Biggest regret in the punting world

[Jujy78]

There was a thread titled biggest disappointment so I thought I'll ask if anyone has any biggest regrets. Perhaps someone you wanted to see and no longer working or any other kinky stuff you could've done with an SP but never went for it. Heres my biggest regrets:

Overnight: I never do overnights mostly because I think it's way expensive to what it's worth plus I always have this fear of having a medical emergency when I'm with them so the fear of getting caught. Now I know this can happen even in a 15mins meet but atleast due to the timeframe the risk is minimised. However I have had cheaper opportunities to do this but regret not taking it up.

I used to see this Indian girl regularly back in 2002/2003 she offered me overnight for £300 I declined.

Around 2003/2004 I used to see another regular MILF she was in her 50s I was in my mid 20s. We got on so well she used to charge me no more than £40 and never used to rush me used to be with her for a couple of hours every 2 weeks or so. She offered me overnight too even said she'll cook for me but I never took it up. I regret the above 2 a bit as I was single then so should've taken up the offer.

The next offer I got was in 2013 I was married then and she was local. Offered me overnight for £300 I actually took it up arranged a day but then bottled it last minute😂

Next regret I have is an SP riyana from Leicester. I saw her profile way back in 2002 as she had her own website. She looked so hot in her pics. I never booked her and always go on her web page and see her pics even jerk off to them a few times. She was working for a good 15 years or so. I think her last review here was 2017 but again I regret not seeing her. Her pics never changed though always used the same pics from 2002 😂

[Puntiff Sulyvahn]

Not starting earlier!

[Thephoenix]

As the song goes: 'Je ne regrette rien'.

Life's far too short to have regrets.

No point in having regrets but I wonder how I'd have coped in my younger punting days if all the readily available gorgeous transsexuals had been around 30 years ago.

An hour with one of those super fit Brazilian T Gurls would probably see me off these days.

The only 'transsexuals' back then looked like Lily Savage,  and going back further the only one i remember was a bloke called Malcolm who lived around the corner and the neighbours used to say he was a 'bit funny'.

[pantywetter]

I sometimes regret not seeing my faves more, then they leave.  I’m going to try to fill my boots a bit more whilst a fave is in town.

[jamiekinkxxx]

It's better to regret something you have done, than have not! 

[jamiekinkxxx]

BUT... if we are on the subject of regreting something I didn't do....

Circa 2011 I saw Shanaz a few times. I was with her one evening. We had been out for dinner and then back to hers for fun... she asked me to stay over... I so wanted to but my GF was at home and I bottled it and didn't stay over as I could not think of any excuse I could have used for staying out all night.

GF became wife, wife became ex-wife! I 100% should have just stayed, may have saved me a small fortune!

[lewisjones23]

Probably starting in the first place

Its completely altered my view of the world and how I value women in the dating/relationship world

Its probably cost me a couple of relationships with ideal women as I couldn't be bothered putting more effort in when required.

[Stevelondon]

Regrets, I’ve had a few. But then again too few to mention.
I did what I had to do…………….


I bloody regret writing those lyrics and leaving that piece of A4 lying around in the pub.
Next thing you know……….  Oh you lot would never believe me anyway. 


 

[TomTank]

I definitely regret how much I've spent on it over the years ..... and I'd calculate at least half of it was wasted

[Stevelondon]

I definitely regret how much I've spent on it over the years ..... and I'd calculate at least half of it was wasted

Nah……. No way to think at all.

That’s like saying every expensive dish I’ve ever eaten in some wonderful places throughout the world…… was a waste.
I should have just had KFC.

😂

[JontyR]

Punts where I should have known better, ignoring my own rules.
I wonder if I regret my first TS punt. Dunno. Ask me in another 35 years.
Now that rates have inflated so much I regret not seeing some high end providers a few years back at a price point that would be fantastic today.
Paying for some second rate punts that could have funding a punting trip or two abroad.
There are a few providers I wish I had seen more often than I did thinking they'd be around for much longer than they were.
The first face that comes to mind of SPs that I didn't see that I think I may have clicked with is Elise Adore. She has, afaik stayed retired.

[SonofAJohn]

I regret saying mean things to SP lou, Lady Misswolf, daviemac, jamiekinkxxx, bassman, last_days_of_logan and colston36 on a punting forum 
Hopefully they can forgive me one day, everyone deserves a second chance

[hendrix]

BUT... if we are on the subject of regreting something I didn't do....

Circa 2011 I saw Shanaz a few times. I was with her one evening. We had been out for dinner and then back to hers for fun... she asked me to stay over... I so wanted to but my GF was at home and I bottled it and didn't stay over as I could not think of any excuse I could have used for staying out all night.

GF became wife, wife became ex-wife! I 100% should have just stayed, may have saved me a small fortune!

Ah Shanaz! 

[jamiekinkxxx]

I regret saying mean things to SP lou, Lady Misswolf, daviemac, jamiekinkxxx, bassman, last_days_of_logan and colston36 on a punting forum 
Hopefully they can forgive me one day, everyone deserves a second chance

 

[jamiekinkxxx]

Ah Shanaz! 

  the one and only! 

[SonofAJohn]

Are you going to forgive me? 
You posted some very good TS escorts on one TS thread recently.
I can't go to war with a guy who has good taste in TS women. 

[myothernameis]

My biggest regret, is that I wish I handn't got into punting, and all the lies that I told, so I could hide this

I suppose in school I was a loner, and sought out adult mag's at 15 years old, and dogged school.   Found a news story about a sauna offering extra's, and asking myself, what are these extras

The amount of money I put into this, wish I could have it back, and live a normal life, and must have spent around £50,000 in my life time

[Jujy78]

My biggest regret, is that I wish I handn't got into punting, and all the lies that I told, so I could hide this

I suppose in school I was a loner, and sought out adult mag's at 15 years old, and dogged school.   Found a news story about a sauna offering extra's, and asking myself, what are these extras

The amount of money I put into this, wish I could have it back, and live a normal life, and must have spent around £50,000 in my life time

That's deep. When I was 14 my mates used to bunk school and go to Soho to visit prostitutes (Can we call them that now I don't know) I could've gone then but never did. I started at 18 and lost my virginity at Soho never stopped since then.

I don't regret the money spent as I'm not going to lie I enjoyed it and if I didn't spend that money on punting it'll be spent somewhere else. I never smoked or drank so wasn't that bad for me.  Between 20-25 was in a few relationships carried on punting but less whenever I was in a relationship. Post marriage I stopped punting for a good 3 years until my sex life dried out. Then I went back and never stopped. I don't feel bad or guilty about it as I don't think it's entirely my fault that I have to go elsewhere for pleasure but I do sort of always have to watch my back, that fear is always there as opposed to being single and carefree.

I really do feel like doing an overnight now but a) it's too expensive and b) I won't be able shag someone all night. However I do miss waking up to a woman and have that early morning cuddle and skin to skin contact.

I have a regular that I've been seeing since 2002. I'm seeing her in a couple of weeks time. I might have a word with her negotiate a price and arrange one if she's willing. She has a full time job and does this part time so I doubt she'll be able to accommodate but no regret asking.

[jamiekinkxxx]

My biggest regret, is that I wish I handn't got into punting, and all the lies that I told, so I could hide this

I suppose in school I was a loner, and sought out adult mag's at 15 years old, and dogged school.   Found a news story about a sauna offering extra's, and asking myself, what are these extras

The amount of money I put into this, wish I could have it back, and live a normal life, and must have spent around £50,000 in my life time

Agree this is deep and quite a sad story as Jujy78 mentioned.

If you are really have that much remorse then I would suggest you (and others who look at this hobby as a curse) try (may need help as it can be addictive) and stop.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Are you going to forgive me? 
You posted some very good TS escorts on one TS thread recently.
I can't go to war with a guy who has good taste in TS women.

 

[willie loman]

i regret not starting earlier, not securing contact details of one or two girls who left the business,, lots of girls come and go, being way too loyal to certain wgs, and not playing the field more,

[pythondan]

There was a girl called Foxy Lucy (iirc) in the Cheltenham area around 15 years ago. She was absolutely stunning and did mainly massage. She did offer full sex for a fee that seemed expensive at the time but by modern standards was reasonable. Had three massage meetings with her but never a full sex one as she retired before I got round to it.

[Punterperson1971]

Not meeting the late aaliyah ca pelle I canceled a booking years ago probably 8 years ago maybe due to not being able to get over to brum in that time I had arranged

[Atrueyorkie]

Not seeing an Sp earlier. Now she’s in her dom only phase and each to their own but I’m not into that. Wanted to grace those cheeks but the ship sailed as I didn’t see her during her fs days 

[Punterperson1971]

Not seeing an Sp earlier. Now she’s in her dom only phase and each to their own but I’m not into that. Wanted to grace those cheeks but the ship sailed as I didn’t see her during her fs days 

She’s still active as a domme only then ?

[ProjectFun]

Not going to see Nymfo Mel before covid hit

[MissWolf]

I remember nothing 

[Atrueyorkie]

She’s still active as a domme only then ?

Yep she is

[MissWolf]

I regret saying mean things to SP lou, Lady Misswolf, daviemac, jamiekinkxxx, bassman, last_days_of_logan and colston36 on a punting forum 
Hopefully they can forgive me one day, everyone deserves a second chance

Quoted the wrong person ffs    

[TomTank]

Nah……. No way to think at all.

That’s like saying every expensive dish I’ve ever eaten in some wonderful places throughout the world…… was a waste.
I should have just had KFC.

😂

it's exactly that .... half of them a let down and I would have been better going KFC, or not eating

[boardyhell]

BUT... if we are on the subject of regreting something I didn't do....

Circa 2011 I saw Shanaz a few times. I was with her one evening. We had been out for dinner and then back to hers for fun... she asked me to stay over... I so wanted to but my GF was at home and I bottled it and didn't stay over as I could not think of any excuse I could have used for staying out all night.

GF became wife, wife became ex-wife! I 100% should have just stayed, may have saved me a small fortune!

saw Shanaz ,she took me to a restaurant close to where she lived
she paid for the meal 100 plus ,then asked me if I could stay overnight and cum in her arse
she said it was a freebie
she was a one off
she had a rat of a dog at the time and explained to me whatever the rat saw saw put in her mouth was food to shield my dick
suddenly she had 3 little dogs
kinkie suppose it rings a bell

[Dylanbob]

For me there are two paths

1 - Starting in the first place. I think it was one of the best and worst chooses of my life. Knowing sex with someone out your league is so easy to obtain really destroyed my dating life.

2 - Not putting my hand in my pocket at times/being too risk adverse. I'm not talking BB obviously but there were times in my punting life where I paid the going rate for 30 mins of sex with OWO and CIM and for it got OW blowjob out of fear. There was also a petite Indian/Pakistani years ago in brum, who if her pics were valid (which I think a review or two confirmed) was basically a 10 for me that basically only wanted up the arse, no kissing or owo. It was turn up put it in my pussy or preferably in my ass, cum and go and I couldn't do it FFS.

[Colston36]

BUT... if we are on the subject of regreting something I didn't do....

Circa 2011 I saw Shanaz a few times. I was with her one evening. We had been out for dinner and then back to hers for fun... she asked me to stay over... I so wanted to but my GF was at home and I bottled it and didn't stay over as I could not think of any excuse I could have used for staying out all night.

GF became wife, wife became ex-wife! I 100% should have just stayed, may have saved me a small fortune!

I left my last wife for someone with whom I still live in harmony but no longer have sex with. It cost me, literally, a seven figure sum. I don't regret it though. First I had seven magnificent years with her. Then a further ten doing wonderfully filthy things with escorts. In the morning a threesome of unmatchable obscenity. 

[Southernbloke]

Biggest regret was not going back to see a WG in Oxford that I had seen a few times, she and I had an understanding that although she would keep working if I wanted to see her she would prioritise me over others. She was gorgeous tall busty English blonde about mid twenties. We got along really well and we even had some social time together and she was the type of girl who turned heads wherever she went. The trouble was that I was stupidly immature and couldn’t handle the fact that she wanted to carry on working!
I decided not to see her in spite of her phoning me a couple of times in tears asking what she had done wrong.
I think back to then a lot and think what a bloody idiot I was !

[jamiekinkxxx]

saw Shanaz ,she took me to a restaurant close to where she lived
she paid for the meal 100 plus ,then asked me if I could stay overnight and cum in her arse
she said it was a freebie
she was a one off
she had a rat of a dog at the time and explained to me whatever the rat saw saw put in her mouth was food to shield my dick
suddenly she had 3 little dogs
kinkie suppose it rings a bell

100% 

Was it her fav Indian restauarnt in your case, as in mine?

[ZeroCount]

One time a few years back I took a random punt on a new AW profile that popped up, thinking it was probably too good to be true. Turned up at her flat to find a stunningly cute 19 year old redhead on her first day working. She was probably the most gorgeous girl I ever shagged.

I'd only booked a half hour since I didn't know what I'd find when I turned up, and sadly she didn't have time to extend the booking. I immediately resolved to book her for at least a couple of hours asap, possibly even an overnight, which I never normally do.

Then I came down with a cold, and life generally got in the way of finding a good time for a return visit. It was only about a week later I went to contact her again, the profile had disappeared and the number went straight to voicemail. Absolutely gutted.

I often wonder what happened to her, I hope she's okay. I feel like I've spent my punting career chasing the holy grail of a girl like that, but I've never had anything quite so good since.

[GreyDave]

My biggest regret, is that I wish I handn't got into punting, and all the lies that I told, so I could hide this

I suppose in school I was a loner, and sought out adult mag's at 15 years old, and dogged school.   Found a news story about a sauna offering extra's, and asking myself, what are these extras

The amount of money I put into this, wish I could have it back, and live a normal life, and must have spent around £50,000 in my life time

 Me toooo   I really wish Id not kept a little record book of my 1st 100 plus punts ( mostly Soho walk ups at 10-15 quid ago) and the costs I burnt it when I married a Busty Blonde Bitch 35 years ago ( on refelection if Id kept the record of cash spent I bet it  would of been be less than she got off me )

[akauya]

The only thing I regret is not seeing good SPs more than once. I used to be strictly one-visit-only as, when younger, variety was my thing and still is to some extent but not as much. Now if I see a good SP I try to see her a few times.

[NottsSteve]

There was a girl called Foxy Lucy (iirc) in the Cheltenham area around 15 years ago. She was absolutely stunning and did mainly massage. She did offer full sex for a fee that seemed expensive at the time but by modern standards was reasonable. Had three massage meetings with her but never a full sex one as she retired before I got round to it.

External Link/Members Only

This one?

[Jujy78]

 Me toooo   I really wish Id not kept a little record book of my 1st 100 plus punts ( mostly Soho walk ups at 10-15 quid ago) and the costs I burnt it when I married a Busty Blonde Bitch 35 years ago ( on refelection if Id kept the record of cash spent I bet it  would of been be less than she got off me )

The good old Soho walk ups and those flashing model red lights 😂 that's where it all began for me. It was £20 a pop then but as an 18 year old once I became a bit experienced I used to haggle I got £15 is that ok and most of the time they'd say yes..

Once I started working full time at 20, I used to visit quite regularly and for an hour. I used to have a regular that used to see for an hour. Banging her away and then a knock on the door, then the maid or the SP shouting BUSY was priceless. That feeling of you'll have to wait mate or go elsewhere I'm having her now 😂

[Jujy78]

Looks like I missed out on shanaz. But I would never pay £400 for an hour

[bops909]

I'm really hoping that "Biggest regret in the punting world" won't be the new AW site.

I'm really hoping AW are going to ask for feedback and improve on it a whole lot. They've been very good at acting on dodgy profiles recently and I hope they will be as responsive to feedback.

"Visit member profile on our new Adultwork site" gives me the same feelings as "Rail Replacement Bus Service" at the moment.

[Munter84]

It's all hindsight of course, but mostly I regret the missed opportunities. Not starting sooner, not getting around to seeing hotlisted girls who then retired, not making the most of a regular before she moved/retired.

I don't regret the expense as it's managed and comes from my "fun budget" that would otherwise go on hobbies or booze. I don't even regret the occasional bad punt, as you only learn by taking the rough with the smooth.

[allroadboy]

BUT... if we are on the subject of regreting something I didn't do....

Circa 2011 I saw Shanaz a few times. I was with her one evening. We had been out for dinner and then back to hers for fun... she asked me to stay over... I so wanted to but my GF was at home and I bottled it and didn't stay over as I could not think of any excuse I could have used for staying out all night.

GF became wife, wife became ex-wife! I 100% should have just stayed, may have saved me a small fortune!

I used to stay with Shanaz when I was in London, she stayed at mine if she was in my part of the world. A truly remarkable woman who enjoyed sex in all its guises, a total legend, absolutely stunningly beautiful, a great laugh and filthy as fuck ! Her mates rates weren't bad either !

[p4ds]

External Link/Members Only

This one?

Doubt he means her lol. 15 years ago this girl would be 19

[theejaculator]

Not backing up a number stored on my ancient Windows Nokia punting mobile for a woman I met on AW.
She came off that site but still continued to see me and one or two regulars. Filthy fuck, perfect tight pussy with big lips and slim frame.
One day my Nokia refused to start and had to restore the phone through a laptop and lost her number. She had lost her home and moved back with family so latterly just had outcalls with her as didn't know where she lived exactly.  She probably thought I lost interest so she never reached back to me despite having the same number (at least that's what I'd like to think).

[Southernbloke]

Not backing up a number stored on my ancient Windows Nokia punting mobile for a woman I met on AW.
She came off that site but still continued to see me and one or two regulars. Filthy fuck, perfect tight pussy with big lips and slim frame.
One day my Nokia refused to start and had to restore the phone through a laptop and lost her number. She had lost her home and moved back with family so latterly just had outcalls with her as didn't know where she lived exactly.  She probably thought I lost interest so she never reached back to me despite having the same number (at least that's what I'd like to think).

Yup had the same thing happen to me with a couple of “retired “ ladies who would still see regular guys occasionally.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Looks like I missed out on shanaz. But I would never pay £400 for an hour

She was worth way more than that I can tell you and imagine anyone who had those precious hours with her will say the same.

A top Top TOP escort.

[jamiekinkxxx]

I used to stay with Shanaz when I was in London, she stayed at mine if she was in my part of the world. A truly remarkable woman who enjoyed sex in all its guises, a total legend, absolutely stunningly beautiful, a great laugh and filthy as fuck ! Her mates rates weren't bad either !

Indeed!

[dub6747]

Biggest regrets for me were not taking the mobile numbers of parlour girls who offered me their numbers and then they disappeared...