Author Topic: Lost interest with an escort because of their social media?  (Read 6310 times)

Offline unknownking123

Have you been put off an escort because of specific things they've posted on social media? I've had one on my HL for some time however she's recently jumped on the Tommy Robinson bandwagon and so I've decided to give her a miss.

Offline getsbettereverytime

You sound a bit like a stalker

Offline bops909

Not an escort but there are a couple of porn stars who I went right off after seeing some of what they posted on Twitter.

Not going to open a can of worms by saying what it was, suffice it to say, as extreme as being a flat earther, but a lot more dangerous, and no, not about Brexit.

Offline alabama1

Have you been put off an escort because of specific things they've posted on social media? I've had one on my HL for some time however she's recently jumped on the Tommy Robinson bandwagon and so I've decided to give her a miss.
Call me crazy, but my criteria on my choice of WG is if I find them attractive  :hi:

Offline Adoniron

A well known Hull escort started posting lot of conspiracy theory stuff on the local forum during covid. She had never espoused views like that before so maybe it was all getting to her (as it did lots of us) but she seemed to be properly unbalanced and I wouldn't want to see an SP with mental health issues.

Offline Southernbloke

Personally I don’t particularly care about anyone’s political views or beliefs. I tend to steer well clear of any kind of discussions like this when I am punting.
Quite happy to have a sensible discussion with someone in the right venue but I don’t want to disagree with a lady when she has got my cock in her mouth, it could get painful 😆

Offline unknownking123

You sound a bit like a stalker

Aha, I dunno about you but before I book someone I like to read previous reviews and check out their social media to see their most recent photos/videos.

Offline Thephoenix

I don't recall ever wanting to view a SPs social media.
Just like I wouldn't want them to be reading  mine.

Should I be checking out my dentist's, chiropodist's etc?

I enjoy a friendly informal chat but certainly wouldn't want to start getting into politics etc.....What a passion killer that would be.

Offline Avabar

Oh, I’m a 100% gonna look at a WG’s social media if I can find it. AW profiles can be vague and misleading at the best of times, so why wouldn’t you want to research as best you can before committing yourself to laying down a wad of cash.

It did happen to me recently. A girl had been on my hotlist for ages, but then I noticed her posting on Twitter about what a legend Farage is. Now I don’t care about the politics of an escort I’m seeing, and would never bring the topic up, but I like my meets to be very GFE and if I know that they hold views I find hard to stomach, then I can’t help but be put off by that. And I didn’t end up booking her as a result.

Offline Cheltclient

I would say if I was thinking of dating someone, then those views would very much put me off as we would never be on the same page. But for an escort booking, I wouldn’t care. I’m not there for that, it’s just about sex. I can see why it might turn you off though.

Offline Avabar

I would say if I was thinking of dating someone, then those views would very much put me off as we would never be on the same page. But for an escort booking, I wouldn’t care. I’m not there for that, it’s just about sex. I can see why it might turn you off though.

Yeah, I know it shouldn’t. Would just be lurking in the back of my mind though.

Offline unknownking123

I don't recall ever wanting to view a SPs social media.
Just like I wouldn't want them to be reading  mine.

Should I be checking out my dentist's, chiropodist's etc?


No, I’m not on about their personal social media. Some escorts have a twitter/instgram/onlyfans/fansly as a means of advertising.

Offline myothernameis

Have you been put off an escort because of specific things they've posted on social media? I've had one on my HL for some time however she's recently jumped on the Tommy Robinson bandwagon and so I've decided to give her a miss.

So how did you find out it was her

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Oh, I’m a 100% gonna look at a WG’s social media if I can find it. AW profiles can be vague and misleading at the best of times, so why wouldn’t you want to research as best you can before committing yourself to laying down a wad of cash.

It did happen to me recently. A girl had been on my hotlist for ages, but then I noticed her posting on Twitter about what a legend Farage is. Now I don’t care about the politics of an escort I’m seeing, and would never bring the topic up, but I like my meets to be very GFE and if I know that they hold views I find hard to stomach, then I can’t help but be put off by that. And I didn’t end up booking her as a result.
Some would say searching out an escort's social media is at best creepy.

The only things I judge escorts on are reviews, the comms during booking and if they are on punting forums, how they engage with punters and other escorts. I wouldn't''t dream of searching for anything about them in their private lives.

Offline unknownking123

So how did you find out it was her

There’s was a link on her AW profile/website.

An example of an escort that has a social media account for advertising - Social media that contains racially motivated videos removed.
« Last Edit: August 17, 2024, 12:33:44 am by daviemac »

Offline webpunter

Some would say searching out an escort's social media is at best creepy.

The only things I judge escorts on are reviews, the comms during booking and if they are on punting forums, how they engage with punters and other escorts. I wouldn't''t dream of searching for anything about them in their private lives.

Yep, deffo bout their private lives & what they post
Creepy indeed hunting for it especially when not immediately obvious to find
It strikes me that whoever pays this level of interest has fuck all else better to do

Not that many SPs have social media however when they do & the links are showing / easily accessible i'll have a look at their pics, nowt else
On the basis that typically the pics tend to be more current less shopped
& often some clips which are all but impossible to fake & no Awank paywall etc


Offline webpunter

There’s was a link on her AW profile/website.

An example of an escort that has a social media account for advertising -

Posting socials on here aint the done thing, keep digging  :rolleyes:
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Offline Avabar

Some would say searching out an escort's social media is at best creepy.

The only things I judge escorts on are reviews, the comms during booking and if they are on punting forums, how they engage with punters and other escorts. I wouldn't''t dream of searching for anything about them in their private lives.

Some would say we’re talking about escorts that have social media under there working names. How the fuck would I know someone’s private social media just because they’re on my hotlist? Get off your high horse.

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Some would say we’re talking about escorts that have social media under there working names. How the fuck would I know someone’s private social media just because they’re on my hotlist? Get off your high horse.
I know for a fact that people have been known to seek out and find an escort's social media then post it on here, I've had to delete enough of them, some even had pictures of their families and children on the page. So if it's all the same to you I'll stay exactly where I am and make sure that sort of thing doesn't happen again.

Offline Avabar

I know for a fact that people have been known to seek out and find an escort's social media then post it on here, I've had to delete enough of them, some even had pictures of their families and children on the page. So if it's all the same to you I'll stay exactly where I am and make sure that sort of thing doesn't happen again.

So that gives you license to just randomly call people creeps on here does it?

Offline webpunter

Some would say we’re talking about escorts that have social media under there working names. How the fuck would I know someone’s private social media just because they’re on my hotlist? Get off your high horse.

You should be able to get one of these next couple of days online, the rainforest one are pretty rapid on delivery

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There’s was a link on her AW profile/website.

An example of an escort that has a social media account for advertising - Social media that contains racially motivated videos removed.
Did you bother to scroll down the page and see the posts unrelated to her escort work.  :unknown:

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So that gives you license to just randomly call people creeps on here does it?
Try reading the words I actually used.

In my experience on this form I've seen enough comments that searching for an escort's social media is creepy for me to say some do find it creepy.

Offline JontyR

Plenty of profiles on AW have links to twitter accounts which would suggest they are only too happy for you to look and follow. Birchplace (for those such inclined) has links to a variety of others too. I'd never seek to find any kind of personal account.

I use the twitter links much like I'd maybe use a private gallery on AW, as part of due diligence. There's often extra work related media on there, and more up to date. 
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It's also a good place to find out when tourers that you may have an interest in seeing are in or coming to your area.

That being said, yes, one top end escort / porn performer has disappeared from my hotlist because of how she presented on her twitter feed. Not because of her politics but just that her moods seemed to be very extreme and her sense of humour seemed lacking. I wasn't going to punt the amounts she charged when the odds didn't seem to be particularly favourable. 
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Offline Avabar

But you’re objecting to a different subject than what we are discussing. Many escorts choose to run social media under their work profile, and sometimes they’ll also use the platform to comment on topical issues and just build up a general community and chat. If when doing this they also say something that can put you off them, well then that’s what we’re referring too.

If they’re putting it out there under their escorting profile, then it’s hardly creepy to read it.

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But you’re objecting to a different subject than what we are discussing. Many escorts choose to run social media under their work profile, and sometimes they’ll also use the platform to comment on topical issues and just build up a general community and chat. If when doing this they also say something that can put you off them, well then that’s what we’re referring too.

If they’re putting it out there under their escorting profile, then it’s hardly creepy to read it.
Nothing at all wrong with reading all advertising platforms that escorts use if it's readily available, it's the thought of having to search for it and then there's posting it on here without checking all the content.

Offline p4ds

I don’t think it’s creepy, 90% of these WGs are B&S or cat fishing. If it’s for research purposes and to make sure you’re not travelling hours to see someone claiming to be someone else, perfectly fine. Nothing creepy about it esp when they’re advertising services on there too. I rarely check for socials because it’s too much work to find, don’t know how y’all do it but I would defo want to make sure I know I’m not getting catfished or worse meeting a covert trans. This is also important when trying to TOFTT
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Offline Spacecowb0y

I see nothing wrong in reading a girls twitter account, if she has chosen to advertise that alongside her AW details. If her views clashed with mine, then no choice but to drop from my HL.
I just know, my mind would be thinking about her (objectional to me) views on current affairs or politics, and not the sexual liason.
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I don't believe the OP was stalking her , or being creepy , or trying to find her personal twitter account or identity. That would be for obvious reasons
« Last Edit: August 17, 2024, 01:40:19 am by Spacecowb0y »

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Offline unknownking123

Did you bother to scroll down the page and see the posts unrelated to her escort work.  :unknown:

No, sorry I didn’t. I just picked a random profile to show that escorts advertise on there. Apologies.

I’m surprised at some of the assumptions. I never mentioned having to search for it. My original question refers to escorts who have a profile that promotes their work and not being an online detective.

Like JontyR said I use social links much like I'd maybe use a gallery on AW/reviews as part of due diligence. There's often extra work related media on there, and more up to date.
« Last Edit: August 17, 2024, 07:15:21 am by unknownking123 »

Offline BoneOnBlackpool

So long as she’s clean and sucks my dick good I don’t give a shit about her political beliefs or private life.

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No, sorry I didn’t. I just picked a random profile to show that escorts advertise on there. Apologies.

I’m surprised at some of the assumptions. I never mentioned having to search for it. My original question refers to escorts who have a profile that promotes their work and not being an online detective.

Like JontyR said I use social links much like I'd maybe use a gallery on AW/reviews as part of due diligence. There's often extra work related media on there, and more up to date.
That's why we don't allow social media links on here, posters don't look at what they contain, the one you posted was mild, one the other day advocated beheading a certain section of British society and there's been loads that contain pictures of children.

I didn't say you searched for it, I replied to Avabar who said "if I can find it", you don't have to find a social media link if the SP links to it or indicates where it is so perhaps "if it's available" would have been a better phrase.

Just to add, there's reports on here of escorts popping up as a friend suggestion on punter's private Facebook page because they've used it to view the girl's page so I would hope those who do use it have separate 'punting' social media accounts similar to a punting phone.

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If she's advertising on twitter under her working name then I don't think there's anything wrong with checking that out - she wants it to be seen. Obviously checking a personal life page would be out of order.

And to answer yes - There was a girl in london who I was considering and she posted on twitter 'My favourite clients are drug dealers, cause they never stay the whole time' 
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Offline Bluelight85

Just to add, there's reports on here of escorts popping up as a friend suggestion on punter's private Facebook page because they've used it to view the girl's page so I would hope those who do use it have separate 'punting' social media accounts similar to a punting phone.

This is true, I have had this occur myself, I actually block them should they show up, because I have no interest in their profile and I certainly don’t want them having an interest in mine. However that said, I do think it’s an unwise move on their part to actually use their “business number” with their social media, especially if they are using their real name, but I guess the same can be said for any punter who uses a punting number for social media - to quote Michael Corleone “It’s not personal, It’s strictly business” :hi:

Offline Nagilum

Aha, I dunno about you but before I book someone I like to read previous reviews and check out their social media to see their most recent photos/videos.

I would ask, who does that but here we are.

Read the reivews on here and if there are none then either TOFTT or leave it. What I'm saying is, leave a little to the imagination and mystery.  :hi:

Offline GoodLookinGuy

No it wouldn't put me off what their political opinion is, everyone is entitled to have their own political views. Any more than it wouldn't put me off what religion they are if any at all or what football team they support.

Offline Avabar

No it wouldn't put me off what their political opinion is, everyone is entitled to have their own political views. Any more than it wouldn't put me off what religion they are if any at all or what football team they support.

Oh, I definitely draw the line at sleeping with someone who supports Manchester United 😂

Offline Blackpool Rock

Oh, I definitely draw the line at sleeping with someone who supports Manchester United 😂
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Offline David1970

I had a WG on my HL, someone did a glowing review of her and put her Facebook page up, it was later taken down. When I looked at her Facebook pages she was fat, I mean season ticket to Greggs fat, needless to say she dropped off my HL.
Nothing to with her views on politics or race just the photos on her AW page and her social media were so different.

Offline yesbby


It did happen to me recently. A girl had been on my hotlist for ages, but then I noticed her posting on Twitter about what a legend Farage is. Now I don’t care about the politics of an escort I’m seeing, and would never bring the topic up, but I like my meets to be very GFE and if I know that they hold views I find hard to stomach, then I can’t help but be put off by that. And I didn’t end up booking her as a result.

Good luck finding a guardianista escort!

Offline Avabar

Good luck finding a guardianista escort!

Haha, I have as it happens 😁

Offline yesbby

Haha, I have as it happens 😁

Is the sex better when you know she supports Kier Starmer? Or maybe she has to journey in her mind all the way to Jeremy for a truly satisfying orgasm..

I don’t even care who my long term partner votes for

😆


Offline Avabar

Nah, it’s the last topic I’d bring up. It’s nice to know that on our dinner dates she’s not gonna say something fucked up after a few drinks though. I have had that happen. Just bit my tongue, smiled and nodded 🤣

Offline Cheltclient

I do see how it could put you off. We have this stunning woman at work. Always in figure hugging dresses. Undeniably beautiful. Knows it. Was talking to her for a fair while at a work function and she was massively into to all the conspiracy theories and was really outspoken, especially about the covid vaccine, to the extent she was almost hating those who took it. She genuinely thought Gates was microchipping us. She was a bit like Trump (don’t worry I’m not looking for a left/right debate) - and was a complete dick. For me, it made her really unattractive and when I see her now, I just think what a dick. Her attitude has made her unattractive.

So I get this and can see how it could put you off. That being said, if this girl at work just wanted to fuck (never going to happen) - I so would! Would I date her? No. So political views would not personally put me off an escort.


Offline jeanphillipe

Don't give a shit about political views / religious views I'm there for nefarious activity and little talking.

It's that situation where you can be racist but still accept custom as you would be a terrible businessman if you didn't.

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Have you been put off an escort because of specific things they've posted on social media? I've had one on my HL for some time however she's recently jumped on the Tommy Robinson bandwagon and so I've decided to give her a miss.

Tell her you have the opposite view when you are in doggy position and hand on for the ride of a lifetime  :lol:
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Offline webpunter

Tell her you have the opposite view when you are in doggy position and hand on for the ride of a lifetime  :lol:

That must be the same position as when you tell a civvy that you've banged her best mate / sister / mum 

Offline Blackpool Rock

That must be the same position as when you tell a civvy that you've banged her best mate / sister / mum
It's called Rodeo sex  :D  :hi:

Offline Rocket1927

Have you been put off an escort because of specific things they've posted on social media? I've had one on my HL for some time however she's recently jumped on the Tommy Robinson bandwagon and so I've decided to give her a miss.
go and watch his documentary called SILENCED  you might change your mind on him

Offline Newtothisstuff

I don't really care what they think about anything unless it gets in the way of a booking.  It doesn't matter if I agree or disagree with them.  Talking about politics, religion or to be frank anything about either of our personal lives is a big fat 'No'.  I'm paying for her time not her opinions.  I had a girl stop mid punt because she obviously supported a particular football team.  I said that I don't watch football and she then stopped everything to try to angrily persuade me that football was the best thing ever.  That killed the mood and the punt was over.
I don't care what a girl thinks so long as she keeps her opinions to her own time.