This thread has me

you lot are brilliant sometimes

OP chillax and go with the flow, the biggest turn off for me is when I'm in full on snog mode and the guy stops and asks' how do I turn you on' or ' tell me how to turn you on' seriously lads we are not a kitchen appliance.
If the guy I'm with is enjoying himself then I enjoy myself more, do your research and pick someone who is renowned for good service no matter if you look like Brad Pitt or wer beaten with the ugly stick, just be clean, be on time and don't overthink it.
As for the hope of making them horny to get better service, see above regarding research and attitude.
Personally and this is just me, I gave up faking an orgasm most of the time because I realised most clients are not offended if I don't cum, my whole focus is making sure my clients have a very good time and leave satisfied with wobbly legs

occasionally I have to fake it if I get someone who is so bloody determined to make me that it becomes his entire mission and painful to boot, I do it to shut them up and then plead sensitivity, bookings like that have the opposite effect and the more someone tries and the more they focus on just that the more turned off I get.
Obviously I do orgasm in bookings and its a nice bonus sometimes but its almost always a surprise and with guys that on paper don't tick my boxes, but they are the relaxed ones who just let it all happen naturally and easily, the banter and laughs are good, the hand and oral skills are good, or good for me as we are all different and it just happens.