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Offline CrimsonD

Due to some unforeseen circumstances I am going to be in Pattaya for the next 2 days. (I know such a chore right!!)

I have been reading the forum search history for advice. I have checked into a girl and ladyboy friendly hotel which is fairly centrally located close to LK metro. I now basically have 48 hours to have a much fun as possible without my dick falling off.

Probably going to look for quality of quantity though. I am trying to formulate a plan. At the moment its go for a few drinks early evening at some bars like lepub, chat to a few people and then go off to try some of the gogo bars.

Any advice would be greatly welcome.

I will of course report back post trip.


Offline weldermike

My only advice is to give Soi 6 a miss, as it may have a lot of police presence on the Soi at the moment
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Will do thanks for the tip.

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you don't really need a plan in Pattaya - its everywhere (women, sex, fun, etc etc). If you have never been - Walking Street is an experience that maybe you should do once (but imo once is enough)

maybe create an account on ThaiFriendly (phone app) - most of my ladies in Thailand including pattaya came from there. Its easy to use, free, and you can discuss options, services and price on the app - and the girls mainly look like their pics! (just always ask them if they are "freelance" which is sort of their express for an "escort")

You can't fail but have a good sexual time in Pattaya.

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My only advice is to give Soi 6 a miss, as it may have a lot of police presence on the Soi at the moment

do you you know why?

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The only tricky part is what to do in morning and early afternoon.  For morning, I'd suggest that you have an overnight girl so you can have sex with her again before breakfast.  For early afternoon, you need a girl from TF or head to one of the Gents clubs that open at 1PM.  See here for link to threads:

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Offline clivethomas

Soi 6 is business as usual, went down there yesterday. Even the bar in question was open.  A reminder though to keep an eye on your bills, if it's padded try and point it out but if they're not having it you pay and walk away.  Soi 6 is a must see for every man in their life.

Definitely hit LK metro, Lady Love is decent down there. Kink upstairs is pretty famous for getting raunchy but they will milk you for drinks.

Walking Street is a must see, best talent is XS, Pin up and then a notch below is probably Fahrenheit and Sapphire. The most fun is the Windmill, there are two venues across from each other. It's a great place, not pushy at all and for a few lady drinks you can have a lot of fun.  Also lots of young beautiful girls in the nightclubs after 11, Myst, Insomnia and Republic seem to attract the youngest and best looking girls in town. It's very expensive to take girls from a gogo bar, I only go to look. No value in it at all unless you are cashed up and there is a girl you just can't not have.

People enjoy different things, just walk around the town and see what takes your fancy. It's low season now and very quiet, which is 1000x better then the high season sausage fest where most of the best talent is taken.
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Offline CrimsonD

Soi 6 is business as usual, went down there yesterday. Even the bar in question was open.  A reminder though to keep an eye on your bills, if it's padded try and point it out but if they're not having it you pay and walk away.  Soi 6 is a must see for every man in their life.

Definitely hit LK metro, Lady Love is decent down there. Kink upstairs is pretty famous for getting raunchy but they will milk you for drinks.

Walking Street is a must see, best talent is XS, Pin up and then a notch below is probably Fahrenheit and Sapphire. The most fun is the Windmill, there are two venues across from each other. It's a great place, not pushy at all and for a few lady drinks you can have a lot of fun.  Also lots of young beautiful girls in the nightclubs after 11, Myst, Insomnia and Republic seem to attract the youngest and best looking girls in town. It's very expensive to take girls from a gogo bar, I only go to look. No value in it at all unless you are cashed up and there is a girl you just can't not have.

People enjoy different things, just walk around the town and see what takes your fancy. It's low season now and very quiet, which is 1000x better then the high season sausage fest where most of the best talent is taken.

Thanks for the info, I popped down Soi6 a little earlier as I was having a wander around and just came across it, it looked mental, but open for business as usual. I might go back there tonight. I went to a few gogo's on walking street last night and had some fun. Also went to Lepub and had a few beers with the owner, really nice bloke.

I am going to probably try LK metro tonight as its close to my hotel.


Offline CrimsonD

Just a quick review of my trip.

I went to a few agogo's:

Skyfall 7/10 (girls a little older, but still some quality)
XS 8/10 (too loud and too busy, but the women were 10/10)
kathoey r us 8/10 (great if you like ladyboys and cheap)
Kink 5/10 (didn't really get it, went upstairs but the women were all fat and a bit rough, yes a lesbian show, but the quality was low)
Pin-up 9/10 (the best looking girls and the best atmosphere, more laid back than XS, without any pressure to buy drinks, bar fine was high though at 2k)

I also visited Sabai dee soapy massage. This was the best value of the whole trip. The girl I picked was an absolute stunner and fucked like a nymph. Yes all in I spent about 5k but it was well worth it.

Bar fined a girl from Pin Up (expensive at 5k ST). Very pretty slim girl with natural tits. She spoke very little English, but my god she could fuck and she absolutely loved it, some of the best sex I have ever had. She got very friendly with me afterwards and was trying to get my number and social media details, so ended up kicking her out, she was a bit mental, but that made for the great sex.

I took a ladyboy back from kathoey r us, again no English, but another stunner, young, small fake tits, passable and a nice body. 500 bar fine and 2000 ST. great value and great sex again.

I am planning on going back for longer next time, probably with a few mates as I need to do Soi6 properly.

Offline METEOR

I don't know if it's just me but I feel a lot more idiots are going to Thailand now and it seems they think it's some kind of place where there's no laws or something.
First time I went over 15yrs ago I rarely saw a fight. Now the last couple of years I see a lot more.

Offline jono44

Personally I favour Heavens Above on Soi Boomerang. Gents clb with v good girls. Its old iteration just off Walking Street as a gogo was also above average for girls and lack of hastle. Get very full so get there reasonably early! Upstairs rooms are fine if not 5 star. Cost for drinks and short time is reasonable and not much more than girls on Beach Road.  Kinnaree at lunch time is a must but gets crowed at weekends. Girls there can put in a quick shift there before the evening in Walking Street. Never had trouble on 6th Street myself. Most happy for a short time on the premises but that has changed a little recently in some bars with the emphasis is on getting you to pay for lots of drinks. So ask early if she on offer!

Offline clivethomas

I don't know if it's just me but I feel a lot more idiots are going to Thailand now and it seems they think it's some kind of place where there's no laws or something.
First time I went over 15yrs ago I rarely saw a fight. Now the last couple of years I see a lot more.

There's always been idiots and chancers in Thailand, especially in Pattaya. Nowadays, it is just all on social media so you hear about it more I reckon




Offline clivethomas

Just a quick review of my trip.

I went to a few agogo's:

Skyfall 7/10 (girls a little older, but still some quality)
XS 8/10 (too loud and too busy, but the women were 10/10)
kathoey r us 8/10 (great if you like ladyboys and cheap)
Kink 5/10 (didn't really get it, went upstairs but the women were all fat and a bit rough, yes a lesbian show, but the quality was low)
Pin-up 9/10 (the best looking girls and the best atmosphere, more laid back than XS, without any pressure to buy drinks, bar fine was high though at 2k)

I also visited Sabai dee soapy massage. This was the best value of the whole trip. The girl I picked was an absolute stunner and fucked like a nymph. Yes all in I spent about 5k but it was well worth it.

Bar fined a girl from Pin Up (expensive at 5k ST). Very pretty slim girl with natural tits. She spoke very little English, but my god she could fuck and she absolutely loved it, some of the best sex I have ever had. She got very friendly with me afterwards and was trying to get my number and social media details, so ended up kicking her out, she was a bit mental, but that made for the great sex.

I took a ladyboy back from kathoey r us, again no English, but another stunner, young, small fake tits, passable and a nice body. 500 bar fine and 2000 ST. great value and great sex again.

I am planning on going back for longer next time, probably with a few mates as I need to do Soi6 properly.

Great trip report. Glad you enjoyed it. Everybody moans about the standards these days, they are there though you just got to open the wallet. How much did the pinup girl cost you all in? Swapping details is usually handy (Line app doesn't give out any personal details at all) to avoid having to pay barfines and lady drinks for round two. Usually you can get them down from those lofty fees for an early evening or after work session. If the girls know you and 'like' you then they will come down considerably from the big money in my experience.

I'm surprised you found anything decent in Katoeys R US,  :cool: went there with a pal and it was laughably bad. If anybody is looking for a ladyboy stunner try Koch Cha on Thai Friendly. LBs aren't my thing but my friend had her for the night and she partied with us.  Absolutely smoking hot to look at and not exactly shy.

Offline CrimsonD

The girl from Pinup was expensive 5k for ST and 2k bar fine. She stayed most of the night though, I had to basically kick her out because I wanted to sleep. I had been enjoying myself in Pinup and had bought quite a few drinks too. If I had been in town longer I might have given her my line as she really was a great fuck, but I was going home the next day and I wanted to try the soapy before dashing to the airport, which was a good plan as the girl there was 10/10 and next level hot.

The ladyboy was very hot, definitely the stand out, some of the quality in Katoeys was questionable. I actually didn't see many hot ladyboys in Pattaya which surprised me, given that online it seems to say they are everywhere.

Offline nuggy12

Has anyone tried going to the xpensive GoGo's like PINUP, XS etc and went there for a drink and rather than bar fining the girl- take her line/ socials and meet her the next day?
Just curious to see whether its something people do as havent seen mentioned yet. Would save alot of £ by cutting the middleman(GOGO bar) out :unknown: :D

Offline Jeffers77

Has anyone tried going to the xpensive GoGo's like PINUP, XS etc and went there for a drink and rather than bar fining the girl- take her line/ socials and meet her the next day?
Just curious to see whether its something people do as havent seen mentioned yet. Would save alot of £ by cutting the middleman(GOGO bar) out :unknown: :D

If you click with them its possible, probably harder in those places given how fit they are. I did manage this in Windmill and Butterflys in BKK tho.

Offline Jeffers77

Just a quick review of my trip.

I went to a few agogo's:

Skyfall 7/10 (girls a little older, but still some quality)
XS 8/10 (too loud and too busy, but the women were 10/10)
kathoey r us 8/10 (great if you like ladyboys and cheap)
Kink 5/10 (didn't really get it, went upstairs but the women were all fat and a bit rough, yes a lesbian show, but the quality was low)
Pin-up 9/10 (the best looking girls and the best atmosphere, more laid back than XS, without any pressure to buy drinks, bar fine was high though at 2k)

I also visited Sabai dee soapy massage. This was the best value of the whole trip. The girl I picked was an absolute stunner and fucked like a nymph. Yes all in I spent about 5k but it was well worth it.

Bar fined a girl from Pin Up (expensive at 5k ST). Very pretty slim girl with natural tits. She spoke very little English, but my god she could fuck and she absolutely loved it, some of the best sex I have ever had. She got very friendly with me afterwards and was trying to get my number and social media details, so ended up kicking her out, she was a bit mental, but that made for the great sex.

I took a ladyboy back from kathoey r us, again no English, but another stunner, young, small fake tits, passable and a nice body. 500 bar fine and 2000 ST. great value and great sex again.

I am planning on going back for longer next time, probably with a few mates as I need to do Soi6 properly.

2k bar fine in low season - ouch.

Offline billybob69

Has anyone tried going to the xpensive GoGo's like PINUP, XS etc and went there for a drink and rather than bar fining the girl- take her line/ socials and meet her the next day?
Just curious to see whether its something people do as havent seen mentioned yet. Would save alot of £ by cutting the middleman(GOGO bar) out :unknown: :D
When I visited Thailand a few years ago I used to take some business cards with my Thai mobile number written on it and got a few contacts that way. My friend has updated this for the modern world and has printed business cards with a QR code for his line contact on it. Although you have to do this discretely as I believe that the management of the go-go are potentially aware of this and sack girls for trying to do it.
The flaw in the plan is that Thai bar girls are inheritantly flakely. Agree to meet next afternoon and invariably will be late, cancel at the last minute or they won't turn up at all. It only really works if YOU can be available when THEY want to meet up, which can be several days or weeks later i.e. when rent is due, want to upgrade their phone etc

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Although you have to do this discretely as I believe that the management of the go-go are potentially aware of this and sack girls for trying to do it.

yep - the girls work for the bar, club, shop, go-go etc and are part of the income stream for them - so trying to go outside of that is usually "the sack" for the girl so discretion is -  so important (but it can be done as others have said and i have done a couple of times)

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Soi 6 is business as usual, went down there yesterday. Even the bar in question was open.  A reminder though to keep an eye on your bills, if it's padded try and point it out but if they're not having it you pay and walk away.  Soi 6 is a must see for every man in their life.

Definitely hit LK metro, Lady Love is decent down there. Kink upstairs is pretty famous for getting raunchy but they will milk you for drinks.

Walking Street is a must see, best talent is XS, Pin up and then a notch below is probably Fahrenheit and Sapphire. The most fun is the Windmill, there are two venues across from each other. It's a great place, not pushy at all and for a few lady drinks you can have a lot of fun.  Also lots of young beautiful girls in the nightclubs after 11, Myst, Insomnia and Republic seem to attract the youngest and best looking girls in town. It's very expensive to take girls from a gogo bar, I only go to look. No value in it at all unless you are cashed up and there is a girl you just can't not have.

People enjoy different things, just walk around the town and see what takes your fancy. It's low season now and very quiet, which is 1000x better then the high season sausage fest where most of the best talent is taken.
Both Windmill clubs are crap - the worst girls I saw during my recent trip.  Deffo avoid these clubs there are much better.

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Which hotel did you check into that was WG friendly?

Offline Hansolo69

I believe that most hotels are girl / guest friendly.
The reception usually sign the guest in and hold on to their ID card until they lave and have checked all okay with you.

Such a good system especially compared with somewhere like Morocco where it's all cloak and dagger.

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Hotel was called page10. it was quite good and well located.

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I have stayed at about  9 different hotels in BKK, Pattaya and Patong across my 4 trips last year and this year and all had no problems with me bringing ladies back. In Pattaya i stayed at the Inn House Hotel and The Classroom Hotel, both just off Beach Road and within 5 minutes walk of Walking St. The Classroom has its own "hostees" but also a side door for you to discreetly bring back guests (so you don't have to walk past reception, the bar, etc.

I would be surprised if any hotel in Pattaya (apart from maybe the big chain hotels?) would have a problem with you bringing a guest back - most people in Pattaya are there for the same thing!

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The Classroom has its own "hostees"

that should have been  hostesses (plural) as it had 6 or 7 ladies . Have stayed there 3 times, the first two times,  I liked 2 or 3 of the girls and took them back to my room but this last time (Feb/March this year) whilst they were nice and fun to chat and have a laugh with (buying them the odd lady drink) i did not sexually fancy any of them and therefore brought external girls back! (but taste in women is, as we know, subjective)

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Both Windmill clubs are crap - the worst girls I saw during my recent trip.  Deffo avoid these clubs there are much better.

What do you mean by "worst", ugly? fat? old? all three? Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Also which clubs do you recommend instead please?

Offline clivethomas

What do you mean by "worst", ugly? fat? old? all three? Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Also which clubs do you recommend instead please?

Windmill doesn't have the best looking girls in Pattaya but there are always a few 7-8s.  It is a hands on club, that is the selling point. It is also low pressure. The girls understand no. I have been blown in the corner, licked girls out, been tugged off to completion in there.  Upstairs after midnight especially is like this.  I think windmill blue/windmill 2 is significantly better. You can have quite a lot of fun in there for 2 or 3 lady drinks.

I went out last night and I thought XS had the best lineup and conistently does alongside Pin Up. Plenty of 40kg girls 18-22 or so.  It can be pushy and a total milking machine but if you have the money and are on holiday it's a good place to go for true beauties.

Nearly all these clubs take girls on 10 day contracts so it is extremely transient but Pin Up and XS pay big money so that's where the agencies put the best girls. Obviously they need to make that back.

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What do you mean by "worst", ugly? fat? old? all three? Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Also which clubs do you recommend instead please?
Kink had some fitties and also was heaving.  Also very hands-on.
I think around LK Metro is better than Windmill.
Sadly I never to got to try PinUp although heard they probably have the most attractive girls.

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hostess
that should have been  hostesses (plural) as it had 6 or 7 ladies . Have stayed there 3 times, the first two times,  I liked 2 or 3 of the girls and took them back to my room but this last time (Feb/March this year) whilst they were nice and fun to chat and have a laugh with (buying them the odd lady drink) i did not sexually fancy any of them and therefore brought external girls back! (but taste in women is, as we know, subjective)

What sort of prices were the ladies at The Classroom quoting Southcoast?
I am pondering a Pattaya trip in March and The Classroom fits my bill hotel wise. I do like the idea of in house options for ladies if I cant be bothered to go out and about......
Thanks in advance for any info

Offline Jeffers77

Kink had some fitties and also was heaving.  Also very hands-on.
I think around LK Metro is better than Windmill.
Sadly I never to got to try PinUp although heard they probably have the most attractive girls.

What do you mean by LK metro being better than Windmill? You mean all Gogos there or just Kink? Personally I prefer Windmill as the women are fitter imo (so many tattoo siliconed up girls in Kink for me), but horses for courses. If you like chubby girls Windmill has you covered (my particular niche).

I have to try other Gogos in LK, I hear Angels is good.
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I think the quality of girls outside the top few Gogo bars can be questionable these days. Windmill is spread very thin between 2 premises with 2 floors but you can find gems there. I like the relaxed nature and honest billing system. Kink will milk you if you are not firm. Girls in the Windmill rotate from working the floor to dancing/doing a show every 20 mins and buying 1 drink for that 20 mins is standard practice. Kink can be a serious wallet drainer.

It's pretty clear, to me at least, there is a pattern to how filthy a place is Vs the standard of women. A pretty girl can live off drinks and salary at XS/Pinup and take the odd 4k ST so they don't need to be getting naked and eaten out and sucking guys off in the club. Same way with the gents clubs being filthy but mostly 30+ munters.

At the end of the day everything changes here all the time, it's not a big place.  Nothing is more than 5-10 minutes and £1-£1
50 away on a bolt/grab motorbike so you just have to get out there and see for yourself. 

One of the great things about Thailand is the girl that is right for you can be anywhere at any time. You gotta get out there and find her


Offline UKDave51

I stopped doing GOGOs years ago, back in the noughties you could take a top girl out for a 600 baht barfine and keep her all night for 2500,
Those days are long gone with the S Korean and Chinese invasion. they now ask for top money and get it, you can`t blame the girls for that.

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I stopped doing GOGOs years ago, back in the noughties you could take a top girl out for a 600 baht barfine and keep her all night for 2500,
Those days are long gone with the S Korean and Chinese invasion. they now ask for top money and get it, you can`t blame the girls for that.
Since covid and this year in particular a large number of the girls only seem interested in the Korean and Chinese guys. I was in a gogo in nana the other night and more than one of them was exchanging 1000 for 20's  to chuck on stage. So yeah can't blame the girls if you got those types of guys blowing 1000's in a short space of time

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Since covid and this year in particular a large number of the girls only seem interested in the Korean and Chinese guys. I was in a gogo in nana the other night and more than one of them was exchanging 1000 for 20's  to chuck on stage. So yeah can't blame the girls if you got those types of guys blowing 1000's in a short space of time

Not since covid, it`s been going on for at least 10 years, they know where the money is, they look at farang like a piece of shit on their shoes.

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they look at farang like a piece of shit on their shoes.

Not true, they look at Cheap Charlies like shit on their shoes.

If I was running a business, I would pay more attention to the big spenders as well.

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Not since covid, it`s been going on for at least 10 years, they know where the money is, they look at farang like a piece of shit on their shoes.

i have never experienced that - in fact quite the opposite, they are friendly and fun. yes of course they are trying to take your money but so is everyone in Thailand to some extent.

Not true, they look at Cheap Charlies like shit on their shoes.

and maybe cheap charlies who have been going to thailand for 25 -30 years and want to pay prices from 20-30 years ago. its not as cheap as it was (where is??) and some would say is not as good as it used to be (where is?) but its still good vfm especially compared to home. Pattaya is cheaper than many places in Thailand but it is what it is - i get bored with the place after about 4 or 5 days at a time.

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I can’t afford Harrods or Fortnum and Masons, paying top dollar for a fittie but the service can be iffy, I’d rather shop at Aldi or Lidl where good bargains to be had and good service to go with.

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I can’t afford Harrods or Fortnum and Masons, paying top dollar for a fittie but the service can be iffy, I’d rather shop at Aldi or Lidl where good bargains to be had and good service to go with.

we all have different approaches and that is fine. Have you you experienced?:

they look at farang like a piece of shit on their shoes.

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Have to say I’ve never had a bad experience in Thailand, I’ve done GG and had the drink sluts pestering me, I just smile pay bin and go elsewhere, had fun in GC and bars have a smile don’t act like a c**t and you’ll have a great time.
I’m off next week for two months, got some regulars and I’ll have some other new experiences as well.

Offline LeedsGent

I am planning a long trip to Thailand, not until November and December.  As much as I am keen to sample the delights, I can not fill my all of my time with action.  I am hopping to find a long term holiday GF, to entertain me in and out of the bedroom.  I was hoping that you could share with me some of the none putting activities you get up to?  I don’t intend to stay in a youth hostel or sleep on the beach>  If you have any recommendations for keeping expenditure down to free up cash for action?

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Everybody’s got different budgets and how they spend their time, can see guys at 8am on the piss and others out at the clubs till 4am.

Me? Play golf, hotel pool, Jomtien beach have a walk, have a straight massage most days, have wander about 9 few beers in a quiet beer home about 12.

I’ve seen guys racking up crazy bins in GG, paying silly money for a young spinner, loads of bars with older very grateful ladies.

I’ve got my regulars that look after me very well for sensible money.

Everyone’s different I’m 74 been going for 20+ years so seen it done it but happy to be away from this shite weather till early spring.

Offline cunningman

I’ve seen guys racking up crazy bins in GG, paying silly money for a young spinner, loads of bars with older very grateful ladies.

Out of interest, is there any correlation between English language skills and age?

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First time time in Patts, it's all true, wild place. But once is enough for me

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Out of interest, is there any correlation between English language skills and age?
Not really, for me the guys racking up huge bills can be Korean, Indians or Caucasian of all varying ages, the bars make the most of it, VIP areas bottles of spirits, guys ringing the bell for the girls, personally I don’t want to be the managers best friend or the centre of the girl’s attention, not my thing.

If you do ever get there watch it, the guy rings the bell to buy the girls a drink they all gather round him and sing a little ditty, swig it down the disappear back to whatever they were doing earlier.

Nah not my thing

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Not really, for me the guys racking up huge bills can be Korean, Indians or Caucasian of all varying ages, the bars make the most of it, VIP areas bottles of spirits, guys ringing the bell for the girls, personally I don’t want to be the managers best friend or the centre of the girl’s attention, not my thing.

If you do ever get there watch it, the guy rings the bell to buy the girls a drink they all gather round him and sing a little ditty, swig it down the disappear back to whatever they were doing earlier.

Nah not my thing

Thanks for the reply but I think we are at crossed purposes.  I'd much rather spend time with a grateful (and hopefully enthusiastic) granny with enough English for a chat and a joke, than a sulking spinner that would rather be living it up lazily and doesn't have any social skills.

Some parts of the world I've been to, younger folks have much better English.  In Portugal, for example, the second language at school changed from French to English and it shows.

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Thanks for the reply but I think we are at crossed purposes.  I'd much rather spend time with a grateful (and hopefully enthusiastic) granny with enough English for a chat and a joke, than a sulking spinner that would rather be living it up lazily and doesn't have any social skills.

Some parts of the world I've been to, younger folks have much better English. 

Generally speaking the Thai bar girls that speak the best English are those who have had the longest contact with English speakers. That usually means having spent some time with an English speaking boyfriend or husband or spent some time in an English speaking country. Occasionally you will find a well-educated girl looking for a P2P.
But even then you are probably communicating in pidgin English / bar-girl English. If you want to have a more developed conversations with bar girls, you need to head to the Philippines.