External Link/Members OnlyAVOID! AVOID! AVOID! This woman is beyond unreliable; she's a pathological liar as well. The meeting never took place because she fucked me over twice in two days.
Chapter 1. Yesterday I arrange to meet her at a hotel near Heathrow. An hour before she texts to ask if the meet could be delayed two hours. I reluctantly agreed, shifted a few things and made my way there. Radio slience following a series of texts stating I had arrived. So I left. I certainly have better things to do than sit in the lobby of crummy hotels waiting for a clearly deranged person to deign to eventually (if at all) contact me. If she had had the courtesy to text me to say she was running late, I would have understood and waited. But nothing...this is what I find so infuriating about her.
Chapter 2. Later that day she calls me, apologies profusely, and pleads that she has some issues that explain her continual lateness and complete lack of regard for people who book to see her. I suggested she needed psychiatric help, she denied being a sociopath. She mentioned that she was soon leaving the craft as it was taking a toll on her mental and physical well being. Fair enough. Then she offers a discounted meet to make amends in a kind of erotic swansong. Gingerly I agreed. She promised to text me early this morning to ally any fears that the meet was happening.
Chapter 3. So this morning, guess what? No text, nothing, nada, null. I was going to town anyway and hope on the Elizabeth Line thinking, surely there is not going to be a repeat performance, following our heart-to-heart the previous day? During that conversation where she was fairly open and honest about the challenges she faced. How wrong I was, more fool me. Total ghosting AGAIN!!!!
My conclusion is that she either takes a macabre delight in fucking people over who have gone to considerable time and expense to travel to see her, or she suffers from a pathological condition where there's a huge disconnect between her actions, decisions etc. and the consequences thereof. Either way, the sooner she exits stage right and ends her toxic charades the better.