ashley_carter - Dewsbury - Avoid

[MirrorMirror]

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SHORT VERSION:

My last session with Ashley was the worst sexual experience of my life and took weeks to get over. Before that, I saw her 6 or 7 times spread over 3 years and all those sessions were a solid positive experience.

LONG VERSION:

My final session with Ashley was in March 2024. The delay in me writing a review was partly because the experience was so bad I didn't want to think about it, and partly because I didn't know how to rate it. It was obviously a negative. So negative, it kind of warped reality and went into some other-worldly version of negative I've never imagined possible. But it didn't seem 'fair' to rate this session 'negative' when I've never left her a review from my previous 'positive' sessions with her, I wondered if it averaged-out to a 'neutral'. Eventually I got over the trauma and decided the final session was bad enough to outway the previous good sessions and that I should leave a review to give you something to laugh at if nothing else. To be fair to Ashley, I'm including details of the positive sessions (last was Nov 2023) as well as the negative session this March.

PREVIOUS SESSIONS:

Coms
Faultless. Clear list on AW of what’s on offer and what's not, and all genuine. Good instructions for location/entry.

Location
Current set-up is free parking on nearby Mill Road, WF13, short walk from there. A decent area, I didn’t fear for my car (or myself).
Apartment surprisingly untidy and bathroom a bit dirty, considering this is her personal permanent fuck-pad rather than a short-term let shared with other escorts.

Booking details
Various bookings over the years, all multi-hour, longest was 5 hours. Always paid the going rate as per AW, plus the stated extra for filming.

The girl
Stated age of 24 probably not far out. I think she's very pretty, even though I'm not into her 'alt' look.
No silicone. Lots of piercings and good-quality tattoos. Exactly as in her AW pictures.
Many many scars, some of which look recent, which I *assume* are from self-harm. I don't judge, it didn't 'bother' me, but I mention it as I think it could put some punters off.
AW profile states 'tightest pussy' but it's simply NOT. She has so little body-tone throughout, including her pussy, I wonder if it's a medical condition rather than just being zero physical activity. As she's still young, it's plenty tight enough. It's just that it's more what I'd expect from someone twice her age. In prone-bone and spooning positions it was fine.

Upon entry
Always opens door wearing nice underwear.
Insists on a shower before any action, but that's my preference anyway.

Conversation
Practically zero. A brief welcome on entry and usually gives short coherant answers to direct questions, but nothing else. If you want someone to have a chat with, look elsewhere.

The action
Unlimited kissing, only LFK rather then DFK, but personally I liked it. Not passionate, but sensual.
Unlimited licking of her pussy, which always makes her come very hard, very fast, very many times.
Unlimited OWO, personally I think it's a decent technique but not close to deep throat, allows CIM, spits.
Unlimited hard fucking in every position I could think of. So much fucking, and so hard, that every time I met her I made a point of telling her (at least once per session) that I didn't want to do anything she wasn't comfortable with and that she could say 'stop' at any time. She never said 'stop'.
I once came on her face (allowed per AW profile). She didn't say anything, but clearly hated the experience so, being a soft git, I never did that again.
Pulling hair, spanking, light hands round throat (that last one is a 'no' as per current AW profile, but I don't think it was listed as a 'no' when I started seeing her and she's never objected to it, I put zero pressure on).
Filming was well-worth it as she was OK with camcorder and tripod for the whole session.
On the way home, I sometimes had to stop the car and have a sleep as I was so exhausted I wasn't safe to drive.


FINAL SESSION:

Coms
As above

Location
As above

Booking details
4 hours in-call

The girl
As above

Upon entry
Opened door wearing nice underwear and well-presented as ever.
Seemed a little dazed, as though she wasn't quite all-there.
Didn't seem to know what to do with the money I put in her hand.
Didn't understand at all when I said I'd take a shower, but I took one regardless and just left her standing there staring at the money.

Conversation
Practically zero (normal for her), but (unlike her) was unable to give even short coherant answers to most direct questions.
I asked if she felt OK and wanted to continue with the meeting. Ashley denied there was a problem and didn't understand what might have led me to even ask. So I continued.

The action
Kissed her as always, but she didn't seem keen this time. I've good dental hygeine and always spend the last half hour of my journey chewing gum so was confident it wasn't bad breath, so just thought she wasn't in the mood and I went down on her instead.
She came even faster and even harder than usual, writhing all over the place and moaning.
When my tongue tired I got her to suck my dick, and soon she was... running to the bathroom to throw-up.
Eventually she returned from the bathroom, but didn't make it to the bed before she had to return to the bathroom to throw-up some more.
On the third or fourth attempt, she made it as far as the bed, but didn't manage to completely sit down before she had to return to the bathroom to throw-up some more.
After about an hour or so, she progressed to being able to lie down on the bed without vomiting. She didn't respond to my concerned questions.
I spent about another hour or so just lying there with a hand resting on her in the hope human contact may give her some comfort. She slept a while. She even slept through someone hammering hard on her door (the sort of knock you'd expect if someone was either angry with you or concerned about you).
When she started moving a bit, I again asked what was wrong and whether there was anything I could do to help or whether she'd like me to leave. She denied anything was wrong and started crying, so we carried on just lying there.
Early-on in this nightmare I did think about asking for my money back and leaving but, considering her many scars, I decided to be a decent human being and stay with her. I assumed we'd be able to negotiate a reduced fee on our next meet. I just stayed lying with her until the last 15 minutes of our 4-hour session and asked what she wanted me to do, whether she wanted me to leave her alone or stay with her. She said she'd like to dress and eat something and be alone, so I left.

Aftermath
Once back home I sent a text. I said I didn't want to pry but that I was concerned about her and that she was welcome to get in touch if she wanted to talk or there was anything I could do to help.
My message didn't reach her phone. She'd blocked me. So she's taken £570 from me in return for about 2 minutes kissing, 10 minutes pussy licking, and 1 minute cock sucking, put me through 4 hours of stress (plus 2.5 hours wasted travel time), then treated me like s***.
I'm the same person I was on the previous 6 or 7 sessions, so if she didn't want to see me again she shouln't have accepted my booking and my money.
I'm confident it was about me anyway, as she was in a daze from the moment she opened the door.
I like to fuck hard and long, but I'm a sensitive gentle soul (soft b***** if you prefer) and this experience really hurt me. At first it bruised my confidence, then I felt badly cheated. It took a few punts with my other regular escorts (who reassured me I'm still the same nice guy and good client I always have been) to make me feel better about myself again, so I'm well over my punting budget for the year now!

OVERALL
I assume something very bad was happening in Ashley's life on that particular day. As one human to another, I felt sorry for her and offered what little comfort a punter could. In return she stole £570 from me and, rather than apologising for what she put me through, she's blocked me as though it was somehow my fault. All my previous sessions with Ashley were solid positives so I wondered if it was a one-off but, as I write this, I see she's had another negative review this month, so looks like her service has taken a nose-dive off a very steep cliff.
AVOID

[daviemac]

Not sure how you work out she's 'stolen' from you, you paid for 4 hours and were there for 3 3/4 so you were only short of 15 mins.

You did the decent thing and stayed with her but she was in no fit state to offer any services, you could have left when you first got there and realised she wasn't well.

[MirrorMirror]

Fair opinion. I could have. I did ask at the start if she wanted to continue and she said she did. Once I realised what a state she was in, given what appears to be a long and recent history of self-harm, I was scared of leaving her alone, even more so after someone was hammering at her door.

[Aji81]

What a weird amalgamation of reports. Sounds like some EAS in there as well. I don't see how this was a nightmare exactly. You weren't threatened or faced with violence, just an SP obviously going through a mental health crisis. Not a pleasant experience for either of you, but sometimes these things happen. Also, you're supposed to be a decent human being, you shouldn't have to make a decision about it.

Early-on in this nightmare I did think about asking for my money back and leaving but, considering her many scars, I decided to be a decent human being and stay with her.

[MirrorMirror]

- I don't know what 'EAS' is, so I can't respond to that.
- Perhaps it was a nightmare for me because I'm a soft git and find someone else's pain very distressing, particularly as (being insecure) for days after I worried it was my fault somehow.
- As for 'you're supposed to be a decent human being, you shouldn't have to make a decision about it', I think we all make decisions about that every day. We all decide whether to donate to charity, or give a sandwich to a homeless guy, or get involved in some shit that's going down, or just walk away. Most of us make a decision to walk away most of the time. On that occasion, I made a decision not to demand my money back and leave her alone in that state. Instead, I stayed because I thought it was the right thing to do.

[scutty brown]

Sounds to me like she's had a mental breakdown, - possibly - drug enhanced.
If so you cannot expect any rationality of thought. I doubt she had any concept of "robbing" you, she was probably past thinking or caring in any coherent way.
In reading your review, the theme coming across is that it's all about you - not about her. She sounds a sick woman who needs help, though I've no idea what form that help could take

[MirrorMirror]

It's difficult to analyse yourself, but I think my viewpoint was and is a reasonable balance of 'me' and 'her'. I pay escorts money in exchange for them giving me pleasure. Being a soft bastard, giving them pleasure gives me pleasure, so it's not all one-way. So I'm going to expect a large portion of 'me' in any interaction between me and an escort, and I'm going to be disgruntled if I get stress rather than satisfaction in return for my money. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with that. On the flip-side, whether it was right to stay or not, at the time I did it entirely because I thought it was the best thing for her, not me. After the event, I guess I swung back to thinking about 'me' and felt an apologetic text with offer of partial refund would have been a more appropriate outcome than being blocked.

Anyhow, to the best of my ability I've documented what happened and how I felt about it. I didn't write the review to 'get at' Ashley, I wrote it because I wanted to alert other punters to the quality of service I received. I could be wrong, but I thought that's more or less what this forum was for. How you wish to interpret what I've written is up to you. Feel free to ignore me and/or slag me off, or delete the review, do whatever you see fit, no hard feelings.

If any further comments get added, apologies if it takes me some time to respond: I need to get back to my non-punting life now.

Happy punting!

[scutty brown]

Dewsbury is only ten miles from Leeds, I wonder if flagging her as vulnerable with these guys would be helpful?
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It's possible they may be able to help.
I do realise there's a heck of an ethical issue in doing that though, you're interfering with someone's life.....but maybe sometimes you have to?
If any of the forum ladies are viewing - got any suggestions?

[MissWolf]

Dewsbury is only ten miles from Leeds, I wonder if flagging her as vulnerable with these guys would be helpful?
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It's possible they may be able to help.
I do realise there's a heck of an ethical issue in doing that though, you're interfering with someone's life.....but maybe sometimes you have to?
If any of the forum ladies are viewing - got any suggestions?

I'm watching I flagged this to Davie as I'm seriously worried about the state of this young ladies mental health and wellbeing.  I have a never comment on another escorts review policy unless it's an extreme circumstance, this qualifies imo.

I agree Sutty i don't know who you flag to but she needs help, sometimes doing the right thing is not always the easiest thing for the one you're helping,  it may even be worth contacting the police regarding a welfare check,  I don't know I just know she needs help.

[FLYING BLUE]

It's difficult to analyse yourself, but I think my viewpoint was and is a reasonable balance of 'me' and 'her'. I pay escorts money in exchange for them giving me pleasure. Being a soft bastard, giving them pleasure gives me pleasure, so it's not all one-way. So I'm going to expect a large portion of 'me' in any interaction between me and an escort, and I'm going to be disgruntled if I get stress rather than satisfaction in return for my money. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with that. On the flip-side, whether it was right to stay or not, at the time I did it entirely because I thought it was the best thing for her, not me. After the event, I guess I swung back to thinking about 'me' and felt an apologetic text with offer of partial refund would have been a more appropriate outcome than being blocked.

Anyhow, to the best of my ability I've documented what happened and how I felt about it. I didn't write the review to 'get at' Ashley, I wrote it because I wanted to alert other punters to the quality of service I received. I could be wrong, but I thought that's more or less what this forum was for. How you wish to interpret what I've written is up to you. Feel free to ignore me and/or slag me off, or delete the review, do whatever you see fit, no hard feelings.

If any further comments get added, apologies if it takes me some time to respond: I need to get back to my non-punting life now.

Happy punting!

I think you did the right thing by flagging this.
What happened is far from pleasant but it's seems very clear to me that this lass really needs professional help & I hope she receives it.

[Hornylad]

mate i think you did the right thing in what you did, but tbh.. what possessed you to pay £570 for her? i mean lets face it shes about 3/10 and you could get a 8/9/10 for that price and would be alot more mentally stable and ten times better looking.. bit of advice dont take bookings longer than 1.5/2hours pal your wasting your money..

[qarma]

mate i think you did the right thing in what you did, but tbh.. what possessed you to pay £570 for her? i mean lets face it shes about 3/10 and you could get a 8/9/10 for that price and would be alot more mentally stable and ten times better looking.. bit of advice dont take bookings longer than 1.5/2hours pal your wasting your money..

This. 100% all day long.

You defo did the right thing to bring this to the forum.

But......It's your money and you can do what you like with it, but all I could think about was the vast number of punts with quality SP's I could have had for £570.

I've met some stunning SP's over my punting career (and some not-so-stunning!) but I've never met one that I've ever wanted to spend 4 hours with. 4 single-hour bookings would be much better, or maybe 2 2-hour bookings. I've never booked longer than 1 hour and never considered booking longer than 2 hours - decided on 2 1-hour bookings instead.

Each to their own of course but I'd recommend you re-evaluate your punting choices. 

[MirrorMirror]

As you say, each to their own. I've tried short punts and usually feel more stressed when I leave than when I arrived. There are two escorts I see regularly and I always spend a minimum of 2 hours with them and I love every minute of it every time. Whenever I can afford I do 3 hours, 4 hours or the occasional overnight. Although I'm pretty new to this forum, I'm in my 50's and have been punting since I was in my 20's in Amsterdam, so at this point I probably I know what works for me. But thanks for your input.