Owo and cumming in the mouth? Is that ok or should you tell them?

[jh75]

Hi guys, I'm relatively new to this. Started with a couple of escorts, now I tend to just go for massages.

I wasn't sure whether it's acceptable to cum in a girls mouth whilst receiving OWO. Should you tell them you're about to cum or can you just ejaculate in their mouth without warning?

Thanks

[Thephoenix]

Surely discuss and agree beforehand.
In any case definitely tell them you're about to come.

[daviemac]

You agree all services beforehand and if you want to CIM you ask if it's OK, if she says she doesn't do CIM you don't do it, you make sure it's out of her mouth before you cum.

[Jeffe]

First agree that CIM is a service they provide (and willingly for you in the punt) and that you want to partake before starting the punt (bear in mind it could cost extra), then yes 100% give them some pre notice rather than just doing it. Consent should always be sought.

Good luck with the world of punting. Use the forum for advice and give back with reviews.

[jh75]

Oh that's what CIM stands for, seems so obvious now.. didn't know until now!

Thanks, I've always told them when I'm gonna cum, one girl just carried on and I CIM, it was a big turn on, the most recent girl pulled away and then I got cum all over my face, which wasn't such a turn on!

[ZeroCount]

Some girls like to be warned when you're about to cum, others don't care. With my favourite ones, I usually have my cock buried so far down the back of their throat when I shoot my load that it's hard for them to tell. 

All that matters is to establish available services and boundaries before the meet, or at the start of it, and make sure you stick to them.

[Mkhelen]

Communication Consent & Boundaries

Be vocal with your women

Tell her how good it feels so she's on the right track
Tell her slow it down if its too fast
Tell her I'm going to cum this prepares her to be ready to breath before swallow not choke or puke

Ask What are my options?
Deep throat throat pie, on the tongue, over her face or on her tits

Ask may I put my hands on your head
Most say yes

[whiskeygogo]

So while both are quite risky for the provider when it comes to passing chlamydia or gonorrhea, cim in mouth is much more risky as they are transferred in fluid and there is obvs more fluid, so that's could be why some may offer owo and not cim

[Mkhelen]

Majority of men don't get tested because they think it's the sole responsibility is only on the WG

WG catches it from guys who don't test
You can catch it from a girl spitting on your knob or owo

If you don't want to catch it wear a condom the whole time

There is risk with every single SS and SW
Because of outside puntering and lack of responsibility

[notnamingnamesbut]

See if you can get them to lock eyes with you while you CIM. It makes you feel like a king

[Mkhelen]

 
Maybe they just don't like the taste of Sperm
Or see it as a money maker by charging extra for it

So while both are quite risky for the provider when it comes to passing chlamydia or gonorrhea, cim in mouth is much more risky as they are transferred in fluid and there is obvs more fluid, so that's could be why some may offer owo and not cim

[speedygonzal]

During my first meeting with an escort She did OWO i wasn’t aware of the etiquette and cum inside his mouth. She wasn’t happy at all and she just limited to said “that was rude”  after that I realised of my mistake, Then an uncomfortable thought crossed my mind and the fact that she also has teeth and god knows how annoying she can get while my dick still inside her mouth.

[puntingking]

During my first meeting with an escort She did OWO i wasn’t aware of the etiquette and cum inside his mouth. She wasn’t happy at all and she just limited to said “that was rude”  after that I realised of my mistake, Then an uncomfortable thought crossed my mind and the fact that she also has teeth and god knows how annoying she can get while my dick still inside her mouth.

always be nice to a dentist when they have instruments in your mouth.
always be nice to a wg when they have your penis in their mouth. 

[SoapyTW]

See if you can get them to lock eyes with you while you CIM. It makes you feel like a king

This guy gets it.

[Doc Holliday]

During my first meeting with an escort She did OWO i wasn’t aware of the etiquette and cum inside his mouth.

My very first punt was similar. I had already told the receptionist I was new and then having chosen from a lineup of three, the receptionist said "go easy on him it's his first time". The SP dragged me off to the room saying we would have a great time and pretty much anything goes, but you must tell me if you are close to cumming in my mouth.

Little did I know at that time that the my chosen SP was something of a legend in terms of PSE. Some older NW punters may recall the 'Dublin Dynamo'?

I was duly 'attacked' and perhaps about 10 minutes in of intense oral I said I was going to cum. Problem was her rear end was smothering me somewhat and as anyone who has seen her would know, she is rather vocal and she didn't hear me until it was too late.

"I thought you were going to tell me" she said in that strong Irish accent. She was a very dominant individual and I was actually a little scared at that point. I explained that I had told her. She said OK but you need to shout next time. After a brief shared jacuzzi bath together she pounced on me once more for round two.

A good lesson learned that day though and I would never find myself in that situation again.

[mancsguy1975]

Whats worse do you think?

An "accidental facial" or an "accidental CIM"? Discuss..

[daviemac]

Whats worse do you think?

An "accidental facial" or an "accidental CIM"? Discuss..

Worse for who? discuss what?

However I would think most blokes know when they are about to cum, unless you're in your early teens of course. It's up to the punter to make sure he stays within the boundaries and if CIM is off the menu then he doesn't do it. Sort the limits out prior to the booking so there isn't any 'accidents'.

Doing it deliberately is extreme boundary pushing.

[Thephoenix]

I was duly 'attacked' and perhaps about 10 minutes in of intense oral I said I was going to cum. Problem was her rear end was smothering me somewhat and as anyone who has seen her would know, she is rather vocal and she didn't hear me until it was too late.

For future reference, and using your vast knowledge of anatomy Doc...
If you shouted loud enough up her arse, would she be more likely to hear you?

[Thephoenix]

Whats worse do you think?

An "accidental facial" or an "accidental CIM"? Discuss..

I'm not suggesting you have mate, but what would be your preference if it happened to you?

[Mkhelen]

There is no such thing as accidental it's abusive and manipulative and boundary pushing resulting in you being banned and black listed on ClientEye

Same as accidentally deep throating her throat if she's backs up she wants to slow down or stop or not vomit on your knob

Most will "accidentally" bite your knob so you know not to disrespectful and upset the good arrangement you paid for

[puntingking]

There is no such thing as accidental it's abusive and manipulative and boundary pushing resulting in you being banned and black listed on ClientEye

Same as accidentally deep throating her throat if she's backs up she wants to slow down or stop or not vomit on your knob

Most will "accidentally" bite your knob so you know not to disrespectful and upset the good arrangement you paid for

+1

[puntingking]

What ive learnt is that good and clear conversations between both would be the best thing you can do.

[timsussex]

My last meeting, I was feeling lazy and just lay back to enjoy the oral; after the inevitable CIM she just smiled and said "I won that one then !"

[Lastfour1479]

Hi guys, I'm relatively new to this. Started with a couple of escorts, now I tend to just go for massages.

I wasn't sure whether it's acceptable to cum in a girls mouth whilst receiving OWO. Should you tell them you're about to cum or can you just ejaculate in their mouth without warning?

Thanks

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

[big-al93]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

It absoloutley does NOT equal cim. And if you actually believe it does rather than being a little troll looking for a reaction, then I hope you get your knob bitten and blacklisted as one of the ladies suggested.

[Steely Dan]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

Umm ... No.  The OP looked a bit *$£;@ for asking.  You are totally a wrong 'un to say such a thing.

[Thephoenix]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

I bet you're really popular with WGs chum!

[hendrix]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

F*ck off you absolute danger.

[daviemac]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

Attitudes like that get you banned from here. It's the punters responsibility to stick within the boundaries, if she doesn't do CIM you don't do it, if you can't control yourself stick to OW.

[finn5555]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

You sir are a grade A cunt 

[alabama1]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

Owo means blowjob without condom, nothing more than that you knobhead. Hoping you get banned from here. 

[myothernameis]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

Guessing there also might be an indication lastfour is also maybe into BB

so what is the difference really, probably harder to get HIV.
The last time i went in BB was with Kenyan whore back in 2001

[Strawberry]

Whats worse do you think?

An "accidental facial" or an "accidental CIM"? Discuss..

Accidental? But it isn't and most decent punters will ask about this, accidental also sounds as if it's some sort of joke, which is certainly isn't.

The 'her risk' comment by another member is another of the attitude 'it's up to her to get tested' or 'I am safe because she tests'. This safety by proxy or removal is hardly fair play, like perhaps wobbling scaffolding or a ladder with the 'the builder should have them tethered firmly enough to withstand my fun shaking'. Punters, SPs are in the same chain. The eyes can become infected with chlamydia and semen is horrendous to get out of eyes, this has happened to me twice first time before I became an SP. Eyes immediately swell without any infection just the fluid itself.

Safety aside an SP will have things she dislikes, she may not like the fluid on her face (which is her choice) and someone 'accidentally' may persuade her to take steps to prevent it again. Someone 'accidentally' may leave her wondering "Did he do that on purpose?" then can affect how she is next booking be it your next or someone else. She might be able to conceal the effect, but SPs are human! An SP who offers COB but not on face, spraying everywhere or 'accidentally' onto her face may mean she stops offering any COB or charges extra for it. Same for CIM she might decide to stop offering OWO. I have had to move very quickly to get out of the way when it's obvious my pussy is in the semen trajectory even after asking "Please do not cum over my pussy" or "Be careful to avoid here" whilst indicating with my hand. Some guys say "It's ok I have had a vasectomy" totally missing the point, one argued with me seemed to be trying to show how unreasonable I was being by refusing cum on pussy - "I can show you my STI results on my phone". Result is I am extremely wary when or if someone is wanking over me. SPs have to be alert which is interesting if a punter asks "What are you thinking about?", um I am doing a risk assessment and making a mental note about the type of condom I will use.

[jimbobted]

I'm astounded the OP even had to ask the question. Of course you have to establish consent, before doing anything. There are business like ways of doing that up front or when you make an enquiry to book. Or if it's something that you feel is developing as part of the flow there are ways to ask consent "That feels amazing, I'm getting really close, where do you want it/do you want it in your mouth?"

[Doc Holliday]

For future reference, and using your vast knowledge of anatomy Doc...
If you shouted loud enough up her arse, would she be more likely to hear you?

No. Assuming the Alimentary Tract is in a healthy condition, it is very much a 'one way system' and what goes in at the upper end will travel many metres and slowly to the lower end.

This means shouting into the arse is futile, whereas conversely people can and indeed frequently do, talk out of it.

Hope that helps? 

[MissWolf]

No. Assuming the Alimentary Tract is in a healthy condition, it is very much a 'one way system' and what goes in at the upper end will travel many metres and slowly to the lower end.

This means shouting into the arse is futile, whereas conversely people can and indeed frequently do, talk out of it.

Hope that helps? 

[FLYING BLUE]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

Wow

What an absolutely stupid thing to think, let alone actually say out loud - do you live in a cave by any chance?
 

[Colston36]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

You bring new meaning to the word slimebag. God help any woman who gets near you.

[Dipper]

I’d always announce when I’m near, for one as discussed above it’s about decency. For another I’ve had a few over the years who’ve stopped doing what they were doing well at the critical point of almost no return which decreases my orgasm quality Taking me a while to get back to that point after.

[Punterperson1971]

Owo equals cim.....it's their risk not yours

What a disgraceful thing to say and so irresponsible as well the regulars I see each offer owo & cim,another offers owo,cim & swallow next one just owo and other ow and I’d never ever push cim on anyone wether it’s a wg or civvie,of the 2 that offer cim I always tell them if I’m close and ask if I can cim.
Even with new ones I see if they offer cim if never dream of doing it without warning

[PumpDump]

At least for your own enjoyment tell them when you are about to cum. If the girl is happy to take your load in your mouth but she is not expecting it she may well gag, pull her mouth away and it will fuck up your orgasm If she knows she can be prepared to take your load while continuing to suck.

[Thephoenix]

No. Assuming the Alimentary Tract is in a healthy condition, it is very much a 'one way system' and what goes in at the upper end will travel many metres and slowly to the lower end.

This means shouting into the arse is futile, whereas conversely people can and indeed frequently do, talk out of it.

Hope that helps? 

Thanks for clearing that up Doc.
As I thought, it's to do with the non-return foo foo clack valve.

[akauya]

Interesting thread.

Unlike the majority, it seems, CIM does nothing for me. It's like I didn't have sex. For me to enjoy orgasm to a maximum my ejaculation has to be vaginally or anally. If it's in her mouth I feel like Bill Clinton about it.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Interesting thread.

Unlike the majority, it seems, CIM does nothing for me. It's like I didn't have sex. For me to enjoy orgasm to a maximum my ejaculation has to be vaginally or anally. If it's in her mouth I feel like Bill Clinton about it.

I'm with you, it is no where need the top of my must have's in any meet

[the_exile]

I'm with you, it is no where need the top of my must have's in any meet

Likewise, would be much more inclined to treat the oral as part of the warm-up and go on to finish with penetration. Either way, it's hardly an effort to say "I'm going to cum" before it happens!

[Thephoenix]

Interesting thread.

Unlike the majority, it seems, CIM does nothing for me. It's like I didn't have sex. For me to enjoy orgasm to a maximum my ejaculation has to be vaginally or anally. If it's in her mouth I feel like Bill Clinton about it.

Unfortunately many of us old'ns can't stay erect with condoms, let alone climax, so CIM is the next best thing. In fact cumming anywhere and we're chuffed.

[wannabe]

I have always said I'm going to cum, giving the wg time to either remove her mouth and finish me by hand, or continue oral if she's happy to.

With wgs I had met before and knew that cim was OK, I always warn them anyway, just so they can be prepared to take it. That way there's no sudden withdrawal due to the surprise.

[PumpDump]

There are some cheeky bitches who will promise you CIM but when you tell them you're about to cum they pull their mouth away and finish by hand. Usually they give some bullshit excuse longer they didn't know you were gonna cum.

To counter this sometimes I give her a false alarm to check if she will actually keep sucking or pull away.

[alabama1]

There are some cheeky bitches who will promise you CIM but when you tell them you're about to cum they pull their mouth away and finish by hand. Usually they give some bullshit excuse longer they didn't know you were gonna cum.

To counter this sometimes I give her a false alarm to check if she will actually keep sucking or pull away.

[/b]
And of what benefit is a 'false alarm' 

[big-al93]

Presumably if they pull away at his "false alarm" then he knows that the SP does not want CIM and will pull away again when it's for real. And since the "cheeky bitches" have promised him CIM he's not going to put up with that and will attempt to CIM surreptitiously without warning, even though he now knows that she doesn't really consent to it, regardless of what may have been agreed.