SeductiveSecret - racist whore

[nforbes]

This lady is 1 horrible whore. I tried to arrange a booking via text, she asked me to call to book which I assume was to detect my voice, asked for my name, age and when it came to heritage I said British/African and she said I don't see blacks thank you then dropped the phone.

[PilotMan]

No link as to who the SP is or where the location is.

Also the SP didn't agree to a booking, so this doesn't count as a review.

[RAJEC]

It’s up to her who she sees but if she declined in a racist manner, then that’s, well… racist.

[nforbes]

This lady is 1 horrible whore. I tried to arrange a booking via text, she asked me to call to book which I assume was to detect my voice, asked for my name, age and when it came to heritage I said British/African and she said I don't see blacks thank you then dropped the phone.

Apologies, location - Epsom

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[nforbes]

It’s up to her who she sees but if she declined in a racist manner, then that’s, well… racist.

Don't care if she's not into black men but she was a rude whore.

[RAJEC]

Don't care if she's not into black men but she was a rude whore.

So she’s not racist then?

[Stevelondon]

Not a polite refusal at all if she said something like “I don’t see blacks”

I agree, any SP can choose who sees and does not see. But it would certainly make things a lot easier for people if it’s on a SP’s profile.

I’d be bloody pissed off if I made it to the front door, only to be told “I don’t see Geordies” 😡

[nforbes]

Not a polite refusal at all if she said something like “I don’t see blacks”

I agree, any SP can choose who sees and does not see. But it would certainly make things a lot easier for people if it’s on a SP’s profile.

I’d be bloody pissed off if I made it to the front door, only to be told “I don’t see Geordies” 😡

Thank you, the dumb whore should at least put it on her profile and I wouldn't have bothered. There is nothing worse than a whore who thinks they are doing you a favour.

[RAJEC]

Two separate points here.

If she doesn’t see blacks then yes shitty of her not to advertise it but at least you found out on the phone not at the door.

Still doesn’t make her racist. A timewaster and shit sp yes, but there’s plenty of them around too.

[nforbes]

Two separate points here.

If she doesn’t see blacks then yes shitty of her not to advertise it but at least you found out on the phone not at the door.

Still doesn’t make her racist. A timewaster and shit sp yes, but there’s plenty of them around too.

So you think it's acceptable for her to say I don't see blacks. I said my ethnicity was British/African I never knew Africa consisted of 100% "blacks".

Why are you caping?

[Haderach]

So you think it's acceptable for her to say I don't see blacks. I said my ethnicity was British/African I never knew Africa consisted of 100% "blacks".

Why are you caping?

Yes, in my opinion she has the right to say no to anyone she doesn't wanted to see. Do I like it, not personally, do I think she should be clear on her profile, yes. However when offering her body, she has to right to say no. I am all about informed, enthusiastic consent with bodily autonomy.

[RottenVanilla]

So you think it's acceptable for her to say I don't see blacks. I said my ethnicity was British/African I never knew Africa consisted of 100% "blacks".

Why are you caping?

 

Really sorry to hear about what happened and I wish you to find a great one next time.
No matter how frustrating can be, you'll have to suck it up and carry on without a second thought. It is a service, but it's an intimate one. The escort can have preferences about who they have sex with. Some wouldn't see Indians, some wouldn't see their own nationals. Some wouldn't see overweight, some wouldn't see people over/ under a certain age. You should only stand up for yourself only when they agree to see you, then treat you like shit. She declined and told you why. Don't take it personally, it doesn't mean that you are inferior to anyone, just she doesn't like to have sex with black people . If she was saying ''I don't see blacks because they're bad/ugly/...whatever'', then it would've been racist.
Forget about it, plenty of other wg's who have no problem with blacks, in fact many prefer them and boost about it on their profile.
 


   

[Stevelondon]

She could have said “Sorry, I do not see black men”

World of difference between that and what she actually said.

[nforbes]

Really sorry to hear about what happened and I wish you to find a great one next time.
No matter how frustrating can be, you'll have to suck it up and carry on without a second thought. It is a service, but it's an intimate one. The escort can have preferences about who they have sex with. Some wouldn't see Indians, some wouldn't see their own nationals. Some wouldn't see overweight, some wouldn't see people over/ under a certain age. You should only stand up for yourself only when they agree to see you, then treat you like shit. She declined and told you why. Don't take it personally, it doesn't mean that you are inferior to anyone, just she doesn't like to have sex with black people . If she was saying ''I don't see blacks because they're bad/ugly/...whatever'', then it would've been racist.
Forget about it, plenty of other wg's who have no problem with blacks, in fact many prefer them and boost about it on their profile.
 







You guys got this all wrong I don't care who this dumb whore preferences that doesn't make her racist. I'll tell ya what in your social circles refer to black people as "blacks" and see what happens.

[Iloveoral]

Unfortunately….

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From your initial post matey, the booking was not agreed, so it doesn’t class as a review.

I agree she was rude, sorry to read it was a shitty experience

[LauraHoD]

These situations are sensitive and I can see from both sides. The SP shouldn't have to see anyone she doesn't feel comfortable with. But also if we were providing any other service in any other industry then it would be outrageous(probably illegal) to openly discriminate against people based on their race.

Having said that I don't think she handled the situation
very well and should of probably just stated it in her profile. But doing so can lead to abuse messages and threats...so I have been told by girls I have met in the past.

Also I know some girls won't see black guys because they have a black partner or ex partner and they don't want his friends or family booking her and him finding out. Like the same reason lots of black girls don't want to see black men, Romanians don't see Romanians etc.

She could have been more polite about rejecting you based on your race. But there could be different reasons for that not just that she is racist.

[LauraHoD]

I did also read her profile and although she doesn't mention race restrictions she did say she has a lower age limit and she won't state what it is because she doesn't want guys lying. So she asks them first and then decides if they are too young.  I imagine she has the same policy on race that way she can wait for them to answer the question and tell them she won't see them rather than give them the opportunity to lie.
     If a SP states "no Black/Asian men". Then they can just lie and say they are white to get her address then subject her to some kind of verbal/physical/sexual abuse or robbery...that might sound paranoid but this stuff does happen. Maybe it has happened to her in the past.

I don't know this woman so I'm only speculating. She might just be a nasty racist, EDL cunt. 
       

[PilotMan]

     If a SP states "no Black/Asian men". Then they can just lie and say they are white to get her address then subject her to some kind of verbal/physical/sexual abuse or robbery...that might sound paranoid but this stuff does happen. Maybe it has happened to her in the past.

     

I have had many SP's mention to me that guys lie about their ethnicity or country of origin in order to push their luck and see if the SP will just cave in and see them once F2F.

I had an SP tell me that she had a guy turn up with a hat / cap on and held his head down so that he couldn't be seen through the door spy hole.

So this SP's strategy makes perfect sense.

[myothernameis]

There might be many reasons why an escort wont see Asian males ect, and could be in her past she has had issues with these groups.  One girl I have seen in the past Oriental Angie from Renfrew, would not see anyone of an ethnic background, and would ask the punter if your White Scottish

And the reason, she has had Asian men hanging out side her flat, and nuisance texts from a black male, and when it came to your booking, she asks are there any males hanging about out side

[RAJEC]

So you think it's acceptable for her to say I don't see blacks. I said my ethnicity was British/African I never knew Africa consisted of 100% "blacks".

Why are you caping?

Did you say you’re a non-black African?

[mrwhite]

I've heard of black girls that refuse bookings from black men - does that make them racist as well?

The same could be said of a lot of Romanian girls that wouldn't see Romanian guys.

An SP can choose to see who she feels comfortable with.

From your post I would say she is rude.

[Stevelondon]

I've heard of black girls that refuse bookings from black men - does that make them racist as well?

The same could be said of a lot of Romanian girls that wouldn't see Romanian guys.

An SP can choose to see who she feels comfortable with.

From your post I would say she is rude.

Oh I think we are all in agreement about that.

But that’s not the point here. What most are saying she could at least put it on her profile thus avoiding situations.
Rudeness yes……. Personified.

[berksboy]

Replay 13  "You guys got this all wrong I don't care who this dumb whore preferences that doesn't make her racist. I'll tell ya what in your social circles refer to black people as "blacks" and see what happens. "

What does that mean ? I have lots of black friends / relatives and they often refer to themselves as black / blacks and why not as they are black ? The younger  ones will also use the N word a lot in conversation as in " i need to get me a N ##### boyfriend". And no i would not use the N word.

[Stevelondon]

Replay 13  "You guys got this all wrong I don't care who this dumb whore preferences that doesn't make her racist. I'll tell ya what in your social circles refer to black people as "blacks" and see what happens. "

What does that mean ? I have lots of black friends / relatives and they often refer to themselves as black / blacks and why not as they are black ? The younger  ones will also use the N word a lot in conversation as in " i need to get me a N ##### boyfriend". And no i would not use the N word.

“I need to get me a Nword boyfriend”
I think that says a lot and none of it good to be honest.

My kids are mixed race. They have friends of different nationalities and colours.
Thankfully I’ve never heard any of them (and I’ve watched them all growing up as school kids) talk in the manner berksboy mentions.

Maybe good parenting comes into play.

[berksboy]

Blacks use the N word all the time , very surprised you have not heard it . Now rap music is not my cup of tea at all but the N word is used all the time.
Back in the 70s the great Joe Frazier uesd it when doing TV commentary.

And the parents are very good thanks.

[Stevelondon]

Blacks use the N word all the time , very surprised you have not heard it . Now rap music is not my cup of tea at all but the N word is used all the time.
Back in the 70s the great Joe Frazier uesd it when doing TV commentary.

And the parents are very good thanks.

I have heard it. I was simply telling you of my own experiences regarding my family, friends etc.

In your opinion it’s ok for black people (note I don’t use the term ‘blacks’) to say and talk about Nword.

I wonder what their reaction would be for me (white bloke) to start saying it in a pub full of black people.

Just cos Joe Frazier uses the word doesn’t make it right.
What would you have thought if it was Henry Cooper saying it. ?

[berksboy]

Like you i dont think they would like us white blokes using it but they seem happy to use it amongst themselves, maybe because they have the sense to know it only means black.

[Stevelondon]

Like you i dont think they would like us white blokes using it but they seem happy to use it amongst themselves, maybe because they have the sense to know it only means black.

It doesn’t.
Even if black people use it amongst themselves it’s still derogatory wording.
In all honesty I find it pathetic.
I can say it but you can’t.

[Haderach]

Like you i dont think they would like us white blokes using it but they seem happy to use it amongst themselves, maybe because they have the sense to know it only means black.

Different emphasis, N-Word, ending with GA or hard ER. Either way, the history and meaning is more important to me. Not a word I would use.

[Stevelondon]

Different emphasis, N-Word, ending with GA or hard ER. Either way, the history and meaning is more important to me. Not a word I would use.

Exactly 👍🏻

[Hardluck]

There might be many reasons why an escort wont see Asian males ect, and could be in her past she has had issues with these groups.  One girl I have seen in the past Oriental Angie from Renfrew, would not see anyone of an ethnic background, and would ask the punter if your White Scottish

And the reason, she has had Asian men hanging out side her flat, and nuisance texts from a black male, and when it came to your booking, she asks are there any males hanging about out side

I have no issue accepting escorts saying I won't see black guys, your body your choice.
I do however have a problem when they put it's because of a bad experience on their profile. Every working girl I've seen and had an multi-hour punt with, has had bad experiences with punters of every race, if they've been in the business long enough. You'll never see one saying "I don't see white men because of a bad experience". Stop making it seem like only people cause trouble.