Vicky_28 - Feltham - Ghosted on arrival

[Bruce Wayne]

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This happened early last week. Agreed  and confirmed in advance through messages. Dropped a message that I was on my way, no reply but not unusual not to get one so headed off. Arrived 10mins before time and dropped a message, no reply. Sent a final message 10 mins after agreed time, no reply. Headed home after a wasted journey. Thankfully I drove there. Never got the full address but I did see a few out of place folk coming going to and from the same block of flats/houses and suspect she double booked me, but I'll never know as she never replied.

Shame as she has good reviews and a long likes list but I won't try again and unfortunate that I have to leave a red mark on a good history. Her comms were good and very clear until she stopped replying. Anyone reading this should obviously take into account I seem to have been the first (reviewer) to have been stood up and others have had a good time.

Managed to arrange a plan b for the next day which was positive and will post that review shortly.

[patelprat]

Sorry OP, that's poor form.

But I must say out of character - I have seen her a few times and she's always messaged if she's had to cancel, postpone or delay.

Was it booked/confirmed same day?

I always ask and then wait for confirmation comms from the SP on the day of the meet when I've booked it in advance on an earlier day. If I don't get a reply from her before I need to set off on the day, I don't go.

[Bruce Wayne]

Sorry OP, that's poor form.

But I must say out of character - I have seen her a few times and she's always messaged if she's had to cancel, postpone or delay.

Also, personally I always ask and then wait for confirmation comms from the SP on the day of the meet when I book ahead. If I don't get a reply from her before I need to set off, I don't go.

Maybe she does that for you as a regular 

Not every SP will reply if they start early and have bookings (especially if they do back to backs) so don't always expect a reply especially as she confirmed the previous day when the booking was made. If Vicky didn't reply to you, would you have not went?

Can't say I will be sad not having to trek over to Feltham though 

[patelprat]

Maybe she does that for you as a regular 

Not every SP will reply if they start early and have bookings (especially if they do back to backs) so don't always expect a reply especially as she confirmed the previous day when the booking was made. If Vicky didn't reply to you, would you have not went?

Can't say I will be sad not having to trek over to Feltham though 

If I had booked any SP (including Vicky) in advance on an earlier day and then on the booking day got no message from her before I would have to start my commute (I always ask for confirmation on the day), I would most likely not go. Especially for first time meets that aren't local.

Maybe if it was a next day very early morning meeting, I'd make an exception (but I'd never book like that).

If it was a same day booking/confirm, I'd go of course.

[Bruce Wayne]

Ah well, lesson learnt. Not had that issue before. I noted she had logged into AW already that day, green light was on and had been online according to WhatsApp so assumed she was working and wouldn't ghost me  hope others have a better experience.

[patelprat]

Ah well, lesson learnt. Not had that issue before. I noted she had logged into AW already that day, green light was on and had been online according to WhatsApp so assumed she was working and wouldn't ghost me  hope others have a better experience.

Yes, doesn't excuse her not sending you comms if she couldn't make it.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Poor girl is probably burnt out with her conveyor belt production line of OWO, DFK and anal 

[jgillis]

Sorry to hear this and probably quite a trek to Feltham.

I wonder what happened, as this is totally out of character from my experience of her. I always book in advance and she always double checks via a text in the morning. She always been very professional in her approach.

OP if you get a good reason from her, she is definitely worth a second attempt. A lovely and super accommodating lady.

[supb]

If you book her on the aw booking system she will usually follow up with a txt message and keep to the slot.

[JonasG]

She is flaky though.

Been kept waiting a good few times for 10 minutes etc.

[patelprat]

She is flaky though.

Been kept waiting a good few times for 10 minutes etc.

Agree with this. She's not always on time with me either, but keeps you informed.

Maybe the situation above was some sort of emergency, who knows.

OP - did you ever get an explanation from her?

[MLawro93]

She never responded to OP, and given she has been working since, zero excuses. Quite poor form, but she has form for back to back bookings, perhaps she double booked and just didn't realise. 

[Bruce Wayne]

No reply. I've moved on from this, plenty more SP to see who are closer. The facts are all there. Maybe she did forget  still wasted my evening travelling there.