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Offline safado

I wonder how many of you have said "I love you" to the girl in the middle of the boom

I have personally had it happen to me that I have said "I love you." If I'm honest it's how I've felt at that exact moment when I say it to them and I think they understand and take it for what it is. And some of them say "I love you too."

It's hard to explain, there's really no commitment. After I leave the room, I completely forget what I said. Maybe some people are more considerate with the words they say at certain times. I'm not.

But I'm curious if that happens to others

Offline Gch1965

I haven't actually said it after a hot session with a regular  upon leaving I said goodbye see you again and the wg replied yes love you, she then went bright red and said i didnt mean to say that, i said dont spoil it lol.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2024, 01:26:07 pm by Gch1965 »

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Guaranteed way of not getting another booking and possibly reported on ClientEye.

Ir you're inclined to tell a complete stranger you love them then punting isn't for you.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2024, 01:27:24 pm by daviemac »


Offline safado

Guaranteed way of not getting another booking and possibly reported on ClientEye.

Ir you're inclined to tell a complete stranger you love them then punting isn't for you.

That's why I asked this question. I guess I'm that weirdo
Maybe I'm already in a few black list because of this  :lol:
It’s not like I’m telling everyone; one hand is more than enough to count the times, and I still have fingers left over 😊
At least in my case I rebooked some of them without any problems.

Offline Cheltclient

That's why I asked this question. I guess I'm that weirdo
Maybe I'm already in a few black list because of this  :lol:
It’s not like I’m telling everyone; one hand is more than enough to count the times, and I still have fingers left over 😊
At least in my case I rebooked some of them without any problems.

Awkward this one. I could imagine if you had a rapport with a regular you could blurt it out during the passion. We can all say daft things when we’re in that position. Guess the key thing is whether you meant it. That is where things would get dodgy and make the escort uncomfortable and it’s a transaction and you’d need boundaries. I guess as long as you apologise and make it clear you just said something daft whilst turned on, might get away with it. Prob best to make sure you don’t say it though. Think most escorts would be freaked out.

Never happened to me, thankfully

Offline safado

Awkward this one. I could imagine if you had a rapport with a regular you could blurt it out during the passion. We can all say daft things when we’re in that position. Guess the key thing is whether you meant it. That is where things would get dodgy and make the escort uncomfortable and it’s a transaction and you’d need boundaries. I guess as long as you apologise and make it clear you just said something daft whilst turned on, might get away with it. Prob best to make sure you don’t say it though. Think most escorts would be freaked out.

Never happened to me, thankfully

Good point, When they usually ask me what kind of service I'm looking for,  I tell them:  I really want you to be my Girlfriend  for next 30min, Hour, etc

Not sure if this help to set grounds that  this is a GFE
« Last Edit: August 27, 2024, 02:39:42 pm by safado »

Offline Mr. Noob

15 years ago i had a meet with Romanian girl. She said that at the end of session and during the meet when we talked she was saying thats its lonely being in another country alone. But that wasnt the end. She messaged me again that evening and asked me to take her to another city as she was touring and wanted to pay me for service. I didnt as was too tired and didnt want to drive long distance. 2 weeks later i received another txt from her asking how im doing and that she is coming to my city again, i said ok and asked her same. She said she is fine and still no boyfriend. I told her dont  worry you will find him one day. That was it i never met her again but sometimes i think i should. Memories 🤔

Offline Stevelondon

15 years ago i had a meet with Romanian girl. She said that at the end of session and during the meet when we talked she was saying thats its lonely being in another country alone. But that wasnt the end. She messaged me again that evening and asked me to take her to another city as she was touring and wanted to pay me for service. I didnt as was too tired and didnt want to drive long distance. 2 weeks later i received another txt from her asking how im doing and that she is coming to my city again, i said ok and asked her same. She said she is fine and still no boyfriend. I told her dont  worry you will find him one day. That was it i never met her again but sometimes i think i should. Memories 🤔


Difficult to say of course. But it sounds as if she fancied you……. OR…….. possibly sent the same message out to other punters (The but about coming back to your city, just drumming up business.
Personally I’d like to think it was only me she liked. 😂

Offline Stevelondon

I actually give a SP I see quite regularly, a cuddle and kiss as I’m leaving and say something like,
“Love you sweetheart”l

We have laughed about it a number of times and sometimes she’ll come back with,
“Love you too”

I’ve made friends with some SP’s over the years and although it’s true I’ve never fallen in love with any of them. I may have said “I love you” to one or two.

I think perhaps those words might be difficult for some to say, even to those close to their hearts.
Never been a problem for me. I’ve got some great friends and have no worries in telling my best mate I love him. Cos it’s true.

« Last Edit: August 27, 2024, 03:28:51 pm by Stevelondon »

Offline thefilthyfucker

I've had some of the feelings, only just, and was swiftly able to put a lid on it. (Like stepping on the edge of a pit). But thankfully never said anything, I do find the less I like them to the better the sex, and less likely to shoot my load too early.

When I was a kid I did once call my teacher "Mum".

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Offline Nagilum

Things may be said in the moment. However, I would quickly get out of that habit before you find yourself in EAS territory.

I have never said it personally and I find it odd to even think it.

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It's paid sex.

Yes, you can enjoy it but love doesn't come into it.

Offline Massagetugga

…except that love to shag hoors  :lol:

Offline Stevelondon

It's paid sex.

Yes, you can enjoy it but love doesn't come into it.

Unless it does  :D

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15 years ago i had a meet with Romanian girl. She said that at the end of session and during the meet when we talked she was saying thats its lonely being in another country alone. But that wasnt the end. She messaged me again that evening and asked me to take her to another city as she was touring and wanted to pay me for service. I didnt as was too tired and didnt want to drive long distance. 2 weeks later i received another txt from her asking how im doing and that she is coming to my city again, i said ok and asked her same. She said she is fine and still no boyfriend. I told her dont  worry you will find him one day. That was it i never met her again but sometimes i think i should. Memories

I had an invitation to spend Christmas day with a Romanian chick I had just fucked in an FKK club. Same sort of thing, I'm here alone, I'll cook diner for you etc. Apart from thinking about the multiple women I'd be missing out on I was tempted but I just didn't trust her.

Offline Stevelondon

I had an invitation to spend Christmas day with a Romanian chick I had just fucked in an FKK club. Same sort of thing, I'm here alone, I'll cook diner for you etc. Apart from thinking about the multiple women I'd be missing out on I was tempted but I just didn't trust her.


Or maybe you didn’t trust yourself.  :D

I dunno. Christmas dinner with a nice lass sounds ok to me. That is if you yourself were alone too.

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I dunno. Christmas dinner with a nice lass sounds ok to me. That is if you yourself were alone too.
Yeah I was alone in a country where I don't speak the lingo  :D  I wasn't quite buying she was all alone. Loads of Romanians in Deutschland. God knows who may have turned up.  :scare:

Offline Chazz

Yeah I was alone in a country where I don't speak the lingo  :D  I wasn't quite buying she was all alone. Loads of Romanians in Deutschland. God knows who may have turned up.  :scare:

Father Christmas?

Offline Mr. Noob


Difficult to say of course. But it sounds as if she fancied you……. OR…….. possibly sent the same message out to other punters (The but about coming back to your city, just drumming up business.
Personally I’d like to think it was only me she liked. 😂

Yes thats what i want to think too 😅. Theres a saying that you only regret things you never done and especially now when getting older life is just plain and boring most of the time.

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Yeah I was alone in a country where I don't speak the lingo  :D  I wasn't quite buying she was all alone. Loads of Romanians in Deutschland. God knows who may have turned up.  :scare:
Her 7 hot sex starved gorgeous sisters.

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Her 7 hot sex starved gorgeous sisters.
Damn. I'm kicking myself now.  :sarcastic:

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Visit Thailand, you will get plenty of " love you long time" comments  :D
( from the ladies that is not from the tuk tuk drivers )


Offline pythondan

I was once in a very intense session with a regular who was really into snogging and was wearing a sexy costume I had bought for her. Things were getting very hot in missionary and I blurted out "I love....", my brain kicked in so after a pause of a couple of seconds I lamely added ".......fucking you" then came inside her (condom worn).

She gave me a funny look whilst cleaning up but we saw each other quite a few times after that without problems. If I had completed what I was on the verge of saying she definitely would have been freaked. In fact thinking back on the next visit she did talk about other punters she had seen that day and that I was her fourth customer. That had never happened before so maybe she was gently reminding me that it was just a paid sex thing.

Offline boardyhell

I said to my regular as I was coming inside
I love you always as much as my cat and we both burst out laughing

Offline OakTree

I wonder how many of you have said "I love you" to the girl in the middle of the boom

I have personally had it happen to me that I have said "I love you." If I'm honest it's how I've felt at that exact moment when I say it to them and I think they understand and take it for what it is. And some of them say "I love you too."

It's hard to explain, there's really no commitment. After I leave the room, I completely forget what I said. Maybe some people are more considerate with the words they say at certain times. I'm not.

But I'm curious if that happens to others

How many times has this happened to you? Gotta be honest it all sounds as weird fuck.

It certainly isn’t normal to blurt out that sort of thing in a paid shag.

I don’t think I’ve heard anything so daft in all my punting life. 

Offline Dogfather

Had one say "My love" whilst in the middle of a pounding who I'd seen a few times.

I'm obviously a hunk of goodness that the ladies can't do without.


Offline Markc

I didn’t say l love you but recently on a hot summer’s day l was with a regular and l was just about to cum and l called out my wife’s name. We then both fell onto the bed in a pile of sweat and had a good laugh about.

But a few days later l was fucking the wife dogging style and made sure l didn’t say the wrong name this time and told her l loved her as l filled her cum.

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.   l was fucking the wife dogging style
You fucked your missus in a car park watched by onlookers?

Offline qarma

If said in gest, and both parties understand its in gest, then so what. But to say it seriously to someone you've just paid to have sex with is completely delusional.

Offline nightbot

I've had moments where I've basically stopped myself from saying that to my regular. Though I suspect if I do say that she won't mind it. That said our relationship goes beyond the business as she is in all aspects a true friend that I simply pay for sex, so there is mutual interest/feelings involved. Basically I do love her and care for her, but only as a friend.

Offline Stevelondon

How many times has this happened to you? Gotta be honest it all sounds as weird fuck.

It certainly isn’t normal to blurt out that sort of thing in a paid shag.

I don’t think I’ve heard anything so daft in all my punting life.

Oh dear. Perhaps you’ve led a sheltered punting life.  :D

Pray do tell us all. Exactly what is normal when it comes to paid sexual experiences. D

Maybe it’s just me then. I’ve never been able to look at my punting experiences as just being businesslike.
I know others will. It’s all about the physical and if that works for anyone. Then alls good.

But what might be daft to some. Is altogether normal to others.

We are all different 👍🏻
« Last Edit: August 29, 2024, 05:09:59 pm by Stevelondon »

Offline JAYZ

It has happened  I guess, but rarely. One lady asked me for marriage three times in one meet. I just ignored it. Perhaps that is why the sex was so great with that particular SP.


Offline Chazz

I think that there must be some sort of evolutionary link between busting a nut and having intense emotional feelings towards whichever woman you're with at the time. I remember finding myself tied to Lola Bell's table while she did despicable things to my cock and balls with her infernal pinwheel. At that moment, I was filled with the most overwhelming feelings of absolute love and adoration for her. I would've definitely exclaimed those three little words, but was fortunately unable to as she was covering my mouth and nose with her free hand. This was followed by the most mind bending, whole body shaking orgasm that I've ever experienced; the benchmark for all others since, which sadly has never been matched.

Offline Stevelondon

I've had moments where I've basically stopped myself from saying that to my regular. Though I suspect if I do say that she won't mind it. That said our relationship goes beyond the business as she is in all aspects a true friend that I simply pay for sex, so there is mutual interest/feelings involved. Basically I do love her and care for her, but only as a friend.


Absolutely nowt wrong with that whatsoever. And if you have strong enough feelings for someone and it’s thought of as love. Why not.

I think it’s this whole idea that it is a SP………. Someone not human  :D
Load of bollocks. I’ve met some of the most trustworthy, honest and decent people while wandering through my life and a number of those have been selling sex.
I’ve also met some incredibly evil fuckwits who on the outside have been thought to be highly respectable people.


Nope. I’ll carry on giving the lasses I love a kiss and cuddle as I leave and tell them those three words too. …. Thanks very much.  :D

Offline django0700

I believe all Love originates from between the legs  :D :D so I do love them all and they show me their love by opening their legs  :drinks:

Offline Geoff800

Admit I have said "f***ing marry me!" at the vinegar strokes during a really good punt  :blush:  luckily the SP joked after I'd exploded about booking the venue for the next day  :D sheepishly explained I was erm.. washing my hair sorry!

Offline Markc

You fucked your missus in a car park watched by onlookers?

Oops should have said doggy style. It was in the middle of the afternoon in our bedroom with the curtains closed.
But before we where married ( over 30 years ago ) we used to a car park at a local beauty spot just outside the
city we still live in to have sex in the car. There was always a lot of our cars there l expect doing the same as we were.

I hope no one ever looked in at us but hope they where having too much of a good time in their own cars.

Offline nightbot


Absolutely nowt wrong with that whatsoever. And if you have strong enough feelings for someone and it’s thought of as love. Why not.

I think it’s this whole idea that it is a SP………. Someone not human  :D
Load of bollocks. I’ve met some of the most trustworthy, honest and decent people while wandering through my life and a number of those have been selling sex.
I’ve also met some incredibly evil fuckwits who on the outside have been thought to be highly respectable people.


Nope. I’ll carry on giving the lasses I love a kiss and cuddle as I leave and tell them those three words too. …. Thanks very much.  :D
Oh I'm aware. I met my ex as a client, by 2nd meet itself we knew there was something there and my 4th booking with her was the last one...few months after that we ended up in a relationship. It's the most important relationship I've had as she's the only woman I've ever truly loved and committed to completely and I'd have married her if we had stayed together. It taught me a lot about life and just being and living with a partner (there were positives as well negatives like any relationship). She's left the UK now and has a different life in her home country. My regular is from the same country just so it happens, and pretend that her having similar physical features to my ex played no part in seeing her initially lol, but they both have very different personality and cadence so there's no confusion or transfering of affection even subconsciously.

Offline Steve1961

I have had some SPs shout out 'I love you' to me as they orgasm. That was in the heat of passion so I guess it does work both ways.

This is especially if the sex is that good and multiple orgasms ensue.  I think that we all know that sometimes when we hit that sweet spot, it's so good that the endorphin rush kicks in, a natural response could be 'I love you'.

Offline Stevelondon

Let’s face it. “I love you” gets said all the time.

I say it to the bloody cat.  :D

Offline dubs

I think that there must be some sort of evolutionary link between busting a nut and having intense emotional feelings towards whichever woman you're with at the time. I remember finding myself tied to Lola Bell's table while she did despicable things to my cock and balls with her infernal pinwheel. At that moment, I was filled with the most overwhelming feelings of absolute love and adoration for her. I would've definitely exclaimed those three little words, but was fortunately unable to as she was covering my mouth and nose with her free hand. This was followed by the most mind bending, whole body shaking orgasm that I've ever experienced; the benchmark for all others since, which sadly has never been matched.

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It's easy to save an accidental "I love you!"  by adding "...sucking my dick", "...riding cowgirl" etc to the end of the sentence.


Offline shed

Let’s face it. “I love you” gets said all the time.

I say it to the bloody cat.  :D



Yes the word is meaningless. I love my dog, children,  where I live, football, certain foods, punting, fitness, and many more things. Saying I love you to your wife, partner or SP what does it actually mean.  :unknown:

Offline Hobbit

Guaranteed way of not getting another booking and possibly reported on ClientEye.

Ir you're inclined to tell a complete stranger you love them then punting isn't for you.

Very unlikely. The number of times I have said shit to a girl during a heated sex session without any issues are numerous. Saying stuff during sex is normal and has no serious side effects. Just don't pull out the flowers and wedding ring. That would be trouble. :D

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Yes the word is meaningless. I love my dog, children,  where I live, football, certain foods, punting, fitness, and many more things. Saying I love you to your wife, partner or SP what does it actually mean.  :unknown:

The words "love" and "God" have become meaningless in this age. They are preloaded and carry no true meaning.

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Saying I love you to your wife, - what does it actually mean. 
i hope you don't have one or that she never gets to know you wrote that!!

Offline Stevelondon



Yes the word is meaningless. I love my dog, children,  where I live, football, certain foods, punting, fitness, and many more things. Saying I love you to your wife, partner or SP what does it actually mean.  :unknown:


It’s NOT meaningless shed.
You cold hearted son of a gun you.  :D