ikloee - Hither Green

[mudsucker]

Not my usual area but was in the smoke and looking for a meet. Found this one and pinged off a message and some nice dialogue was passed back and forth and car meet arranged. She sent off text with directions. Now, I hold my hands up! I cocked up and put the wrong postcode into maps (got two letters the wrong way round). I ended up just round the corner - 4 mins away to be precise. Anyway, i call her, she calls me, we can’t find each other and then it dawns on me, I fucked up and apologise profusely. She then starts swearing and muttering under her breath ‘why the fuck are you there?’. Anyhow, confirm postcode, tell her I’m literally minutes away, apologise again and say I’m on my way. There followed ‘how long will you be? I’m fucking freezing? Turn the heating in your car on’. I start to make my way and literally seconds later she calls again ‘where the fuck are you?’.

Vibe was telling me this person isn’t quite all there. I drive past her road (the correct road) and decide to def it. Didn’t feel right or safe. I block her and leave. Not quick enough to avoid a voicemail which I didn’t even listen to as it was probably another rant.

Again, people, I made a mistake, I get that. But I was polite, respectful and apologetic and literally under 5 mins away from where I should’ve been. But she just sounded weird. I suspect a big bullet dodged and £60 saved.

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[jakplo22]

I think you handled it correctly, can't blame you. As soon as any service provider (not limited to escorts) starts swearing at me I'm out.

[Atrueyorkie]

I understand her frustration and to top it off you ghost her. Wouldn’t be surprised if you get listed as a time waster, because although you made a mistake all she sees is someone who went to the wrong place and then radio silence.

The only thing I would give you is she didn’t need to insult you, yes it was dumb but mistakes happen, there was no need to call names when it was a genuine mistake.

[Tempest]

she's deffo on something, alcohol & drugs, deffo not all there

[Often Visitor]

She aint a size 10 

[Saltnpepper]

Sorry to hear OP I agree with jakplo22, it's a bit harsh to give her negative review though when her services wasn't too blame.

[mudsucker]

Sorry to hear OP I agree with jakplo22, it's a bit harsh to give her negative review though when her services wasn't too blame.

The communication part of any meet forms part of the service and overall experience (in my opinion). I guess it’s a bit of a ‘you had to be there’ sort of thing. But the change from lovely to the level of aggression was shocking and I’m not dealing with someone as volatile as that as it’s only going to go one way. Yes I made a mistake. Could’ve been rectified nicely in MINUTES. She chose aggression. I chose no thanks, I value my safety! Negative is therefore justified.

[Saltnpepper]

The communication part of any meet forms part of the service and overall experience (in my opinion). I guess it’s a bit of a ‘you had to be there’ sort of thing. But the change from lovely to the level of aggression was shocking and I’m not dealing with someone as volatile as that as it’s only going to go one way. Yes I made a mistake. Could’ve been rectified nicely in MINUTES. She chose aggression. I chose no thanks, I value my safety! Negative is therefore justified.

I don't agree, I think morally that's wrong, and how you handled it. The thing is when a SP does that to us with the radio silence automatically it's a negative. You went to the wrong place yes you apologised and then you went silent and blocked her, on the other foot it would be a neg for the sp, now she has her first neg. You can't poke a bear and get angry with it's reaction.

[LLPunting]

Thanks for fessing up you cocked this up. 

Failing to understand how much these girls get pissed about by punters flaking, harassing, being incompetent, being rude (not just brusque or sweary), threatening, haggling, etc on a daily basis is not very charitable, especially given the season.  She has no idea if you're genuinely in your car and nearby.  Sit in her knickers for a few minutes and work through the timeline you've described, if we presume she's at her word she's waiting out in the cold for an SS who doesn't turn up...

Again thanks for the review, sadly what you've described also gives her good cause for complaint so you may well end up on a list that you may or may not care about.

Better luck with the next one.

[scutty brown]

......., now she has her first neg........

Second
first was for ghosting....

[Saltnpepper]

Second
first was for ghosting....

My bad, I think when I saw it only accountanted for 1 and not 2. Anyway it's no biggy I'm sure she will be fine going forward.

[pumps]

Seems like a fair negative review.

Although I'm not surprised, english escorts that basically work off the street tend to be abit not all there.