i have stayed away from this thread so far because its just wrong wrong wrong!
There is a difference between wrong and illegal. Depending on exactly what you say it may not be illegal or even "wrong" but what is considered "wrong" is surely about what most people in society would say is acceptable or unacceptable. you are getting little support on here where you might expect more guys to be on your side but they are not. surely that should be telling you something! Ladies getting wolf whistles or calling from passing motorists or from walking past building sites etc used to be ok but it is not regarded as acceptable these days so is wrong - and some polce forces are arresting guys for doing that so its also now potentially illegal.
to me this says an awful lot about you and not in a complimentary way - its bloody arogant of you! You looked at a lady and jumped to the conclusion that she must be a a SP - probably because the way she was dressed she was also "asking for it" too?
maybe its because of men like you that many younger women feel like the do - some of my Seeking young ladies when they go out with a couple of their girl friends for a dance and chat, go to gay clubs - not because they are gay (they are not) but so that they don't get hassled by guys all night. also they have told me that they contstantly get hassled / tried to be chatted up wherever they are - even in airports etc and get asked for their number, when i said why not just say "no thanks " and don't give your number they said because some guys then get aggressive and or abusive . so i said give a false number but no, they said in front of them and dial it then to make sure it works!
So whilst you think "i didn't force her to give me her number" maybe she felt she had it otherwise the situation might have got nasty.
again this says a lot about you - its not about "winning"
I'll engage with all your points 1 by 1 to avoid confusion in my reply;
1. A lot of guys on here probably don't support Liverpool, but that hasn't stopped me going to Anfield the last few years. I disagree with it being wrong. I'd suggest that people have a problem with it because it's a cheatcode to getting the women you want. All I've actually recommended originally is to go get a lookalike escort or even the real thing if she's an SP. If I had the spare time and necessary funds, I would have
eventually met her anyway, just from putting into AW what I would have seen without approaching and going through the the massive list of blonde girls with blue eyes who are shorter than 165cm 1 by 1. That is a world apart from wolf whistling at a passerby in the hopes of getting reciprocated attention.
2. We all make judgements of what we see when we first meet someone. I didn't say she looked like she was asking for it. I said she looked like she openly sold sex, that's all. There's nothing wrong with that and I have the utmost respect for women who do. However, at no point did I proposition her and she felt comfortable and attracted to me in enough of a way to give me her phone number.
3. So unless a girl meets a guy on Seeking, she automatically feels hassled? Maybe some girls just prefer to meet guys through Seeking because they're more inclined to men who can afford to go on dates with them at Benihana instead of Burger King. Like I said in my previous reply, she had the choice to leave at any time, speak to another passenger or train staff when I went off to get food, or contact the BTP who would most definitely have come to arrest me by now if I had done something wrong. I'm also socially calibrated enough to be able to tell when I'm bothering someone. I also have an unlimited amount of sexual options on AW amongst all the other sites, as we all do, that I don't feel the need to be nasty with women in the slightest because of sexual frustration, which is what you're trying to insinuate. If things aren't going my way, I leave because I don't feel any owe me anything and there's always another girl who might like me, so why waste time trying to convince the one in front of me if she doesn't already?
4. So if it's not about winning, then I'm supposed to feel hard done by and that I lost out, every time I interact with women? At the end of the day, what is the difference between my original advice and for example, my mate telling me after a double date with him and his new beau, that the girl I was with is so-and-so off of AW, an escort site? If anything, I’d feel like a mug for unknowingly taking a prostitute out on dates in the hopes of sex when I could’ve just paid her.
