Bochum, Essen, Duisburg RLDs for kinky stuff

[TomTank]

I love RLDs and plan to be in the Bochum area in the summer.
I've seen a few posts here that recommend Im Winkel in Bochum, but wanted to check if it will meet my kinky desires.

I'm mostly into dommes  (especially German) and TS meets and am concerned that Bochum might be a bit vanilla?

I've very much enjoyed previous visits to Frankfurt, Essen, Antwerp, and wondered how Bochum compares in terms of dommes and Tgirls?
Any recommendations close by, Duisburg, Gelsenkirchen? Etc.

[TomTank]

Please can someone edit the title?
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[catweazle]

Please can someone edit the title?
Autocorrect has changed RLD to DOE

Done.

[TomTank]

Done.

Thank you

[jb238]

Checkout joyclub.com - loads of stuff on here - I'd say the 'Kinky Galore' event looks right up your street

I'm using it for an upcoming trip to NRW

[TomTank]

Thanks jb, looks good, but not really what I'm after.
I'm more looking for which RLDs in that area are best for kink, dommes, and ts girls.
I seem to remember Stahlstrasse in Essen being good for dommes

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[Wanking]

In the laufthaus at the back of the Bochum rld there was a A couple Of TS , in jan , not sure about Doms...

Im off over for 5 days  today, so ill have a check for u..

[TomTank]

In the laufthaus at the back of the Bochum rld there was a A couple Of TS , in jan , not sure about Doms...

Im off over for 5 days  today, so ill have a check for u..

brilliant thanks

[Wanking]

Had a wander around last night in Bochum Rld.. quiet enough but around 20 women total.decent standard. I didn't punt, saving my spunk for Grimberg today, much better service.

Anyway dere was one tall skinny tranny bloke upstairs in the laufhaus at the back.didnt notice any doms but im sure ive seen them before there..

[TomTank]

thanks Wanking, it doesn't sound promising for my stuff ..... I might be better in Essen, Duisburg, and maybe Dusseldorf

[TomTank]

getting closer to my trip now, and after a bit more research, I'm actually thinking I might stay in Essen.
I know people have criticised Stahlstrasse, but I get the impression that it's more BDSM / kink / Mistress / Domina orientated, and that Bochum might be a bit vanilla for me.
If anyone has any feedback on that conclusion, it would be much appreciated.
While I'm there I could fit in a trip to Bochum, but would want to be sure it was kinky enough ....

[TomTank]

I'm doing a bit of research on this and have been reading German forums.
To help anyone else into BDSM stuff, I'm getting the impression that Essen RLD in StahlStrasse is indeed quite focused on it.

Although the general feedback seems to be that it's better to book in advance vs walking around and hoping the dominas are sat in their window waiting for customers.
Dilemma  for me is this is what I really like, walking around a RLD window shopping before making my choice.

I'm planning to join a domina forum and ask around a bit, and will report back.

[Splodge]

Shemales in rlds in NRW can be found in the following. I haven't punted there for a while but plan to again one day.

Bochum - has one on duty usually. Sometimes two. Upstairs in the indoor bit. There are one or two doms in the rld too. Some have dildos on display too.

Duisburg - used to have a floor for them. Thr place closed down last I knew.

Dortmund - pretty sure they have a dom or two.

Oberhausen - the best rld round there for shemales. They are in the courtyard behind the main rld. 3 or 4 rooms. Think it's 4 rooms. Usually at least one on duty. Nice looking ones too mostly.

Hannover - a bit further afield but has a floor dedicated to shemales & t-girls. It has dominas working in the rld too.

Frankfurt - even further afield. But has dominas also, and a floor dedicated step to sbemales and t-girls.

Whenever I've been in Germany, (admittedly not recently due to other things going on), I base myself in Bochum. Good rail access to all these other local cities. The inter city services to go to further away cities too. Bochum also has El Brasi, the P3 club, and the Stein haus swinger club. Thats well worth a visit too.

Best city to base in for me is Bochum. Unless anyone can suggest better cities to be in. I love South American women.

Another fantastic city and a fantastic rld is Den Haag.

Anyone know how Bochum & Den Haag rlds and rlds in general are faring these days?

[TomTank]

So, to help people in the future, I made it to Stahlstrasse in Essen a couple of times and can comment as follows:

it does seem to be a bit of a BDSM / domina hub.
There are probably about 100-150 windows in a nice compact, hidden street, about 10 minutes walk from the centre, and 2 minutes from Berliner Platz, and about half of them were operational.
Lots of Latinos, Africans, and a few EEs, none of them really to my taste, and I would say not really any fantastic lookers.

What was great for me, and lovers of domme, dominas, Mistresses, and BDSM, is that there were about 10-15 windows with Mistresses, and that lovely RLD sight of red and black leather, PVC, chains, whips etc.

Most of them were constantly occupied, and I understand it is a good idea to grab their phone numbers, and book in advance, but I managed to grab a great hour (12.30 in the early hours) with a German domina Lady Jasmin.

I would recommend her and this street for anyone into the same stuff as me, but maybe not make it the only focus of a trip.