Where to take a much younger SB

[jimbobted]

Apols if this isn't allowed, but there is discussion of Seeking girls on here so I think it's within rules...

I've hooked up with a girl (well several actually  ) on Seeking. I'm middle aged, she's 19. We're spending the night in London soon and I'm wondering where to take her for dinner that we won't stick out like a sore thumb.
I've booked an Airbnb for accommodation so there's no issue with hotel reception staff (many years ago I had a girlfriend who's previous boyfriend was 50-odd and she'd had staff making "welfare checks" and dirty looks/comments). But I'm a bit foxed for dinner.
Needs to be somewhere nice but not ridiculously posh or expensive.

I mean I know it's London and nobody really gives a fuck. I've done something similar with a hooker in her mid 20s a couple of times and that was fine, but this girl does look her age...

Suggestions gratefully received.

Apols if not allowed.

[londonroad]

Take her wherever you wish. If anyone seeing you is at all interested in your ‘relationship ’ they might conclude the SB is your daughter. Being London I don’t expect anyone will even be interested in the age gap or pay any attention to you - although guys might admire the SB if she is a good looker!
When I was an active SD, I took my SB to many restaurants in London and just got on with enjoying our time together. The SB was over 30 years younger than me.

[Tokidoe]

No one cares and if people did they wouldn’t confront you. I’m quite open with my SB and we play a little game of who and where is in a SB/SD only for fun no judgement and all. Spin it around from a different perspective I’m a sad loser in my early 30’s paying for an SB just a little younger than myself.

[Pillowtalk]

Apols if this isn't allowed, but there is discussion of Seeking girls on here so I think it's within rules...

I've hooked up with a girl (well several actually  ) on Seeking. I'm middle aged, she's 19. We're spending the night in London soon and I'm wondering where to take her for dinner that we won't stick out like a sore thumb.
I've booked an Airbnb for accommodation so there's no issue with hotel reception staff (many years ago I had a girlfriend who's previous boyfriend was 50-odd and she'd had staff making "welfare checks" and dirty looks/comments). But I'm a bit foxed for dinner.
Needs to be somewhere nice but not ridiculously posh or expensive.

I mean I know it's London and nobody really gives a fuck. I've done something similar with a hooker in her mid 20s a couple of times and that was fine, but this girl does look her age...

Suggestions gratefully received.

Apols if not allowed.

Do an online search for places close to the postcode you are staying. There may be a dozen restaurants close by and you should be able to check out websites and menus to check prices etc.

[jimbobted]

Do an online search for places close to the postcode you are staying. There may be a dozen restaurants close by and you should be able to check out websites and menus to check prices etc.

Yeah I'm more thinking of places which are discrete, like booth seating etc rather than price and what grub they do.

[myothernameis]

Tricky one, and something like this was on Facebook, and the outcome wasn't nice.   So a father and his 16 yr old daughter, checked into a hotel, and the receptionist, was suspicious of this.

The receptionist, phoned the police, and they arrive, and the door was open, and the father was arrested, seeming on the grounds of grooming this girl.   The father was questioned all night, and his daughter was in tears, and  the police wouldn't believe what the father was saying "This is my daughter"

So if your seeing this person, and taking here somewhere for the night, maybe nest to be cautious

[Punting2022]

Cheapest place tbh. Save your cash, No one cares. You could be two work colleagues etc
Also everyone knows what goes on now. Whenever i see a old or ugly man out with a stunning girl as a romantic way. Automatically i know hes paying for her either as a whore or as a SB.

[jimbobted]

Tricky one, and something like this was on Facebook, and the outcome wasn't nice.   So a father and his 16 yr old daughter, checked into a hotel, and the receptionist, was suspicious of this.

The receptionist, phoned the police, and they arrive, and the door was open, and the father was arrested, seeming on the grounds of grooming this girl.   The father was questioned all night, and his daughter was in tears, and  the police wouldn't believe what the father was saying "This is my daughter"

So if your seeing this person, and taking here somewhere for the night, maybe nest to be cautious

That's why I booked an Airbnb with self check in. Ultimately nothing would happen because she's 19 and that's that, but it would put a dampner on the evening.

I guess going for a meal unless we draw attention to ourselves we could just be colleagues, uncle and niece etc

And in most likelihood nobody gives a shit. I've checked into a day use hotel room with a young working girl stood right next to me and other than a slight look of disdain on the receptionists face it was fine.

I'm probably overthinking it.

[southcoastpunter]

Take her wherever you wish. If anyone seeing you is at all interested in your ‘relationship ’ they might conclude the SB is your daughter. Being London I don’t expect anyone will even be interested in the age gap or pay any attention to you - although guys might admire the SB if she is a good looker!
When I was an active SD, I took my SB to many restaurants in London and just got on with enjoying our time together. The SB was over 30 years younger than me.

this!

My last LT SB was 19 when i met her (now 20) and we went to lots of restaurants together and stayed in a number of hotels both here in the UK and abroad without any issues at all. She was nearly 40 years younger!!

Op = you are over thinking this. Just go where you want with confidence and act like you own the place!

footnote - i knew someone who had a real life relationship in his 50's with a mid 20's lady and when asked how they met said "i used to babysit her!!! (loved his comment!)

[Punting2022]

That's why I booked an Airbnb with self check in. Ultimately nothing would happen because she's 19 and that's that, but it would put a dampner on the evening.

I guess going for a meal unless we draw attention to ourselves we could just be colleagues, uncle and niece etc

And in most likelihood nobody gives a shit. I've checked into a day use hotel room with a young working girl stood right next to me and other than a slight look of disdain on the receptionists face it was fine.

I'm probably overthinking it.

Funny you say that, Recently i had a SB with me, She was 26. But maybe looked 23 ish.
Hotel asked for her ID. Im not as old so it wasnt as bad.
Now i will check in before and tell the SB to come to room after

[Tokidoe]

Funny you say that, Recently i had a SB with me, She was 26. But maybe looked 23 ish.
Hotel asked for her ID. Im not as old so it wasnt as bad.
Now i will check in before and tell the SB to come to room after

Interesting that, I had this too. Since then, I generally “underdress” when meeting my sb’s and would look generally more casual. I do let my potential m&g know before hand so it doesn’t seem like I’m homeless. My LT SB refers to it as the Justin Bieber/Hallie Bieber vibe.

[finn5555]

Yeah I'm more thinking of places which are discrete, like booth seating etc rather than price and what grub they do.

Bob Bob Ricard Soho, has booths but you need to book in advance for one.

[deg_dilemma]

Just reading these posts makes me so envious 

[RandomGuy99]

The toadstool seats at a local McDonald's?

[MLawro93]

Tricky one, and something like this was on Facebook, and the outcome wasn't nice.   So a father and his 16 yr old daughter, checked into a hotel, and the receptionist, was suspicious of this.

The receptionist, phoned the police, and they arrive, and the door was open, and the father was arrested, seeming on the grounds of grooming this girl.   The father was questioned all night, and his daughter was in tears, and  the police wouldn't believe what the father was saying "This is my daughter"

So if your seeing this person, and taking here somewhere for the night, maybe nest to be cautious

That is just poor policing to be fair. They could easily verify this type of information within a couple hours at most. So it is hard to account for this type of situation, as it can happen anytime anywhere.

For the OP, you're in London. No one will care at all. Most people will default to the easiest option which is they are your daughter. Pervs like us will go nah, that old fox is getting it 

[Stevelondon]

You want a restaurant with booths as they are more discrete.

Come on. Who the hell is going to care about a bloke with a younger girl.
Man up and enjoy the evening for gods sake.

If your worried and your posting on here for help and advice. That just means your probably going to be worried when your out for the evening.


Not that this will help. But years back I had a fling with a girl I met on CL. Very much younger and a different colour so the idea of father abd daughter may not have worked. 😂

Hotel in Surrey, meal out in the evening and when we came down for breakfast in the morning. It looked like she was wearing silk pyjamas…… little shorts and shirt.
Yes she got looked at but so what. 🤷🏼


Like you said. You’ve done something like this before. Just enjoy and don’t let your mind spoil things.

[Tokidoe]

You want a restaurant with booths as they are more discrete.

Come on. Who the hell is going to care about a bloke with a younger girl.
Man up and enjoy the evening for gods sake.

If your worried and your posting on here for help and advice. That just means your probably going to be worried when your out for the evening.


Not that this will help. But years back I had a fling with a girl I met on CL. Very much younger and a different colour so the idea of father abd daughter may not have worked. 😂

Hotel in Surrey, meal out in the evening and when we came down for breakfast in the morning. It looked like she was wearing silk pyjamas…… little shorts and shirt.
Yes she got looked at but so what. 🤷🏼


Like you said. You’ve done something like this before. Just enjoy and don’t let your mind spoil things.

Just to add to this, SB’s dont gain anything if you’re caught, personal rule of mine is never pay first. Between two consenting adults what could possibly go wrong in a hotel or restaurant unless the SB is not right in the head.

[signy]

Frankly, I would be more worried about being able to sustain a couple of hours decent conversation over dinner with a teenager.

[southcoastpunter]

Frankly, I would be more worried about being able to sustain a couple of hours decent conversation over dinner with a teenager.

that depends on them and also on you. Can you engage with people of any age or not? Of my 5 long term SB's (ie a year or more) one was 19 and another 20 when i met them and we got on really well together and indeed went abroad with them for 2 or 3 weeks.

so a bit more than just a couple of hours chat over dinner

[signy]

that depends on them and also on you. Can you engage with people of any age or not?

Fair comment.

In my case, definitely NOT with people of any age. It just gets worse the younger they are, whereas with older people I can more often fake it for while. I usually have to know people for weeks before any casual conversation above the most banal is possible. My issues, my problems.

[TallnHung]

I'm not sure it matters to be honest.
The looks will be from people who are jealous or just judgemental and those are the sort of folks you want to avoid in life anyway.
I always think of it like this.  If the people you worry about out and about that you dont know died tomorrow would you care or would it affect you?  If the answer is no either way why worry?

If you still think you need something and are in and around Kings Cross go look over near the Lighterman Pub.   Nice pub, decent food, good atmosphere mixed crowd of young and old.  Also some nice restaurants, Dishoom is a personal favourite, and whilst its well known its sort of off the usual track that most would choose like Covent Gareden and all that area.  If its drinks alone and youre near Waterloo the new, very cool, Brewdog in the old EuroStar area is good too.  Also anywhere around the Shard/Borough MArket and all that can gbe great and there is a really good mix of places depending on what you want on the night and the depth of your pockets.

I hope for your sake though you dont need much and its a night of filth rather than booze and food thats planned.

[yesbby]

I took a 27 year old to dinner and we ended up sitting at the sushi counter. She dressed particularly young with a v short skirt dress and little white high heel sneakers. She looked so cute but I was getting the evil eye from a woman of around my age at the other end of the bar.

For a while I felt a bit like one of the old guys in Thailand but then I just realised - no one knows anything. I've since seen similar matchups in restaurants and just thought they were probably family, friends, work colleagues. All bets are off. Don't be complex about it.

[Ivor Hunch]

this is a bit of an eye-opener-  there are actually a lot of guys in their 50s/60s hooking up with 20 yr olds on SD/SB basis??

[southcoastpunter]

this is a bit of an eye-opener-  there are actually a lot of guys in their 50s/60s hooking up with 20 yr olds on SD/SB basis??

err, yes ! perhaps more 20's than just 20 but certainly 20's and 30's.

But before anyone gets carried away, have a read of the general Seeking thread as well as the one for this region! The general view is that Seeking is at an all time low atm and other SD/SB sites are worse!!

[jimbobted]

this is a bit of an eye-opener-  there are actually a lot of guys in their 50s/60s hooking up with 20 yr olds on SD/SB basis??

I'm not that old, but yes. This 19yo, a stunner in her mid 20s and a slim fit lass in her early 30s who just wants to be fucked until we've both had enough. But... I've also encountered nutters, sob stories, a girl who turned up completely wasted it would have been wrong to do anything so I just persuaded her to sleep it off - she still wanted paying as "business is business baby". Another girl who I met for a platonic and then for an overnight. She left after 10 minutes because she took offence to a jokey comment. She's been periodically messaging me ever since with sob stories and can she just borrow some money to get back on her feet etc etc.
It's hard work!

[wirehair]

I’ve posted on here once before about arriving at a hotel with an SB who was 19 but looked 15 😱! My present SB is 28 but small and looks much younger. She got asked for ID when I bought her a drink. It doesn’t bother me to be seen with a much younger woman (I’m 70) especially in London. After all I got into the SD/SB game after staying at an upmarket hotel and watching well dressed man well into his 70s with a really attractive Russian blond when was very much not a relative from the way she was acting. So I thought….why not me?

[dobob]

Tricky one, and something like this was on Facebook, and the outcome wasn't nice.   So a father and his 16 yr old daughter, checked into a hotel, and the receptionist, was suspicious of this.

The receptionist, phoned the police, and they arrive, and the door was open, and the father was arrested, seeming on the grounds of grooming this girl.   The father was questioned all night, and his daughter was in tears, and  the police wouldn't believe what the father was saying "This is my daughter"

So if your seeing this person, and taking here somewhere for the night, maybe nest to be cautious

This is a distressing story, although I'm surprised the police were so biased against the father that they didn't make any obvious checks that would have confirmed his claims - or were they accusing him of incest? I hope he made successful claims against them and the receptionist. But in the case in point, surely the police wouldn't be interested if the girl could prove that she was 16 (or maybe 18) or more?

Cheers!

Aside: I wonder if the receptionist was related to the interfering buffoon who gave my car registration number to the staff in my local supermarket saying that I had reversed my car into another vehicle in the car park and walked away. Fortunately, the ladies from the supermarket who were expecting the scene of the "crime" when I'd done my shopping had already worked out that my car with not a scratch on it had not caused the nasty scrapes caked in mud on the paintwork of the car next to it. Grrh! My buffoon could have just approached me and talked it through with me. The receptionist could have just approached the girl and asked if everything was OK.

[southcoastpunter]

Tricky one, and something like this was on Facebook, and the outcome wasn't nice.   So a father and his 16 yr old daughter, checked into a hotel, and the receptionist, was suspicious of this.

The receptionist, phoned the police, and they arrive, and the door was open, and the father was arrested, seeming on the grounds of grooming this girl.   The father was questioned all night, and his daughter was in tears, and  the police wouldn't believe what the father was saying "This is my daughter"

So if your seeing this person, and taking here somewhere for the night, maybe nest to be cautious

This is a distressing story, although I'm surprised the police were so biased against the father that they didn't make any obvious checks that would have confirmed his claims - or were they accusing him of incest? I hope he made successful claims against them and the receptionist. But in the case in point, surely the police wouldn't be interested if the girl could prove that she was 16 (or maybe 18) or more?

 The receptionist could have just approached the girl and asked if everything was OK.

i think there must be more than just a father and daughter checking into a hotel - was it separate rooms or a double room with just a double bed? was the father rather dominating at reception - perhaps answering for the girl when asked a question? etc

The Receptionist must have had some reason to  be suspicious and the police too. The fact that he was her father doesn't automatically make it "all ok"  - it could be domestic abuse or worse!

There is a lot we don't know!

 I got asked if my 19 year old SB was my daughter by a hotel receptionist in Thailand. I just said "no" although i was thinking " heck you are checking us into a double room with just one double bed". she did of course have a copy of our passports so could check our ages. She then just smiled - still that was Thailand!

[jimbobted]

Well that was fun  .
Took her to a little cocktail bar. We saw what looked like punter and escort come in and sit near us and had a quiet giggle. Then she starts blatantly staring at them and making loud comments which they overheard. I managed to shut her up and have a normal conversation. A bit later I go off to the bog and come back to find she's sat next to the assumed escort asking "are you two on a sugar date then? It's alright, that's what we're doing".
FFS 
The other couple are not amused. I don't know what to say so elect to nothing and drag her away. Shortly afterwards the other woman gets up and "accidentally" pours her martini over my head.

Just one episode from a crazy night.

Think I'll stick to girls in their 20s and 30s who know how to conduct themselves in future.

[scutty brown]

Next time take her to the local Conservative Club
No-one will  notice there

[yesbby]

Brad Pitt is marrying someone 30 years younger than himself. That’s the standard I measure myself against

[Stevelondon]

Thankfully I look 30 years younger than my age so don’t have any problems whatsoever. 

@jimbobted……. So an eventful evening then !!! 

I do think the younger the lass. The more problematic things could, would or may get.
Another episode with a young girl I met through a model listing site (donkeys years ago) She was very hot. Very chatty. The intimate time was great.
But afterwards the “I fancy a drink now”………… her with her feet on the dashboard of my car, the oh so obvious way she could not handle her drink.
First and last time with a lass who turned out to be a nuisance.

So beware the pitfalls lads.

I’m too old now and can’t be arsed with all of that kind of stuff.

[scutty brown]

Well that was fun  .
Took her to a little cocktail bar. We saw what looked like punter and escort come in and sit near us and had a quiet giggle. Then she starts blatantly staring at them and making loud comments which they overheard. I managed to shut her up and have a normal conversation. A bit later I go off to the bog and come back to find she's sat next to the assumed escort asking "are you two on a sugar date then? It's alright, that's what we're doing".
FFS 
The other couple are not amused. I don't know what to say so elect to nothing and drag her away. Shortly afterwards the other woman gets up and "accidentally" pours her martini over my head.

Just one episode from a crazy night.

Think I'll stick to girls in their 20s and 30s who know how to conduct themselves in future.

did you get to fuck her though?

[Tokidoe]

Well that was fun  .
Took her to a little cocktail bar. We saw what looked like punter and escort come in and sit near us and had a quiet giggle. Then she starts blatantly staring at them and making loud comments which they overheard. I managed to shut her up and have a normal conversation. A bit later I go off to the bog and come back to find she's sat next to the assumed escort asking "are you two on a sugar date then? It's alright, that's what we're doing".
FFS 
The other couple are not amused. I don't know what to say so elect to nothing and drag her away. Shortly afterwards the other woman gets up and "accidentally" pours her martini over my head.

Just one episode from a crazy night.

Think I'll stick to girls in their 20s and 30s who know how to conduct themselves in future.

Sorry that happened, I guess discretion wasn’t clear? Not sure if you’re a Londoner, but as someone that works and spent most my life in London I’ve had a few occasions randomly I do run into people that recognise me, had 1 experience whilst with an SB and she played it off pretty cool.

[Gentlelovemaking]

How did the rest of the night go?

[PumpDump]

Well that was fun  .
Took her to a little cocktail bar. We saw what looked like punter and escort come in and sit near us and had a quiet giggle. Then she starts blatantly staring at them and making loud comments which they overheard. I managed to shut her up and have a normal conversation. A bit later I go off to the bog and come back to find she's sat next to the assumed escort asking "are you two on a sugar date then? It's alright, that's what we're doing".
FFS 
The other couple are not amused. I don't know what to say so elect to nothing and drag her away. Shortly afterwards the other woman gets up and "accidentally" pours her martini over my head.

Just one episode from a crazy night.

Think I'll stick to girls in their 20s and 30s who know how to conduct themselves in future.

Hahaha, that's crazy!! 

[PumpDump]

did you get to fuck her though?

Yes, the most important question!

[oddson1970]

Two words......just eat

[jimbobted]

Yes we fucked.
Now she has some kind of weird crush on me and is pestering to meet again, suggesting I can pay her a lot less ppm, she'd be happy with a shit hotel, she'll miss 2 days of uni to come several hours on the train to stay in my hotel room for a night whilst I'm away with work etc.
Could be fun, but...

[MLawro93]

Yes we fucked.
Now she has some kind of weird crush on me and is pestering to meet again, suggesting I can pay her a lot less ppm, she'd be happy with a shit hotel, she'll miss 2 days of uni to come several hours on the train to stay in my hotel room for a night whilst I'm away with work etc.
Could be fun, but...

Worth the risk? Personally, I would avoid. Seems there is zero discretion from her end!

[scutty brown]

Yes we fucked.
Now she has some kind of weird crush on me and is pestering to meet again, suggesting I can pay her a lot less ppm, she'd be happy with a shit hotel, she'll miss 2 days of uni to come several hours on the train to stay in my hotel room for a night whilst I'm away with work etc.
Could be fun, but...

she wants to be your daughter.......be careful

[PumpDump]

Yes we fucked.
Now she has some kind of weird crush on me and is pestering to meet again, suggesting I can pay her a lot less ppm, she'd be happy with a shit hotel, she'll miss 2 days of uni to come several hours on the train to stay in my hotel room for a night whilst I'm away with work etc.
Could be fun, but...

Give her my number 

[scutty brown]

Give her my number 

07666-666-666

[PumpDump]

07666-666-666

[Stevelondon]

Yes we fucked.
Now she has some kind of weird crush on me and is pestering to meet again, suggesting I can pay her a lot less ppm, she'd be happy with a shit hotel, she'll miss 2 days of uni to come several hours on the train to stay in my hotel room for a night whilst I'm away with work etc.
Could be fun, but...

Oh my god. A lass who is not taking her education seriously. Tsk Tsk…….get rid. 😂

[Hobbit]

Why don't you just ask her? It's very easy to fall into the trap of trying to impress but always remember that women can read through that very easily. Just be yourself and communicate.

[jimbobted]

Asked her what?

[PLeisure]

FFS... why did the other female pour her drink over you? It was the SB that was being silly/ immature/ indiscreet 

Anyways... glad you got a shag out of this weird scenario 
If she was a dynamo in the bedroom, I'd be tempted to consider that second meet. But no dinner this time - strictly confined to the room and order room service 

[jimbobted]

Fuck knows why she poured it over me. I just laughed it off. The barman came over with a towel and asked if I was alright, I just said yeah she did it on purpose but I don't give a fuck.
She was fun in the bedroom and I have to admit I'm tempted to see her again. But that was just one episode from a wild night and I'm thinking there are plenty of other fit hot girls out there to sample who are less likely to blow things up.

[SoapyTW]

I'm thinking there are plenty of other fit hot girls out there to sample who are less likely to blow things up.

True.... but why not both?