Isn’t it a bit much that this gent seems to be getting pushed to name the SP? Shouldn’t that be his call if and when he feels comfortable?
Has anyone actually addressed his question? It reads to me like he just wanted to see if anyone could relate after a new experience.
Maybe this is why most punters are keeping quiet, who’s going to say anything if they know it’ll bring the same scrutiny?
And let’s be honest… don’t we all assume most SPs are doing BB in their personal lives anyway, if not with the odd favourite regular?
Here's the thing:
1) If you are cautious about bareback, being concerned about your sexual health and the implications that has for current and future relationships why would you engage in bb with a high risk sex partner?
2) If contrary to 1) you thought "fuck it I fancy bbing her" why would you want to increase both your and her risk by signposting her (or indeed any SP you've ever declared seeing) to other (more profligate) barebackers on a Punting forum? Pretty dick move, hence condemnation above.
3) So whether you want to minimise the health risk or maintain the privacy of both parties, why mention it at all? Especially on a forum known to be used by barebacking punters, some of whom seem quite reckless. Receiving utc extras from SPs, especially extras that they tell you not to tell others about and particularly those given gratis, should be kept secret to respect the person you supposedly like, to limit risks and perhaps maintain the privilege (assuming you're not some morally confused nut).
4) So you go ahead and ask publicly on a Punting forum, what are you really doing? A lame Punting flex about how much of a man you are that some SP wanted you raw? Are you, after at least a decade of being sexually active, really so immature and inept that you have to ask strangers who pay for (risky) sex what to do when a woman you find attractive wants to bb you? If you genuinely wanted a serious bit of advice then why not message one of the older, wiser heads privately, like Doc Holiday, Kev40ish or Colston36.
Ultimately, as has been said, the only person you should be discussing any concern about bb with is the woman whom you've been frequenting this past 10 years (without reviewing even once) and has offered it, whether as a paid extra or free.
