Girlfriend wants to work in a shop giving massage alongside extras...

[webpunter]

The questions you asked were all adequately explained in my initial post.

Are you going to be responsible for washing her work clobber ?
Chip in help out around the house that type of thing
Her forearms might be a bit tired after a long day at work

Assuming she's not getting her chebs out [well not just yet] best you find some decent detergent
Her top could end up looking like a plasterer's radio

[pythondan]

I have only skim read the thread so apologies if I have missed some points. I am curious about what this woman wants - is it a career as a 'legit' massage therapist with just occasional happy endings for trusted clients or to work as a full time sex worker?

Quite a while ago I had a friend whom I met via a shared interest in exercise. He was a keen marathon runner and got weekly sports massages from both men and women. He expressed a preference for the former as they were stronger as so could give a deeper massage. It was not a sex thing for him at all.

One time when I saw him he said that he got a free happy ending from a woman who he had visited for normal massage a few times before. In the meeting he had an erection and the woman said something like "Do you want a hand with that" and wanked him off. No payment involved but he was annoyingly good looking and very fit so I guess the woman fancied him. It became a regular thing but never went any further.

What I think this shows is that 'legit' massage providers do sometimes give extras so maybe she could offer this in a jokey way to regulars if she worked at a 'respectable' establishment. The original post seemed to imply it was more for fun than making £££ so this might be an option.

[Colston36]

Cos I suspect she wants to be paid for it.

I dream quite a lot about shagging long legged models. Surprisingly it just never comes to reality in my normal everyday existence.
Yet when I contact a lass (certain ones) and offer money……. Hey presto.
 

Love is a mystery. I recall a photo of a squat billionaire who ran the motor racing industry with a beautiful woman who towered over him. She was his wife,  "What does she see in him?" someone asked. 

[Blackpool Rock]

Love is a mystery. I recall a photo of a squat billionaire who ran the motor racing industry with a beautiful woman who towered over him. She was his wife,  "What does she see in him?" someone asked.

Love this Mrs Merton sketch when she asks Debbie McGee what 1st attracted her to the Millionaire Paul Daniels 

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[diver ted]

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Massage therapist - job
Posted by Nihalgh on 12/04/2025
£65 p/h incall  Aldgate
Description Title: Massage Therapist job
Location: London area remote
Employment Type: Flexible days
Salary: minimum 65/ hr
Job Description:
We are seeking a skilled and professional Massage Therapist to join our wellness team. The ideal candidate will be passionate about promoting relaxation, stress relief, and overall well-being for our clients through high-quality therapeutic massage.
Responsibilities:
Provide various massage services, such as Swedish, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and other therapeutic techniques.
Assess clients’ needs and preferences to provide a tailored experience.
Maintain a clean and welcoming treatment space.
Adhere to all hygiene and safety regulations.
Maintain up-to-date client records.
Requirements:
Professional, respectful, and client-focused demeanor.
Good communication and interpersonal skills.
Experience preferred but not mandatory—training can be provided.

[mr.bluesky]

If she needs someone to practice on I'm available every day of the week (apart from Saturdays during the football / Rugby season)

[Stevelondon]

Love is a mystery. I recall a photo of a squat billionaire who ran the motor racing industry with a beautiful woman who towered over him. She was his wife,  "What does she see in him?" someone asked.

Indeed.

If one could only find the formula.

See what I did there…….no. ?

I’ll get me  🧥

[webpunter]

Indeed.

If one could only find the formula.

See what I did there…….no. ?

I’ll get me  🧥

Don't give up the day job just yet 

The formula saw him wedge up a whopping divorce of £740m in 2009 and £650m to hmrc recently

[Colston36]

Don't give up the day job just yet 

The formula saw him wedge up a whopping divorce of £740m in 2009 and £650m to hmrc recently

That cheered me up: thanks! Was the £740m to the lady who could see qualities in him that were not immediately apparent?

[webpunter]

That cheered me up: thanks! Was the £740m to the lady who could see qualities in him that were not immediately apparent?

 
Indeed
"What does she see in him?"
She had to find him first - where the fuck is he ?, oh there you are

[Jordanstar7520]

So my girlfriend who's recently become a qualified masseuse, currently has a dream of working as a naughty masseuse giving extras to clients who want them. We've been looking around for ideas, but unfortunately nearly all of my experience with these places comes as a client seeking a service, not as a potential naughty masseuse trying to get employed in a shop with generally safe management.

We were hoping some of you guys would be able to point us in the right direction. Ideally, I think not working in a Chinese or Thai shop would be best though as she only speaks English and Spanish and might stick out like a sore thumb!

Do you guys manage to find one now?

[Stevelondon]

Do you guys manage to find one now?

All of us lost any curiosity about this a year ago 😂🤷🏼

[Doc Holliday]

All of us lost any curiosity about this a year ago 😂🤷🏼

 

Nonetheless given this has been mentioned in the author's other recent thread, he could break the habit of a lifetime and actually answer the question? 

[JKOL94]

Do you guys manage to find one now?

Seeing how some of you guys behave in regards to boundaries and choose to talk about women on this forum I want you to stay as far away from her as possible and FYI she feels the same way.

[webpunter]

Seeing how some of you guys behave in regards to boundaries and choose to talk about women on this forum I want you to stay as far away from her as possible and FYI she feels the same way.

I get you
The lot of em ⬆️ dreadful behaviour & attitudes
You should consider reporting them

I'm different i would add
Does your GF have a decent rack ?
& if so is she up for doing OTW & OTFs ?
No penetration b2b isn't sex
& i absolutely promise not to shoot on her boat
Tho there's always the risk of a stray cumshot especially if she's FAF chebtastic & skilled

[Doc Holliday]

Seeing how some of you guys behave in regards to boundaries and choose to talk about women on this forum I want you to stay as far away from her as possible and FYI she feels the same way.

He was simply asking if she managed to find work or not? It was a polite question requiring a simple and equally polite yes or no answer.

He was not asking where she was working.

You really do struggle with answering simple questions?

[daviemac]

Seeing how some of you guys behave in regards to boundaries and choose to talk about women on this forum I want you to stay as far away from her as possible and FYI she feels the same way.

Are you sure this is the right forum for you? You were asked a perfectly reasonable question and your answer is to insult the membership.

How do we know you aren't one of the boundary pushers you mention?

[snoopy]

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Massage therapist - job
Posted by Nihalgh on 12/04/2025
£65 p/h incall  Aldgate
Description Title: Massage Therapist job
Location: London area remote
Employment Type: Flexible days
Salary: minimum 65/ hr
Job Description:
We are seeking a skilled and professional Massage Therapist to join our wellness team. The ideal candidate will be passionate about promoting relaxation, stress relief, and overall well-being for our clients through high-quality therapeutic massage.
Responsibilities:
Provide various massage services, such as Swedish, deep tissue massage, sensual massage and other therapeutic techniques.
Assess clients’ needs and preferences to provide a tailored experience.
Maintain a clean and welcoming treatment space.
Adhere to all hygiene and safety regulations.
Maintain up-to-date client records.
Requirements:
Professional, respectful, and client-focused demeanor.
Good communication and interpersonal skills.
Experience preferred but not mandatory—training can be provided.

I'd consider it for £65 per hour

[JKOL94]

Do you guys manage to find one now?

Apologies Jordan, I responded to you thinking you were a different account. In answer to your question. Yes, she has.

[webpunter]

I'd consider it for £65 per hour

 
You after a bit of knob action ? 

[PilotMan]

I get you
The lot of em ⬆️ dreadful behaviour & attitudes
You should consider reporting them

I'm different i would add
Does your GF have a decent rack ?
& if so is she up for doing OTW & OTFs ?
No penetration b2b isn't sex
& i absolutely promise not to shoot on her boat
Tho there's always the risk of a stray cumshot especially if she's FAF chebtastic & skilled

Shocking behaviour

 

[Jordanstar7520]

Apologies Jordan, I responded to you thinking you were a different account. In answer to your question. Yes, she has.

It’s fine, was just curious how easy it was for girls to get a job like that, I usually thought they were pimped out by someone or something if they worked in a shop.

[Stevelondon]

I was certainly going to say something more on the subject but I think Davie has put it succinctly enough.

[scutty brown]

I'd consider it for £65 per hour

Remember that is only paid on piece work - only get paid on worked time. Not on waiting time between jobs
If she only has one job she only gets one hour - out of which she will have to pay tax and both employers and employees social security contributions

[lougb1]

Seeing how some of you guys behave in regards to boundaries and choose to talk about women on this forum I want you to stay as far away from her as possible and FYI she feels the same

But your GF started the post by seeking advice with regard to setting up a "naughty" massage service,  and people on this forum understandably would be potential clients, so to be successful she will have to accommodate all sorts of punters, from the very timid, I minute wonder to the very dangerous client who will not take no for an answer this is a fact of the business. I knew of a massage SP who her landlord wanted a full service as part payment for rent...

If the author thinks that she should be protected from UKP members by not informing them of whether she is in business or not, then the GF should reconsider her business model.

 

[PilotMan]

Seeing how some of you guys behave in regards to boundaries and choose to talk about women on this forum I want you to stay as far away from her as possible and FYI she feels the same way.

If you and her can't handle what is said on this forum, then working "as a naughty masseuse giving extras to clients who want them" - is probably a bad career choice, for both of you.

Back to your call centre job.

There's an idea, what about you working in a call centre and offering "naughty extras to clients who want them?

[JKOL94]

If you and her can't handle what is said on this forum, then working "as a naughty masseuse giving extras to clients who want them" - is probably a bad career choice, for both of you.

Back to your call centre job.

There's an idea, what about you working in a call centre and offering "naughty extras to clients who want them?

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

[Fuzzyduck]

I'm just imagining how this thread might have turned out if he'd posted it 5 years ago.

[scutty brown]

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

Can you point out which helpers you mean, and in which posts? I can't see any trying to provoke you

[webpunter]

I'm just imagining how this thread might have turned out if he'd posted it 5 years ago.

Indeed
When UKP at times resembled urban warfare

[webpunter]

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

Bless you
The FH's what are they like ?
In case i've missed this is your GF aware of your R&T experiences which you've shared on here ? [they're riveting top end reviews BTW  ]

[PilotMan]

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

Just jog on and ignore the thread that you started 

[PilotMan]

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

I think you're acting like a twat.

Just in case you misread (or try to misquote) the rule you're referring to is;

23: Abuse towards other members
Discord must be kept civil. Excessive abuse/swearing is not acceptable. "You're acting like a twat" is not excessive. However, "you're a fucking inbred cunt" is excessive and is not acceptable. Bullying will result in a ban. Abuse of the Mod or Admin Team will result in a ban.

[Blackpool Rock]

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

I'm not seeing anything excessive here but if you're not happy just hit that report button and a Mod will look at it although a Mod has already pointed out that someone asked a reasonable question which resulted in your insulting the "membership"

You seem a bit delicate so god knows how you will feel knowing your bird is going to be tugging off every Tom; Dick and Harry that she massages plus whatever other extra extras she decides to offer without telling you, after all you may as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb 

[Blackpool Rock]

I'm just imagining how this thread might have turned out if he'd posted it 5 years ago.

Yeah sometimes I really miss 999 

[Blackpool Rock]

I think you're acting like a twat.

Just in case you misread (or try to misquote) the rule you're referring to is;

23: Abuse towards other members
Discord must be kept civil. Excessive abuse/swearing is not acceptable. "You're acting like a twat" is not excessive. However, "you're a fucking inbred cunt" is excessive and is not acceptable. Bullying will result in a ban. Abuse of the Mod or Admin Team will result in a ban.

 

[webpunter]

Yeah sometimes I really miss 999 

I sooo nearly referenced him
I wonder how James is doing
Best ....

[webpunter]

I'm not seeing anything excessive here but if you're not happy just hit that report button and a Mod will look at it although a Mod has already pointed out that someone asked a reasonable question which resulted in your insulting the "membership"

You seem a bit delicate so god knows how you will feel knowing your bird is going to be tugging off every Tom; Dick and Harry that she massages plus whatever other extra extras she decides to offer without telling you, after all you may as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb 

I lurve extra extras
They dont always cum with a surcharge
Some massage burds playing the long game luring you back
Me .... lamb slaughter 
They 'like' you - which translated means for a whole number of reasons you are preferable to other punters
Catch them on the right day right mood & you never know 😜

[daviemac]

I think it's rather interesting that a lot of the so called "forum helpers" are making such a deliberate and obvious attempt to provoke a reaction from me when it's clearly stated in the rules that such excessive and personal attacks are discouraged. I'm sure I'll be informed by one of them in due time however why exactly it is that I'm obviously entirely and completely wrong on that though...

You obviously don't understand the role of a forum helper, they are not moderators they are members just like you, they are free to post as they see fit as long as it's within the rules. However they do a sterling job in keeping the forum tidy something that is greatly appreciated by the site owner, admin and mods.

I have not seen anything on this thread that could be classed as excessive or that would warrant intervention by a mod. I'm not really sure what reaction you expected when you are asking for advice on how your girlfriend can become a sex worker.

[adiroy4k]

My wife and I are trying to be swingers and this would be so wicked to see her working in a place like that and I visit her as a client - even better if I send one of my friends as a client to her.

PS: new here but not new to punting so learning to abide by the rules. Hoping I’ve not broken any.

[Jordanstar7520]

My wife and I are trying to be swingers and this would be so wicked to see her working in a place like that and I visit her as a client - even better if I send one of my friends as a client to her.

PS: new here but not new to punting so learning to abide by the rules. Hoping I’ve not broken any.

Are you and your wife in London?

[Blackpool Rock]

My wife and I are trying to be swingers and this would be so wicked to see her working in a place like that and I visit her as a client - even better if I send one of my friends as a client to her.

PS: new here but not new to punting so learning to abide by the rules. Hoping I’ve not broken any.

I'm sure plenty on here would love to give your wife a try out but please do read the rules as you can't advertise or tout her, anyway welcome to the forum 

[scutty brown]

My wife and I are trying to be swingers and this would be so wicked to see her working in a place like that and I visit her as a client - even better if I send one of my friends as a client to her.

PS: new here but not new to punting so learning to abide by the rules. Hoping I’ve not broken any.

There is a big psychological difference between your wife indulging in a few selected roleplays, and her working regularly in sex shop of some kind. Does she really want to be wanking blokes off all day every day? And how are you going to handle it when they start queuing up?
Be careful what you wish for.

[Doc Holliday]

There is a big psychological difference between your wife indulging in a few selected roleplays, and her working regularly in sex shop of some kind. Does she really want to be wanking blokes off all day every day? And how are you going to handle it when they start queuing up?
Be careful what you wish for.

Indeed 

There is fantasy and then there is reality.

[Jonestown]

Tell your wife to walk into a massage shop and ask if the have any vacancies and if so would they give her a try out. If they like the cut of her jib they may ask her to massage the manager or one of the girls to see if you she has the basic skills. They can either say yes or no, either way try a few shops and maybe she will strike lucky.

[Blackpool Rock]

Indeed 

There is fantasy and then there is reality.

Yeah i've just been reminded of a film / drama from 1998 with Martin Clunes called "Touch and Go" where he persuades his wife they should spice things up a bit and go to a swingers club.

Turns out that he likes the idea of borrowing but got a bit pissed off about sharing especially when his wife started really getting into it 

[Blackpool Rock]

Tell your wife to walk into a massage shop and ask if the have any vacancies and if so would they give her a try out. If they like the cut of her jib they may ask her to massage the manager or one of the girls to see if you she has the basic skills. They can either say yes or no, either way try a few shops and maybe she will strike lucky.

Or go to a swingers club as a one off on the agreement that you will discuss it afterwards and if either party doesn't feel comfortable then she doesn't do it, I also think there needs to be an agreement that if either party decides in a few months time that they are no longer comfortable with it then they can call time.

What starts out as being fun may change over time especially if the whole jealousy thing creeps in 

[adiroy4k]

Are you and your wife in London?

Yes, we are London based, Indians but been in UK for over 20 years enjoying the sexual freedom

[adiroy4k]

I'm sure plenty on here would love to give your wife a try out but please do read the rules as you can't advertise or tout her, anyway welcome to the forum 

Thank you. I am also a punter for over 25 years (wife doesnt know). Am not advertising her as aware of the rules and also not talking about swinging here etc but the door is open to anyone serious and interested.

[adiroy4k]

There is a big psychological difference between your wife indulging in a few selected roleplays, and her working regularly in sex shop of some kind. Does she really want to be wanking blokes off all day every day? And how are you going to handle it when they start queuing up?
Be careful what you wish for.

Ah, never said she wants to do it as a permanent thing... just as a one off to try and its more of my fantasy than hers to see her like a WG (things that happen to us when we've been seeing WG for over 25 years) but she is open to the idea as long as its safe.