Gifts

[arthurm]

Do you sometimes give a gift to your regular WG? If you do, what do you usually get?

[jseop109]

I've only done it once, to a former longtime regular. She was actually in a massage parlour but provided extras. I gave her a TKMax voucher.

I guess an issue with giving gifts is that you don't know the WG's personal home circumstances so a very visible gift could pose a problem for her.

[RandomGuy99]

It has been covered a number of times before

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=390794.msg3969533#msg3969533

I think the general view was that giving gifts can send the wrong message to SPs and some SPs can find it a bit awkward.

In the past I have given gifts sometimes lingerie or outfits as I want to see the SP in them, but I don't anymore. Some people think it's a good idea and others not. You have to remember it's not a relationship. It's a paid shag business transaction and you don't want to blur the lines.

I've sometimes had SPs pass gifts they've received on to me like bottles of wine or chocolates especially during busy periods like Christmas.

The best gift you can give them is your regular business.

[daviemac]

Do you sometimes give a gift to your regular WG? If you do, what do you usually get?

How does the SP explain to family and friends who don't know she's an SP where the gift came from?`

[Hornydevil666]

I think if you wanted to do an authentic GFE then taking a £10 bottle of Proseco to a meet would feel what a boyfriend would do , that being said if you wanted an authentic GFE then you would have to spend 35 mins trying to persuade your girlfriend you suck your meat before she eventually gives in.

No where in the history of time has a man went to see his girlfriend and she jumps on him withing 30 seconds of him getting in the house/ flay/ room 🤣

[MLawro93]

I give simple gifts, and if I know them a bit better, then will give a gift for a landmark birthday or something. Nothing major, just something to mark the occasion, could be as simple as flowers. Just being friendly, never intend it to mean more as I generally enjoy giving gifts to people.

[Punterperson1971]

I give simple gifts, and if I know them a bit better, then will give a gift for a landmark birthday or something. Nothing major, just something to mark the occasion, could be as simple as flowers. Just being friendly, never intend it to mean more as I generally enjoy giving gifts to people.

I do it occasionally with a regular as she’s knows I’ve had to deal with some bad stuff in the past few years and she’s been a big support too it’s just nice to show your appreciation at times

[RandomGuy99]

You could do an Amazon gift card or similar which you buy anonymously in a high shop and add money to using cash and then the SP can choose to spend it on whatever they like.

[LauraHoD]

The best kind of vouchers are the ones that you can spend on anything you want. They come in different colours..red ones are the best I believe. They have numbers and pictures on them too which is pretty cool.

That's obviously just me trying to be funny. You are best off just asking her what kind of thing she likes. Lots of men think chocolates, wine, flowers. But not if you're on a diet, tee total or allergic. So probably best to ask first before you waste your money.

Unfortunately a lot of these gifts whilst gratefully received (hopefully lol) end up being given away or abandoned.

[finn5555]

Giving gifts to them 

I don’t get why you would want to it’s not like it’s a relationship 

[RandomGuy99]

£10,000 in £50 notes would probably go down well.

[LauraHoD]

Yeah that would probably be better than cheap prossecco  and a box of Cadbury Roses.

I have a client tomorrow who is going to bring me a trout.
He likes fishing and asked if I liked trout and I said I do so he will bring one for me next time he sees me. I think that's quite nice but I imagine some girls might not be that impressed if you showed up with a dead fish. So like I said its best to just ask really.

Or just the obvious extra cash tip is probably the safest bet!!

[Mr Rollison]

I think I've only given one gift.

There was a flat, a short walk over the Clyde which had busty mature women and a receptionist.
Decided one day to take a box of M&S biscuits.
They seemed quite happy.

Otherwise, it wouldn't cross my mind to take a gift.

[WelshClipper]

I thank the sp at the end of a meet and genuinely mean it.

But this hobby to too expensive for any extras. IMO 

[daviemac]

But this hobby to too expensive for any extras. IMO 

The best 'gift' you can give an SP is a repeat bookings.

[RandomGuy99]

Yeah that would probably be better than cheap prossecco  and a box of Cadbury Roses.

I have a client tomorrow who is going to bring me a trout.
He likes fishing and asked if I liked trout and I said I do so he will bring one for me next time he sees me. I think that's quite nice but I imagine some girls might not be that impressed if you showed up with a dead fish. So like I said its best to just ask really.

Or just the obvious extra cash tip is probably the safest bet!!

So he'll have an early start to get to the fish stall early and I hope he uses ice to keep it cool.

[LauraHoD]

I'm hoping it's gonna be a smoked one. Not just a big dead fish I will have gut lol

[Thephoenix]

I occasionally used to give Fag Ash Lill at Birkenhead Docks a packet of five woodbines.
It was worth free knee tremblers for a week.

[WelshClipper]

There are all kinds of jokes/comments about fish on this forum.

I will try to refrain from referencing the obvious one.   

[LauraHoD]

Haha...yes please try!!

[Thehatedone]

One sp used to work 8m walk from my workplace so I used to see her during lunchtimes once a week or every other week

I assumed I build good friendship wirh this lady
I used to give to this lady gift cards
Many session I buy her bailey liquor and lindor chocolate for her birthday (faked date) and Christmas i got her something
Sometimes she said get meal deal for me or little things she wanted like Fried chicken she texted me I got
but she was a thankless cow
Very unimpressed lady no gratitude ever
She came to expect it
Later when gifts were not forthcoming she started to brag to me about wealthy clients buy her all sorts of things (liar..trust me no wealthy clients will see this dirty lady)
to make me jealous or feel regret
Her point was why havent you started to give more better gift
I asked her what you want me to do take out loan for you?
Manipulative woman
She is still active..
After that I dont get them anything

[mr.bluesky]

Your repeated custom is probably the best gift they could have .

[starman]

The best 'gift' you can give an SP is a repeat bookings.

I agree, with most of the ones I see at £200 for the hour I think I’ve given them enough.

Same Mr.bluesky

[LauraHoD]

Yes I agree being a good client, being polite, reliable, respectful etc. Is more valuable than a load of gifts. Which let's face it we probably don't really want or would rather have the equivalent in cash.
   Don't get me wrong I know some SPs might invite you to bring a bottle of wine or something but other than that. It's probably not really worth it