Pre punt wank

[Borabora]

Got a longer booking coming up, this weekend and i’m in two minds about whether to knock one out before i go.

Back in the day i wouldn’t have even thought about it, just turned up full of fire and gone at it, but i’m not exactly a young buck anymore. Recovery times are longer these days and, truth be told, i had a one-hour booking recently with Nikita Linda, External Link/Members Only and even with the little blue helper i couldn’t get it up for a second round, and definitely not due to a lack of trying from her. First shot was fine, then nothing "gone to sleep". Felt a bit embarrassed

So now i’m wondering, would a pre-booking wank help or just make things worse? Some punters swear it gives you more control, stops you blowing too quick and lets you settle into the booking and also lasting longer and others reckon it dulls the edge, and if your body’s not bouncing back like it used to, you’re just wasting the one decent shot you had. I don't punt often but on the occasions I do I want it to be worth it, at the time of booking i'm thinking the longer bookings but then after the first shot i just want to leave as it feels like i'm done.

With a longer booking i want to enjoy the whole thing, not spend half of it trying to coax life back into it. But I also don’t want to go in too revved up and be done too soon, especially when it’s costing top dollar.

What do you lot do? Especially any of the older lads who’ve noticed round two isn’t as guaranteed as it used to be. Is a pre-session wank a smart move, or a massive cock-up?

[Stevelondon]

Once again I’m no expert here. But wouldn’t knocking one out pre punt have the effect of you not being able to get it up again.

I’m imagining myself here. Having a toss just before I see someone and then wondering why I’m not getting a stiffy as she is giving me the best blow job money can buy. 🤷🏼

Mind you. I’m not a man of the second cumming belief so it’s not something I worry about. I don’t much worry about much to be honest as my bang away to impress myself days are long gone.

Surely everybody being different physically, mentally, age etc……..means some will recover quicker than others. So always sure to get that all important second shag in 

[Borabora]

agreed with your thoughts above, but its mainly for those bookings where the WG are rarely available and if you do get the chance to book then you want to try and make the most of it with a longer booking but a one shot deal makes it seem all rather futile

[Ivor Hunch]

give it a dry run.  a few days in advance, knock one out the length of time pre-punt you were thinking of, and then go for a second jodrell at "punt time" and see what you can do.

[Bartolomeo]

It will affect your libido negatively, so as ivor said you'd have to figure out your timing.

I've tried it few times when i've had booking in evening around 6, i'd have a wank in morning around 11. Only with 1 booking, did it help me a lot in prolonging me cumming, but I feel like that was because I found the WG ok looking facially. In other bookings, it didn't help and I didn't feel like going for second round.

[karoo]

It's hard to give advice here, only you know your recovery time. So you have to see what works for you...

[MLawro93]

Just go and have fun. If you think about it too much, you'll just get in your own way.

Find the right SP, let them know, and the rest will take care of itself.

[Handel2020]

Didn't work for me. I had one punt where I had knocked one out and then got there late. Between rushing to get there and having bashed the bishop earlier on I lost my wood. The WG managed to get me off with a heroic effort but I was never close to hard. I do find the idea of getting hard a second time with a stranger who you may or may not find attractive to be a tall order, but that's my view. I generally found that to be the case with the exception of one or two of the parties I went to.

[exitonly]

I only have a pre punt tug if I want to save some cash.. the immediate urge disappears and I come to my senses.
So I started transferring the amount I would've spent that day into an S&S ISA. That way I don't risk 'overpunting', and only really when the 'Beast' instinct to mate overwhelms the desire to accumulate resources.

[Munter84]

For me personally a pre-punt wank has all the logic of scoffing a Big Mac before heading out to a gourmet restaurant.

[Handel2020]

I only have a pre punt tug if I want to save some cash.. the immediate urge disappears and I come to my senses.
So I started transferring the amount I would've spent that day into an S&S ISA. That way I don't risk 'overpunting', and only really when the 'Beast' instinct to mate overwhelms the desire to accumulate resources.

Happened to me multiple times that I knocked one out while looking at escort websites then had a moment of "post nut clarity" and decided against the punt. I guess it might be guys who cum fast who are more likely to feel the need to do it though. Seeing an escort and finishing quickly is like going to a gourmet restaurant and eating one of those slap-up meal tablets that Willy Wonka was working on. 

[gurds]

Works if you have wank and cum around 3hr before sex session, then you can last really long for close to an hour.

[Maraluke]

Personally can’t get my head around the concept. I had a girlfriend who lived at the other end of the country once, and I would always abstain for around 5 days before seeing her, as the total experience was elevated hugely….

[Mstar86]

Personally can’t get my head around the concept. I had a girlfriend who lived at the other end of the country once, and I would always abstain for around 5 days before seeing her, as the total experience was elevated hugely….

Had a punt recently where I’d knocked one out before bed which was around 12hrs before the punt & I could feel the difference in that I wasn’t as animalistic & didn’t want her as much. I had a boner the whole time, lasted and came when needed at the end but just didn’t feel anywhere near as good as if I leave it even just a few days.

Im best after just 2-3 day wait. 5 and im gonna just wanna cum asap!

[akauya]

It's difficult for us to give advice because we all have different recovery times, you must learn to recognise yours - what works for some guys here may not work for you.

The problem I see here is your mental state. If you're going to worry about not getting a hard-on for a second round, you probably won't. And the blue pill won't help.

What I would suggest instead is to concentrate on the entire experience, not on the number of rounds you can manage. You are with a willing and sexy woman; enjoy her. If you manage the first round quickly, then relax, take a few minutes to rest, ask for a massage, or even better (in my opinion), give her a massage. This gives you the opportunity to explore her body. Focus on that, on the things that turn you on about a woman.

If you have erogenous zones on your body (apart from your cock) ask her to stimulate those, some men love having their ears played with, or nipples, feet, etc. You need to know your body well.

Lastly, if second rounds are still difficult to come by - whatever you try, I would suggest limiting your visit to about half an hour. This way, you won't be worried about trying to cum a second time, you can relax and avoid the anxiety that comes with it.

Good luck.   

[Stevelondon]

I only have a pre punt tug if I want to save some cash.. the immediate urge disappears and I come to my senses.
So I started transferring the amount I would've spent that day into an S&S ISA. That way I don't risk 'overpunting', and only really when the 'Beast' instinct to mate overwhelms the desire to accumulate resources.

Oh aren’t you just going to be the life and soul of any party 

[southcoastpunter]

Have a wank and save money - never thought about it like that!  so the more you wank, the more money you save?? No wonder my bank account is so low!

[Handel2020]

It's difficult for us to give advice because we all have different recovery times, you must learn to recognise yours - what works for some guys here may not work for you.

The problem I see here is your mental state. If you're going to worry about not getting a hard-on for a second round, you probably won't. And the blue pill won't help.

Agreed. I must have misread and thought the OP might have premature ejaculation, which doesn't seem to be the case. I can't think of any reason to knock one out if it is not to last longer the first time. Guys who cum fast are doubly screwed. I seen a statistic from a urologist on YouTube who said the refractory period for guys with premature ejaculation can be up to five hours. This makes perfect sense as it is all about being over excited or "In you're own head" in some sense. I managed it in my 20s a few times, but other than that I tend to view punting as a half hour thing unless I really like the woman and have met her before.

[Mstar86]

Agreed. I must have misread and thought the OP might have premature ejaculation, which doesn't seem to be the case. I can't think of any reason to knock one out if it is not to last longer the first time. Guys who cum fast are doubly screwed. I seen a statistic from a urologist on YouTube who said the refractory period for guys with premature ejaculation can be up to five hours. This makes perfect sense as it is all about being over excited or "In you're own head" in some sense. I managed it in my 20s a few times, but other than that I tend to view punting as a half hour thing unless I really like the woman and have met her before.

I love a hh meet and have a few times popped twice in hh (once with Bella Sadim as got over excited early on!) but mostly like hh as I can have sex the whole time, cum at the end and be satisfied enough to leave which means saving money as longer sessions means more money spent on punting! Because of this I can’t wank before as really makes me lose some vigor and the overall feeling is less exciting.


Agree that we’re all different so try out different things and find what works for you seems to be the best advice

[geeeee7]

Personally, I'd rub one out earlier in the day.
That way I'm not going to cum too quick but there's also no problem with recovery.

[exitonly]

There's £150 gone into my savings this morning

[riker]

There's £150 gone into my savings this morning

Excellent.

[RandomGuy99]

If you don't want to cum on the booking then go for it.

[starman]

These days for me as second pop is usually out of the question no matter how much recovery time I have.  I've tried longer punts and although no problem rising to the occasion no second pop.  So what I do now is not knock one out for about 4 days before and then try to exercise some control by not cumming too early in the session.  It can be difficult but finding out which positions allow you to maintain the stiffy without popping - cg, prone bone usually works well but if I go straight for doggy then I'm finished.  As I say this is working for me and helps me maintain the edge.  I've tried the pre punt wank but the tank is then pretty empty (so no big load to coat favourable parts of anatomy) and like others have said the excitement goes away, Spock mode logic kicks in and feel like I'm wasting my money if I go through with it.

[Devon450]

For me especially if I want to go for more than one pop. I tend not wank for a good few days beforehand.

[welby]

Same here, I feel wanking  before a punt desensitizes the body, and makes it even extremely hard or non existence for the second round, left for me id say just go with the flow, don't think too much into it and let the blue pill perform its magic🎩

[deg_dilemma]

Ironically I often feel like a post punt wank.

After the post punt pint.

[fredfunkster]

I'm in the second half of a century now, and thought the days of a second pop were long gone.

But a month or so ago I managed it, albeit with my own hand. SP happily swallowed.

So a wank during the punt is my advice.

[Mstar86]

Ironically I often feel like a post punt wank.

After the post punt pint.

Literally EVERY time!! 

[londonroad]

Not sure how old the OP is? I am 67, currently using 25mg Sildenafil and in good physical shape. (Previously been using 50mg, but have successfully been experimenting with taking 25mg).
For the last few years I can no longer manage a second pop within a session, so instead I just relax and enjoy my one pop. Sometimes edge myself if I am going to cum too quickly. If I have a pre punt wank, this will make it frustratingly difficult (for both myself and the girl) for me to cum in the sex session.
If I was now booking an SP I would probably only book for a maximum of 60 mins, in my younger days when I could manage two pops, I would often book for longer than an hour.

[peroxidefox]

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I randomly stumbled on this recently. Kinda gives a good explanation. Short version, it gets worse with ages except for a random few gifted .

53, 1 pop only, size 8 shoe..

[peroxidefox]

I seen a statistic from a urologist on YouTube who said the refractory period for guys with premature ejaculation can be up to five hours.

Ah. Refractory period already mentioned.

[Thephoenix]

I have enough problems with ED & attaining orgasm as it is thank you very much.
If I had a pre punt wank I'd fall asleep for four hours.

[Pleiades]

Try edging mate, when you feel you are close just stop and do something else for a bit. Though that also has its issues as if you do it to many times in a booking you may well find it hard to cum at all. Been doing this a lot lately and try to last the duration of a one or two hour meet due to slow recovery times.

[Bopcrown]

Got a longer booking coming up, this weekend and i’m in two minds about whether to knock one out before i go.

Back in the day i wouldn’t have even thought about it, just turned up full of fire and gone at it, but i’m not exactly a young buck anymore. Recovery times are longer these days and, truth be told, i had a one-hour booking recently with Nikita Linda, External Link/Members Only and even with the little blue helper i couldn’t get it up for a second round, and definitely not due to a lack of trying from her. First shot was fine, then nothing "gone to sleep". Felt a bit embarrassed

So now i’m wondering, would a pre-booking wank help or just make things worse? Some punters swear it gives you more control, stops you blowing too quick and lets you settle into the booking and also lasting longer and others reckon it dulls the edge, and if your body’s not bouncing back like it used to, you’re just wasting the one decent shot you had. I don't punt often but on the occasions I do I want it to be worth it, at the time of booking i'm thinking the longer bookings but then after the first shot i just want to leave as it feels like i'm done.

With a longer booking i want to enjoy the whole thing, not spend half of it trying to coax life back into it. But I also don’t want to go in too revved up and be done too soon, especially when it’s costing top dollar.

What do you lot do? Especially any of the older lads who’ve noticed round two isn’t as guaranteed as it used to be. Is a pre-session wank a smart move, or a massive cock-up?

I know it as the "Showmans performance" at least in my case it takes the edge off the nervousness of the real thing.