Being let down

[Sterling_UK]

Hey all,
What are people's thoughts on being let down? How long do you give? Do you call or just text?

Waiting right now but I don't like making calls.

[blackburnian]

Hey all,
What are people's thoughts on being let down? How long do you give? Do you call or just text?

Waiting right now but I don't like making calls.

If it’s for an incall max 10 mins , outcall I’ll wait longer as there’s a host of things that can make someone late but I’d expect the girl to make contact to explain the hold up & stay in contact until it’s resolved
No contact and 30 & mins late means time for a plan b if it’s early enough

I personally use msgs

Bb

[lewisjones23]

10 min with no contact, 30 min if they message to say running late

no contact = an instant red

[Blackpool Rock]

Personally I prefer texts, i'm normally early so once parked up often have to wait a bit and send a message saying i'm there 10 or 15 minutes before the start time.
If I don't get an immediate response then I assume the girl is with another punter which is fair enough not replying, once the start time comes and i've not heard anything I start getting twitchy.
10 minutes past the start time and I bang the girl another text then start thinking about my plan B's, always try to have other options lined up.
15 minutes and I start assuming it's not happening so depending on how enthusiastic I am about the plan B's and how far away they are I may start trying to line something else up.
I bail at 30 minutes Max whether or not I have something else lined up

[frankc]

10 minutes if no contact...15 minutes if she's running late.

[Sterling_UK]

Got there early as SP said they were available earlier so arrived 15 mins early and no reply from texts. Texted a few more times until 20 past the original meeting time before I left. No plan B and I wasn't feeling it so saved a decent amount to put towards my 2025 funds. 

I did get a text after about 40 mins after meet time with apologies but no excuse.

I will review in a while to leave some time before reviewing.

[Blackpool Rock]

40 minutes after is taking the piss especially as she said she could be early, sounds like she slipped another booking in before you but couldn't be arsed to let you know, deffo Negative

[ilovitbig]

This thread sounds like a Radiohead song Let down and hanging around.

[KeenPunter]

First time I saw Nimo in Worsley she left me waiting an hour and this week did a no show and no radio contact, short red review coming

[Blackpool_Mark]

I agree with the 10 minutes rule with no contact.

If it's booked / planned and then nothing on the day, instant red.

I have been kind in the past to someone I was a regular with who would just ghost me on the day.

Looking back I should of posted on here as a negative really.

I think just be honest and explain in your review.
It's to only tell others of your experience and potential warn them they may experience similar.

[Johndy]

Is there a correlation between someone who messes you around and how much fun they are.

An example, not isolated in that I was seeing someone near Wigan, and got the go ahead to enter, but couldn’t find the correct door because it was dark. I must have been two to three minutes late and got bombarded with texts, saying they were to book someone else, etc, etc. Stupid me, apologised, and went in, should have walked, paid for an hour, made polite conversation and walked after twenty minutes.

Surprisingly, she has loads of good reviews

[lewisjones23]

Is there a correlation between someone who messes you around and how much fun they are.

An example, not isolated in that I was seeing someone near Wigan, and got the go ahead to enter, but couldn’t find the correct door because it was dark. I must have been two to three minutes late and got bombarded with texts, saying they were to book someone else, etc, etc. Stupid me, apologised, and went in, should have walked, paid for an hour, made polite conversation and walked after twenty minutes.

Surprisingly, she has loads of good reviews

did you review them?

[ulstersubbie]

I agree with the 10 minutes rule with no contact.

If it's booked / planned and then nothing on the day, instant red.

+1

[KeenPunter]

Instant red is not wise, then they instantly link it to who it was.

[Blackpool Rock]

Instant red is not wise, then they instantly link it to who it was.

Publish and be damned instantly unless your personal safety may be under threat as it may help another punter to avoid or know they have to line up a plan B 

[KeenPunter]

Publish and be damned instantly unless your personal safety may be under threat as it may help another punter to avoid or know they have to line up a plan B 

Terrible advice, wait at least a week so that's it's not linked to you

[lewisjones23]

Terrible advice, wait at least a week so that's it's not linked to you

why wait a week?

post asap and get a new punting sim if that worried, I use an electronic sim so just burn the number and get a new one instantly

[KeenPunter]

why wait a week?

post asap and get a new punting sim if that worried, I use an electronic sim so just burn the number and get a new one instantly

And a new UKP name as well as it will be clear who you are. A week doesn't matter and keeps you anom

[lewisjones23]

And a new UKP name as well as it will be clear who you are. A week doesn't matter and keeps you anom

why does it matter if a WG you've left a negative for knows your UKP name?

[Blackpool_Mark]

Instant red is not wise, then they instantly link it to who it was.

I was using it as a turn of phrase. I don't mean post a review 10 minutes later

I mean you will put them as a negative, post when you feel safe or happy to.

[Iloveoral]

Is there a correlation between someone who messes you around and how much fun they are.

An example, not isolated in that I was seeing someone near Wigan, and got the go ahead to enter, but couldn’t find the correct door because it was dark. I must have been two to three minutes late and got bombarded with texts, saying they were to book someone else, etc, etc. Stupid me, apologised, and went in, should have walked, paid for an hour, made polite conversation and walked after twenty minutes.

Surprisingly, she has loads of good reviews

Polite nudge on the reviews, please
You’re a few years behind matey

[Johndy]

Fair enough, I will get at least one on here  this year !

[Iloveoral]

Fair enough, I will get at least one on here  this year !

Appreciated matey, thank you 

[KeenPunter]

Fair enough, I will get at least one on here  this year !

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