Author Topic: Experiences on Seeking in Europe  (Read 49077 times)

Offline bigpole


Thanks for curating this list. Also as someone in between subscriptions, currently living off seeking vicariously. Might tip me over to renew. But it's too much pressure considering it's a limited time 30 day period, and not insignificant cost.
 
I guess you're attempting to move the conversations over to outside of seeking as soon as possible as a comms strategy?
 
Just curious, in the 3 EU locations listed, of the 20 or so listed above, what was the response rate? E.g., how many outgoing messages got you to say 5 phone numbers?
It's really hard to say as most of the girls don't want to plan so far in advance. Also can't be arsed doing the numbers! Some of them won't even bother chatting to you and will give you their phone no or telegram handle first thing. Some girls want to chat on the platform first just to make sure there's some degree of compatibility and even if there is they won't give you a phone no until it's closer to the meeting. More and more of them are now looking for proper relationships rather than sugar arrangements or one-off meets.
Definitely had better response (on the platform) and conversion (move to WA/Telegram) rate before my previous trip, but once again I was messaging the girls much closer to the trip.
 

Offline YorkshireLad

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This profile is some sort of scam.
Arranged to meet when I was in Bucharest, not very talkative on WhatsApp, mostly single word replys but I liked the look of her so went ahead with it.
Day of the meet, I asked her to wear a short dress or miniskirt with heels & get the reply ‘it’s not required for a short meeting’
So I ask what are you going to wear then? Get the reply ‘I don’t know’
With the bad communication & this I think fuck that I’ll meet a Plan B & blocked her.
I get messages from a different number on WhatsApp with a man in the profile picture saying ‘luv?’ ‘Bby?’ So I probably had a lucky escape.

Offline Punting2022

Im going barcelona to see a hot spanish girl. Shes shared her insta too. That sealed things tbh.
Glamorous and she is wearing a outfit i chose from her pics.
Will report back after. 320 euros, for a day together. She was like ill spend as much time with you. Just cant stay over.
Flights were 100 but in advanced can get for 50 sometimes. Hotel 60 day use. Drinks be cheaper.

All in talking 500 quid spend, with possibly a girl who is up for everything, model looks andno clock watching.
In uk tgis girl would charge 600 plus ppm and limit time.
Will report back. But judging by things, im finding europe better on seeking

Offline Punting2022

Does anyone have a madrid contact. Found a cheap flight there mid may

Offline Punting2022

Anna Nicolle - External Link/Members Only 800 euros will stay over in paris,  sometimes she comes to the UK she says
Donatella Barcelona, 1000 few hours. Prosse rates - External Link/Members Only

Natalia Barcelona - External Link/Members Only 1000 2 hours. Prosse rates
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Offline Punting2022

Fara- Milan External Link/Members Only Anyone have intel. Im tempted. Cheap flights and hotels can be had. She quotes 600 for a overnight. But before i book wondering if anyone has seen

Offline Punting2022

So i will share the profiles soon. But i have two girls in Madrid lined up for the same day.
One cant stay the night but is 300 euros for a day. Really cute. Will glam up for me and we go nice lunch and back to room.

I have then lined up a blonde sexy girl. 350 euro will stay the night. So seeing her after the first one. Arranged her to come at 10, we go to a bar dance then back to room.
Any tips. other then take some V or ciallias to last longer.

Offline Punting2022

Was talking to the lady I'm meeting in Madrid. She said a friend is happy to join and spend the night. Are these typically scams, I know in the UK people are wary of 3 some's on a first meet.
I've told her id think about it. Should i. Maybe meet in a bar first

Offline styussr

Was talking to the lady I'm meeting in Madrid. She said a friend is happy to join and spend the night. Are these typically scams, I know in the UK people are wary of 3 some's on a first meet.
I've told her id think about it. Should i. Maybe meet in a bar first

In Europe I've done this a few times, just meet at the bar and gauge the situation, pick one where it's not obvious where you're staying for that extra layer of piece of mind (ie. not in the hotel you're staying).

Offline Roo1

Was talking to the lady I'm meeting in Madrid. She said a friend is happy to join and spend the night. Are these typically scams, I know in the UK people are wary of 3 some's on a first meet.
I've told her id think about it. Should i. Maybe meet in a bar first

If you’re doing this would recommend getting a second hotel room with no valuables in it. Only take the cash you need and your punting phone. Worse case if they do rob you they won’t get away with anything valuable other than the fee and a burner phone.

Offline Punting2022

Yep. ill plan to meet at the bar first and gauge it. Its how i do things in the UK too.

Offline whitesand

Hey guys! I have a probably silly question.

On Seeking, do people usually use their real face as their profile picture, or is it fine to use something else?

I'm pretty careful about my privacy, so I'd prefer not to show my real face if possible. In your experience, is that generally okay, or do girls tend to ghost profiles without a real photo?

Thanks in advance!

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Hey guys! I have a probably silly question.

On Seeking, do people usually use their real face as their profile picture, or is it fine to use something else?

I'm pretty careful about my privacy, so I'd prefer not to show my real face if possible. In your experience, is that generally okay, or do girls tend to ghost profiles without a real photo?

Thanks in advance!
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Offline Punting2022

Hey guys! I have a probably silly question.

On Seeking, do people usually use their real face as their profile picture, or is it fine to use something else?

I'm pretty careful about my privacy, so I'd prefer not to show my real face if possible. In your experience, is that generally okay, or do girls tend to ghost profiles without a real photo?

Thanks in advance!

You will need a pic of yourself. You put it in private pic. Only share with people you want then.

Offline Currywurst

You will need a pic of yourself. You put it in private pic. Only share with people you want then.

Until the next Ashley Madison (style) hack happens, and all the pics intended as 'private' are released into the ether!
 
Call me paranoid, but there's a (at least 1) low effort workaround - edit your pic using AI to something that resembles you.
 
  • Benefit is, if the women like your near-resemblance, they'll like you too. But who knows how appearance figures in the success stats!  :crazy:
  • Downside: you probably won't be photo-verified, so your profile will be weaker by 1 basis point.

I've declared on my SA profile that my pic is a near resemblance. Had no meets so far, but not paid either ... so.. . speculative advice above.   :manhater:

Offline Punting2022


Until the next Ashley Madison (style) hack happens, and all the pics intended as 'private' are released into the ether!
 
Call me paranoid, but there's a (at least 1) low effort workaround - edit your pic using AI to something that resembles you.
 
  • Benefit is, if the women like your near-resemblance, they'll like you too. But who knows how appearance figures in the success stats!  :crazy:
  • Downside: you probably won't be photo-verified, so your profile will be weaker by 1 basis point.

I've declared on my SA profile that my pic is a near resemblance. Had no meets so far, but not paid either ... so.. . speculative advice above.   :manhater:

Pics are no issue, We all post on Insta Facebook etc. Any one of our mates/ followers on there can just Screenshot it and use it anywhere tbh. Or anyone you annoy.
Its a dating site, noting illigall. If single then you can be on there no issue. If married. Just say someone is using my pics. Use a different name on site and then can say stolen pics.

Offline Tekka123

These are girls I talked to & all seemed genuine & willing to meet during my recent trips but in the end I decided on other options.

Wroclaw

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1200zloty for the evening, condoms. Wanted to meet at a bar first before coming back to my apartment.

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1000zloty for a couple of hours, condoms. Had loads of outfits that she could wear to the meet.

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1000zloty for the evening, condoms.

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1000zloty for a few hours, condoms. Looked like she’s got a great pair of tits, never showed me topless but sent loads of teasing photos/videos while we were chatting. Now showing as in Warsaw.

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800zloty for the evening, condoms.

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800zloty for a couple of hours, condoms.

Warsaw

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1500zloty for the evening, condoms.

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1000zloty for a few hours, condoms.

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1300zloty for the evening, condoms.

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1000zloty for a couple of hours, condoms.

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Active on Goldbikiniclub, 1500zloty for an overnight, bareback.
Sent me a topless photo, looks like she’s got a good pair of silicone tits.

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1000zloty for a few hours, condoms.

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Very tall, 1500zloty for a couple of hours, bareback.

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2000zloty for the evening, condoms.

Prague

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7500czk for the evening, condoms.

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6500czk for the evening, bareback.

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8500czk for a few hours, condoms.


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Offline Punting2022

Europe is good tbh for seeking.
Im planning a trip to Poland tbh soon.

Offline Punting2022

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I highly recommend this lady in Alicante. agreed 400 euros for a Overnight. She came to my apartment at 6ish. She had black hair then, Now blonde
We went out for a nice dinner and wine. Didn't cost that much being spain. Had a few wines and bill was 50 euros. In London talking 100 plus. 
We then went to the beach and relaxed. Watching the sunset. I fingered her through her skirt on the beach and she cummed. Was quite,  So super Horney.

Went back to my room, Put the music on and relaxed. We then started our fun. Very good kissing, Blowjobs all the time after each round.
We actually had sex like 4 times up to 1am. Some natural too. Felt amazing.
She shuddered a lot. Then snuggled up together for the night. Few kisses every time we woke up. In the morning, we had natural sex as we woke up. Had brekkie in the room, Had some more fun.
Showered together and she left. Was amazing. Im planning another trip tbh to see her.

Offline marmalade17


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So a few from my travels.
Olivia - External Link/Members Only Messaged her and she said 800 euro initially for a few hours. I wanted overnight. I kept her details in case i couldn't get a civvy out and about. At 12am i messaged her and said if she can come over. She said yes. Negotiated her down to 600. She said she has to go at 5am. I was like fine.
We went for drinks first. I love meeting girls in Spain. Drinks so cheap. She also dressed glam. Then back to my room. Had a fun time, Kissing, BJ, Me down on her.
2 rounds of sex. 5am was coming. She liked the vibe and said lets chill till later. So we snuggled up till 7am ish.
Woke up and had morning sex again. I then had to pack to get a flight. So no time for brekkie etc. She then went too. SO an example of have good vibes they stay longer.

Kath- would love to make contact External Link/Members Only looks like she been to UK in pics. so easy to get her here.

I did have a really good few meets with a girl called REGINA. She not on site now. Was in Madrid. it was 300 euros. She could only do day things. But i met her 3 times. Once i paid for a train for her to come Barcelona,
Was sexy. Kissing and good BJ and sex. But very hygiene focused. Very attractive. Had to both shower after each round, Couldn't do overnights, but we spent nice day times together. I suspect she has a partner at home. Just can tell. But was fun.

Offline tightfoot69

Anybody have experience with seeking in the Malaga region?

Offline BeingSilent

Was looking at options in Malta. So here are a couple for you (also, thanks to the tips in this thread - it really helped with figuring out how to approach ladies overseas and what to expect).

I did a mass follow, messaging session a few months early to test the waters. And then I did a second wave of messages a month before. Most ladies didn’t bother replying. But 3 did. General gist was Malta seeking ladies are quite expensive when compared to other parts of Europe. Probably cos the island is fairly expensive too.

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Sofi, 27, Valletta
Colombian. Agreed 2hrs, €400 (turned in 5hrs for €600). Replied from the 2nd wave of messages. She was actually responsive on WA (when she’s not working). She comes across as a little cagey in messaging. Actually met her and she’s prettier than the pic she has. Lovely boob (had work done) and ass (also looks like it’s had work done - a couple of marks to suggest it). Great kisser. Nice OWO. Pretty and clean for RO. Mish, doggy and CG. Good chat. English is conversational - she gets apologetic with pronounciations when she gets them wrong.

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Sofi (seems to be a lot of them), 31, Valletta
Also Colombian. Wanted €450, 2hrs. She replied on the original set of messages. Ridiculously flirty on TG. But then wanted me to buy her pics. When I said no thanks but she can take the cost off the meet, she didn’t like that idea. Sent me a face pic. Looks cute. But not as hot as Sofi (above). She wanted to meet but would then forget who I was and send repeating questions. I don’t have time for that. In the end I didn’t take it forward. Just too much hard work.

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Penelope, 35, Valletta
Replied in the original wave. Was responsive and open to most things. Knew the game and was ok with it. Said to get in touch when nearer the date, so I did. Discussed services. Didn’t get to a price as she I couldn’t quite read her. Not as hot as the other 2, but as a backup, was willing to keep her as an option. Decided not to proceed after arranging with Sofi.

Offline da26

Visited Poland for a week recently for a holiday having only passed through last year. Decided to try the seeking route this time.

Krakow: I sent a couple of messages to the ones I liked the look of 10 days in advanced but they weren't online the whole time... probably on holiday. So I won't post their profiles.

Once in Krakow I got some replies from victoria. Moved quickly to telegram (seems to be poles preferred contact method)... some nice pics... however the price!!! Was quoted 800€ for date... I thought / hoped she meant zloty... I checked and got a laughing emoji back. I ain't paying that so politely ended the chat. victoria External Link/Members Only

The other one I got off site was cherry. She was very direct to what I wanted and was quoted 400 eur. Again just too much for me so politely ended chat. cherry External Link/Members Only

I'm surprised at the high prices out there plus them being in euros. I can only assume because it was peek holiday season at a popular destination they were trying to get most they could from holiday visitors.

Warsaw: Was there for two days so sent some messages whilst on the long train from Krakow. Again didn't get many replies.

Got a reply from Patrycja who was keen but was away so we didn't move off site. Patrycja External Link/Members Only

After lots of failed messages I contacted Ala who YorkshireLad had posted about. Was quoted 1200 zloty to visit my hotel, got her down to 1000. Meet easily arranged for the same night. She made it very clear that sex was with a condom. This was a positive for me as I had no interest in bb. The meet was unfortunately very boring. She was rather quiet & shy. Lip kissing only. She did get very wet with my RO efforts. Protected sex in a few positions. It was all rather clinical and passionless and only got to have sex once. In my opinion not worth the money paid.

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So to round up I found seeking difficult in Poland. Perhaps because it was holiday season. I think goldbikiniclub is probably better as it is obvious what each party is looking for. Poland is a great country to visit as a tourist. People are friendly and speak great english. There is a lot to see. I may visit again at some point in the future. 
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Offline YorkshireLad

Visited Poland for a week recently for a holiday having only passed through last year. Decided to try the seeking route this time.

Krakow: I sent a couple of messages to the ones I liked the look of 10 days in advanced but they weren't online the whole time... probably on holiday. So I won't post their profiles.

Once in Krakow I got some replies from victoria. Moved quickly to telegram (seems to be poles preferred contact method)... some nice pics... however the price!!! Was quoted 800€ for date... I thought / hoped she meant zloty... I checked and got a laughing emoji back. I ain't paying that so politely ended the chat. victoria External Link/Members Only

The other one I got off site was cherry. She was very direct to what I wanted and was quoted 400 eur. Again just too much for me so politely ended chat. cherry External Link/Members Only

I'm surprised at the high prices out there plus them being in euros. I can only assume because it was peek holiday season at a popular destination they were trying to get most they could from holiday visitors.

Warsaw: Was there for two days so sent some messages whilst on the long train from Krakow. Again didn't get many replies.

Got a reply from Patrycja who was keen but was away so we didn't move off site. Patrycja External Link/Members Only

After lots of failed messages I contacted Ala who YorkshireLad had posted about. Was quoted 1200 zloty to visit my hotel, got her down to 1000. Meet easily arranged for the same night. She made it very clear that sex was with a condom. This was a positive for me as I had no interest in bb. The meet was unfortunately very boring. She was rather quiet & shy. Lip kissing only. She did get very wet with my RO efforts. Protected sex in a few positions. It was all rather clinical and passionless and only got to have sex once. In my opinion not worth the money paid.

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So to round up I found seeking difficult in Poland. Perhaps because it was holiday season. I think goldbikiniclub is probably better as it is obvious what each party is looking for. Poland is a great country to visit as a tourist. People are friendly and speak great english. There is a lot to see. I may visit again at some point in the future.

Krakow has a surprisingly low amount of girls on seeking for such a popular tourist city, you definitely need to use GBC when visiting.
Seeking is fine for Warsaw but your problem was messaging last minute. If you had started messaging a couple of weeks before I'm sure you'd have had more success.

I'm going traveling soon to Poland & a couple other countries so signing up to seeking, GBC & sugardaters  :cool: will report back as usual.

Offline da26

Krakow has a surprisingly low amount of girls on seeking for such a popular tourist city, you definitely need to use GBC when visiting.
Seeking is fine for Warsaw but your problem was messaging last minute. If you had started messaging a couple of weeks before I'm sure you'd have had more success.

I'm going traveling soon to Poland & a couple other countries so signing up to seeking, GBC & sugardaters  :cool: will report back as usual.

Nice one YL. You're so right about Krakow... can only assume the locals leave because there are SO many tourists. I had planned / assumed Krakow was going to work out hence leaving it too late for Warsaw. You live and learn. Thought Warsaw was much more chilled in comparison.

Offline YorkshireLad

Nice one YL. You're so right about Krakow... can only assume the locals leave because there are SO many tourists. I had planned / assumed Krakow was going to work out hence leaving it too late for Warsaw. You live and learn. Thought Warsaw was much more chilled in comparison.

They do live there just not in the central tourist area. Krakow is the second largest city in Poland. There’s loads of young Polish & Ukrainian girls, they just aren’t on seeking.

Offline Punting2022

They do live there just not in the central tourist area. Krakow is the second largest city in Poland. There’s loads of young Polish & Ukrainian girls, they just aren’t on seeking.

Go out on a night out. Never know u get lucky

Offline YorkshireLad

Go out on a night out. Never know u get lucky
Between seeking & GBC I always find a girl to fuck. If worst came to worst there’s always an escort or massage with happy ending!
Pulling on a night out is definitely a possibility in a city like Krakow but I can’t be arsed with it, I like knowing that I’ve definitely got a girl coming over that night,
Plus I like the build up, texting, swapping photos & telling the girl to come dressed how I want them 😎

Offline Punting2022

Between seeking & GBC I always find a girl to fuck. If worst came to worst there’s always an escort or massage with happy ending!
Pulling on a night out is definitely a possibility in a city like Krakow but I can’t be arsed with it, I like knowing that I’ve definitely got a girl coming over that night,
Plus I like the build up, texting, swapping photos & telling the girl to come dressed how I want them 😎

True. Plus on night outs. Waste money on drinks etc, no guarantee. Other ways your confirmed with sex