External Link/Members OnlyExternal Link/Members OnlyFound lilly (Emily) on AW, had a positive review on UKP so thought of trying.
Communicated, asked for deposit to guarantee her "safety" which was a red flag despite the the positive review she has here in UKP. So decided to skip her.
A few days later had a meet with Francini whom I've reviewed before.
Out of frustration from a radio silence situation with Francini, I thought 50 pounds is a cheap gamble, contacted Lilly again and agreed for a deposit, and of course it was a scam and stopped replying at all.
( I've made a mistake and the only reason I am reviewing her and risking looking stupid is to make people learn from my mistake, so please if you have "what a stupid moron" comments keep it for yourself )
Did as much search as possible about her using her real name (Emily L.) which she passed it on when transferred the money, took screenshots of every thing from facebook, linked in, our conversation, her profiles.
And found that she claims to be a law school graduate and working with a victim support group in Glasgow.
On the later days I've set a plan with escalation steps against her. Sent her an email with everything I am planning to do with timeline and offered a last chance to refund my deposit before escalating. She ignored.
it wasn't about my 50quid but it was about the stupid feeling of getting scammed.
So, I've contacted my bank with evidence, got my deposit refunded within 72 hours.
Contacted the victim support group which she claims she worked for and apparently she doesn't - at least now - and I got the impression from my discussion with them is that she is known to them at least as a volunteer at some point, but never was an employee.
They started taking steps against her to get their name removed from all accounts.
The only escalation step I said I will do but didn't is reporting her to the police. Thought it is an overkill.