I have always enjoyed gentle vaginal fingering as part of any sexual encounter - I just get so turned on exploring that special place. Nothing extreme or painful (clean hands, very short and smooth nails - 2 or 3 fingers knuckle deep).
My ex wife and former girlfriends seemed to enjoy it as foreplay and a way of getting their pussy wet and ready for the mechanics of intercourse.
When I first started punting, every SP allowed it - but now it is a rare service. You are more likely to be offered anal than "digital" fun.
Now, I can understand why SPs dont like it - dirty, uncut nails and chaps that are rough and unskilled. But I miss it.
Even SPs who state it as a like on AW either ban it when you get there of manipulate the event to minimise it.
Before I was on UKP, I had a regular SP who allowed it and really enjoyed it providing it was no more than 3 fingers and covered with a condom - standing up, my hand in her knickers.
I have been through my AW hotlist and there is only one left who I could see for a bit of finger fun - but I don't see her as her work place is not discreet enough (Delicious Debbie - loves a finger fuck but works from a well known "shop")
Has anyone got any recommendations? Anyone else think that fingering is a key part of the sexual act?