So the earlier threads clearly reveal a range of views.
I (very) recently had my first FFM (not yet reviewed) and (a) it was fantastic and (b) went very differently fantastically from what I had anticipated in advance (principally, there was no girl on girl action at all).
My suggestions, based on this very limited experience would be:
- certainly choose SPs where you have met at least one of them before, and can talk about what you want
- probably/ certainly choose two SPs who have worked together before
- if you have something specific in mind, and are not great at just going with the flow, even if it is not what you envisaged, then spell out exactly what you want with both SPs and make sure they are you are happy with the outcome of the discussion
- if you haven't done that, keep a postive attitude and enjoy what is happening, rather than regretting what is not
- go for it.
So, in my case, I had seen one SP before, had a very good time, during which she talked about her bisexuality and what she enjoyed in gay sex.
I saw an AW ad for someone else (who described themselves as either bi, or bi-curious) who mentioned her as a duo partner.
So I booked, WITHOUT going into any details as to what I wanted, but certainly had in mind a very FF interactive session based on what SP1 had said previously, and indeed had envisaged quite a bit of voyeurism.
And I arrived and was told over an introductory glass of wine that SP2 was straight, so there would be no FF interaction, and the focus would be on both of them giving me pleasure.
NOW, at that point there are a range of reactions available. one would be to get proper fucked off and leave. another would be to get fucked off but go through with the booking with a sense of grievance.
Or, a third would be to think, here I am with two pretty gorgeous girls, one in a loose silk dressing gown with her breasts falling out, the other who is really really fit in some exotice lingerie, who are going to pleaure me for 2 hours.... that the fuck is not to like about this.
clearly i went for option 3, and it was indeed fantastic.
because they knew each other very well (really good friends IRL) it was all very natural and relaxed even though there was no FF action- they struck a perfect balance of banter between themselves and with me.
so, i realise, this is rapidly morphing into the review that I haven't actually written yet, rather than a post on this thread.
sorry!
Still. hopefully the gist is clear- choose two girls who know each other well and either agree a script in advance, or go in being very happy to go with the flow.