Firstly, thanks for bringing this to our attention, im sure many on here may find this info helpful
I have stated many many times that i prefer the providers to advertise BB if they provide it, this allows me to then refrain from having comms, however, with her or her handler offering this in initial comms in fairness does the same or similar thing so it does at the least give the punter the opportunity to not pursue a meeting with her
That said, I do find it strange that she offers this in initial comms without any prompting, unless you had innocently asked if there were any extra charges, (on the rare occasions that i see non massage shop girls, if there is no mention of extra costs then in comms, I will ask if all services are included in the advertised fee) so if this was the case then at least she was being honest about it
Im sure a forum helper or even a MOD may mention this to you, but as this was a genuine offer of BB then you should post it in the relevant thread
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=141499.0As for the deposit, unless someone as fallen foul of a deposit scam with her and openly admits it then we may never know, but it is possible that you declining extras could be what prompted her to ask for a deposit at that late stage, possibly thinking you may be a no show, which im sure she will have come across this many times
Like yourself, i too understand why some of the girls ask for deposits, but deposits are a no no for me, obviously if an unknown girl is asking then that is of course too risky and if it is a girl whom already knows me then she should trust me, so once again, deposits are a no no
However, I personally would have ended comms with her once those extras were out in the open, risk management and all that, but at the end of the day many providers will be BBing with someone be them customers, fuck buddies, partners or even a knee trembler one night stand after a night out, so all we can do is try to keep ourselves safe