - but (pretend) passionate kissing does it for me!

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