I have a couple of regulars, but one is quite inaccessible at the moment, so I'm on the lookout, hence why the party with Horny Lucy, Platinum Cindy, Kinky Kelly an Maggie21 at the weekend was such a good idea. I now have a girl in mind who I'm going to see 1-2-1 and see how it goes.
If she is half as good as she was at the party, I can see her being regular.
But it is a different dynamic. With a regular you build trust and can really push the envelope. I'm seeing a very well regarded girl on here fairly frequently, and the first time it was good. We clicked, so the second time we pushed the boundaries and it was fantastic. We're meeting this week and have been discussing the various perversions we'd like to indulge in, and it should get better and better with every session.
It does help that we are both total perverts, but I'd be very reluctant to do some of the stuff we do with a totally new girl with no prior introduction. There is every chance she'd freak out, but 2-3 sessions down the line, when the trust is there? Absolutely! I wouldn't see a girl for a second time unless she was a pervert like me. That is no reflection on some very nice girls that I've seen, it is simply the difference between a regular and the excitement and novelty of a one off of a new girl.
Also there is the natural passion.
I'm very Dom and real sub/Dom play is not about abuse, it is about erotic control. If you get a true submissive you can feel her swoon when you dominate her. It is actually very loving an tender in an odd sort of way (this is probably making no sense!) and after she has submitted, she is 'rewarded' for her efforts with loving, erotic sex.
For that to happen, you need a regular girl. A one off isn't going to be able to master that in a single session unless they are a seasoned submissive.